jerseyboys Posted June 27, 2017 Report Share Posted June 27, 2017 happened to me last week: After chatting with me for half an hour, this smooth talker suggests we "Take things to the next level..." Hmm... i wonder what he means... ? Guy: Wanna Video chat on LINE with me ? Me: Nah... I'm shy, maybe next time. Guy: I like ur voice... I wanna see u... Me: Trust me... U don't wanna see me on LINE... anyway i look better in person !!! Guy: As i said before... I'm attracted to u & i don't care how u look... Let's video for a few minutes ... Me: ( By this time i am already weak at my knees after hearing this husky voice over my HP (using LINE) BELLOWING sirens like a wolf trying to get me to press the Video button on my App) Okay, Okay, Okay, You win! i will video-call u now... (The next 19 minutes of video-chat ends with a happy ending of more romantic exchanges btw him & me. Turns out... he looks buffer than his profile pic. Turns out... he looks more mature than his age... he looks hot on video & intentionally wears a tight fitting singlet as though trying to score points with me... ) Today i meetUp with this Guy, btw... Last week a Chinese Guy contributed to my "Top #10 MeetUp Nightmare List" & i was hoping today this guy will undo all damage i suffered last week... but i was wrong =( Guy appears.... Oh No! His profile pic in LINE showed him at age 27yo, now his face has aged so much... Seeing him on LINE during our video chat, he seemed symmetrical in his body shape & size... now seeing him person he was 2 heads taller than me... our Compatibility Ratio plummeted... What happened to that handsome Man i saw during that LINE-video-chat?!? Why is the real person standing in front of me so unlike what i saw that night... who was someone who looked so sexy on the screen of my Android... So there u have it... next time... even if Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is video-chatting with me on LINE... i will stick back to my SOP... pls send me a recent Face Pic of urself... & when i say Recent i mean LAST WEEK... J =( jimmylim_841 and barocco80 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
firefight Posted June 27, 2017 Report Share Posted June 27, 2017 Lol. Always have minus 30% expectations from what you see on digital screen then maybe it won't feel so bad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pusheenpika Posted June 27, 2017 Report Share Posted June 27, 2017 (edited) There there. Expectations are a bitch. Worst if you think you've an idea how he already looks like. Oddly, it's hard to look different on video and in person. There aren't any live beautifying filters for videos being implemented. Yet. Plus it's only the first "date". Take a chill pill and try again later. Starting off as friends really does ease things up a bit too (coming from someone who's single the past 3-4 years...maybe not such good advice) Edited June 27, 2017 by jarjarbinks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloopblo0p Posted June 27, 2017 Report Share Posted June 27, 2017 I'm curious what you did after meeting him. Left immediately? Sympathy meal? Or what Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted June 27, 2017 Report Share Posted June 27, 2017 That is why I think it is better to meet in person than online. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post abang Posted June 27, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 27, 2017 I chatted with an AMDK over Whatsapp for a couple of days before we decided to have a dinner date. However I was terribly sick and had to postpone it till the next Sunday. In the meantime, he was caring and asked about my condition daily. I had ZERO expectations before this blind date. We met and had a meal together. It was LIKE-at first sight. We chatted like old friends and the rest you can say, is history. Despite his busy schedule, he always find an hour to squeeze a short dinner together at the nearby coffee shops. It was good to establish that our meals should not cost more than SGD15 and we took turns to pay. We even took an evening stroll at Henderson Waves last weekend. Our agenda this week includes Pink Dot on Saturday and a walk to MacRitchie Treetop Walk this coming Sunday. So instead of withdrawing yourself from video chats or just chats, go with an open mind. Don't expect Mr. Suave or Mr Elegant to be present.. instead ask yourself, how good are you? Anyway, you are meeting a new person - anything goes.. Good luck. blowmenow, Sh3rlock, Takuya29 and 7 others 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dandan21 Posted June 27, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 27, 2017 I cannot believe you're basing your compatibility purely based on appearance. You said you had a nice time chatting with him, why is it any different than in person (Other than appearance wise?) (Unless of course this is a pure, sole NSA Hookup meetup) But if it was dates, friends etc, just wow. I