Swindonlad Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 So many things wrong with our meet, I don't know where to start. You taking drugs before you came here was not fair to me, you didn't tell me you were going to and you took away my chance to say I didn't want to hook up someone that was high. By the time I realized you were on stuff you were already finding it difficult to comprehend what was going on. Think of the stress and fear you caused me when you stopped being coherent and passed out sweating. Think about the choice I had to make on your behalf, do I let you lay there and sleep it off, or do I call an ambulance because I don't know if you're going to stop breathing. Think of the risk you put me under having to call an ambulance and and them come in to find a guy passed out on my bed in a jock strap and a cock ring. Think about the risk you put yourself in, what if I was evil and decided instead of an ambulance I call around a bunch of friends to fuck you, guys like that exist out there. I hope you're ok, I hope the hospital staff treated you well and you're now at home recovering, but if you are, take the time to think about how badly last night could have gone, and for what reason? Gene T, Balestier and yuquidam 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quickflightout Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 Sounds like a disaster... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivan Lim Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 Yikes! that's scary! I hope everything is okay for you :O Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gene T Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 (edited) Hot Edited December 16, 2018 by Gene T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindonlad Posted December 16, 2018 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 1 hour ago, quickflightout said: Sounds like a disaster... I'm just glad it wasn't worse, it could easily have been worse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindonlad Posted December 16, 2018 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 18 minutes ago, Ivan Lim said: Yikes! that's scary! I hope everything is okay for you :O I'm OK now thanks, a little emotionally hung over, but doing fine. Hopefully he is too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivan Lim Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 12 minutes ago, Swindonlad said: I'm OK now thanks, a little emotionally hung over, but doing fine. Hopefully he is too that's good to know Swindonlad 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raywongx Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 I’m sorry to hear that you had this bad experience, but it’s good to know that you did the responsible thing rather than just chuck him out the door. A friend of mine died probably because of an adverse reaction to drugs, but his partners (yes, there was more than one) didn’t do anything about it until he was gone. Take care, brother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 Say no to drugs. And promiscuity. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindonlad Posted December 16, 2018 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 28 minutes ago, Raywongx said: I’m sorry to hear that you had this bad experience, but it’s good to know that you did the responsible thing rather than just chuck him out the door. A friend of mine died probably because of an adverse reaction to drugs, but his partners (yes, there was more than one) didn’t do anything about it until he was gone. Take care, brother. That's awful, I'm so sorry to hear you lost your friend because of other peoples stupidity and cowardice, that's the worst reason for loss of a life. hugs Raywongx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swindonlad Posted December 16, 2018 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 1 minute ago, fab said: Say no to drugs. And promiscuity. Not sure I can agree with promiscuity hahaha, but definitely say no to drugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kjboy Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 (edited) 8 hours ago, Swindonlad said: So many things wrong with our meet, I don't know where to start. You taking drugs before you came here was not fair to me, you didn't tell me you were going to and you took away my chance to say I didn't want to hook up someone that was high. By the time I realized you were on stuff you were already finding it difficult to comprehend what was going on. Think of the stress and fear you caused me when you stopped being coherent and passed out sweating. Think about the choice I had to make on your behalf, do I let you lay there and sleep it off, or do I call an ambulance because I don't know if you're going to stop breathing. Think of the risk you put me under having to call an ambulance and and them come in to find a guy passed out on my bed in a jock strap and a cock ring. Think about the risk you put yourself in, what if I was evil and decided instead of an ambulance I call around a bunch of friends to fuck you, guys like that exist out there. I hope you're ok, I hope the hospital staff treated you well and you're now at home recovering, but if you are, take the time to think about how badly last night could have gone, and for what reason? Yes, I met someone who sweaty recently. I suspect they are on drug before meet me. Thanks for your advice. Never expect I might encounter this in the future. Edited December 16, 2018 by kjboy Swindonlad 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naked Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 OMG , hope you and your friend is fine . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted December 17, 2018 Report Share Posted December 17, 2018 (edited) . Edited July 24, 2020 by yuquidam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyc Posted December 17, 2018 Report Share Posted December 17, 2018 Many time in the heat of things we tend to use the wrong head to think. Very unfortunate about your encounter but glad you were firmly rooted and make a better decision. I tried envisage myself in your position and chill at the thot of it. It's also good that you highlighted this as it can happen to any of us. Play safe and I hope the guy who cause this didn't end up with more troubles but be aware of what consequences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indfun1 Posted December 17, 2018 Report Share Posted December 17, 2018 thank you for sharing this experience.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlyfunp Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 just wonder whether the hospital would call in the police or make a report if the source of problems derived from drugs? Had the experience too before that the guy was on drugs when he came to my place, after he started contacting other potential guys to have fun with at my place, I asked him to leave. Which he did. I don't know why so many guys need drugs nowadays to do fun. but just wonder on the averse reactions if someone was sent to a hospital due do a drug problem... