How Many Of You Have White Boyfriend Before? + Angmo With Asian Boyfriend (compiled）

[iamziz]

One of my clients is a late 50 Ang Mo. People often mistaken us as partners when we are out together.. We play along. We let them have the fun bitching/guessing about it.

[Guest Guest]

Well, Nicholas Tse did go back to Faye Wong, 11 yrs her senior...so what you guys make of the relationship? And the papers reported that Nic is now much richer than Faye.

[Guest]

I recently met a white guy online. We chatted and he says that he is into me. He has fallen for me. But he is more than 30 years older than me. I am Asian.

 

I am open to white guys but I don't go out specially for white guys. He is in his late 50s and he is huge. 

 

Does a huge age gap affects the relationship? Anyone here has experienced this or have been in this kind of relationship? 

 

Also is it common for an older white guy to find a younger Asian for a relationship? 

 

Does love really exist between them as the Caucasian can be old enough to be your elder?  

[Sagui_32]

Some caucasians their age might be 50 but their appearance looks younger right? Some relationships like this kind works for other people..age doesn't matter they say when your in love..afterall its still depends on you, how you feel towards him..do you really feel loved? Why not give it a try..its a matured relationship I guess..more serious..u never know he is the one..

[Guest]

In general older Caucasian tends to go with younger Asian because their culture is quite ageist hence it will be very difficult to find a relationship with their own kind.

In general Asian culture is less ageist hence you see a lot much older Ang Moh with Asian women or wife or bf, in which the Ang Moh looks like her/his lao peh in particularly women and men from SEA tend go with Ang Moh because they have the mentality of Ang Moh must be rich and toa kee. Humans always prefer their own kind as got a lot in common so easy to relate to. Just look at animals prefer their own kind too.

 

 

 

 

 

[ashinji]

It depend on your mind. what would you like to happen with him. sexy? relationship or what? you have to think clearly or maybe you can chat with him lah. 

whatever national, race or gender, the most important thing is what do you want? if you think clearly, then you can open to talk with him. and let it be. Believe in love, Even if it brings you grief to believe in love.

[Guest]

Back in my mind,  I am just thinking that maybe he just needs someone to chat with. We have been talking a little dirty but he says that he is shy and is serious about a partner. 

But I feel that he may be a little too "mature" for me. I am a little confused as well

[Guest]

I will be very careful indeed.

[Guest]

They cannot find young meat in their own country and flock to Asia. This is a common sight in developing countries like Sri Lanka, Cambodia and especially Thailand. Many among them are paedophiles.

[Guest Fatty]

You have attracted an old whale.

[Guest]

Be aware of pedophiles !!! 

 

Many western pedophiles are in Asia seeking youngsters to satisfy their sexual needs because legally they cannot do that in their own countries.  I will be extremely careful and alert to avoid these westerners who are just out to get the object of their desires.

[doncoin]

Assuming you're 21, and the guys is +30. That will make him 51. Do you want to be a nurse in the years to come?

[Traveler3032]

If there's something unique about the person which attracts you so much, then the age gap may not be a deal breaker.  That may be because of his money, social status,  or his amazing sexual prowess. But from your short description,  he is old and fat. This brings up a stereotypical image of sexpats in the less developed Asian countries.  Singapore is not one of them. So the only reason you want to meet him is if you have a daddy issue or lack of confidence perhaps. 

 

[Guest]

The age gap is too big, he could be a Pedo or not laku by his kind hence had no choice other than makan Asian young meat.

Older AM may be easier to get along with, not as crazy as younger AM but sometimes still pain in the ass to handle due to culture differences.

[Guest]

On 2/23/2016 at 0:02 AM, Guest Fatty said:

You have attracted an old whale.

Yup I guess so. So I have just clarified and I believe he will get the idea. 

[Guest]

On 2/23/2016 at 1:23 AM, Guest said:

Be aware of pedophiles !!! 

 

Many western pedophiles are in Asia seeking youngsters to satisfy their sexual needs because legally they cannot do that in their own countries.  I will be extremely careful and alert to avoid these westerners who are just out to get the object of their desires.

Thanks for the advice. Yes I have to be more careful for future conversations.

[Guest]

On 2/23/2016 at 2:29 AM, doncoin said:

Assuming you're 21, and the guys is +30. That will make him 51. Do you want to be a nurse in the years to come?

You absolutely have a point there. He was telling me about his illness etc. Well that is really honest but I think you are right too. I should be looking for someone closer to my age. 

 

Probably he knows that young white guys won't be attracted to him so he is looking for Asian men. Or just anyone.

