Sugar Daddies & Seekers Discussion [Anyone Posting Ads Will Be suspended!] (compiled)

[Sport1]

1 hour ago, singalion said:

 

But the 40s/50s guy would be less declined to follow the commands of the sugar daddy...

Looks like trouble to me.

How long can the 40s sustain being the subject of another. For a younger guy that would be less difficult.

 

Also the 40s/50s guy has less financial needs as he should already stand on his own feet...

 

If you pay for the sex and company then you want something young and hot.

 

 

this apply when sugar daddy is only look for action behind the door thing. What if sugar daddy are looking companionship?  

[singalion]

12 minutes ago, Sport1 said:

this apply when sugar daddy is only look for action behind the door thing. What if sugar daddy are looking companionship?  

 

I would feel pity for a guy who needs to buy "companionship" for social outings... 

 

Sorry to say this so bluntly. 

 

[doncoin]

While I am not a sugar daddy per se, I don't think I am on that financial level, I have over the years helped from time to time guys who are younger than me financially. It's never huge sums of money, a couple hundred here and there, and I have no expectations of getting repaid. 

 

The well-mannered ones would make some form of trade like I had one who offered to help clean my apartment and run errands for me. One thing I have always made it clear to them is that the financial help has no strings attached. I do it because I can, and to emphasize the point, usually, the sex stops once money is given. I just do not want to create this obligation from the guy, and that will have me wondering if he is nice to me because I gave him cash, or he is just a nice person? 

 

Out of the lot only maybe 2 actually repaid me the full sum which I appreciate, but it does change the dynamics of the relationship. Like I've said, the sex stops once the money is swapped hands. 

[radiusulnar]

12 hours ago, doncoin said:

the sex stops once the money is swapped hands

 

interesting. so once money is lent, that aspect of the relationship ends? or the entire relationship ends?

[doncoin]

13 hours ago, radiusulnar said:

 

interesting. so once money is lent, that aspect of the relationship ends? or the entire relationship ends?

 

That aspect of the relationship ends. I just don't want to create a transaction-type relationship with that person. So I'd rather we be friends, have dinner, etc. and I never invite them back to my place again. 

[radiusulnar]

will it ever restored, for example, you are paid back?

[doncoin]

On 5/22/2024 at 11:40 PM, radiusulnar said:

will it ever restored, for example, you are paid back?

 

 

With one of the guys who paid me back in full, we did hook up again after a year and a half later. For me I feel that money changes the dynamics of a relationship, even something as casual as a fuck buddy. 

[oldies-lover]

I do not to pay for an older man if he matches the below

 

a. Chinese married ( Age - 70 and abv )

b. Non smoker

c. Average body tone

d. Decent business look and on business pants

e. Retired teacher / Principal 

 

Typo error

 

I will pay if anyone matches the bill.

[Gozu]

4 hours ago, oldies-lover said:

I do not to pay for an older man if he matches the below

 

a. Chinese married ( Age - 70 and abv )

b. Non smoker

c. Average body tone

d. Decent business look and on business pants

e. Retired teacher / Principal 

What you mean, I do not to pay...? Confused. 

[Jery]

On 5/26/2024 at 10:46 AM, Gozu said:

What you mean, I do not to pay...? Confused. 

I guess he mean “do not mind “ .

Saw a ad on other forum that gay daddy is looking for straight nsf guy.

 

make me wonder have any suger daddy actually “convert” a straight guy to bi/gay by offering the money route .
 

 

[mate69]

2 minutes ago, Jery said:

I guess he mean “do not mind “ .

Saw a ad on other forum that gay daddy is looking for straight nsf guy.

 

make me wonder have any suger daddy actually “convert” a straight guy to bi/gay by offering the money route .
 

 

 

Unlikely

[radiusulnar]

What level of financial support would be considered sugar daddy level? Michelin restaurant, super car, orchard condo, ion shopping? Or shake shack, grab, suburban hdb, Lazada?

[mate69]

6 hours ago, radiusulnar said:

What level of financial support would be considered sugar daddy level? Michelin restaurant, super car, orchard condo, ion shopping? Or shake shack, grab, suburban hdb, Lazada?

Spans a range. Depending on the transaction terms between both parties