Theojazz Posted September 20, 2018 Report Share Posted September 20, 2018 He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. Boydsg 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted September 20, 2018 Report Share Posted September 20, 2018 2 hours ago, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. If he truly loves you, he won't force you to do things you don't want to. And if you truly loves him, you would have gladly please him. So, it's pretty obvious, you don't love him and he don't love you. Go and find someone that you truly love and deserve. sum1outhere_03, nicjude, treebottom and 1 other 1 3 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 20, 2018 Report Share Posted September 20, 2018 3 hours ago, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. Stay firm in your refusal to be fucked, but kindly explain to him your motives. He should NOT insist in doing to you something that causes you pain, no matter how horny he is. There are other ways to orgasm. It is perfectly reasonable for a gay to not want to engage in anal sex. Have you explored the possibility of having an open relationship? Where your mutual love can be decoupled from the necessities of sex? Would you accept that he finds willing bottoms to fuck? If so, there remains the issue of STDs and how he can avoid contracting them from unknown bottoms, and you be protected if he does. Yas1950 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted September 20, 2018 Report Share Posted September 20, 2018 Anal sex is one of the most intimate sexual acts between a couple. So, if you're not ready, you're not ready. There are plenty of discussions on BW on getting ready for anal. Go read them to prep yourself. It is a mental and to some degree emotional thing. So do what makes you feel comfortable. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Gay Sex Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 7 hours ago, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. There is always a first time. I think even a cunt feels pain on their first penetration too. At some point in your life, you will still be fucked (no pun intended), if not now for the love of your life, than when? Tell your husband to give you some time while you practice on a dildo quietly. Yes! go get yourself a dildo, plant it firmly on your toilet seat and apply soap over it and give yourself a good painless screw, at your own time own target, during bath hour. Initially, it may feels uncomfortably like shitting, but, hey you are in the bath room having a shower, so why worry about the shitting feelings right? By 2nd month (after a few dildo-penetration) you will be loosen up and more ready for the real thing. Based on experience, you might just become and expert of guiding your husband's dick into your ass, treating it like your regular dildo play, but now it is a real thing. He happy, you happy. Enjoy!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 Be warned, anal sex can be addictive....yes first time pain and bleed is common and maybe only half fuck, second time u will be more comfortable and try a three-quarter insertion, then slowly progress from there to a full fuck and once u r used to it, u might be the one who ask him to fuck u every night, love him is to sacrifice for him. Yas1950 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theojazz Posted September 21, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 Thanks for the replies,yeah I will talk to him like heart2heart.i love him and I know that he loves me so much,hoping all will be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seasoned Bottom Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 3 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Be warned, anal sex can be addictive....yes first time pain and bleed is common and maybe only half fuck, second time u will be more comfortable Don't remind me. I was a virgin, afraid of this and that. But now I need to get rehab to kill the addiction. Otherwise, everyday think of getting fuck, real hard behind, and use force on the TOP if necessary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest duh Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 True love does not necessary need to include sex, you know. It transcends anal fucking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 (edited) 5 hours ago, Guest Seasoned Bottom said: Don't remind me. I was a virgin, afraid of this and that. But now I need to get rehab to kill the addiction. Otherwise, everyday think of getting fuck, real hard behind, and use force on the TOP if necessary. Really ??? I'm surprised. With only ONE experience, I struck bottoming forever from my activities. And so, I have never missed it. It did join a list of other activities, like smoking (gave up 40 years ago), alcohol, drugs (never did any except marijuana), gambling (never did), and so I'm making it happily to old age. One more reason for @Theojazz to reserve his behind exclusively for its normal function. . Edited September 21, 2018 by Steve5380 Yas1950 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theojazz Posted September 21, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 hahahaha yeah absolutely! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilfgene Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 23 hours ago, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. Think of it this way, for the sake of his health, your anus had better not be tighter than his grip. Yet, it is the pleasure from your penis that is unattainable through any woman or by himself. So, no public castration or shortening, please. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 Omg you're going to die as a virgin It's just sex, take it as a form of exercise for both of you to sweat it out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 21, 2018 Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 3 hours ago, wilfgene said: Think of it this way, for the sake of his health, your anus had better not be tighter than his grip. Yet, it is the pleasure from your penis that is unattainable through any woman or by himself. So, no public castration or shortening, please. . Aren't there in the market some plastic vaginas that can be adjusted to any tightness? If not, maybe a big vise with a cylindrical insert could provide the desired pressure? 