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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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As I was opening my eyes from my rainy afternoon nap hugging Andy the teddy bear, it occurred to me to write this. Sometime I wish when I ask someone how the person is doing instead giving me the common replies "busy with work" or "rushing to do something" or "don't have time for myself" etc. All about running on the life treadmill being chased by time, the person doesn't need to tell me something I already know. I already know you and time not having good relationship. Tell me something you have achieved doing that makes you proud of yourself or happy. Things like "I know the shortcut to a nice place I like to go" or "I was given a beautiful smile from a stranger" or "I finally learned to fuck like a rabbit" etc.

 

Everyone is busy. Don't let it blind us from living.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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If only people put an effort to read profiles, they would not cry of rejections

 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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You have a best friend who has access to your house.

 

One day, you woke up with your best friend standing at the room door, staring at you.

You're naked on the bed.. beside you, is his naked wife.
All you remember was, heading out to a bar with a bunch of friends last night...

How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Someone just tried to scout me on Hornet. When I said no he told me to look at myself in the mirror. I always look at myself in the mirror and I look beautiful. If I don't look beautiful why would he scout me in the first place. One of those idiots living in Singapore who ''upgraded'' himself as a pimp and can't take no as an answer thinking he can use money to get people to say yes. It must be a blow to him after I rejected the $3,000 a day (if real) to kiss rich Bruneian ladies and carry their shopping bags. Nice as it sounds but having such idiot as your boss will just make your life a disaster. I am happy with being me - how poor or struggling it can be.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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The truth is the real action and talking/bitching in blowing wind is all done behind from public view in private message and group chat.

You can only be classify as a real auntie when you fish and shit in private. Lol :P

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Someone died. Let him die peacefully. Don't use his death to lobby gay marriage. When will people learn to let those who die to die peacefully with GENUINE R.I.P.? This is what happening now. The man who is a hero for looking after his staff during the recent Sydney Siege died. Gay with 14 years partner. Some people/organisations using his death to blame other people for his lost opportunity for a gay marriage. While I support the communions of people, sometimes people are already happy even without a certificate. Of course, having a certificate would be great but sometimes a fight not done properly will move people away from the beauty of the fight. Sometimes some fights shouldn't be happening but what we need is to make people's life better than some rights - good to have but not compulsory or necessary. We don't live long. We can do our bits making our life and everyone's else a little happier than messing them up with our pride.

 

R.I.P. Tori Johnson.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Libras are fair. They don't give judgement on anything based solely on first impression. 

 

A gameover for yourself doesn't mean a gameover to a libra, cause they don't give the deathblow so easily. 

 

A gameover to libra comes after thorough thinking. And once that judgement is down, it's casted in stone. 

Cooking is my passion. Music is my life. Reading is my sanity. 

Bitching about you keeps me happy. 

 

"People fear because of a lack of understanding, and a lack of understanding comes from a lack of proper communication on both parties, so to resolve fear we need to first resolve communication"

 

 

 

 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Shame. We would go great lengths to avoid it. We build walls and barriers to 'protect' ourselves from shame.

 

But shame hinders us from being vulnerable- something we need to grow in every single way. It prevents us from making those important first steps: to tell people you love them ("I am afraid of rejection. I am not worthy of love") or to chase your dreams ("I want to be an artist. But look at my shitty work! People would judge me").

 

Struggling with self-worth is painful and personally, I often use perfectionism to shield myself ("If I am perfect in every way, I would be accepted. I would be worthy. Failure is not an option, Fai."). But it has never gotten me anywhere because I was so fixated in perfecting an imperfection that would never be perfect. Stuck in a rut and never moving forward. 

 

I am sorry Fai for piling all those years of shame and hurting you emotionally ("You're never good enough at anything are you?"). Healing isn't easy but it is definitely a necessity. Together we'll take steps to be more vulnerable and 'dare greatly'.  

 

If you have the time, do read 'Daring Greatly' by Dr Brene Brown (Available at NLB). Personally it gave me plenty of insights and 'AHA!' moments.

 

(Digression: It is me or does Gordon Ramsey look hot went he's screaming in Hell's Kitchen?)  

  

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Observe others, they tell a story:

Some build up their outer defenses, becoming strong, solo bastions but are hollowed inside
 

Some are filled with bombardment of emotions, cultivated from soo much misunderstandings

 

Yet, somehow those that are entitled the least, know how to give the most

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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