Guest Unsure Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 I get to know this guy one month back because I bought a policy from him. He is really cute and I must say I am attracted to him. Ever since then we have communicated almost daily normally just small chat. But I realized that I was the one who always initiated the chat. Does it mean that he is not interested in me at all? He did reply but just to answer my questions or comments. Should I stop this one sided infatuation because I think he is just being nice.
lonely57 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Yup. Stop. he alr got what he wanted from u. a1988 1
fab Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 I get to know this guy one month back because I bought a policy from him. He is really cute and I must say I am attracted to him. Ever since then we have communicated almost daily normally just small chat. But I realized that I was the one who always initiated the chat. Does it mean that he is not interested in me at all? He did reply but just to answer my questions or comments. Should I stop this one sided infatuation because I think he is just being nice. Yes & yes. bigdanbeam 1 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿
tianyue Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 That reminds me. I had a colleague who tendered and left. I miss him badly.Everytime i initiated the chat, he never did. Should I stop too?
Guest Just let go Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 If a lady colleague keeps texting you after you left the company, I don't think you will be interested and be the one to initiate the chat. Even if your male colleague is gay, he may not be interested in you at all, given that you are the one initiating the chat all the times. You should get the message before he become irritated and blocked you.
Guest Guest Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 Infatuations got two sided one meh? Anyway, these insurance people are always dressed to the nines and they have to look good lah. Otherwise, how are they going to sell anything to you? Take it as an eye candy while it lasted, and then move on. They are only there to sell their eye candy and their policies to you. Period.
Guest Guest Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 Why don't you test the water... Call him out to say you need more explanation in the policy he sold You. Then ask him to go Toiket with you to pee and stand next to him and stare at his cock... If you like what you see, can say to him wow You have a nice cock.... See his reaction.....
xboyhunk Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 (edited) Thanks to your infatuation that he got your business! Want more attention from him? You know what to do! No money left, then too bad. It's his job to spend time with others who have. Edited December 27, 2015 by xboyhunk FASTR ANONYMOUS GROUP CHAT
solomondude Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 He is being nice because you bought a policy from him.Sometimes we need to learn things the hard way - den we know some things should not be pursued.What feels good (infatuation) might not be good for you.Hit the gym instead. Clear those thoughts. Side effects - you get hotter. austslim 1
lonely57 Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 Why don't you test the water... Call him out to say you need more explanation in the policy he sold You. Then ask him to go Toiket with you to pee and stand next to him and stare at his cock... If you like what you see, can say to him wow You have a nice cock.... See his reaction.....Then he would think we just want sex ..
Guest Unsure Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Thanks for all the input. I am proud to say that I have stopped texting him for the past 2 days... hahaha... kind of long to me. He did send me a holiday season greeting thr sms which is very biz like with name and company name. Let's see how long it will take him to realize I am missing from his whatsapp or he never will? At least this should tell me how much he valued me or my biz to him. Damn he is cute and his smile is so infectious and I still can't get him outta of my mind... hahahaha ... from Kylie Minogue?? Good idea to hit the gym ... but his face still flashes in my mind.Bad idea to go toilet with him. If he is really one of us... I want more than just sex with him.
lonely57 Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 I'd understand ur feelings.. At least ur brain is not as scumbag as mine to come up with dreams being together with the guy I like.. And I always wake up feeling depressed after that. Lol
Blacque Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Bad idea to go toilet with him. If he is really one of us... I want more than just sex with him. Can't go to a toilet alone? Instagram: vodkabaker
tianyue Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Thanks for all the input. I am proud to say that I have stopped texting him for the past 2 days... hahaha... kind of long to me. He did send me a holiday season greeting thr sms which is very biz like with name and company name. Let's see how long it will take him to realize I am missing from his whatsapp or he never will? At least this should tell me how much he valued me or my biz to him. Damn he is cute and his smile is so infectious and I still can't get him outta of my mind... hahahaha ... from Kylie Minogue?? Good idea to hit the gym ... but his face still flashes in my mind.Bad idea to go toilet with him. If he is really one of us... I want more than just sex with him.wow. if so cute, can send me the picture and see leh.
bluerunner Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 The faster you let go, the less pain you will feel in the long run. Let it go.
Guest Unsure Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 On 28/12/2015 at 10:21 PM, tianyue said: wow. if so cute, can send me the picture and see leh. Sorry, I cannot show u his pic here. But, really cute and when he smile, I just melted! I know many of u will scold me for what I did.... I cannot resist it and msg him on the fifth day of stand off... hand itchy, heart itchy .etc. ..u name it. I asked him if I am just another client of his. And he replied no! I am a friend to him. What was tat? He also like me? or wat? Am I reading too much into it?
lonely57 Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 14 minutes ago, Guest Unsure said: Sorry, I cannot show u his pic here. But, really cute and when he smile, I just melted! I know many of u will scold me for what I did.... I cannot resist it and msg him on the fifth day of stand off... hand itchy, heart itchy .etc. ..u name it. I asked him if I am just another client of his. And he replied no! I am a friend to him. What was tat? He also like me? or wat? Am I reading too much into it? i guess when ur infatuated u find everything nice about him. like how i give the biggest smile in my life even at awkward moments when i get a text from him. ))))))
cycle25 Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 I would say not to read too much into his responses. Best to go slowly and cautiously - but that's just me and my personality. Try not to set yourself up for disappointment either - by hoping against all odds that he is what you are making him out to be. I think it'd be harder that way since you're placing him on a pedestal in that kind of situation, thus the drop will be greater the higher you place him up. I wish you all the best though.
