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  1. Well, a lot of people in Singapore has said that ‘oh there are a large number of chinese teens in Singapore who have big dicks’ but it’s not really showing up to me? I’ve seen Malays, Indians and Caucasians, but i’ve never seen one by a young Chinese. Maybe it’s because they are shy to say so? Or maybe it could be they are scared to come out? Honestly speaking, i’ve really no idea but I am curious to find out even. So i’m creating this platform to ask y’all here a question: Do you have a big dick? (greater than 7”) and Are you a chinese teenager? Well feel free to answer even if you’re not chinese. It’s always nice to discuss about the reasons why. P.S this is not a platform to share dick pics. Keep this platform clean please.
  2. Good morning everyone, I'm brand new to Blowing Wind, and as I read through posts and just observed the topics and discussions, two terms tended to pop up a lot: straight-acting and sissy. The first is heavily desired, seen as superior. The second, viewed like a plague. And that bothered me. I'll admit now that I'm somewhat effeminate, or 'soft', depending on the person judging me. Yeah, I'm no macho man, but it doesn't make me less of a person. Just as being gay doesn't make us less worthy as human beings. We all really need to stop with the "sissy" bashing here, but perhaps we need to first understand why we're so critical of those who are effeminate. sissy |ˈsɪsi| informal noun ( pl. -sies) a person regarded as effeminate or cowardly. • chiefly offensive an effeminate homosexual. effeminate |ɪˈfɛmɪnət| adjective (of a man) having or showing characteristics regarded as typical of a woman; unmanly. It's interesting to see how feminine traits are paired with cowardliness and lack of manhood. Of course, many will argue that a gay man wants a man, not a woman. I'll also admit that I myself do find a masculine disposition attractive. I did ask myself why, many times. There were a lot of really nice, gorgeous and interesting men out there that I didn't feel as attracted to because their mannerisms leaned towards girlishness. This goes beyond the sexual context, because the bashing or rejection occurs even when sex is not an issue. I've experienced it myself. The following excerpt in Madonna's "What It Feels Like For A Girl", made me think about this aversion to 'sissy' mannerism when I first heard it. Girls can wear jeans And cut their hair short Wear shirts and boots 'Cause it's okay to be a boy But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading 'Cause you think that being a girl is degrading But secretly you'd love to know what it's like Wouldn't you What it feels like for a girl Perhaps it goes back to our ingrained misogyny, that men are superior to women — in particular, a man who aspires, or appears to aspire, to be like a woman is especially terrible. The mentality of, "Why would you want to be like the weaker gender? That's so silly! Be a real man!" I believe that a GLBT calling another a sissy is no better than the people who call us faggots. Yes, attraction is complex and we like what we like, but there is no need to insult what we don't. And for that matter, scrap saying straight-acting. That's like saying "cat that pretends it's a dog". If you want a manly, masculine or rugged guy, just say so. I'm sure you don't want someone who denies who he is. So, do you feel like slapping or punching my face already? Let me know your take on this.
  3. deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds

    Lost my appetite for cockles

    I love eating cockles especially in char kway teoh but this morning as I was browsing Qoo10, I lost my appetite after seeing this promotion. .... I did burst out laughing out loud!
  4. The recent Daryl Aiden Yow saga https://mothership.sg/2018/06/daryl-aiden-yow-instagram-photos-singapore/ https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/singapore-photographer-daryl-aiden-yow-sorry-for-passing-off-stock-images-as-his-own-on Sia suay that he is one of us. Why must so dishonest!
  5. fab

    Petty straight men

    A few guys in my gym love to blink when there is eye contact. Not wink. Straight but so petty. Donno what is the world becoming.
