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I recently realise that i seldom have morning erection and even when i am sexually aroused, my cock dun seems to get erected. Even when it is erected, it is not that hard. Do all guys definitely have an erected cock every morning? i am worried cos i am just 30 yo. Any medicine that can help to make my cock stronger? Please help me :(

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I recently realise that i seldom have morning erection and even when i am sexually aroused, my cock dun seems to get erected. Even when it is erected, it is not that hard. Do all guys definitely have an erected cock every morning? i am worried cos i am just 30 yo. Any medicine that can help to make my cock stronger? Please help me :(

i read tongkat ali pills can help. i dunno if it is true. Anyone has tried before and it works?

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i had this problem some time back. First in my early 30s ... then it was too much sex and too often; and too much alcohol. Scaled down on those, and it was back to normal after a few weeks.

3 years ago, had the same problem again.

This was due to work stress. and later found out was high blood pressure and high cholesterol. Doc gave medication to control bp, and I changed diet.

Once bp and cholesterol was under control, I have since been making morning salute without fail.

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Please check with the doctor to rule out any medical problems first.

Secondly check your llife style and work schedule, are you over worked, stressed or depressed? Is there any problems in your life now that always bothering you.

What was your sexual health before and what is your age?

If you have been a low sex drive person all the while and with age catching up it is likely you will have less erection now.

Exercise and a good diet will help with the sex drive. Also many herbal medications will also improve on the sexual health.

The golden rule is that if you dun used it you will lose it, is true here. Try to have sex often at least once a week to maintain the status.

But with age we are fighting a losing battle. But thanks to medical science viagra can help to overcome this problem.

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Could you be wanking too much?

I seriously don't think this could be the cause of the problem.

My suggestion... like many others, seek a professional for advice. Not from a forum. Even if there is a doctor in the house, he would not be able to diagnose w/o a physical check-up.

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Could you be wanking too much?

I seriously don't think this could be the cause of the problem.

My suggestion... like many others, seek a professional for advice. Not from a forum. Even if there is a doctor in the house, he would not be able to diagnose w/o a physical check-up.

Has anyone visited a dr before on such problems? care to share? any dr will be able to discuss on such prob? wat kind of physical examination will they do?

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Hi, anyone here have the same problem as me? When I'm erect, my cock is not really hard one. And it cannot stand for long. I'm 20-30 years old. When I watch those pxxn, I see the guys' their cock all so hard and pointing to the ceiling. Anyone can tell me what's wrong with me and how can I make my cock as hard as those top?

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Hi, anyone here have the same problem as me? When I'm erect, my cock is not really hard one. And it cannot stand for long. I'm 20-30 years old. When I watch those pxxn, I see the guys' their cock all so hard and pointing to the ceiling. Anyone can tell me what's wrong with me and how can I make my cock as hard as those top?

You should consider seeking professional advice from a medical doctor. It could be a sign of something serious, like diabetes, hypertension, etc. and/or very well be psychological. Please talk with your doctor.

"Life it too short to be small"

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First, let me ask you whether you have tried screwing or not? If you are able to screw with your dick, it serves the function of a dick. But if you cannot maintain an erection, then the problem is erectile dysfunction which may have different causes like psychological or physical.

An erected dick may point to the sky, floor, left or right It may be curved upwards or downwards. Your problem is about HARDNESS....

Why dont you starve yourself 2 weeks without sex and see whether it helps you to be horny or not....When you are horny, usually you are HARD

Reflection

- Length, girth, curvatures, etc are just variety in a dick but the ultimate test is whether you enjoy or not

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Hi, anyone here have the same problem as me? When I'm erect, my cock is not really hard one. And it cannot stand for long. I'm 20-30 years old. When I watch those pxxn, I see the guys' their cock all so hard and pointing to the ceiling. Anyone can tell me what's wrong with me and how can I make my cock as hard as those top?

I think is inherited too. I was fxxked by dick that is semi hard or erected but soft. Some people cannot have dick hard for too long. After a few seconds they soften and need to be oralled to regain and sustain the erection before they penetrate me. Some while in the process of putting on condom, the dick soften again. You are not the only one.

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i am only really hard when i woke up in the morning with an urgent need to pee

else i'm not that hard when erected and not for long... think i'm getting old or i jerked off too often when i was younger :rolleyes:

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I think is inherited too. I was fxxked by dick that is semi hard or erected but soft. Some people cannot have dick hard for too long. After a few seconds they soften and need to be oralled to regain and sustain the erection before they penetrate me. Some while in the process of putting on condom, the dick soften again. You are not the only one.

Yah, my cock soften after a few seconds. That's me. But I have sex encounter with guys whose cock is damn hard like a rod and can stay hard for minuts without doing anything. Sighz. How I wished I had that kind of cock.