think the nightmare would be on the guy, for scoring such a materialistic, narcissistic ego maniac like you Boyinbriefs, fallmerees, minkle and 4 others 7 Quote Freelance Reviewer Of AnythingMariah Carey Gif SpammerProbably the person you can talk to about anything x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post fallmerees Posted June 28, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 28, 2017 7 hours ago, dandan21 said: I cannot believe you're basing your compatibility purely based on appearance. You said you had a nice time chatting with him, why is it any different than in person (Other than appearance wise?) (Unless of course this is a pure, sole NSA Hookup meetup) But if it was dates, friends etc, just wow. I think the nightmare would be on the guy, for scoring such a materialistic, narcissistic ego maniac like you pusheenpika, dandan21, prud74 and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pusheenpika Posted June 28, 2017 Report Share Posted June 28, 2017 8 hours ago, abang said: I chatted with an AMDK over Whatsapp for a couple of days before we decided to have a dinner date. However I was terribly sick and had to postpone it till the next Sunday. In the meantime, he was caring and asked about my condition daily. I had ZERO expectations before this blind date. We met and had a meal together. It was LIKE-at first sight. We chatted like old friends and the rest you can say, is history. Despite his busy schedule, he always find an hour to squeeze a short dinner together at the nearby coffee shops. It was good to establish that our meals should not cost more than SGD15 and we took turns to pay. We even took an evening stroll at Henderson Waves last weekend. Our agenda this week includes Pink Dot on Saturday and a walk to MacRitchie Treetop Walk this coming Sunday. So instead of withdrawing yourself from video chats or just chats, go with an open mind. Don't expect Mr. Suave or Mr Elegant to be present.. instead ask yourself, how good are you? Anyway, you are meeting a new person - anything goes.. Good luck. This....this is really really sweet. Me likes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahb0yy91 Posted June 29, 2017 Report Share Posted June 29, 2017 On 6/27/2017 at 10:07 PM, jerseyboys said: happened to me last week: After chatting with me for half an hour, this smooth talker suggests we "Take things to the next level..." Hmm... i wonder what he means... ? Guy: Wanna Video chat on LINE with me ? Me: Nah... I'm shy, maybe next time. Guy: I like ur voice... I wanna see u... Me: Trust me... U don't wanna see me on LINE... anyway i look better in person !!! Guy: As i said before... I'm attracted to u & i don't care how u look... Let's video for a few minutes ... Me: ( By this time i am already weak at my knees after hearing this husky voice over my HP (using LINE) BELLOWING sirens like a wolf trying to get me to press the Video button on my App) Okay, Okay, Okay, You win! i will video-call u now... (The next 19 minutes of video-chat ends with a happy ending of more romantic exchanges btw him & me. Turns out... he looks buffer than his profile pic. Turns out... he looks more mature than his age... he looks hot on video & intentionally wears a tight fitting singlet as though trying to score points with me... ) Today i meetUp with this Guy, btw... Last week a Chinese Guy contributed to my "Top #10 MeetUp Nightmare List" & i was hoping today this guy will undo all damage i suffered last week... but i was wrong =( Guy appears.... Oh No! His profile pic in LINE showed him at age 27yo, now his face has aged so much... Seeing him on LINE during our video chat, he seemed symmetrical in his body shape & size... now seeing him person he was 2 heads taller than me... our Compatibility Ratio plummeted... What happened to that handsome Man i saw during that LINE-video-chat?!? Why is the real person standing in front of me so unlike what i saw that night... who was someone who looked so sexy on the screen of my Android... So there u have it... next time... even if Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is video-chatting with me on LINE... i will stick back to my SOP... pls send me a recent Face Pic of urself... & when i say Recent i mean LAST WEEK... J =( thats freaky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dynox Posted June 29, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 29, 2017 (edited) Dude what the fuck? He was nothing but sweet to you. So he doesn't look exactly like his picture, we all have that sometimes, some more than others. And so he's a lot shorter than you, shouldn't you have known about his height during the initial conversation of height is such an important attritibe? I initially thought this was gonna be funny or maybe a tragic story but this... this is disappointingly superficial. Sure expectations can bite us, but this is just being a bitch. It doesn't matter if you expressed these thoughts