  6. With the year closing, I just want to get something off my chest. Not sure if it's appropriate to post this here but since it deals somewhat with my gay issue, so here I am. Not really a happy topic, do move on, least it spoils your mood Ma, I'm gay. It's so easy to say, now that you are not here. I had flirted with those words in my mind, but had decided long ago to stuff them deep inside me. You have had a hard life. Your cheating husband who suddenly died on you. A poorly educated widow with three young children. I was only five then and I still remember your tears and anguish like it was yesterday. I remember the days when you have to start your day at three-thirty in the morning and only to rest at ten in the night. The long and hungry days you endure, so that your children do not go hungry. I was 11, when you told me that of all my siblings, I am the one you will live with in the future. Since then, I have always picture myself marrying a caring wife and taking care of you into old age. But Ma.... I'm gay... and it's soul crushing. So I decided to be alone. And it's soul crushing. When brother and sister both got married, I looked at myself. And it's soul crushing. I'm sorry for the dark days of my depression and could not tell you why. It's a habit you see, of always having to guard a secret. Darks thoughts lingers in my heart and eats me from the within. Although I know you will accept me in the end, but the memory of your tears kept everything deep inside. I'm sorry for my resentment and the pain I caused you. I am not a good son. I am useless as a human being. For the last twenty years of my life, I wished I was never born. I was secretly preparing for my end, making sure you have minimal burdens when the time comes. I was going to leave you, in a most desparate and unfilial act. It was a long time in planning. Years of waiting for the right moment, when I can make sure you have best support after I'm gone. Just a few weeks before the my appointed time... you just fell ill and pass away... It's been 8 months now, I still cannot process. Oh fate, are you cruel or kind? I cannot tell. Ma, if you are listening. Hear me. Don't worry about me, I bear my darkness with pride, for I am human. You need to go towards the highest high, into the brightest light. Seek me out in lives after lives, when I am the strongest. Come to me then, and I shall give you the greatest of happiness you deserve. With Gratitude, Your son.
  7. Have you guys Had hookups that left you thinking "wtf?", or having mixed feelings, or left you needing to rant to someone about it? Cus I sure did. I broke up with my bf 3mths ago and decided to try grindr for the first time. I was amazed at how fast somebody asked me how I was! "Seek" No face pic but I was horny so fuck it I decided to have a jo session at his place. Not the best decision I have made in my life btw. He wasn't bad, but he wasn't good either. Kept kissing me and wasn't playing with my nips or my erection well. He wanted me to bj him but his dick had the pungent stale dick smell even though he claims “我很干净”. Even yo mama would say you dirty. damn, even his body didn't taste clean. Go take a hygiene class back in primary school. Thank the heavens he didn't ask me to fuck him. Who knows where that booty has been. I thought he wanted to cum tgt but turns out he came alr prior to the hook up. So like what did you ask me over there for? (Or perhaps I was bad as well. *shrugs*) in the end he just jacked me off, licked my cum, and I left (feeling no satisfaction whatsoever). thought the quickie could help me get over my ex, but it made me miss him and our better sex sessions more. Grrr. Or maybe I just don't do hook ups?
  8. Unless everyone, including moderators, is a kid which I doubt, I suspect the brouhaha here is a combined effort of members and moderators, orchestrated to boost the ratings of Blowingwind. :clap: Why else would guys including the moderators give credence to seemingly baseless flaming and attempt to address it? Why, because it is a PR effort! Fueling a feud that begins in triviality is obviously a creative gimmick to prop up popularity! I ain't falling for it but hey, may it continue!
  9. Hey guys, what comes to mind when you see an Angmo man (about 50 yrs old) and an Asian guy (about 33 yrs old) walking together? Honest answers please? Thank you very much!
  10. Hi , malaysian here need a temp place to stay in JB area. dont drive. hope to find near Custom or KSL area if know any lobang pls line or wechat me : kennethcyc asap
  11. hey i hope this doesn't come out as being attention seeking because i am not. it's just that i have been feeling weird lately and i think i might need help. and i guess i chose this platform because people here are more genuine and less judgemental? i would describe myself as someone who is happy go lucky and not let anything bother me. but for the past few weeks, i feel horrible. it's almost hard to describe but one moment i am perfectly normal, and in the other i feel horrible and stressed and sad. these moodswings are affecting me and i am aware of how it affects others. i started to hate on people (colleagues mostly) and being very hypocritical. i used to blog happy things, but all i write now are like sad things. actually, i don't even write now; i don't even have the feel. i have become really sensitive. sometimes i starve myself, sometimes i don't but there are times i binge eat. i am laughing lesser and i have become really two-faced. i feel bad. and i feel bad for feeling bad. i am aware of these changes. and i am more than aware that i am not suicidal. i tried making myself feel better by doing something i like, like reading and gaming and watch more movies. and i swear nothing i working. i tried reading motivational quotes and also to no avail. nothing is wrong in my family. i have a small family, pa, ma and i. we are ok. and nothing happened at work. i refused to tell anyone verbally. and i refuse to think i have depression. but i just dk what is happening. i have heard (from anna akana on her video confession on how she is on anti-depressants) that anti-depressants work, but i worry it's a temporary thing. any thoughts? p.s i have been doing tarot reading for ppl. does it like affect me?