1 hour ago, Guest Blank said: Omg you're going to die as a virgin It's just sex, take it as a form of exercise for both of you to sweat it out Virginity ends with so much good sex that doesn't include the anus.... Better to sweat it out in a gym! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest whitneee Posted September 22, 2018 Report Share Posted September 22, 2018 12 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Really ??? I'm surprised. With only ONE experience, I struck bottoming forever from my activities. And so, I have never missed it. It did join a list of other activities, like smoking (gave up 40 years ago), alcohol, drugs (never did any except marijuana), gambling (never did), and so I'm making it happily to old age. One more reason for @Theojazz to reserve his behind exclusively for its normal function. . Yes , tight ass, we know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest makoto Posted September 22, 2018 Report Share Posted September 22, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 1:16 PM, lonelyglobe said: Be warned, anal sex can be addictive....yes first time pain and bleed is common and maybe only half fuck, second time u will be more comfortable and try a three-quarter insertion, then slowly progress from there to a full fuck and once u r used to it, u might be the one who ask him to fuck u every night, love him is to sacrifice for him. あなる 中毒 です。 欲摆不能 です Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 23, 2018 Report Share Posted September 23, 2018 On 9/22/2018 at 12:42 AM, Guest makoto said: あなる 中毒 です。 欲摆不能 です I would also be unwilling. And he writes: "love him is to sacrifice for him" Very true, but to give one's behind to him is not the proper "sacrifice", haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 24, 2018 Report Share Posted September 24, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 1:54 AM, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. Have u tried top position? Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilfgene Posted September 24, 2018 Report Share Posted September 24, 2018 On 9/22/2018 at 1:55 AM, wilfgene said: Think of it this way, for the sake of his health, your anus had better not be tighter than his grip. Yet, it is the pleasure from your penis that is unattainable through any woman or by himself. So, no public castration or shortening, please. . On 9/22/2018 at 5:27 AM, Steve5380 said: Aren't there in the market some plastic vaginas that can be adjusted to any tightness? If not, maybe a big vise with a cylindrical insert could provide the desired pressure? ALL of them maintained their erections while you fucked them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest whitness Posted September 25, 2018 Report Share Posted September 25, 2018 On 9/24/2018 at 5:52 AM, Steve5380 said: I would also be unwilling. And he writes: "love him is to sacrifice for him" Very true, but to give one's behind to him is not the proper "sacrifice", haha. li gorng see mi larn, ang moh larng. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Steve 5080 Posted September 25, 2018 Report Share Posted September 25, 2018 On 9/24/2018 at 1:29 PM, wilfgene said: ALL of them maintained their erections while you fucked them Yes, especially the big vise with cylindrical insert maintained its erection. And it does not get tired of getting fucked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted September 26, 2018 Report Share Posted September 26, 2018 You should at least try? U can always stop when it gets too unbearable for you. More often than not, things turn out not as bad as one fears. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 26, 2018 Report Share Posted September 26, 2018 (edited) most people are selfish, they like to say that they love a lot but only know how to take and without giving, the best thing they are good at it just claimed that " if he love me he should respect me " etc, well, so when he found some guy better, then just don't blame him and respect his decision, no? or both can flip flop and take turns to fuck each other, fair enough. Edited September 26, 2018 by snowball Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest marry first hor Posted September 26, 2018 Report Share Posted September 26, 2018 meet parents already or not? haven't marry yet right? although we are gays cant get married but at least wait until u all buy ring first ba. cannot so anyhow leh. can only give to husband okay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Master Posted September 26, 2018 Report Share Posted September 26, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 1:54 AM, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. You must do everything he says!!! Just remember: Full compliance and total submission!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SeaShell Posted September 27, 2018 Report Share Posted September 27, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 1:54 AM, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. You are so self-fish. You take his frontal, and yet you reject giving him your behind. So selfish. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest John Posted September 27, 2018 Report Share Posted September 27, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 1:54 AM, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. How come towards strangers like us, u can be so frank and to him , your lover for 2 years u cant ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Macho Posted September 27, 2018 Report Share Posted September 27, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 9:42 PM, Steve5380 said: Really ??? I'm surprised. With only ONE experience, I struck bottoming forever from my activities. And so, I have never missed it. It did join a list of other activities, like smoking (gave up 40 years ago), alcohol, drugs (never did any except marijuana), gambling (never did), and so I'm making it happily to old age. One more reason for @Theojazz to reserve his behind exclusively for its normal function. . That's because you like to fuck those girly Thai boys. So you associate bottoms as weak sissies who are easily bullied. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mmmmmmnnnnnnooooppp Posted September 27, 2018 Report Share Posted September 27, 2018 7 minutes ago, Guest Macho said: That's because you like to fuck those girly Thai boys. So you associate bottoms as weak sissies who are easily bullied. hahahahahahahaa...... really give it to this lao ang moh..... or even kei ang mohwho knows.... 假 红 毛 榴莲 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 27, 2018 Report Share Posted September 27, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 1:54 AM, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. To begin with, r u a btm? Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fallmerees Posted September 27, 2018 Report Share Posted September 27, 2018 lol some of these replies are not helpful at all ... I'm guessing you guys have talked about it? If not, you should be very honest about how you feel. Like what about anal makes you scared? Are you scared of the pain or it's more than just that? Have you experimented with toys? See how it feels. Some people are more emotional than physical so it depends... Talk about whether anal is very important in your relationship. If it's not, then I feel like that there are still ways for you to still be intimate with your partner because anal isn't everything tbh but then that's my opinion haha. But I'm guessing it doesn't really play a big role since you guys have been together for 2 years. That's amazing tbh. Anywho... good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted September 27, 2018 Report Share Posted September 27, 2018 I can't help but wonder if you are being a tad anal retentive about this backyard activity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnglesnDemons Posted September 28, 2018 Report Share Posted September 28, 2018 Let's break this down as objectively as possible. You should try and know/make clear to yourself what your sexual requirements/ objectives are. Once you know what you want from a relationship that has a sexual aspect, ask yourself if your partner is fulfilling you and you can fulfill that partner. If you are communicating all of this, your expectations and requirements clearly to your partner and he insists either on not listening to you, not paying attention to your wants and desires, or just plain is an asshole about it, maybe your relationship isn't on good grounds actually. Time spent on a relationship isn't necessarily a good indicator of the strength of a relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theojazz Posted October 5, 2018 Author Report Share Posted October 5, 2018 Appreciate all that ... Well we've talk already about that matter.. and my decision is I will give it to him when I'm ready physical and emotional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glider Posted October 5, 2018 Report Share Posted October 5, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 3:13 AM, GachiMuchi said: If he truly loves you, he won't force you to do things you don't want to. And if you truly loves him, you would have gladly please him. So, it's pretty obvious, you don't love him and he don't love you. Go and find someone that you truly love and deserve. sex is not the only element in love Quote 留人间多少爱 迎浮也千变 和有情人做快乐的事 莫问是劫是缘 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 5, 2018 Report Share Posted October 5, 2018 On 9/21/2018 at 1:54 AM, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. Do not worry. Just tell him that you are a law abiding citizen and because of 377a, you cannot give him your ka ching kang. If he is a law abiding citizen he will understand and support you. If he does not, ment that he is a paw breaker and you should strongly reconsider your relationship with a law breaker. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Body Posted October 6, 2018 Report Share Posted October 6, 2018 Hello, its your body ok.... if you don't want to give its up to you. If he cannot accept it then you have to find someone new la....Please respect your own body and own emotions first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yas1950 Posted October 6, 2018 Report Share Posted October 6, 2018 On 10/5/2018 at 8:36 PM, Theojazz said: Appreciate all that ... Well we've talk already about that matter.. and my decision is I will give it to him when I'm ready physical and emotional. Good on you. Hope your partner is on the same page as you are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted October 7, 2018 Report Share Posted October 7, 2018 On Friday, October 05, 2018 at 10:14 PM, glider said: sex is not the only element in love But is an inmportant element in gay love.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted October 7, 2018 Report Share Posted October 7, 2018 On Friday, October 05, 2018 at 10:20 PM, Guest Guest said: Do not worry. Just tell him that you are a law abiding citizen and because of 377a, you cannot give him your ka ching kang. If he is a law abiding citizen he will understand and support you. If he does not, ment that he is a paw breaker and you should strongly reconsider your relationship with a law breaker. Then dont take it as a ka ching kang, take it as a man's cb ok? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glider Posted October 7, 2018 Report Share Posted October 7, 2018 9 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: But is an inmportant element in gay love.... yes, but love without sex do exist, gay or not Quote 留人间多少爱 迎浮也千变 和有情人做快乐的事 莫问是劫是缘 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Atsuine Posted October 9, 2019 Report Share Posted October 9, 2019 On 9/21/2018 at 1:54 AM, Theojazz said: He wants to fuck me,we've been together now for 2 years now,we kiss we hug and do things what a normal lovers do, except fucking I love him but I'm not ready to give my behind to him,I'm scared because I know it will be painful please guys I need ur advice. How was it? Did you do it already? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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