TwoChnBTMs Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 SINGAPORE - A 63-year-old man's sex abuse of his young grandson came to light after a seemingly ordinary conversation between the eight-year-old and his mother, who was reminding the boy to go to bed early. The woman told the boy that if he could not wake up the next morning, he would have to stay at home with his maternal grandfather while the rest of the family went out. This prompted the boy to confide in her that he did not want to be alone with his grandfather because the man had molested him. On Thursday (Feb 22), the man pleaded guilty in the High Court to one charge of molestation and one charge of aggravated sexual assault by penetration. Three other charges - one for molestation and two for showing a pornographic video to the boy - will be considered during sentencing. He cannot be named to protect the identity of the boy. The case has been adjourned to April 4 for mitigation and sentencing arguments. The boy was between seven and eight years old when he was abused by his grandfather between 2015 and 2016 in the family's four-room flat. One afternoon in early 2015, the man called the boy to his room and fondled him. When the family's domestic helper called for the boy, the man panicked. He told the boy to get dressed and warned him not to tell anyone what happened as it would "create problems" with his parents. In December that year, the man was sent to a drug rehabilitation centre. He was allowed to return to his family in September 2016. More than a week after he returned, on Sept 28, the man sexually violated the boy in his room while they were alone at home. He again warned the boy not to tell anyone what had happened. But the abuse was inadvertently revealed a month later, on Oct 22, when the boy's mother asked him to go to bed early. After the boy told her he was touched inappropriately by his grandfather, the woman confronted her father, who admitted his wrongdoing and sought her forgiveness. A police report was made the next day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 I saw many threads that which gays don't like cocks? many ganna slapped when they shared that they find penises ok , same for me too, a penis is just another body organ like a nose nothing special to fondle that much (of course if it is my own body , I m free to fondle it for achieving the final objectives of feeling high, not cos I luv cocks) if one is to carry such thinking around , it is dangerous esp when u aged u have lesser market and u may not b convenient to frequent saunas or cruise that much which straights don't like to fuck but they don't go around fucking or letting loose themselves it s ok to have love for certain items , but show some restraints I don't get what it meant by " sexually violated the boy"? the mum must have hated the father in law, no apologies can let him off! best chance to throw a 63yo into the bars for good (while the cane is spared) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Xxc Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 10 minutes ago, -Ignored- said: I don't get what it meant by " sexually violated the boy"? the mum must have hated the father in law, no apologies can let him off! best chance to throw a 63yo into the bars for good (while the cane is spared) Read properly, the woman confronted her father Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 4 minutes ago, Guest Xxc said: Read properly, the woman confronted her father yes, sir even worse loh, the mum must have hated her own father! no apology can help, dumping a 63 yo into the bars Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jellyfish and William poke Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 That is considered villian. But when I was a little boy, I was actually engross by Uncle TOP undress in knowing sexual identity. Though there is no molestation, it makes me realised that I had a neighbour whom too was half nude doing gardening. That is when I tends to feel fascinated and starting to get close to him by wearing my bicycle Lycra tights. Always Walking past the backyard to get sweets and food from provision shop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 Lady merciless. 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 Touching young boy is a sin be it stranger, Father, Grandfather, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 That's why it is called private part. Even father cannot anyhow touch. Only mother and maid can "molest" boy while showering him. Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funbunny Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 molest is molest, no matter which gender perpetrated it. gayboy2000 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Idiots Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 This pedo should be locked up for good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest johnsonklt Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 5 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said: Touching young boy is a sin be it stranger, Father, Grandfather, etc yes I fully & totally agreed. It is a greatest sin that can nv be forgiven no matter how many times to apologise. The worst of all the predator is fr within the family who suppose to protect the young ones. This is the saddest story and the most difficult moment for the mother of the child to report her own blood & flesh father to the police. That grandfather should be jailed& locked up for life till end of his life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 1 hour ago, johnsonklt said: yes I fully & totally agreed. It is a greatest sin that can nv be forgiven no matter how many times to apologise. The worst of all the predator is fr within the family who suppose to protect the young ones. This is the saddest story and the most difficult moment for the mother of the child to report her own blood & flesh father to the police. That grandfather should be jailed& locked up for life till end of his life. wow, sounds like a tough judge rem it is law , not emotions in reality, it is often emotions eg a wife ganna slapped and abused by husbd a trillion time she endured when she is determined to leave, the moment she learnt that she is pregnant, she endured again whenever the husbd (pretend to) cried and begged for forgiveness, she again falls into it that s the reality for this case, I trust the mum is sick and tired having a drug addict and she must have felt the Dad will repeat his mistakes again (once done is done, u cannot rewind it even though the person is jailed a decade for that) but if u think the person will repeat again , u will definitely call the police BTW, if a supermkt caught u shoplifting, they will give first time warning for first time offender(why r they so kind????? cos this is on the belief that u will nt do it again), 2nd time : repeat offender and yes, they have recognising machine tht can identify repeat offenders in the security room, 2nd time, police will be called for sure! hence something neutral must stand in between to "judge" (those who break up from a cheated affair is not less painful than being sexual assaulted - a lot of u shd hve experience......... but first time, u surely will not breakup w him when u learn abt the cheating esp he cheat on your best pal who is ordinary looking and one whom u tot will never be your opponent) However 2nd time or 