  12. So many people here are cruisers and privacy and modesty violators. When we see a guy defending his right to not be harassed (peeing in peace, for example), people here are ready to flame him and defend their right to peek, stare and make rude sexual advances. People here are sharing cruising spots and doing all sorts of sexual acts in public, sharing them as stories and even sharing exhibitionist photos. They are all highly encouraged. Yet when two guys were caught having sex in the gym and arrested, people here only blame them for being stupid and getting caught, with no hint of the actual morality of the wrongdoing. The "wrong" in the wrongdoing is getting caught...Some even condemn these people who got caught, all the while relishing in stories and encounters that are illegal or bordering on illegal. One guy even said law is law and those guys who did it in public flouted the law so they must be punished. While he recognises the difference between the sexual act in public (against the law) and the one in private (still against the law but no longer liable to getting caught), he completely ignores the fact that so many sexual threads here are about acts that are in flagrant violation of the law. I hope to get the remaining decent guys to speak out and not have immoral, overly selfish people defend their wrongdoing as usual - the very people who cast stones upon those who get caught.
  13. Many of us live in a perpetual state of wanting more. That is not to say there is something wrong with enjoying material things. So long when one can afford, not by him deceive, lie nor steal, it does not matter what others think. As Jack London once said, "The proper function of man is to live, not to exist." However, there are more to life than these material things - the house, the car, the IT gadgets, the career, the apparels, etc. Then there are those intangibles that define us too. That make us to live. That shape our destiny. That carve our future. That mold our attitudes and forge our characters. I learn a great deal that the best thing in life is free, that does not cost a single cent. Love, for instance, creates my life at where I am today. Not only for the love that I receive but the love that I create that gives me to experience life and to enjoy it to the fullest. Let's add on to the list of things that we love about life - minus all the material things. Hopefully, the list will inspire us to be happy inside out. What we feel from within will only be the conviction to assume the way of life. Let me start: 01. The love and the comfort of my friends. 02. The faith of my family members, friends and clients who never give up on me. 03. BW the Forum that provides the space for learning. ......... Your turn ..
  14. What to do lah, in Sinkie's land, its dog eat dog society due to kiasu-ism and kiasi-ism (Tall poppy syndrome).
  15. Hey guys (and girls maybe? ), what do you think about PRC guys or people in general? To be clear, I am one of the "PRCs" living here in Singapore. ( before you type "fcuk off Singapore", can you please finish reading my post first? ) A recently joined member, I did a search with the keyword "PRC" within BW. Comments like "pigs", "dirty", "cannot write a sentence in English", etc. upset me because not only are these words hurtful to my pride as a PRC national, they also made me realize that we are considered inferior to Singaporeans as people. So I'm here to ask you what do you really think about PRC people YOU KNOW. Please support your opinion with your personal examples, i.e. your friends, colleagues, classmate, etc. instead of someone you saw on Youtube or on the news.
  16. http://deadspin.com/heres-a-guy-with-two-fully-functional-penises-nsfw-1492986433 2014 is one damn day old, and Reddit might have the scoop of the year. A redditor going by DoubleDickDude went ahead and answered a question every man has pondered: What if you had two dicks? Apparently, it's pretty great. (Yes, there is a photo.) Since it's why you're here, here's the link to the photo. NSFW, obviously. In the AMA, the guy says that they are more symmetrical than they appear in the photo. Even if they weren't, holy shit, everyone, everyone must go into this thinking that one's going to be a tiny baby phallus off to the side. But, nope, he apparently has a condition known as diphallia, or duplication of the penis. According to a 2006 newspaper report, since scrubbed from Reuters, there have been about 100 cases of this worldwide, with an occurrence of about 1 in 5.5 million American men. The redditor in question claims that he ejaculates and urinates out of both simultaneously, and we can't find any literature to prove otherwise. We don't know if this is a hoax, but frankly, that photo is rather compelling, as are the others in the original thread that started this and the one of him mostly erect (again, extremely NSFW, obviously), and the DoubleDickDude has been forthright throughout, though some of his sexual exploits strain credulity. Still, we'll update you if anything turns up. As of this post, the AMA has been up for five hours and has a shade over 8300 responses. So it's become a bit unwieldy to navigate. Here is a selection of some of the best questions and answers, though if you have the time, you'd really be well served to go through it yourself. On first impressions: beedee4: How do women react when they find out? DoubleDickDude: varies from girl to girl. Some have been like WOW. some have been like THATS FAKE! some have freaked out like, called me names. Most are pretty curious, but i dont have casual sex anymore, i stopped a few years back. Didnt like the empty feeling inside after a 1 night stand. did a lot of those in my late teens. A LOT of them. but for the most part, girls were nervous and some changed their mind at the last minute. dudes NEVER change their mind, they always want it even if they're freaked out a little. lol On comfort: FlipWhispers: I honestly