Guest Burnt Posted July 10, 2011 Report Share Posted July 10, 2011 Some time back, I get to know this guy through Trevvy. We exchanged numbers and started to sms. I was honest with him with my attached status and told him (via sms) that i am game for some safe fun if both clicks. Progressively the chats become more explicit and was common when we sms. Finally we decided to meet and arrangement was made. Unfortunately i was caught up with work on that day we supposed to meet and i smsed him to apologise and asked to postpone our appointment. Never did i expect that he turned utterly nasty and started to use abusive languages in his smses. He even said i owed him a dinner as i had suggested to meet inside a food restaurant. Just when i thought i was lucky i didn't meet a possible lunatic, the worse came. He threatened to expose my number and post all my smses to him (in our naughty sms correspondences, i was pretty specific in what i could do to him - i think you know what i mean.. ) on the website. He also threatened to report to police where i would get myself into trouble witb the law what i said to him. It was so disturbing for me, i had to put up with his smses and calls, which i did not reply nor answer. I wasn't sure if he really had done funny things afterall. I changed my mobile number eventually just to shake him off. It was so inconvenient for me to inform my friends, my colleagues, business associates, banks, etc of my change of number. Importantly i had to paint a lie tomy bf on why i want to change my number which i like very much and kept for years. I think he suspected something was amiss. Lesson learnt: don't divulge too much of your personal details to others you have not met or you do not feel comfortable yet. Importantly do not sms indecent things to another as these are black and white traces. If the other party is not someone with a normal mind, you may end up creating troubles for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wow Posted July 10, 2011 Report Share Posted July 10, 2011 Some time back, I get to know this guy through Trevvy. We exchanged numbers and started to sms. I was honest with him with my attached status and told him (via sms) that i am game for some safe fun if both clicks. Progressively the chats become more explicit and was common when we sms. Finally we decided to meet and arrangement was made. Unfortunately i was caught up with work on that day we supposed to meet and i smsed him to apologise and asked to postpone our appointment. Never did i expect that he turned utterly nasty and started to use abusive languages in his smses. He even said i owed him a dinner as i had suggested to meet inside a food restaurant. Just when i thought i was lucky i didn't meet a possible lunatic, the worse came. He threatened to expose my number and post all my smses to him (in our naughty sms correspondences, i was pretty specific in what i could do to him - i think you know what i mean.. ) on the website. He also threatened to report to police where i would get myself into trouble witb the law what i said to him. It was so disturbing for me, i had to put up with his smses and calls, which i did not reply nor answer. I wasn't sure if he really had done funny things afterall. I changed my mobile number eventually just to shake him off. It was so inconvenient for me to inform my friends, my colleagues, business associates, banks, etc of my change of number. Importantly i had to paint a lie tomy bf on why i want to change my number which i like very much and kept for years. I think he suspected something was amiss. Lesson learnt: don't divulge too much of your personal details to others you have not met or you do not feel comfortable yet. Importantly do not sms indecent things to another as these are black and white traces. If the other party is not someone with a normal mind, you may end up creating troubles for yourself.What's this crazy bitch's Trevvy nick and his hp number? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 10, 2011 Report Share Posted July 10, 2011 is " bad luck " to know & met someone that is emo & drama queer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest god Posted July 10, 2011 Report Share Posted July 10, 2011 Importantly i had to paint a lie tomy bf on why i want to change my number which i like very much and kept for years. I think he suspected something was amiss. Serves you right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted July 10, 2011 Report Share Posted July 10, 2011 My little trick:I have 2 mobile phones - the iPhone is for family/work/close friends and another (LG) for casual friends.I used the phone with a prepaid card for casual friends - those I met for the first time.If the casual friends turned out to be pleasant and had behaved properly, they may get the other number. So far, very few (except the guys who attended the OC Mature Men class) had the iPhone number.This is my way of protecting myself - why should we be subject to blackmail?**Tell that maniac to go ahead to do anything he wants, you can sue his pants off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Burnt Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 I know i may be opened to criticsim by some, but my intention is really to share my frightening experience here to caution others. I do not think it is appropriate to divulge his nick and number as it is a one-sided story afterall. If i did, i am doing what he threatened to do to me. Just be careful when u comms with strangers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Yes I also have a prepaid number which I use for casual encounters and some friends whom I do not wan to give out my real number... I think this will solve alot of the problems mentioned.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 those who have a prepaid number, wouldn't it be very tedious? like attending to 2 phones and deciding which no. to give to which guy... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest manlybi Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Some time back, I get to know this guy through Trevvy. We exchanged numbers and started to sms. I was honest with him with my attached status and told him (via sms) that i am game for some safe fun if both clicks. Progressively the chats become more explicit and was common when we sms. Finally we decided to meet and arrangement was made. Unfortunately i was caught up with work on that day we supposed to meet and i smsed him to apologise and asked to postpone our appointment. Never did i expect that he turned utterly nasty and started to use abusive languages in his smses. He even said i owed him a dinner as i had suggested to meet inside a food restaurant. Just when i thought i was lucky i didn't meet a possible lunatic, the worse came. He threatened to expose my number and post all my smses to him (in our naughty sms correspondences, i was pretty specific in what i could do to him - i think you know what i mean.. ) on the website. He also threatened to report to police where i would get myself into trouble witb the law what i said to him. It was so disturbing for me, i had to put up with his smses and calls, which i did not reply nor answer. I wasn't sure if he really had done funny things afterall. I changed my mobile number eventually just to shake him off. It was so inconvenient for me to inform my friends, my colleagues, business associates, banks, etc of my change of number. Importantly i had to paint a lie tomy bf on why i want to change my number which i like very much and kept for years. I think he suspected something was amiss. Lesson learnt: don't divulge too much of your personal details to others you have not met or you do not feel comfortable yet. Importantly do not sms indecent things to another as these are black and white traces. If the other party is not someone with a normal mind, you may end up creating troubles for yourself.you should expose his nick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 those who have a prepaid number, wouldn't it be very tedious? like attending to 2 phones and deciding which no. to give to which guy...Simple - practice makes perfect.Anyway in this age and time where a 2nd phone is always needed to differentiate the nature of calls,it is important to PROTECT oneself from nuisance calls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alien Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 Lesson learnt, never meet pple from net?! Or never have only one phone number, esp if u give the number to stranger?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 an attached guy seek safe fun w stranger goes wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest imseeker Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 you should expose his nickAgree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest curious Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 I tot of getting prepaid card before. But need our address rite? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superflawless Posted July 13, 2011 Report Share Posted July 13, 2011 I know i may be opened to criticsim by some, but my intention is really to share my frightening experience here to caution others. I do not think it is appropriate to divulge his nick and number as it is a one-sided story afterall. If i did, i am doing what he threatened to do to me. Just be careful when u comms with strangers.I don't think you have anything to fear. Just go on with your life and forget about him. If it's convenient, let us know who this person is.Best of wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckling_pig Posted July 13, 2011 Report Share Posted July 13, 2011 Some people are predatory by nature. If they sense you cannot or will not hurt them, they will take advantage of you. You should not be afraid of him. Like all bullies, when confronted, he will back down.Anyways he has no grounds to do stand on and his threats are hollow. If he exposes you, he exposes himself. If he reports you to the police, you will counter with a charge of criminal intimidation. If he bothers you anymore, call his bluff. Be prepared to stand your ground and he will leave you alone. In worst case scenario, call your sisters here for help and they will go and scratch his eyes out !!!SP We see things not as they are, but as WE are - The TalmudWhen the student is ready, the teacher will appear - The Buddha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted July 13, 2011 Report Share Posted July 13, 2011 I tot of getting prepaid card before. But need our address rite?No need addr la... But need to register with ur ic... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted July 13, 2011 Report Share Posted July 13, 2011 those who have a prepaid number, wouldn't it be very tedious? like attending to 2 phones and deciding which no. to give to which guy...Not really... I dun attend to my prepaid number unless I am expecting some call eg this kind of situation... Other den that I leave it in the drawer turned off... Only have to rmb to top up once every 6 mths... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 14, 2011 Report Share Posted July 14, 2011 How come suddenly talk about pre-paid card here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted July 14, 2011 Report Share Posted July 14, 2011 How come suddenly talk about pre-paid card here? Cos it's one of the solutions to ts problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subbtmchn73 Posted July 14, 2011 Report Share Posted July 14, 2011 I guess i have been lucky so far. I do worry about meeting dramatic or worse threatening guys when chatting online. I dont usually give my mobile so fast and prefer to chat online first. But am also usually rather trusting and often give everyone the benefit of the doubt first.Best is to find that one Mr Right and just stick with him. _____________________________________________________my geek gay blog at www.formanz.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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