My long-time bf broke off with me

[Guest So Happy]

First thing first,  his dick is small and I am putting it up as a good bottom and didn't get the satisfaction I needed. Even when I sucked him,  the lenght of his dick didn't reach to the back tip of my throat.   2nd,  my other group of friends think we are not compatible,  because his hairstyle is weird like a mop.  3rd,  his dressing is not comparable to any occassion he was invited, poor dress sense.

 

We have been in relatonship for a number of years, and I still kept him because of my responsibility.  Now he decided to break up,  I felt a sense of fresh air and become free again.   I think I deserved a better man than him.

 

Don't blame me,  he is the one who initiated the break up, not me and all the above was kept secret from him.    I asked him why he wanted break up, he said my friends all look-down on him and because he is dark too.   He felt, difficult to blend into my social circle.  So break up.

 

My toe started to giggle. Luckily I am not a woman, otherwise will request for break-up monthly maintenance fee from him.

[Guest Disgusted]

I felt sorry for him to have a bf like you

[Chn_guy_sg]

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Edited August 14, 2017 by Chn_guy_sg
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[internaldisputes]

so basically if he didn't break up with you, you would have sucked his tiny dick for the rest of your life? that's some next level altruism right there man.

[Guest Hmm]

If he's not looking better or improving in his dress sense and stuff. Shouldn't u be partially responsible? 

When u get together with a person u will want the best for em .

[Wind_water_ice]

Freedom!~ 

[Alan88]

Not sure what is the purpose you posted here. No one is perfect. He can't change his dick length. Of course, you can change his hairstyle and dressing style if you want too. 

[Roy2017]

It happen too if it is girl or boy thing. As time goes the taste too change but if u can endure it or not is up to the person. 

Nowsaday nothing last long .

[Lonelyboy90]

seems like you longed for this breakup..

[cutejack]

2 minutes ago, Lonelyboy90 said:

seems like you longed for this breakup..

Hahahaaha.....

[Roy2017]

Dont feel sad one door closed the other one is open.Everyday is learning to all and too adapt n grow out of it. You wont get nice comment in here cos there is so call people with attitude around just never grow up. Sad reality but the truth is so painfull.

[iamziz]

Scary having TS as a partner. Unhappy in a relationship and when over, will air dirty laundry. As though he has no faults himself. Will he ever be happy? I doubt when a dick size not big enough for his ass. Possibly dumps everyone when the dick doesn't get hard no more.

 

Also probably as the ass gets loose, a big dick is small to the loose ass 

 

25 minutes ago, Lonelyboy90 said:

seems like you longed for this breakup..

 

And I second this

Edited August 13, 2017 by iamziz

[Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, Guest So Happy said:

First thing first,  his dick is small and I am putting it up as a good bottom and didn't get the satisfaction I needed. Even when I sucked him,  the lenght of his dick didn't reach to the back tip of my throat.   2nd,  my other group of friends think we are not compatible,  because his hairstyle is weird like a mop.  3rd,  his dressing is not comparable to any occassion he was invited, poor dress sense.

 

We have been in relatonship for a number of years, and I still kept him because of my responsibility.  Now he decided to break up,  I felt a sense of fresh air and become free again.   I think I deserved a better man than him.

 

Don't blame me,  he is the one who initiated the break up, not me and all the above was kept secret from him.    I asked him why he wanted break up, he said my friends all look-down on him and because he is dark too.   He felt, difficult to blend into my social circle.  So break up.

 

My toe started to giggle. Luckily I am not a woman, otherwise will request for break-up monthly maintenance fee from him.

 

Somehow, I am getting the feeling that you will still be unhappy even after you find someone with a longer dick to hit the back of your throat,  a person whom all your friends can accept, and a better dressed person. It's not even whether you deserve a better man than him. It's just that no man will ever be good enough for you. Good luck finding that person.