Guest Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 I'll say, go for it. No venture no gain. At the very most you get a rejection, feel like shit for a few days, then get on with your life. At least you got an answer, rather than second guessing everything and moping.
Guest Guest too Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 Haa.... when we are Infatuated, we can't really think logically. From outsider's point of view, he's treating you as his client. He's just being nice or diplomatic by saying you are his friend. Think the back of his mind is to network and make more commission. He's really not interested in you else he will be doing what you are doing. It's sad when we are Infatuated, we tend to hope for the best outcome w/o thinking rationally. Of course, you could make a bold decision by declaring your affections to him but be prepared it might not turn out what you hope for. But at least you are his client. Even if the situation turns worse, he will still have to keep in contact you to maintain a client relationship with you but things might be different. Sorry if I rained on your parade, my friend had a similar situation but unlike you, he is not a client. He made his move, it destroyed their friendship and the guy has been avoiding my friend ever since.
bluerunner Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 7 hours ago, Guest Guest too said: .....my friend had a similar situation but unlike you, he is not a client. He made his move, it destroyed their friendship and the guy has been avoiding my friend ever since. I had similar experience and I did the same silly move. "Friendship" will never be the same after that; if it ever exists.
GachiMuchi Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 TS,Stop thinking with you dick head and start thinking with you real head for a change and everything will be all right. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com
Guest Unsure Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 Sorry, its me again. It has been about 3 months. I still initiate the chat on the app. And he still reply. Sometimes, when he took a long time to reply back he will even apologize. We have not met up again since our first encounter. To test the water, today, in the chat, I told him "kind of miss ya". His reply was "hahah". and followed by asking me some other questions. Is he just being so very nice?? not trying to hurt my feelings and switch to some other topics? I think he knows I liked him. Should I test further?
Guest Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 On 5/1/2016 at 9:33 PM, Guest Unsure said: Sorry, I cannot show u his pic here. But, really cute and when he smile, I just melted! I know many of u will scold me for what I did.... I cannot resist it and msg him on the fifth day of stand off... hand itchy, heart itchy .etc. ..u name it. I asked him if I am just another client of his. And he replied no! I am a friend to him. What was tat? He also like me? or wat? Am I reading too much into it? Nope. If 3 months already and still only like that, I think can stop dreaming already. Nobody will ever tell you that you are just a client.
ThePineapple Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 (edited) 50 minutes ago, Guest Unsure said: Sorry, its me again. It has been about 3 months. I still initiate the chat on the app. And he still reply. Sometimes, when he took a long time to reply back he will even apologize. We have not met up again since our first encounter. To test the water, today, in the chat, I told him "kind of miss ya". His reply was "hahah". and followed by asking me some other questions. Is he just being so very nice?? not trying to hurt my feelings and switch to some other topics? I think he knows I liked him. Should I test further? Yep, you are just another client, or more honestly you are just a sales figure, a number in his sales quota to meet by the end of the month... even tho and he reply NO! Everyone is a friend to a Dealer / Seller / Financial Adviser / Agent, their value of "friend" is so spread out that it means nothing to them, or should i say their term "friend" simply means "acquaintance"... if you don't know what acquaintance is, Here's it (from Google):acquaintance 1. knowledge or experience of something.2. a person one knows slightly, but who is not a close friend. Been there done that... as long they are earning $ monthly from you (tru the policy from the company). They will be there, once you in short of money or got retrenched, they will just simply "disappear" or "too busy to go out with you or even reply" everytime you ask them for maybe a movie outing or just to grab a meal. I know, i might had offended those who's job is one of the few i mentioned. That is just my POV. Peace. Edited February 13, 2016 by ThePineapple
Guest Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 Yes he is definitely not interested in you but interested in having your business. Hence, there is no need to pursue this one-sided affair.
fab Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 3 hours ago, Guest Unsure said: Sorry, its me again. It has been about 3 months. I still initiate the chat on the app. And he still reply. Sometimes, when he took a long time to reply back he will even apologize. We have not met up again since our first encounter. To test the water, today, in the chat, I told him "kind of miss ya". His reply was "hahah". and followed by asking me some other questions. Is he just being so very nice?? not trying to hurt my feelings and switch to some other topics? I think he knows I liked him. Should I test further? Test how he is not into u at all? 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿
fab Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 26 minutes ago, Guest said: Alamak he may not be GAY ok! Pls dont give false hope. Even if he is gay, TS is apparently not his type. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿
darkflame Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 There is always this saying called, 'Don't shit where you eat'. I would prefer not to have anything personal to do with someone whom I have a business transaction with. Even if I have a crush on him. Because I will need someone who can advise me objectively. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me.
Guest Neha Posted May 24, 2017 Posted May 24, 2017 On 13/02/2016 at 8:11 PM, Guest Unsure said: Sorry, its me again. It has been about 3 months. I still initiate the chat on the app. And he still reply. Sometimes, when he took a long time to reply back he will even apologize. We have not met up again since our first encounter. To test the water, today, in the chat, I told him "kind of miss ya". His reply was "hahah". and followed by asking me some other questions. Is he just being so very nice?? not trying to hurt my feelings and switch to some other topics? I think he knows I liked him. Should I test further? He Is just being nice but the reality is the already moved on.
kaze Posted May 24, 2017 Posted May 24, 2017 you're just giving him headaches. stop.. just stop... he's being professional by replying to your questions.. please acknowledge that and stop bugging him. general rule of thumb, if the other guy is interested in you, he would initiate the chat at times.
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