expected to see one teensy extra wiener when I clicked on the link yesterday but was surprised to see they were similar in size. Are you happy they are that way or would a lil one have been easier to deal with? DoubleDickDude: I like them the way they are. They're more proportionate to each other than they look in photos. im limited to holding the camera myself. If one had been smaller, it'd be more difficult to deal with. So yeah I like that they're the way they are. On sartorial concerns: thiney49: Do they both hang to one side of your pants, or do they split the seam? DDD: when i go commando, which is almost always except in winter, they take their own sides. the seam can be a pain sometimes because the skin between them is a little delicate and sensitive. On multitasking: 32BitWhore: Have you ever been given a double fisted reach around? Sorry for the vulgarity, but the first thing that popped into my head when I saw the pictures the other day was "Next level reach around if you're into dudes." DDD: LOL actually yeah, i've had a guy pounding into me reach around with both hands and 'go skiing' On nature and nurture: MagnumPunk: How did your parents handle your situation? Did they tell you right away that your condition wasn't the norm? Also, do you think your polyamorous relationship would have happened if you didn't have two dicks? DDD: They said I had two for a reason. I knew from an early age I was special. I don't think being bisexual had anything to do with my cocks. On introductions: thederpmeister: How do you break the news to girls you're hooking up with? Is it a "prepare yourself, mortal" or more of a "ooooooHELLOWTF" type of deal? DDD: I did both for a while, but I dont date anymore, i'm in a relationship with a guy and a girl, and have been for a while. back in my teens i tried both ways and it was never predictable. the easy girls sometimes screamed and ran (literally once) as much as the virgins did. never could figure that out. But guys, guys NEVER run and ALWAYS follow through. Mostly straight guys, and they always at the very least touch and play with them a little. Some have even sucked me off so THAT was always the wild thing, the straight guys giving me head. On measurables: Hero_of_the_internet: How big are they when fully erect? Surely you've measured them. DDD: bigger one is 7 give or take on how horny i am, smaller one is 6 give or take. On naming rights: viper1aa: Have you named them? DDD: lol no comment On interval training: Jukior: Do you normally masturbate with 1 or both of them and if the answer is both, can you answer my next question? I after I finish jizzing I am usually snapped right out of the mood, so if you finish with one dick do you feel you have to finish with the other or do you do you feel you are done. DDD: I have multiple orgasms, like I can shoot a load out of my right cock and cum oozes out of my left one. I milk it out and then can keep going with either and make another load within a few minutes. I think it may have a lot to do with the internal plumbing but I've shot about 10 loads in a 4 hour period before. On DIY ingenuity: ping_pong_platypus: Have you ever considered getting one surgically removed or attached to the first penis to making a doubley long dick? DDD: Nope. And it wouldn't work. On Divine Right: SmashMetal: Sorry if I'm late to the party with this one, but this has absolutely baffled me since the first post about it whenever it was, so thanks for doing this My question: Was there a reason your parents didn't consider having the 'second' one removed when you were a kid? DDD: Yeah. Because I was born with it for a reason. My mom admitted recently she had no idea what that reason was, but it's there so it stays there. Glad she did, after everything because I really am one in millions. besides the ego boost it really makes a person feel special knowing there is likely no one else like you alive right now. And if they are, they are probably all fucked up with other problems. On real estate: Waffles_bro: seems like a stupid question but when you have sex, can you do all the position, because i guess you must use only one of your penis and the other one must be kind of in the way if its also hard. DDD: my bf and gf can take both in them, so it's pretty standard. but in the past with partners who had smaller or tighter holes, i had to start off using one but by the time i was done i had used both.
  17. K,this might sound like a pretty stupid question but it's not for someone like me who doesn't have any gay clique to associate with. How do gay cliques form? It seems every gay guy I see on Insta have their own happy little clique while I am already finding it hard enough to make friends in the gay community... How is it that everyone in our community seems to be somehow linked to everyone else while people like me are left to wonder what we're doing wrong that we don't have a clique to call our own? I've been to Pink Dot too,and it's evident that most gay guys have their own cliques. You might say being in a clique isn't important in life and all,but for me it does cause it just ain't the same gushing over hot guys and talking about LGBT stuff to my straight peers. Online,I try to chat people up by saying "Hi" or "Hey" yet most guys don't even reply to that! I mean,what do you expect me to start the convo with? "Hey,what are you seeking?".... And it's not like my profile's a faceless one either. Neither am I too fat nor too ugly (this shouldn't matter but in the superficial community that we're in,you've to admit your face and body are currency. Even for friendships apparently....) I'm not socially inept or what either,mind you.. So yea,how did you end up in the clique that you're in? Through online apps? Events like Pink Dot? Do gay cliques have a lot of drama and fuck around? (at least that's what I hear from here and there..) What advice do you have for someone like me looking to have a clique to belong to?