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Hi, anyone here have the same problem as me? When I'm erect, my cock is not really hard one. And it cannot stand for long. I'm 20-30 years old. When I watch those pxxn, I see the guys' their cock all so hard and pointing to the ceiling. Anyone can tell me what's wrong with me and how can I make my cock as hard as those top?

So you are 20 to 30 years old - strange age???

Doesnt matter if you are 20 years young or 30 years old - you have a problem known as erectile dysfunction - cannot have a fully erection or cannot sustain an erection long enough to last thru the whole sex act.

It could also be a hormonal problem if your libido is low too.

Talk to your GP, he might recommend your to an urologist or an endocrinologist, depending your doc's clinical finding.

Do it early before things gets worst.

And dont ever try those funny pill you can buy online promising rock hard erections that can last for hours.

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i am only really hard when i woke up in the morning with an urgent need to pee

else i'm not that hard when erected and not for long... think i'm getting old or i jerked off too often when i was younger :rolleyes:

you know what I have exactly the same description you mentioned that is I am hard only in the morning and an erection that last not as long as I wished it to be, but the important thing is I don't have problems when it comes to my darling and fxxking and penetrating my darling.

When my semi hard cock is near and rubbing around his asshole my cock automatically gets hard enough to penetrate sucessfully and boy does he likes it like hell when I do a long slow and gentle rub of my cock on his ass wall.

I have a 99.999 % success rate of penetration and my lover darling 100% of the time achieves a prostate stimulation orgasm.

We fxxk bareback , no condoms , no barriers.

But when I am outside I can't get as hard as I want with other guys, especially when I start to put on a condom, it is even worse it gets softer faster,

I am so used to fxxking bareback with my darling that I am so lazy to look for other people who I am not sure of the HIV status.

Both os us are checked adn decided to be in a commited monogamous sexual partnership.

So maybe you wanna try what I did.

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Hi, anyone here have the same problem as me? When I'm erect, my cock is not really hard one. And it cannot stand for long. I'm 20-30 years old. When I watch those pxxn, I see the guys' their cock all so hard and pointing to the ceiling. Anyone can tell me what's wrong with me and how can I make my cock as hard as those top?

If you are bottom, who cares whether your cock is hard or soft. A tight ass is all you should need.

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Hi, anyone here have the same problem as me? When I'm erect, my cock is not really hard one. And it cannot stand for long. I'm 20-30 years old. When I watch those pxxn, I see the guys' their cock all so hard and pointing to the ceiling. Anyone can tell me what's wrong with me and how can I make my cock as hard as those top?

Deh...this is classic pxxn poisoning (unrealistic expectations)...these movies were made with breaks inbetween or done across a few days so they can always look their best... you wan to see live time, see the amateurs at xtube...mostly under 15 min...so relax...

but if you do think you have an issue...

Try this on a free day...

1) to watch pxxn in the nude and avoid touching yourself...finish the whole show without fast forwarding...then

2) prolong your jXXk off sessions (1/2 hour or more will be good) ....use long strokes and avoid hard jxxking or stimulating isolated areas (just the head or just the shaft) ...DO use lubrication ( I like metholated ones), else do it in your shower with soap lor....close your eyes and concentrate on the sensation...

3) when you are about to cum...try to delay it....this trains control and stamina....

4) DO keep time.. the longer the better (obviously)

The key is to 'train' (i.e. do it more than once)...side effects: love to jxxk off more..

If you are bottom, who cares whether your cock is hard or soft. A tight ass is all you should need.

Some tops do hope to see your dong to determine how 'into-it' you are...

Then again, unable to get it up (or unable to sustain) means you have to be bottom meh?

chey <_<

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You should try getting viagra, cialis or levitra from your doctor. See which ones works best for you with the least side effects.

Consider getting a penile implant if all else fails , sure to get you stares at the gym when u change, dicks always looks ready for action

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There is cure if visit your neighbourhood school every morning but NOT evening when they sing National Anthem: "MARI KITA, rakyat Sing, sama sama......cita cita kita, YANG...........MEJULA.....AAAAAAAAAA!!" Once it ended, look down to see if it has raised to full height. Do it regularly for yourselve and for the CUNT.Try lah! :ph34r:

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Try this on a free day...

1) to watch pxxn in the nude and avoid touching yourself...finish the whole show without fast forwarding...then

2) prolong your jXXk off sessions (1/2 hour or more will be good) ....use long strokes and avoid hard jxxking or stimulating isolated areas (just the head or just the shaft) ...DO use lubrication ( I like metholated ones), else do it in your shower with soap lor....close your eyes and concentrate on the sensation...

3) when you are about to cum...try to delay it....this trains control and stamina....

4) DO keep time.. the longer the better (obviously)

The key is to 'train' (i.e. do it more than once)...side effects: love to jxxk off more..

