Gray32

Nowadays it's getting harder to gym with the limited time to head to the gym. And it's getting so hard to fix on what I want to work on lately. Like should I focus more on gym over statics, or have a equal balance? Strength or Endurance? So much to think about 😕 At the same time I also want to try maintain my cardio fitness (HIIT / Running etc.) so that I can try to lose some body fat. Pretty normal to feel that way. You can always start off working out in parks first, or statics to build up some foundation strength. Or like what timber_wolf said, look up on videos first before stepping into the gym, and find friends to go together After awhile, you'll get used to it and realize people are there to gym and focus on their goals, and don't have that much time to judge you. At most they judge you for hogging the machine/bench forever and taking super long rest time without sharing the equipment. Hahaha!

Amazing story, and I am happy for the both of you. It's no surprise you would expect some initiative from K, afterall, it gets a little tiring if you're the only one initiating and it feels like you're the one asking for things to happen, and there's no room for you to be passive and let him give you what you are looking for. Like others said, perhaps K is still going through the phase and I believe he needs time, and perhaps he would stay passive forever, but that does not mean he doesn't love you the same way as you do. It just feels that the effort doesn't come two ways. Perhaps he fears rejection or do not want to be seen as someone who is clingy. Trust and patience, and time will give you the solution you need to make things work for both of you!

I had the weirdest autocum experience :') My ex used to face fuck me once and I was damn horny that time, and I just autocum. I guess sometimes it depends how "horny" a person has been? I could even still top him after that, but that took a little longer to cum

Just keep exploring, meet new people (not for the sake of fun) and don't actively search for it. Don't have too much expectations, the more you think about it, the expectations grows and it becomes a super strong desire. It'll come along when you find the right one man. Meanwhile just keep DIY :)) HAHAHA

That feeling is nice, but it also can be the tipping point where it breaks relationships. If people rush into one without figuring whether both parties are able to match with one another in terms of needs, time and privacy etc... It would be detrimental in the long run haha

I guess most people started off with the urge of being in a rs, instead of actually liking the other person back. It's ok not to have much experience, hahaha!

I'm the pretty Japanese Girl on the right :)

Turning 24 this year 173 70 Chinese. Looking for friends and dates, and possibly a LTR Back on this thread after quite some time, and now I'm in NS, probably don't have much time to go out on dates to be honest. However I would love to look for people who would want to hang out and chat! I exercise a little to keep myself healthy, not necessarily fit. I also enjoy reading books from time to time to have a break from the busy world, and some long walks too But whatever comes along, yeah? Feel free to ask me questions

Currently, the final batch of PES E recruits are always booking out daily the same time as any other stay out units. There's also another concurrent PES C & E batch which are stay in. How to tell them apart: the book out recruits are always in No.4, and wears a black sling bag.

Are they the recruits? Hahaha! If it is, I don't think anyone of them are... at least that's what I think it is :p

The feeling of being repulsed by anal sex or sucking dick is definitely normal.. although some people would say you are not gay because you don't enjoy either. Question is, whether do you like your partner to be a male or not. Some people are only into pure romance but many people look down upon that as most people would label that "guys are always horny". But there's always different ways to enjoy without having anal sex or bjs in a relationship :') If you are just into fun or enjoy being sucked, then maybe females would work just fine for you too!