IkuTube Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 For the record, 'Beauty' is different for everyone. What is it that makes a person attractive and/or beautiful? What is it that sets someone above another on the appeal scale? Hopefully, with many more of us take the time to contribute here, this thread can be an impetus to inspire. Not only for us to assimilate to become what is popular (with more contributions) but to be aware so as to change to be that attractive and/or beautiful individual. Let me start: It is definitely age that makes me to surpass physical beauty. While I am still attracted to clean, neat and prim-and-proper individuals (but no longer top on the lists), what makes me to go soft for a particular individual is in his demure personality. I am often at awe for a person who is filled with conviction - his words, his thoughts, his actions, his interactions - the compassion and empathy he has about life and who cares a lot more to make life - his and others, better. It is his beautiful acts that make him a more beautiful person. -------- Your turn ... Click Here To Visit My Blog @ "The Blessed Life" *Let me live my life to be an instrument of 'Love', in how I speak and in how I see others* - May there be Love and Peace beyond all understanding - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 How he speaks. His choice of words. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ugly duckling Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 He is beauty only if he admires my beauty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IkuTube Posted September 14, 2015 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 He is beauty only if he admires my beauty. Cheem but I like! Click Here To Visit My Blog @ "The Blessed Life" *Let me live my life to be an instrument of 'Love', in how I speak and in how I see others* - May there be Love and Peace beyond all understanding - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 (edited) I find it very difficult to write down what I find attractive and beautiful in an individual. I think I must be very shallow because I can not see passed the physical beauty portion. But for some strange reason I had never meet any of the BW member in person but I do find some of them very interesting. Even some of the member in BW who do not have their own photo in their profile, I do find them interesting, not sure if that can be consider as attracted. Why I find them attractive, I really can not pin down a single common trait. I guess the problem lies with me. Edited September 14, 2015 by sam7566 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
numchucks Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 Serious when he/she needs to be and then be a goofball when he/she needs to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatname Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 (edited) IMHO, huge plus if one has similar core values.I don't want to be trapped in conflicting decisions, helping a person or not, spending on this or not etc. It's tiring. If I'm going to be with someone, it'll be best if he/she has a common ground to stand together with. And in all honesty, physical looks is one thing too. Being neat, tidy etc. Edited September 14, 2015 by whatname Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fatty Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 Having a thick wallet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gray32 Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 For me.. Someone who can still treat you as a buddy. A person who still have a sense of brotherhood. The genuine thought of helping another person. And ..lastly.. How unique he is in my life. :] Holy mama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traveler3032 Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 First, there has to be some chemistry between us, but my taste in men is evolving. If this is beyond one time thing, then it's more about inner things, such as trust, kindness, interests, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 Serious when he/she needs to be and then be a goofball when he/she needs to be. Nailed it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wozzit Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 (edited) As the TS suggests there are so many combinations n permutations it really is impossible to generalise. One mans meat etc. . Surely all one can say is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Edited September 15, 2015 by wozzit IkuTube 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Honey Bees Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 As the TS suggests there are so many combinations n permutations it really is impossible to generalise. One mans meat etc. . Surely all one can say is beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Flies find shit beautiful and tasteful too. It all boils down to individual preference. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IkuTube Posted September 15, 2015 Author Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 Flies find shit beautiful and tasteful too. Wah, didn't see this coming but it makes sense. Click Here To Visit My Blog @ "The Blessed Life" *Let me live my life to be an instrument of 'Love', in how I speak and in how I see others* - May there be Love and Peace beyond all understanding - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest3594 Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 Ones' heart is most beautiful above all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 Attitude.Behaviour.Compassion. 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teatree Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 Two parts:Inner beauty and outer attractiveness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadMan Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 The one you settled down eventually often times is diametrically opposite from your ideal. It's really karma... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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