  18. Recently, during my long stay in a Hotel, the house-keeping maid kindly asked why didn't I take away certain things, certain toiletries items like shampoo, conditioner, soaps, shaving kit, tooth paste. She made perfect sense as these were already paid-for free items. She even asked me to keep them away daily those sachets of coffee, tea and sugar, and all the toiletries items as they were replenished every day. There was kindness in her voice. She said "give them to others when you go back". It touched me and made me to re-think. I used to take some of these items till I read Louise Hay's books. According to her, taking things that aren't yours will only manifest in one's life. Though such things are (technically) paid-for, would you take them even if you do not need them?
  19. I noticed the straight people working in my office tend to easily open up to the attractive people of the opposite sex. I am of managerial post and new young guys who just joined the office tend to get really close to this particular girl, who looks sweet and innocent on the outside, but is actually a backstabbing bitch who loves to gossip and badmouth everyone's back. They are of another nationality which I guess is mainly part of the reason but they should be coming closer to me because I have more power. I am having a hard time finding eyes and ears to what is going on because of this.
  20. Have a good laugh and enjoy your day!!!! The younger generation may not know it but at one time Willie Nelson was songwriter of the year. Such songs as "Hello Wall", "Crazy" sung by Patsy Cline. "Funny how Time Slips Away" & a host of other favourites He is also a well recognized poet in his own circle of friends. Whether or not you are a country music fan, these are truly the words of a deep thinker. So simple, yet so profound! Read the words of wisdom from that famous philosopher, Willie Nelson, iconic country and western singer, on his 80th birthday below his esteemed portrait. Only a man with such wisdom and maturity could be so concise and succinct in phrasing his feelings at this turning point in his life. "I've outlived my dick." A Poem - by Willie Nelson My nookie days are over, My pilot light is out. What used to be my pride and joy, Is now my water spout. Time was when, on its own accord, From my trousers it would spring. But now I've got a full time job, To find the friggin thing. It used to be embarrassing, The way it would behave. For every single morning, It would stand and watch me shave. Now as old age approaches, It sure gives me the blues. To see it hang its little head, And watch me tie my shoes!!
  21. For the record, 'Beauty' is different for everyone. What is it that makes a person attractive and/or beautiful? What is it that sets someone above another on the appeal scale? Hopefully, with many more of us take the time to contribute here, this thread can be an impetus to inspire. Not only for us to assimilate to become what is popular (with more contributions) but to be aware so as to change to be that attractive and/or beautiful individual. Let me start: It is definitely age that makes me to surpass physical beauty. While I am still attracted to clean, neat and prim-and-proper individuals (but no longer top on the lists), what makes me to go soft for a particular individual is in his demure personality. I am often at awe for a person who is filled with conviction - his words, his thoughts, his actions, his interactions - the compassion and empathy he has about life and who cares a lot more to make life - his and others, better. It is his beautiful acts that make him a more beautiful person. -------- Your turn ...
  22. http://www.buzzfeed.com/saeedjones/76-countries-where-anti-gay-laws-are-as-bad-as-or-worse-than#.lja9mjX8P Stop doubting, we are really among the "ulu-est" countries on this planet! We ought to seriously start congratulating ourselves, dearest fellow singaporeans!
  23. To many, celebrating a birthday is a joyful occasion. It is a day to remember how one's life has progressed. It is a day to be thankful for being alive, for being able to learn new and good things to become a better person. Every year, I will celebrate my friends' birthdays, those that are very closed to me. We would go out for simple dinner and end the celebration with cutting the birthday cake. We have gotten away with giving presence for many years. What I like most is when we get the birthday person to talk about his/her life and what's ahead. However, among this group of friends, we have a friend who does not like to celebrate birthdays. When we arrange for the dinner, it will not be on the actual day. It has to be just another get-together dinner. He feels birthday is a day where he wants to be alone to deeply reflect on his life. How do you celebrate your birthday? Do you look forward to celebrate it every year?
  24. THIS IS A PERSONALITY TEST Please bear in mind that White and Black is not a colour because it's the start and end point of every color. You may have different shades, or hue of a color in your wardrobe. For instance, if you choose "Red", the color of your wardrobe will start from (White to Pink, to different intensity of Red, to Maroon, to Black.) So these will form the whole range of colors in your wardrobe. Would it be because it's your favorite color? Or because it's a best match to your skin tone? What is your take on this? Wanna air your views?