[Guest]

On 2/23/2016 at 3:50 AM, Traveler3032 said:

If there's something unique about the person which attracts you so much, then the age gap may not be a deal breaker.  That may be because of his money, social status,  or his amazing sexual prowess. But from your short description,  he is old and fat. This brings up a stereotypical image of sexpats in the less developed Asian countries.  Singapore is not one of them. So the only reason you want to meet him is if you have a daddy issue or lack of confidence perhaps. 

 

Yup gues you are right. He is old and fat tbh. So I just have to find a more compatible one and not indulge into thinking that dating with a guy from a different culture will be nice. 

[Guest]

On 2/23/2016 at 1:46 PM, Sagui_32 said:

Some caucasians their age might be 50 but their appearance looks younger right? Some relationships like this kind works for other people..age doesn't matter they say when your in love..afterall its still depends on you, how you feel towards him..do you really feel loved? Why not give it a try..its a matured relationship I guess..more serious..u never know he is the one..

I don't really feel loved in that sense. We are just chatting online and he has been praising my picture even though I am not very good-looking (at least in the gay scene for that matter). And we didn't really talk a lot about our interests etc. And he keep saying that I am lovely etc which I feel that maybe something is not right

[hornbird]

Any pragmatic 50s would not expect physical cares from young partners when in sickness

 

they want young bod to feel wanted and achieving . An egoistic desire 

[Guest]

If you are into daddies, then go ahead. If not, don't waste your time.

[Guest]

This book might interest you. It talks about what you are going through!  http://www.amazon.com/Confessions-Potato-Queen-Alexander-Montgomery/dp/1925442195

[Guest]

You see a lot of similarities in the straight world context, whereby old and withered men look for Vietnamese or PRC brides to take care of them during old age, and in return, these brides get a foreign passport as a ticket of of their poverty life. 

[Traveler3032]

It's used to be the case for mainland Chinese. But now, if you are in a major western city with good universities, most Chinese girls will either date Asian or similar aged Caucasians. These girls are no longer poor, and they have high standards. As a matter of fact, some girls are not that pretty in our eyes, but their white boyfriends are hot. You do wonder why. :-)

[Guest]

Simple...  It's simply because those fugly  PRCs now know that the way into the white lalaland is via the route of slutdom. All these fugly PRCs have to do is to spread their legs and wriggle their fingers at those white angmohs who had gone through too many white bitches playing hard-to-get, and they will have no lack of entry points into the West. 

[Guest]

Age is not a problem. Doesn't mean same age you can get along. 30 year difference may be a challenge but it's not deal breaker. You can be a sickly 60 year old and he's a sprightly 90 year old looking after you. You will never know. 

[Guest]

Some celeb couples have age gap even bigger than 30 years. 

 

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/15-celeb-gay-couples-prove-age-gap-doesnt-matter090115/#gs.GAlWfd0

[yhtang]

On 2/23/2016 at 1:23 AM, Guest said:

Be aware of pedophiles !!! 

 

Many western pedophiles are in Asia seeking youngsters to satisfy their sexual needs because legally they cannot do that in their own countries.  I will be extremely careful and alert to avoid these westerners who are just out to get the object of their desires.

 

If he is a pedophile, he would be looking for sexual stimulation from a young boy.  Since you are here, chances are that you are 18+, and that hardly qualifies as pedophilia.  At 18+ I would assume you are not totally innocent.

 

However, the poster is not incorrect.  The caucasian may just use you and discard you.  Since he is older, he might be financially stable, and if you are very young, you might not be.  This relationship could turn out to be golden handcuffs.  Worse still, he could just discard you after a few years for a younger model. Should this happen, you may be financially disadvantaged.

 

These are risks for you to consider before you enter into this relationship.   

 

On 2/23/2016 at 2:29 AM, doncoin said:

Assuming you're 21, and the guys is +30. That will make him 51. Do you want to be a nurse in the years to come?

 

7 hours ago, Guest said:

You absolutely have a point there. He was telling me about his illness etc. Well that is really honest but I think you are right too. I should be looking for someone closer to my age. 

 

Probably he knows that young white guys won't be attracted to him so he is looking for Asian men. Or just anyone.

 

 

More like, "do you love him enough to nurse him in the years to come?"

 

If you are not, then the relationship was never that strong in the first place, and you should not be in it.

 

In fact, in any worthwhile relationship, if you are not prepared to nurse your partner - regardless of his age - then that relationship never really had a chance in the first place.

 

 

 

 

[Guest]

On 2/23/2016 at 1:19 PM, Guest said:

I recently met a white guy online. We chatted and he says that he is into me. He has fallen for me. But he is more than 30 years older than me. I am Asian.

 

I am open to white guys but I don't go out specially for white guys. He is in his late 50s and he is huge. 

 

Does a huge age gap affects the relationship? Anyone here has experienced this or have been in this kind of relationship? 

 

Also is it common for an older white guy to find a younger Asian for a relationship? 

