Guest Guest Posted September 22, 2011 Report Share Posted September 22, 2011 I definitely have ED. I cannot hold an erection and no, it's not anxiety. Most of the time, it just goes limp after a while and it's hard to get it up again. If I continue to wank, I would still cum but the sensation is not intense. It's damn sad and I guess I have to turn to medical help but it's definitely good if there's a reliable gay friendly doctor to turn to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted October 5, 2011 Report Share Posted October 5, 2011 (edited) About two years ago, my erection started acting up. I get semi hard now and that is not enough for penetration. I was diagnozed as diabetic and low in thyroxin. I go for regular checks and take medication both here and in the West. The erection has not got any better.There are TV documentaries, discussion & commercials on treatment but I don't have the dare to try them, for fear of complications.Has anyone been in this predicament and tried a remedy?On a less important point, if you had been a 'top' have you considered reversing the role and how difficult was the transition? Edited October 5, 2011 by Marad44 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest passingthru Posted October 6, 2011 Report Share Posted October 6, 2011 What hasn't become mainstream is the fact that the efficacy of hormones is highly if not solely dependent on how sensitive the body is to them. If somehow the body's hormone receptors are not receptive enough, then:- no increase in the necessary hormones will produce the desired result,- no decrease in/blockage of debilitating hormones will be helpful,- no methods to produce free/unbound hormones( eg, testosterone ) in circulation will have any meaningful improvement.Needless to say, other methods like clean living and eating will not help either.I'm yet to find out if there are methods to improve hormonal sensitivity or is it merely congenital. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happy.99 Posted October 6, 2011 Report Share Posted October 6, 2011 if cannot get full erection means something wrong with the body. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plain Water Posted March 3, 2012 Report Share Posted March 3, 2012 Any good recommendation of TCM practitioner for treatment of erectile dysfunction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
northernboi Posted March 3, 2012 Report Share Posted March 3, 2012 i only will get super hard when someone HOT is doing things together with me...if not will get soft... :X i still got this problem ma? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Butted Posted March 4, 2012 Report Share Posted March 4, 2012 I heard of accupucture cure by inserting the needle into prostrate to excite it.But my problem is that i've screw-top....ie..my erection spiral like a screw and i am top...sort of like drilling.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 4, 2012 Report Share Posted March 4, 2012 For a start, exercise is very important whatever your age is. Good blood flow is essential for good erection. Ever since I restart my 5 km jog routine, my performane on bed has rejuvenated. This is your first step and you must motivate yourself. Dont just relied on medication. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casey30 Posted January 12, 2015 Report Share Posted January 12, 2015 (edited) There are various causes of ED: 1. Psychological Cause 2. Biological Cause (e.g. Heart Disease, Diabetes and etc) 3. Medication/ Drugs 4. Prostate Disease 5. Injuries The most common treatment for ED is (1) taking pills but it is not permanent. Besides that one can opt for other treatments like, (2) Injection (3) Implants There are other non-invasive treatment such as (4) Pumps (5) Electro Shock Wave Treatment. Edited June 1, 2021 by casey30 2359sharp 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 12, 2015 Report Share Posted January 12, 2015 On 3/4/2012 at 3:03 AM, Guest said: For a start, exercise is very important whatever your age is. Good blood flow is essential for good erection. Ever since I restart my 5 km jog routine, my performane on bed has rejuvenated. This is your first step and you must motivate yourself. Dont just relied on medication.You are not kidding me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MotherCat Posted January 12, 2015 Report Share Posted January 12, 2015 no proper sexual stimulation is actually a big factor. u may not be turned on by the things u think u r turned on in the past.tastes may be changing...or u just need a variety of fantasy or experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wozzit Posted January 12, 2015 Report Share Posted January 12, 2015 (edited) On 1/12/2015 at 5:55 AM, casey30 said: The most common treatment for ED is (1) taking pills but it is not permanent. There can be all sorts of reasons for ED n until recently there were all sorts of taboos about seeking help. There may indeed b medical problems to b attended to, or u r simply too tired from work n other daily chores. Whatever, its important to check with ur doctor. Dont be embarrassed about it. Drs see patients with this problem all