to him but the fact that you thought of them and shared it here (I don't even know what your purpose for this post is), does nothing but show the side of this community that gives us a terrible name... so i guess I got it right... this is tragic.. but just not the type of tragic I was expecting.. Edited June 29, 2017 by dynox ivanl, ctglobal, PhallusKnight and 5 others 7 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted June 29, 2017 Report Share Posted June 29, 2017 Once again, may I reiterate that the significance of meeting someone for the first time is to know a new person. Go with zero expectations - no, he may be less physically-enhanced but his personality may bowl you over. TS, what do you expect from a first meeting? Finding the love of your life immediately? Get real and get that notion out of your mind... you may have to kiss a thousand frogs in order to find a REAL prince! Ok my part with that AMDK... still meeting and still chatting via whatsapp daily. However I do not want to speculate that there is a future for developing the relationship.. just say, carpe diam. pusheenpika and Sh3rlock 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sh3rlock Posted June 30, 2017 Report Share Posted June 30, 2017 1 hour ago, abang said: Once again, may I reiterate that the significance of meeting someone for the first time is to know a new person. Go with zero expectations - no, he may be less physically-enhanced but his personality may bowl you over. TS, what do you expect from a first meeting? Finding the love of your life immediately? Get real and get that notion out of your mind... you may have to kiss a thousand frogs in order to find a REAL prince! Ok my part with that AMDK... still meeting and still chatting via whatsapp daily. However I do not want to speculate that there is a future for developing the relationship.. just say, carpe diam. That's carpe diem! Take it was a typo ;-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted June 30, 2017 Report Share Posted June 30, 2017 Thanks my typo...was not intended. Just remind me of that proverb,"A bird in hand is worth two in the bush"..so get to know the person, rather than give him the thumbs down because he does not match your expectations, especially in the looks department! Sh3rlock 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuckUSuckMe Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 (edited) On 28/06/2017 at 1:42 AM, doncoin said: That is why I think it is better to meet in person than online. I also think so... I want share my good experience in meeting a guy. I met up with "Married Guy" for a quick coffee. I dont know how he looks like as he has never shared any picture. I came with no expectation (i tried). When i saw him we just smiled at each other. A little awkward at first but after awhile we started talking like we have known each other for a long time. I will say that he is not movie star good looking but he good average look with average body. He is quite funny thats i why i think i kinda like him. He was the same in chat and in person. It so happened that there was an angmoh guy outside coffee bean with a younger asian guy. They were holding hands. So i tried to tease him by reaching my fingers to his hands then he just gave me big eyes and smilled as if saying "what are you doing?". Overall i had a great time. I asked him if i can send him back as i was driving. I think he knows i have other plans in the car (honestly i do). He politely declined. We still chat up to now and would love to see him again. Moral lesson here is to be open minded. Don't come with so much expectation then you will get really upset in the end. Edited January 22, 2018 by SuckUSuckMe blowmenow and TTDan 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Friendly Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 Go keybox and meet ppl there and make all the friends you want it’s better then chat online, vedio calls etc.. and then say u disappointed wtf. Get real. Look at yourself in the mirror first and ask what u can offer for friendship and not thinking about physical liking what u want and sex. I go keybox without expecting to have sex with anyone but to make new friends and share experience and learn anything from others. I quote it’s not where u are but with whom you are with. One needs to appreciate the friendship others willing to offer and be contented. And meeting someone does not mean u must have sex with him hor. Or he wants to have sex with u and for all u know he maybe more disappointed then you. Think about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 TS I think the issue is not w Line video, but w all sort of online or smart phone video right? Anyway, not everyone honestly share about themselves like I did a person Pmed me 2nd time(after so long) and a Sikh , and he didn't even bother to introduce himself again and he xpected me to rem who is he after so long and worst drop me