[Kimochi]

No wonder some guys get banged and sounded so hard and scream in pain, I guess its because of people like you ~

[Guest So Happy]

He fucked like no fuck liddat, and than cum all over my ass I also dunno.  He think the same laundry everyday save money and still looks good on him.  Cannot change the leopard.  Also his back-side is bigger than other people.  Aiyo, if he wanted to go, I let him, but I did treat him well everyday so he has nothing to lose and complain about.  I hope he find someone who can appreciate him while I focus on my life and do something else with lots of freedom now.

[Guest So Happy]

He initiated the break-up,  I granted. End of story.  Life goes on and I don't think I am going to be love-sick for him. He already fucked me many times, time for him to change partner or he probably already found one and I don't care how it went.   My priority now  is to take good care of my health, my family, my career, my hobby.  I am so happy now.

[Roy2017]

Well good for him cos he will regret make sure u dont open d door to welcome him back . He will get d same treatment he did to others.

If not  now will be soon and come back advertise himself seeking for a blow. There are many like tat in chat room pretending they themselve are clean and question others.

[Zackling]

all i can say is.. karma's a bitch & the world is round. what goes around will comes around.

[samdiggin]

so the point of this post...is to hereby announce your freedom and that you deserved so much better than who you chose to stick with?

 

[Nipoet]

6 hours ago, Guest So Happy said:

First thing first,  his dick is small and I am putting it up as a good bottom and didn't get the satisfaction I needed. Even when I sucked him,  the lenght of his dick didn't reach to the back tip of my throat.   2nd,  my other group of friends think we are not compatible,  because his hairstyle is weird like a mop.  3rd,  his dressing is not comparable to any occassion he was invited, poor dress sense.

 

We have been in relatonship for a number of years, and I still kept him because of my responsibility.  Now he decided to break up,  I felt a sense of fresh air and become free again.   I think I deserved a better man than him.

 

Don't blame me,  he is the one who initiated the break up, not me and all the above was kept secret from him.    I asked him why he wanted break up, he said my friends all look-down on him and because he is dark too.   He felt, difficult to blend into my social circle.  So break up.

 

My toe started to giggle. Luckily I am not a woman, otherwise will request for break-up monthly maintenance fee from him.

 

You sound happy, and is relieved that you didn't initiate the break-up, even though you don't really love him. What he said about your friends looking down on him, it seems that you guilty of part of it too. As your SO, shouldn't you have helped him blend in to your circle? 

 

I'm glad he got out of this relationship that wasn't suitable for him. I hope he finds a better boyfriend the next time round.

[Guest So Happy]

45 minutes ago, Nipoet said:

As your SO, shouldn't you have helped him blend in to your circle? 

 

I'm glad he got out of this relationship that wasn't suitable for him. I hope he finds a better boyfriend the next time round.

I am a free person, I don't like to force people to blend in  if they are not comfortable.  Also, he can do whatever he wanted, I don't like to be a control freak.   I am going to announce to my other group of friends tomorrow, and hopefully celebrate the sky's the oyster for me becoming an eligible bachelor again..... Yehhhhh!!!

[Firday]

i think u never love him at all from the beginning.

 

i m happy for you to find a release of freedom too.

 

hope the next guy won't end up with hairstyle issue and your circle of friend approval. 

 

most of my friend will never be happy contended for me because they are not my lover.

 

you dun need friend to consent about your lover characteristic or personalities at all.

 

if my best friend dun like him, i just ensure we don't go out on the same date that all.

 

well, i hope you are really happy as what you mean about the breakup.

 

 

 

 

 

[mate69]

attention-seeking troll twink lah

[snowball]

i believe that he is happy too 

 

 

 

[auscent]

If so jialat why u even stay in the relationship?

[iamziz]

“When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on-......--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfilment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.” 

― Tom Robbins

[bigdanbeam]

10 hours ago, snowball said:

i believe that he is happy too 

 

 

 

 

And the money spent

[HydroNaut]

22 hours ago, Guest So Happy said:

First thing first,  his dick is small and I am putting it up as a good bottom and didn't get the satisfaction I needed. Even when I sucked him,  the lenght of his dick didn't reach to the back tip of my throat.   2nd,  my other group of friends think we are not compatible,  because his hairstyle is weird like a mop.  3rd,  his dressing is not comparable to any occassion he was invited, poor dress sense.