 

Does love really exist between them as the Caucasian can be old enough to be your elder?  

Make sure you get lots of benefits from him.....for starters, lots of CASH. Milk as much as you can.  

 

Don't end up satisfying his desires with NOTHING to gain....

 

 

[Guest]

5 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

However, the poster is not incorrect.  The caucasian may just use you and discard you.  Since he is older, he might be financially stable, and if you are very young, you might not be.  This relationship could turn out to be golden handcuffs.  Worse still, he could just discard you after a few years for a younger model. Should this happen, you may be financially disadvantaged.

 

 

This reminds me of a cute mini gay sorta famous personality here in Sg. He was young and good looking then, and got besotted with an Australian who brought him Down Under together for a few years. After that, his nude pictures got leaked (or maybe even sold) and this guy came back to Sg alone again. 

[Guest]

WHOOOO??? Do tell!!! 

[Guest]

14 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

If he is a pedophile, he would be looking for sexual stimulation from a young boy.  Since you are here, chances are that you are 18+, and that hardly qualifies as pedophilia.  At 18+ I would assume you are not totally innocent.

 

However, the poster is not incorrect.  The caucasian may just use you and discard you.  Since he is older, he might be financially stable, and if you are very young, you might not be.  This relationship could turn out to be golden handcuffs.  Worse still, he could just discard you after a few years for a younger model. Should this happen, you may be financially disadvantaged.

 

These are risks for you to consider before you enter into this relationship.   

 

 

 

 

More like, "do you love him enough to nurse him in the years to come?"

 

If you are not, then the relationship was never that strong in the first place, and you should not be in it.

 

In fact, in any worthwhile relationship, if you are not prepared to nurse your partner - regardless of his age - then that relationship never really had a chance in the first place.

 

 

 

 

Tbh,  the part about nursing him in the years to come is a cruel no. Cos he isn't physically attractive enough. And the age gap is huge. Would really admire people who are together with a smaller age gap. 

 

More about communication and connection with the person rather than getting to know the person because he is rich or he is young etc. The connection is important as that part of what a relationship is all about. 

[puppyfart]

Take away the age, size, race issue, are your feeling anything for him?

 

The fact that you are posting here asking for validation probably means you aren't that into him after all - for whatever reasons.

 

Go with your instincts.

[Guest]

23 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

More like, "do you love him enough to nurse him in the years to come?"

 

If you are not, then the relationship was never that strong in the first place, and you should not be in it.

 

In fact, in any worthwhile relationship, if you are not prepared to nurse your partner - regardless of his age - then that relationship never really had a chance in the first place.

 

Good reminder of what love is really about.

Don't just look at his face or body now, don't just think of the sex and romance.

Think 30 years down the road. Are you willing to feed him, carry him, handle his shit and urine if he is bedridden?

So so sad to hear some people here talking about how much they can "milk" out of their partners.

Where is the giving and where is the love?

[Guest]

On 25 February 2016 at 8:27 PM, Guest said:

I don't really feel loved in that sense. We are just chatting online and he has been praising my picture even though I am not very good-looking (at least in the gay scene for that matter). And we didn't really talk a lot about our interests etc. And he keep saying that I am lovely etc which I feel that maybe something is not right

 

 

Ang moh likes to use the word " love, lovely etc" rather loosely often to strangers.  They will call strangers " love" in a casual way. Their notion of love is different from that of Asian to certain degrees.  Do not be take their friendly words seriously.

[Guest]

On 25 February 2016 at 11:29 PM, Guest said:

Some celeb couples have age gap even bigger than 30 years. 

 

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/15-celeb-gay-couples-prove-age-gap-doesnt-matter090115/#gs.GAlWfd0

 

Big age gaps is normal in gay relationships due to the smaller pool of potential partners. I have seen loving, stable relationships of 15 or 20 years age difference or more. No big deal.

[Guest]

On ‎26‎/‎2‎/‎2016 at 1:01 AM, Guest said:

 

Good reminder of what love is really about.

Don't just look at his face or body now, don't just think of the sex and romance.

Think 30 years down the road. Are you willing to feed him, carry him, handle his shit and urine if he is bedridden?

So so sad to hear some people here talking about how much they can "milk" out of their partners.

Where is the giving and where is the love?

 

If you are willing to do that, and he really appreciate your handling of his shits and urine, you are likely to have your name in his will. Who knows, it could be just a couple of hundreds or thousands.

[Guest]

Might be a scam in some way. Hahaha.. 

[Den Yuan]

This is very common all over the world.

[Guest Harry85]

Most of the guys I met prefers caucasian because of huge dicks

[sgmaven]

On 23/02/2016 at 3:52 PM, Guest said:

In general older Caucasian tends to go with younger Asian because their culture is quite ageist hence it will be very difficult to find a relationship with their own kind.