3rd time, immed u will pack and go and then call the police that he borrowed money from u since 10 years ago n he hasn't returned though he signed on so many pieces of IOU......... the moment u learnt that a person will not repent, u will immed take action.......or u r sick and tired , u will take action (be it an adult supposed to care for the young ones or is a partner who vowed in a church to luv u forever and to struggle the life of Lgbt in sg w u) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camus Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 this is really sick and sad and will be further ammunition for the we are against pinkdot brigade Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 2 hours ago, johnsonklt said: yes I fully & totally agreed. It is a greatest sin that can nv be forgiven no matter how many times to apologise. The worst of all the predator is fr within the family who suppose to protect the young ones. This is the saddest story and the most difficult moment for the mother of the child to report her own blood & flesh father to the police. That grandfather should be jailed& locked up for life till end of his life. Bah! Where is the measuring stick to determine what is "the greatest sin"? It is easy to get carried away by emotions and feelings of nausea. If not a perfect measuring stick, sins could be graded by the amount of victimization they cause. In this case, if we ask the boy what would he prefer: to be molested by grandpa or to lose a leg, the boy surely would choose the molestation by grandpa. And if he is a straight when he grows up, he still will prefer to have sex with another man than to lose a leg. Therefore, to make a boy lose his leg should be a greater sin than to molest him. And an even greater sin should be to kill a child (or any innocent person) Some Christians consider that nothing is more repulsive to their god than homosexuality. Yet Christians have caused the death of so many people... who would have chosen homosexuality over death a thousand times... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 Don't be confused. This grandpa is straight and paedophile, the victim could be a girl too. Don't lump him as homosexual as in so many cases. Not fair to the community. barocco80 1 Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 1 hour ago, LeanMature said: Don't be confused. This grandpa is straight and paedophile, the victim could be a girl too. Don't lump him as homosexual as in so many cases. Not fair to the community. Erm... the article clearly mentioned “His grandson”, “his mother” and “reminding the boy to go to bed early” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 7 hours ago, LeanMature said: That's why it is called private part. Even father cannot anyhow touch. Only mother and maid can "molest" boy while showering him. Father can shower baby boy or young boy la Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camus Posted February 24, 2018 Report Share Posted February 24, 2018 10 hours ago, LeanMature said: Don't be confused. This grandpa is straight and paedophile, the victim could be a girl too. Don't lump him as homosexual as in so many cases. Not fair to the community. unfortunately those WAAPD won't see it that way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoChnBTMs Posted February 24, 2018 Author Report Share Posted February 24, 2018 14 hours ago, LeanMature said: Don't be confused. This grandpa is straight and paedophile, the victim could be a girl too. Don't lump him as homosexual as in so many cases. Not fair to the community. This prompted the boy to confide in her that he did not want to be alone with his grandfather because the man had molested him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Huney huney Posted February 24, 2018 Report Share Posted February 24, 2018 WAAPD insisting gays marry the opposite sex will result in more papas, grandpapas, and great grandpapas molesting their own sons and descendents. Clearly, WAAPD are a bunch of inbreds! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 24, 2018 Report Share Posted February 24, 2018 2 hours ago, Guest Huney huney said: WAAPD insisting gays marry the opposite sex will result in more papas, grandpapas, and great grandpapas molesting their own sons and descendents. Clearly, WAAPD are a bunch of inbreds! So what does Waapd want? On one hand they r against gays marriage, on the other they r against gay marrying women. 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 24, 2018 Report Share Posted February 24, 2018 13 hours ago, fab said: So what does Waapd want? On one hand they r against gays marriage, on the other they r against gay marrying women. Their goal could be to have an attentive outlet for their bigotry, ignorance, prejudiced thinking. Or maybe they just don't like the color pink? Anyone who makes gay husbands married to women a potential threat of molestation of their male children, ignores how rampant is the case of straight husbands married to women molesting their FEMALE children. It is especially common straight men molesting their stepdaughters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted February 24, 2018 Report Share Posted February 24, 2018 Aiyoh. That grandfather needs to be counselled and most probably, kept away from young boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Incidious Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 9 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Their goal could be to have an attentive outlet for their bigotry, ignorance, prejudiced thinking. Or maybe they just don't like the color pink? Anyone who makes gay husbands married to women a potential threat of molestation of their male children, ignores how rampant is the case of straight husbands married to women molesting their FEMALE children. It is especially common straight men molesting their stepdaughters. I mean some of these guys who had married women out of fear and need to hide their sexual identity will redirect their lust unto boys because technically they are more easily manipulated and cowed into silence than adult men. Makes sense? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 5 hours ago, Guest Incidious said: I mean some of these guys who had married women out of fear and need to hide their sexual identity will redirect their lust unto boys because technically they are more easily manipulated and cowed into silence than adult men. Makes sense? I don't think so. If these guys molest children, it is because they lust for children, not because children are more easily manipulated. Pedophiles may not be interested in adult men, otherwise they could find them and manipulate them as easily as children, with much less risk. lovehandle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Secretary Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 6 hours ago, Steve5380 said: I don't think so. If these guys molest children, it is because they lust for children, not because children are more easily manipulated. Pedophiles may not be interested in adult men, otherwise they could find them and manipulate them as easily as children, with much less risk. Those are are the true blue paedophiles. There’s another type who goes for boys because men are more inaccessible. That’s situational paedophiles for ya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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