<_<

Heh dude,

Not quite right suggestion leh

Your suggestion is better for guys to treat their Premature Ejaculation or PE problem.

He cant be doing all those things when his thingy is limp, which is his main concern.

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exercise regularly, shave sufficient rest and sleep, eat the right kind of food. but as you get older, of course you can't maintain the hardness like you used to in your teens.

Sad to say, a person's general health and sexual health are not quite related.

You can be a very healthy person, a 6pack triathlon runner, but you can still suffer from some sexual problems like impotency, infertility, PE, erectile dysfunction etc.

However,it is a known fact that most men refuse to seek help for their sex related problems.

Due to shyness, pride, clueless, ignorant ? whatever.

Instead they will do self medication and worse, purchase "wonder" drug online to consume.

So it is important to seek professional help as soon as possible

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Hi,

I need to see a doctor for a consultation for some men's problem.

Any recommendation? It would be good if the doc is one of us.

thanks.

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Hi,

I need to see a doctor for a consultation for some men's problem.

Any recommendation? It would be good if the doc is one of us.

thanks.

Hi, im a doctor, and i do body check up. Whats your stats? hehe.

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Hi, im a doctor, and i do body check up. Whats your stats? hehe.

Doctor, i need to have a professional doctor to give me a blowjob.... :lol:

Are you sure, u are a doctor?

Better be serious, I think blownewb needs helps urgently.

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Are you sure, u are a doctor?

Better be serious, I think blownewb needs helps urgently.

Sorry, my bad, im not a doctor. Bad joke.

But if anyone wants a consultation and a body check up session with a fake doctor, u know where to find.....

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you need to specify which part of the body needs help, else you have to see GP instead of specialist.

already stated mens problem. MAN problem either r ass got lump or dick wanted to enlarge.

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Hi,

I need to see a doctor for a consultation for some men's problem.

Any recommendation? It would be good if the doc is one of us.

thanks.

Unlike women, they have their gynecologist to consult for their female problems.

I dont think there are any specialist doctor for "men's problem" here.

I guess your problem must be sexual related hence you wish to seek such consultation.

Mostly men's problem are mainly :

Infertility

Erectile dysfunction

Low sex drive

Premature Ejaculation

Postate enlargement

Unless you are planning to have a baby, so unlikely infertility is be your problem.

As for the other problems mentioned above, any good GP can treat you or refer you to a specialist.

I can understand your embrassment if the doctor is a lady, but talking to and being examine by a male doctor should not be much of a problem.

You have to treat your doctor as a professional person that you can consult, confide and later provide you treatment (or referral if he cant deal with it).

You should not feel uneasy to tell him frankly your problems.

And please do not hide facts or exaggerate, it will affect his diagnosis.

And he do not have to be one of us.

On the contrary, if there are such male clinic; imagine sitting in the waiting room with many other guys, all with some kind of sexual problem; wont that be more awkward?

PM me if you wish to know some specialist in this area.

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already stated mens problem. MAN problem either r ass got lump or dick wanted to enlarge.

ahem... both calls for different specialist

the former calls for a colorectal specialist, while the latter will have to seek plastic surgeon

:thumb: When I Think It, I Do It, I Win It! :thumb:

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Hi,

I need to see a doctor for a consultation for some men's problem.

Any recommendation? It would be good if the doc is one of us.

thanks.

There is indeed a clinic for men's health here.

Its the Clinic For Men's Health with Andrology Specialist, under the Urology Dept in Changi General Hospital.

Maybe you can make an enquiry there.

Whatever problems you may have, please treat it at its earliest stage before it get worse.

Good Luck.

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There is indeed a clinic for men's health here.

Its the Clinic For Men's Health with Andrology Specialist, under the Urology Dept in Changi General Hospital.

Maybe you can make an enquiry there.

Whatever problems you may have, please treat it at its earliest stage before it get worse.

Good Luck.

If it is a SOC (Specialist Outpatient Clinic), a referral would be required isn't it? and one needs a referral from a polyclinic to enjoy a subsidised rate, that can mean waiting for a few weeks. Else it would have to be treated as a Class A patient.

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If it is a SOC (Specialist Outpatient Clinic), a referral would be required isn't it? and one needs a referral from a polyclinic to enjoy a subsidised rate, that can mean waiting for a few weeks. Else it would have to be treated as a Class A patient.

If you get a referral from Polyclinic, you are not allowed to choose the doctor. If you get one from a GP, you may choose any Doctors you want in SOC.You may opt for B1 or B2 incase u need to be warded for further treatment.

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I don't think a simple cock ring can solve such problems.....U better go see a doc.

Btw do understand the difference between anxiety performance issues, condom issues and stress issues before concluding u have erectile dysfunctional issue.

U should perhaps tell us why u jump to that conclusion first.

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