the time. If chat rooms like this r to b believed, taking pills to correct ED seems to b Increasingly popular even in younger guys in their 30s n 40s. The most common seem to be viagra, cialis n levitra. But u hv to know that taking these does not result in sexual arousal. Thats the job of the brain which needs to b stimulated first. But once sexually aroused, the pills stimulate blood flow to the penis. The makers of cialis claim the effect will last for about 36 hours. In many countries these pills hv to b prescribed by doctors coz if u r taking other medication there can b side effects, especially on blood pressure. They r also not cheap. But if ur doctor gives u the OK, u can also order from on-line pharmacies at a fraction of the cost - one tenth the price or less. These may b generic drugs made by drug companies in countries like India but perfectly reliable n they r delivered in plain brown envelopes. The only problem in Singapore might b customs when the parcel arrives. Not sure if the import of such generics is actually permitted. Edited January 12, 2015 by wozzit upshot 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Neh Neh Posted January 12, 2015 Report Share Posted January 12, 2015 My Malay friends told me he uses Minyak Landak or Leech Oil to apply regularly on his dicky. That makes it big and strong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest desparate Posted January 12, 2015 Report Share Posted January 12, 2015 On 1/12/2015 at 2:54 PM, Neh Neh said: My Malay friends told me he uses Minyak Landak or Leech Oil to apply regularly on his dicky. That makes it big and strong Anyone can share more news on this Leech Oil? Does it really help the situation better? Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Neh Neh Posted January 13, 2015 Report Share Posted January 13, 2015 Sorry mistake made. It should be Minyak Lintah or Leech Oil. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2015 Report Share Posted January 13, 2015 I hooked up with this cute sporty SMU guy thru Jack'd. I brought him to my place and planned for him to give me a good penetration. After stripping him nude, I saw a 3" soft dick and I wanted to arouse him by kissing him and playing with his nipples. He moaned loudly, but his dick showed no reaction. Then I sucked him for 15 minutes to try to make him hard. But his dick just lengthend and thickened a little but did not get hard. He was a bit embarassed but i did not want to make him feel bad. So I just kissed and hugged him. After a while, I turned him over and lick his hole. He moaned loudly again but his dick remained small and soft. I decided to stroked his dick with my hand while I fingered his ass. After about 10 minutes, he mumbled that he was cumming, and some sperm dripped out of his soft dick. He actually managed to cum without getting hard. Then I decided to enter him since his hole was all wet and tempting. However, I'm a bottom most of the time and I did not do a good durable job of penetrating him. I shot my load less than 15 minutes. We then kissed and hugged to sleep. I think it is possible to have good fun with a guy even if his dick cannot get hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dsd Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 (edited) Having a limp dick may have saved my life a few times.Happened before, I met this cuddly Lao ah Pek, so chubby and smooth, his wet hole waiting for me to mount him.But at the last minute, I got all soft.Could penetrate his hole at all.I cannot understand it.When I next meet up with my darling pastor, I got all hard again.I farked him real good that day.I think it's just my body telling me some hole cannot fark.Must stay clear. Who knows got HIV or not?The hole that I feel perfectly safe with like my pastor's hole, I have raging hard on. Edited January 14, 2015 by dsd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justinys Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 I used to have soft dick issues too. Staying away from online porn, regular exercise, healthy dieting and enough sleep helps to restore libido. And of course, sticking to only sex with my lovely bf keeps me hard =)) MotherCat, max001 and minami 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p-2122 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 I am taking men's multi vitamins and minerals from blackmore. That aid a lot. riverrobles 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 25yoerection Posted September 12, 2015 Report Share Posted September 12, 2015 Im 25 yo chinese guy but i already hv ED.even though i Do sports a lot.I took viagra to fuck my bf.Im not sure am i the only one here.I nvr have erection problem till nowadays. Just that it didnt last long enough. Was so worry to hv sex. Im a person who love sex n prefer to be top.But my erection cant stay long. About 1-2 mins onlyIs it because i watched too much porn n masturbate too much? I get to experience sex quite late of my life ard 23 yo. When my 1st time being top, i realise the ass not as good as my hand. Dont really feel as good. Mayb my dick not that huge so i dont feel as good like those ppl in porn. What should i do?Im worry it will effect my new relationship. N my pills are running low now. I try to control my urge to wank. I think im addicted to porn. Any advise? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max001 Posted September 12, 2015 Report Share Posted September 12, 2015 maybe consult a doctor?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wintersnow Posted September 12, 2015 Report Share Posted September 12, 2015 On 9/12/2015 at 5:02 PM, 25yoerection said: Im 25 yo chinese guy but i already hv ED.even though i Do sports a lot.I took viagra to fuck my bf.Im not sure am i the only one here.I nvr have erection problem till nowadays. Just that it didnt last long enough. Was so worry to hv sex. Im a person who love sex n prefer to be top.But my erection cant stay long. About 1-2 mins onlyIs it because i watched too much porn n masturbate too much? I get to experience sex quite late of my life ard 23 yo. When my 1st time being top, i realise the ass not as good as my hand. Dont really feel as good. Mayb my dick not that huge so i dont feel as good like those ppl in porn. What should i do?Im worry it will effect my new relationship. N my pills are running low now. I try to control my urge to wank. I think im addicted to porn. Any advise?you are just too used to the forceful grip of ur hands Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jermey30 Posted February 23, 2016 Report Share Posted February 23, 2016 On 9/12/2015 at 6:13 PM, wintersnow said: you are just too used to the forceful grip of ur hands Expand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Power Tongue Posted August 28, 2016 Report Share Posted August 28, 2016 Day by day I notice that my libido is decreasing and seldom had an erection. Am I having ED? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest friend Posted August 28, 2016 Report Share Posted August 28, 2016 On 9/12/2015 at 5:02 PM, Guest 25yoerection said: Im 25 yo chinese guy but i already hv ED. even though i Do sports a lot. I took viagra to fuck my bf. Im not sure am i the only one here. I nvr have erection problem till nowadays. Just that it didnt last long enough. Was so worry to hv sex. Im a person who love sex n prefer to be top. But my erection cant stay long. About 1-2 mins only Is it because i watched too much porn n masturbate too much? I get to experience sex quite late of my life ard 23 yo. When my 1st time being top, i realise the ass not as good as my hand. Dont really feel as good. Mayb my dick not that huge so i dont feel as good like those ppl in porn. What should i do? Im worry it will effect my new relationship. N my pills are running low now. I try to control my urge to wank. I think im addicted to porn. Any advise? Expand Exactly the same situation like me. I think we are used to the masturbation. When it comes to the real penetration, it turn soft or cannot stay hard for longer time. I will need to take medicine to keep the stamina. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Power Tongue Posted August 29, 2016 Report Share Posted August 29, 2016 On 8/28/2016 at 6:39 AM, Guest Power Tongue said: Day by day I notice that my libido is decreasing and seldom had an erection. Am I having ED? Expand Power Tongue has been trolled again! My dick is firm! I wish whoever this is would grow up! #troll Butterworth 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wonder Posted September 1, 2016 Report Share Posted September 1, 2016 I have similar situation since 32, I cannot hold an erection for Long most of the time, it just goes limp after a while and it's hard to get it up again. Now 36, my body is still toned from gym etc, maybe need to do more cardio which I'm doing swimming more regularly from this week. Wonder with this condition, anyone still care to be my bf... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Buona Vista guy Posted September 3, 2016 Report Share Posted September 3, 2016 On 9/1/2016 at 11:34 PM, Guest Wonder said: I have similar situation since 32, I cannot hold an erection for Long most of the time, it just goes limp after a while and it's hard to get it up again. Now 36, my body is still toned from gym etc, maybe need to do more cardio which I'm doing swimming more regularly from this week. Wonder with this condition, anyone still care to be my bf... Expand Why not ? some relationship want more like a companionship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anderson Posted September 3, 2016 Report Share Posted September 3, 2016 (edited) On 9/1/2016 at 11:34 PM, Guest Wonder said: I have similar situation since 32, I cannot hold an erection for Long most of the time, it just goes limp after a while and it's hard to get it up again. Now 36, my body is still toned from gym etc, maybe need to do more cardio which I'm doing swimming more regularly from this week. Wonder with this condition, anyone still care to be my bf... Expand Unfortunately, erectile dysfunction happen to very fit young men so there are many other causes for the condition which is best determined by a medical specialist. Don't blindly guess or anyhow take medication. Edited September 3, 2016 by Anderson lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Neh