a "Hey"! and expect me to do the next action? what m I to do w the next when I have to ask him who he was he cannot even give a good description of our past conversation, anything online has to be disccounted but TS is not trying to find a prince online, he has to set a meetup first online before he could phy meet them Seemed to see someone mentioned abt typo, and I don't know what is abit "buffer" https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/buffer : the correct definition I think u r trying to say that he is slightly buff than the ...... and the slang for muscular is buff Suck U mean he politely declined (not I) 2 hours ago, SuckUSuckMe said: I also think so... I want share my good experience in meeting a guy. I met up with "Married Guy" for a quick coffee. I dont know how he looks like as he has never shared any picture. I came with no expectation (i tried). When i saw him we just smiled at each other. A little awkward at first but after awhile we started talking like we have known each other for a long time. I will say that he is not movie star good looking but he good average look with average body. He is quite funny thats i why i think i kinda like him. He was the same in chat and in person. It so happened that there was an angmoh guy outside coffee bean with a younger asian guy. They were holding hands. So i tried to tease him by reaching my fingers to his hands then he just gave me big eyes and smilled as if saying "what are you doing?". Overall i had a great time. I asked him if i can send him back as i was driving. I think he knows i have other plans in the car (honestly i do). I politely declined. We still chat up to now and would love to see him again. Moral lesson here is to be open minded. Don't come with so much expectation then you will get really upset in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boydsg Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 On Tuesday, June 27, 2017 at 10:07 PM, jerseyboys said: happened to me last week: After chatting with me for half an hour, this smooth talker suggests we "Take things to the next level..." Hmm... i wonder what he means... ? Guy: Wanna Video chat on LINE with me ? Me: Nah... I'm shy, maybe next time. Guy: I like ur voice... I wanna see u... Me: Trust me... U don't wanna see me on LINE... anyway i look better in person !!! Guy: As i said before... I'm attracted to u & i don't care how u look... Let's video for a few minutes ... Me: ( By this time i am already weak at my knees after hearing this husky voice over my HP (using LINE) BELLOWING sirens like a wolf trying to get me to press the Video button on my App) Okay, Okay, Okay, You win! i will video-call u now... (The next 19 minutes of video-chat ends with a happy ending of more romantic exchanges btw him & me. Turns out... he looks buffer than his profile pic. Turns out... he looks more mature than his age... he looks hot on video & intentionally wears a tight fitting singlet as though trying to score points with me... ) Today i meetUp with this Guy, btw... Last week a Chinese Guy contributed to my "Top #10 MeetUp Nightmare List" & i was hoping today this guy will undo all damage i suffered last week... but i was wrong =( Guy appears.... Oh No! His profile pic in LINE showed him at age 27yo, now his face has aged so much... Seeing him on LINE during our video chat, he seemed symmetrical in his body shape & size... now seeing him person he was 2 heads taller than me... our Compatibility Ratio plummeted... What happened to that handsome Man i saw during that LINE-video-chat?!? Why is the real person standing in front of me so unlike what i saw that night... who was someone who looked so sexy on the screen of my Android... So there u have it... next time... even if Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is video-chatting with me on LINE... i will stick back to my SOP... pls send me a recent Face Pic of urself... & when i say Recent i mean LAST WEEK... J =( This is really troubling me. Video call and the person turned out to be diiferent in person ? How can it be possible? Maybe it's time to upgrade your phone. JK. Photos these days are heavily photoshopped. Video call should still be the most ideal way to "view" a person. No? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted January 29, 2018 Report Share Posted January 29, 2018 On 22/1/2018 at 6:47 PM, Boydsg said: This is really troubling me. Video call and the person turned out to be diiferent in person ? How can it be possible? Maybe it's time to upgrade your phone. JK. Photos these days are heavily photoshopped. Video call should still be the most ideal way to "view" a person. No? when a guy wear a cap can looked very diff after he removed it and the video call could just focus on the body too if not just the "face" from an angle, u cannot see how heavy he is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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