In general Asian culture is less ageist hence you see a lot much older Ang Moh with Asian women or wife or bf, in which the Ang Moh looks like her/his lao peh in particularly women and men from SEA tend go with Ang Moh because they have the mentality of Ang Moh must be rich and toa kee. Humans always prefer their own kind as got a lot in common so easy to relate to. Just look at animals prefer their own kind too.

Are you sure we are less ageist in any way? I think the prevalence of older Caucasian men with younger partners is due to other factors, like the misguided notion of white superiority and the belief that Caucasians have more money. So this some kind of compromise, rather than being less ageist.

 

To be honest, I think the gay community is very ageist. Most older gay men either "disappear into the woodwork" or are seen as "dirty old men", unless they have copious amounts of money, and people gather around for the wrong reason.

[Guest ymxh]

Now's the time to see the truth of these previously young spg when they reach old age. There are quite a few such old spg uncles still hanging around hoping to meet their pinkerton prince again.

 

Sadly, after wasting away their youth, at this old age they still dream of being married to the west and live a life of glamour. They refuse and don't want to wake up. They still refuse to believe they are already very old and that those ang mos detest them. They look into the mirror and still think they are young and post their pathetic pics trying to look pretty. One even write a book about it and so delusional that he can't even spell "shameful" and become the laughing stock of both East and West.

[sgmaven]

On 26/02/2016 at 1:01 AM, yhtang said:

More like, "do you love him enough to nurse him in the years to come?"

 

If you are not, then the relationship was never that strong in the first place, and you should not be in it.

 

In fact, in any worthwhile relationship, if you are not prepared to nurse your partner - regardless of his age - then that relationship never really had a chance in the first place.

You don't even need to talk about "years to come". TS mentioned that the old man talked about "his illness". Whatever that illness is, do you want to get involved with it? Remember that a relationship means that you look after him as he looks after you.

 

TS also says he met the guy online. Is he in Singapore? if not, are you prepared to uproot and move overseas, just because of a few nice words?

[Guest BE AWARE]

Sorry to burst the bubble, potato queens. 

Anyone past his prime in Ang Moh lands will often turn to Asia for cheap thrills. 

Firstly, many natives are easy prey. They either worship white man and or their money or assets; pick their choice. 

Secondly, many white thrash can do with a free tour guide,  cultural assimilator which makes it easier the next time they switch prey and all the more attractive if the person is a salaried well paid professional like one Dr Ler who helped his bf  hide his HIV+ status and endangered the whole community, because  everything on the dinner date bill can be split in half.  

Thirdly, they are often physically stronger with no binding ties to the country and will spare no conscience in taking away the weaker life first when things get ugly. Read about the many cases of infatuated PRCs with a sorry ending . 

However, there can be a few gems but why would they sacrifice their hometown for a foreign turf in the first place if they are that attractive? 

 

[mydontay]

I dun mind the age if he is good to me ...

[Guest Makan]

If he is good looking why bother about age?

[lonelyglobe]

On ‎25‎/‎2‎/‎2016 at 1:27 AM, Guest said:

I don't really feel loved in that sense. We are just chatting online and he has been praising my picture even though I am not very good-looking (at least in the gay scene for that matter). And we didn't really talk a lot about our interests etc. And he keep saying that I am lovely etc which I feel that maybe something is not right

drama ended or u r with him already? if u feel something is not right, then probably is not right, beware of scam.

[TopChinese]

Am disgusted by some generalizations and racism shown in the posts above. 

 

Who are we to judge what other guys into? How do you feel if your friends or family tell you what race, what body type, what gender you should love?

 

Why is it so hard for you to accept a compliment gracefully? If you are already biased because of his race/age, then do him a favour, be honest with him and tell him you are not interested. He probably deserve someone better than you. 

 

[koolkai]

On 06/03/2017 at 3:12 AM, Guest ymxh said:

Now's the time to see the truth of these previously young spg when they reach old age. There are quite a few such old spg uncles still hanging around hoping to meet their pinkerton prince again.

 

Sadly, after wasting away their youth, at this old age they still dream of being married to the west and live a life of glamour. They refuse and don't want to wake up. They still refuse to believe they are already very old and that those ang mos detest them. They look into the mirror and still think they are young and post their pathetic pics trying to look pretty. One even write a book about it and so delusional that he can't even spell "shameful" and become the laughing stock of both East and West.

 

Why didn't the SPGs settle down with their white partners when they were young and continue to search for a white partner till they were old?

[fab]

1 hour ago, koolkai said:

 

Why didn't the SPGs settle down with their white partners when they were young and continue to search for a white partner till they were old?

 

Young whites r lagu in their own countries.