Neh Posted September 3, 2016 Report Share Posted September 3, 2016 On 9/12/2015 at 5:02 PM, Guest 25yoerection said: Im 25 yo chinese guy but i already hv ED. even though i Do sports a lot. I took viagra to fuck my bf. Im not sure am i the only one here. I nvr have erection problem till nowadays. Just that it didnt last long enough. Was so worry to hv sex. Im a person who love sex n prefer to be top. But my erection cant stay long. About 1-2 mins only Is it because i watched too much porn n masturbate too much? I get to experience sex quite late of my life ard 23 yo. When my 1st time being top, i realise the ass not as good as my hand. Dont really feel as good. Mayb my dick not that huge so i dont feel as good like those ppl in porn. What should i do? Im worry it will effect my new relationship. N my pills are running low now. I try to control my urge to wank. I think im addicted to porn. Any advise? Expand My advice are: 1. Stop masturbation to build up libido. Do sex with your bf once per week, you will find higher sex performance. 2. Eat half boiled eggs and exercise daily. 3. If all not working, you may be bi. Try sex with girl and see the different. Butterworth 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted October 28, 2016 Report Share Posted October 28, 2016 anyone tried? the below methods I cant stop masturbation no.1) Since u r here and Butterworth 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wonder Posted October 28, 2016 Report Share Posted October 28, 2016 I do sports too, comprising only weights and yoga but I don't do much jogging/cardio for a few years already as I want to bulk up Recently, I realise that jogging/running/sprinting regularly, raising your heart health and sweating to detox actually turns the libido on and back to its natural sexy healthy state again. Thanks to one of the above posts too for the inspiration on jogging to rectify this issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nega Posted December 18, 2016 Report Share Posted December 18, 2016 Has anybody ever edged with another guy, fucking him and getting sucked by him a bunch of different times, but always stopping yourself before cumming? But then, after making him cum, you can't get hard enough to fuck him again and finally make your own self cum? So frustrating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted March 3, 2017 Report Share Posted March 3, 2017 On 1/14/2015 at 6:53 AM, dsd said: Having a limp dick may have saved my life a few times. Happened before, I met this cuddly Lao ah Pek, so chubby and smooth, his wet hole waiting for me to mount him. But at the last minute, I got all soft. Could penetrate his hole at all. I cannot understand it. When I next meet up with my darling pastor, I got all hard again. I farked him real good that day. I think it's just my body telling me some hole cannot fark. Must stay clear. Who knows got HIV or not? The hole that I feel perfectly safe with like my pastor's hole, I have raging hard on. Expand pastor? luvhandle and Butterworth 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimlo777 Posted March 3, 2017 Report Share Posted March 3, 2017 On 1/14/2015 at 6:53 AM, dsd said: Having a limp dick may have saved my life a few times. Happened before, I met this cuddly Lao ah Pek, so chubby and smooth, his wet hole waiting for me to mount him. But at the last minute, I got all soft. Could penetrate his hole at all. I cannot understand it. When I next meet up with my darling pastor, I got all hard again. I farked him real good that day. I think it's just my body telling me some hole cannot fark. Must stay clear. Who knows got HIV or not? The hole that I feel perfectly safe with like my pastor's hole, I have raging hard on. Expand wow who is your pastor? lovehandle and Butterworth 2 Quote Suck my tits and I'll lick your balls. Lick my arse and I'll suck your cock. All in sex is fair. The only bad thing about sex is that it doesn't last long enough. Read my blog - www.anasianjourney.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ED Patient Posted March 28, 2017 Report Share Posted March 28, 2017 <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/k15I-2ZGKAI" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> Shock Wave Therapy for Erectile Dysfunction Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkero Posted March 29, 2017 Report Share Posted March 29, 2017 Try not jo-ing for 2 weeks? For me after that wind blow also hard My balls feel like exploding after that Butterworth and lightsmith32 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadMan Posted March 29, 2017 Report Share Posted March 29, 2017 On 3/3/2017 at 10:22 AM, kimlo777 said: wow who is your pastor? Expand Could be Lawrence Khong for all you know.... kimlo777 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimlo777 Posted March 30, 2017 Report Share Posted March 30, 2017 On 3/29/2017 at 9:58 AM, MadMan said: Could be Lawrence Khong for all you know.... Expand or could it be Kong Hee for that matter!!! Quote Suck my tits and I'll lick your balls. Lick my arse and I'll suck your cock. All in sex is fair. The only bad thing about sex is that it doesn't last long enough. Read my blog - www.anasianjourney.