 

We have been in relatonship for a number of years, and I still kept him because of my responsibility.  Now he decided to break up,  I felt a sense of fresh air and become free again.   I think I deserved a better man than him.

 

Don't blame me,  he is the one who initiated the break up, not me and all the above was kept secret from him.    I asked him why he wanted break up, he said my friends all look-down on him and because he is dark too.   He felt, difficult to blend into my social circle.  So break up.

 

My toe started to giggle. Luckily I am not a woman, otherwise will request for break-up monthly maintenance fee from him.

 

After all these you had said. I am just puzzled with all that "imperfections" in him why you attached to him in the first place? (When you first have sex with him before you got attached, you didn't know his dick was short and cannot satisfy you?)

 

Because of his money?

Or you will likely to tell me he pleaded you from Dubai all the way to Singapore lor.  

 

I really puzzled such a wicked bitchy you will be so "soft-hearted" to just commited yourself to a "undeserving" guy like you said. 

 

 

[suckmegood]

when "love" is absence in the relationship...

 

all i'm reading are the superficial stuff like "dick too small", "poor hairstyle", and "poor dress sense"... when things turned sour, no recollection of "he treats me well", "we went out for romantic dates".... etc. 

[gstringuy26]

23 hours ago, Guest So Happy said:

First thing first,  his dick is small and I am putting it up as a good bottom and didn't get the satisfaction I needed. Even when I sucked him,  the lenght of his dick didn't reach to the back tip of my throat.   2nd,  my other group of friends think we are not compatible,  because his hairstyle is weird like a mop.  3rd,  his dressing is not comparable to any occassion he was invited, poor dress sense.

 

We have been in relatonship for a number of years, and I still kept him because of my responsibility.  Now he decided to break up,  I felt a sense of fresh air and become free again.   I think I deserved a better man than him.

 

Don't blame me,  he is the one who initiated the break up, not me and all the above was kept secret from him.    I asked him why he wanted break up, he said my friends all look-down on him and because he is dark too.   He felt, difficult to blend into my social circle.  So break up.

 

My toe started to giggle. Luckily I am not a woman, otherwise will request for break-up monthly maintenance fee from him.

What made you stick with him for so long then? 

Edited August 14, 2017 by gstringuy26

[Guest So Happy]

2 hours ago, HydroNaut said:

 

After all these you had said. I am just puzzled with all that "imperfections" in him why you attached to him in the first place? (When you first have sex with him before you got attached, you didn't know his dick was short and cannot satisfy you?)

2 hours ago, gstringuy26 said:

What made you stick with him for so long then? 

 

14 hours ago, auscent said:

If so jialat why u even stay in the relationship?

 

16 hours ago, Firday said:

i think u never love him at all from the beginning.

 

 

OK, no more guessing.   After graduating from school, I was so full of dreams and fantasy of wanting a man.  Than he came along and my cinderalla dream came true whether his dick was big or  small  doesn't matter as long as he can fuck.  Of course, I felt happy and priviledged that he was my man and no one else.  He touched my hearts by driving me to work and sending me home and we were truly in love like the world was meant for us.  As I grew more matured and prettier with lots of exposure in life,  I have closed brushes with other handsome guys  the social circle thing.  I know that is not the right thing to think about that, and most of them were attracted to me.   But when I saw other men dick was so much bigger in the toilet, whether they are straight or gay,  I felt "shortchanged".  My heart tell me I deserved more than what I already have.   I was no longer the fresh & naive duckling out of school,  I am the beautiful female swan now and I deserve better lake to swim instead of the muddy puddle which I thought was my dreamed palace in the young days.    I tried to bring him to the lake, but my friends see him as a goose.  So ya, after a while he also felt we no longer match and initiated the break-up.  I hope he find his own goose to love.   In short,  my first love was an impulsive one before I was exposed to the world.  Looking back, I should have taken my time to look around.  It is not too late to realise it.