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlyfunp Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 forgot to add just now: a friend of mine got into serious trouble when a guy died in his bed due to fake Viagra. As he was Malaysian he had to leave the country later on, lost his job here and so on. so even these dick boosters can pose problems. The sex partner was just early 30s, but it was the fake tablet that caused his death ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justanotherme Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 Hope that guy is alive and well enough to face the law. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SebastianXu Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 Scary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 (edited) On 12/15/2018 at 6:46 PM, Swindonlad said: So many things wrong with our meet, I don't know where to start. My respect to you for having been courageous and having sought help for the guy that passed out at your place. Hopefully you see an advantage in meeting for the first time at a neutral place, like a gay sauna or hotel room. (even at an hotel room one cannot leave the guy behind, but in a gay sauna the establishment would take care of him) . Edited December 18, 2018 by Steve5380 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted December 19, 2018 Report Share Posted December 19, 2018 On 12/16/2018 at 8:46 AM, Swindonlad said: So many things wrong with our meet, I don't know where to start. You taking drugs before you came here was not fair to me, you didn't tell me you were going to and you took away my chance to say I didn't want to hook up someone that was high. By the time I realized you were on stuff you were already finding it difficult to comprehend what was going on. Think of the stress and fear you caused me when you stopped being coherent and passed out sweating. Think about the choice I had to make on your behalf, do I let you lay there and sleep it off, or do I call an ambulance because I don't know if you're going to stop breathing. Think of the risk you put me under having to call an ambulance and and them come in to find a guy passed out on my bed in a jock strap and a cock ring. Think about the risk you put yourself in, what if I was evil and decided instead of an ambulance I call around a bunch of friends to fuck you, guys like that exist out there. I hope you're ok, I hope the hospital staff treated you well and you're now at home recovering, but if you are, take the time to think about how badly last night could have gone, and for what reason? Thankfully you are safe and alright. I had a bad encounter before - that person simply KO. His behavior was weird from the beginning and my ex buddy and I (it was a 3some session) noticed it when he arrived. My ex buddy was nice enough to let that fellow sleep thru. I mean, he can just throw him out of the place, literally. The only thing we knew he was alive was that he was snoring. When he woke up the next morning, he admitted that he had taken some stuff before coming over. WTF right... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heman Posted December 21, 2018 Report Share Posted December 21, 2018 i felt so scary reading your experience. Need to be extra careful before admitting any stranger in your abode. I am glad nothing tragic happens otherwise it will be a police matter. Swindonlad 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dispatty Posted December 23, 2018 Report Share Posted December 23, 2018 On 12/18/2018 at 7:00 PM, mlyfunp said: just wonder whether the hospital would call in the police or make a report if the source of problems derived from drugs? Had the experience too before that the guy was on drugs when he came to my place, after he started contacting other potential guys to have fun with at my place, I asked him to leave. Which he did. I don't know why so many guys need drugs nowadays to do fun. but just wonder on the averse reactions if someone was sent to a hospital due do a drug problem... yes the hospital will inform the police. the guy should be in jail now or soon for the next year or months ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clement_c Posted June 9, 2019 Report Share Posted June 9, 2019 (edited) I was drugged years back...blindfolded and someone put ice in me... Few years down the road, met someone that said want to date me but was just a sex scam that want to f me when i am drugged. I stayed in those dark times for around a year. I am clean now but i am tainted. Really hope people stop judging someone just because of their past. Really hope i can find my soul mate that embrace the beauty and ugly part of me. Edited June 9, 2019 by clement_c Swindonlad, Justbear and Alponsu 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted June 11, 2019 Report Share Posted June 11, 2019 (edited) On 6/9/2019 at 1:50 AM, clement_c said: I was drugged years back...blindfolded and someone put ice in me... Few years down the road, met someone that said want to date me but was just a sex scam that want to f me when i am drugged. I stayed in those dark times for around a year. I am clean now but i am tainted. Really hope people stop judging someone just because of their past. Really hope i can find my soul mate that embrace the beauty and ugly part of me. Be confident that the influence of the past on our present and future, decays with time until it becomes nearly negligible. And you can make that "tainted" in you disappear faster if it is something mental rather than physical and you let it be less and less important. You don't even need to be as old as I am (in my 70s) for the distant past to exist nowhere else but in your head. And this happens even in the physical: I was a smoker when I was young, and a doctor told me that some damage to my lungs would be permanent. Nonsense! Now after many decades since I quit, my lungs are perfect Let a soul mate embrace the beautiful in you, and keep the ugly to yourself in a memory that keeps vanishing. . Edited June 11, 2019 by Steve5380 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted June 12, 2019 Report Share Posted June 12, 2019 (edited) On 12/19/2018 at 1:29 PM, thorzguy said: Thankfully you are safe and alright. ...ight... invite me next time Edited June 12, 2019 by Garyl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted June 12, 2019 Report Share Posted June 12, 2019 7 hours ago, Garyl said: invite me next time Hahaha... Those were the days. Garyl 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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