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ernestnana Posted April 19, 2017 Report Share Posted April 19, 2017 (edited) Recently i am having difficulty maintaining an erection. I am still in early 20s and its too early to erectile dysfunction, I suspect i am having anxiety. Will pills help or any other ways? Edited April 19, 2017 by Ernestnana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted April 19, 2017 Report Share Posted April 19, 2017 Wear a cockring or have sex with someone you are really into. Ironrod 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Emman Posted April 19, 2017 Report Share Posted April 19, 2017 On 3/3/2017 at 10:22 AM, kimlo777 said: wow who is your pastor? Expand Could be Mark Angel's pastor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kunal Posted April 21, 2018 Report Share Posted April 21, 2018 You have to check with your doctor first. You might have a heart disease Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jon Posted May 2, 2018 Report Share Posted May 2, 2018 Maybe can try juagen (dick massage) Need to go thailand find they help massage your cock hahaha they press press here and there and dick really become harder but for limited time (1 - 2 months, need go for regular servicing) Singapore have some PRC and Thai massage ladies but need to know the ones that do real or the ones that just do handjobs you search google can find one maya but never try before and seems very ex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Numb cock Posted May 2, 2018 Report Share Posted May 2, 2018 I’ve got a slightly different problem - I can achieve erections, morning woodies are still very hard, but I seem to lack the sensory sensitivity I used to have as a tweenie (now 40), so it’s almost a challenge to get to orgasm. Other than morning woodies, the relative numbness means I don’t exactly get erect by touch as easily as by non-tactile stimulation. Sometimes this creates anxiety and getting or staying hard then becomes an issue with a partner. No problems when on my own though. Anyone else has similar experience and know of effective treatments? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted May 3, 2018 Report Share Posted May 3, 2018 You may get some interesting ideas here but in the end it is the medical profession (an urologist?) who can assist you the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Help! Posted May 4, 2018 Report Share Posted May 4, 2018 Has anyone managed to reverse their ED? Based on biological issues like diabetes or blood pressure or anything like that? I just don't want to face the scenario of this being the rest of my life. I might as well learn to be single if that's the case. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted May 4, 2018 Report Share Posted May 4, 2018 On 5/2/2018 at 8:15 PM, Guest Numb cock said: I’ve got a slightly different problem - I can achieve erections, morning woodies are still very hard, but I seem to lack the sensory sensitivity I used to have as a tweenie (now 40), so it’s almost a challenge to get to orgasm. Other than morning woodies, the relative numbness means I don’t exactly get erect by touch as easily as by non-tactile stimulation. Sometimes this creates anxiety and getting or staying hard then becomes an issue with a partner. No problems when on my own though. Anyone else has similar experience and know of effective treatments? Expand agree w Steve, if not, see a doc who focused on men's issues too (though I forsee they will ask u to take some light medication) sometimes it is due to stress, like anxiety when u mentioned Get your partner to do more involvement work firs... I have heard that a minority in 30+ yo , no longer get woodies(I don't understand how or why), but I jokingly replied it is fine, they r btms anyway they claimed eating some locally known Aphrodisiac remedies like beef or oysters work for them (if not https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/aphrodisiac-foods) Did u try supplements for men at Pharmacies? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blowmenow Posted May 4, 2018 Report Share Posted May 4, 2018 On 9/1/2016 at 11:34 PM, Guest Wonder said: I have similar situation since 32, I cannot hold an erection for Long most of the time, it just goes limp after a while and it's hard to get it up again. Now 36, my body is still toned from gym etc, maybe need to do more cardio which I'm doing swimming more regularly from this week. Wonder with this condition, anyone still care to be my bf... Expand u can be a bottom. problem solved! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blowmenow Posted May 4, 2018 Report Share Posted May 4, 2018 On 4/19/2017 at 5:06 PM, Ernestnana said: Recently i am having difficulty maintaining an erection. I am still in early 20s and its too early to erectile dysfunction, I suspect i am having anxiety. Will pills help or any other ways? Expand very likely its anxiety u hv such issue when meeting new guy or stranger rite? but not with ur regulars Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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