[Guest Guesto]

Are you posting this hoping that he will read it?

[Guest So Happy]

21 minutes ago, Guest Guesto said:

Are you posting this hoping that he will read it?

He won't know, because I never tell him the reasons about his small dick, funny hair and what else.  No point telling him since he initiated the breakup.  He read also don't know who wrote it.

[ZeeQ]

I see...  Dats why u broke up w me... 

Kidding 

10 minutes ago, Guest So Happy said:

He won't know, because I never tell him the reasons about his small dick, funny hair and what else.  No point telling him since he initiated the breakup.  He read also don't know who wrote it.

 

[HydroNaut]

4 hours ago, Guest So Happy said:

OK, no more guessing.   After graduating from school, I was so full of dreams and fantasy of wanting a man.  Than he came along and my cinderalla dream came true whether his dick was big or  small  doesn't matter as long as he can fuck.  Of course, I felt happy and priviledged that he was my man and no one else.  He touched my hearts by driving me to work and sending me home and we were truly in love like the world was meant for us.  As I grew more matured and prettier with lots of exposure in life,  I have closed brushes with other handsome guys  the social circle thing.  I know that is not the right thing to think about that, and most of them were attracted to me.   But when I saw other men dick was so much bigger in the toilet, whether they are straight or gay,  I felt "shortchanged".  My heart tell me I deserved more than what I already have.   I was no longer the fresh & naive duckling out of school,  I am the beautiful female swan now and I deserve better lake to swim instead of the muddy puddle which I thought was my dreamed palace in the young days.    I tried to bring him to the lake, but my friends see him as a goose.  So ya, after a while he also felt we no longer match and initiated the break-up.  I hope he find his own goose to love.   In short,  my first love was an impulsive one before I was exposed to the world.  Looking back, I should have taken my time to look around.  It is not too late to realise it.

 

Truly, i find you are just "materialized" by people around you and totally lost it. 

The way you put it.... please look further in years to come when you go aged and shaggy and when your bf started to pick on your short-comings.

 

I guess no point telling you what is Love, as the love in you is all about yourself now. Maybe look into the mirror and you will find exactly what you fancy and desire for now.

 

Good luck to your next romance and please take more time this time round...

 

 

 

[thorzguy]

Nobody is perfect.

And since both of you have broke off, I do not see the rationale of posting all your thoughts about him.

Are you truly happy for him? Are you truly happy yourself?

There are always bound to have "better" ones around. Endless comparisons. Focus on what you have and not what you do not have, yet.

Move on and wish him well. And all the best to your next partner.

[auscent]

6 hours ago, Guest So Happy said:

He touched my hearts by driving me to work and sending me home ...

 

Hmm...you will find 100 guys more handsome, 99 bigger dicks but frwer than 10 willing to drive u to work. Its ok u can go explore ur new life/freedom. We may be wrong.

[wantonmee]

You must fall in love w many cab, bus, train drivers then...

 

18 hours ago, Guest So Happy said:

He touched my hearts by driving me to work and sending me home

 

But seriously, nothing wrong with breaking up for (insert reasons), as absurd as they are. Just remember that your future bf will have the right to think he deserves better too.

[Guest :-(]

Blowingwind is not your rant diary, bitch! 

 

Stop wasting bandwidth and why are Mod sleeping on the job and not delete this totally useless thread for an attention seeker?

[snapplejacked2]

16 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

Blowingwind is not your rant diary, bitch! 

 

Stop wasting bandwidth and why are Mod sleeping on the job and not delete this totally useless thread for an attention seeker?

 

I find it ok. Keeps the rest of us alert and aware that such vapidness exists.

[Guest Strange]

2 hours ago, Guest :-( said:

Blowingwind is not your rant diary, bitch! 

 

Stop wasting bandwidth and why are Mod sleeping on the job and not delete this totally useless thread for an attention seeker?

This topic is very rare in BW,  because EVERY ONE has a sad broken relationship.  This one seems very UNUSUAL and a happy one.

[snowball]

there are many " princess " around, beware .