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Or you can tell us you are gay. We wouldnt look down on you. just kidding

The question is ''Is it necessary for them to know?" Many gay men create their own life dramas in desperation to come out hence opening doors to unnecessary stress. Would be nice to be able to come out but knowing how Asian culture works, study the pros and cons in your family context. Not all families are the same and one shouldn't blanket general coming out style to everyone. Just my 2cents.

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Does anyone recognise where this scenes come from? Which title and company? http://asianmusclemaster.tumblr.com/post/74114833058/asian-muscle-stud-in-his-first-hardcore-breeding http://asianmusclemaster.tumblr.com/post/74413875878/asian-muscle-stud-in-his-first-hardcore-breeding

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I went there the other day, I am very disappointed and disgusted - it's completely run-down and dirty, like....very dirty. I don't recommend anyone to go there unless you really want to see for yourself, please go ahead.

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Any chn guys wanna bj me? I'm bi 30 chn 170 68.

Thats an easy question to ask - but isnt it really pointless? U can do absolutely nothing about those other guys. In any case, can u b sure they r as happy n as successful in their own minds as u think they r? Being jealous of them will only add to ur bad feelings. Jealousy is such an utterly insidious emotion. It eats away at ur mind, burrowing into it like an infected worm. If u r not careful, it will consume u n all ur thoughts. We r each of us in charge of our own lives n our own reality. Instead of looking at others, pls take a much closer look at ur own. Our own happiness n our own success is within our own grasp. We may not earn as much as that rich guy in his big mansion, but happiness shld not b measured by the richest, cutest, biggest labels. All our lives can b rich n hugely fulfilling - but that is up to each of us - not others!

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Happiness is something we have to work on. It rarely happens 'naturally'. In the beginning we think that happiness depends on what we achieve, either by our work or by good luck. But achievements are no guarantee of happiness. It seems that this becomes more evident in later years. Achievements are enjoyed when they happen, but their influence may vanish. The best is to cultivate happiness as a state of mind, a little detached from our reality. What we see in older folks is that they seem to be much happier than we think they have reasons for. This is because they have learned to CULTIVATE their happiness. The best we can do to prepare for old age is to stay healthy. Second best is to see that we will have an income that will satisfy our needs. Beyond this, we should have confidence that if we are healthy and have the necessary means when we get old, we will find the way to make us happy. Relationship or not, sex or not, It's mostly in the mind.

The 7 big problems gay men have with gay men In new film 20MALEGAYNYC, gay New Yorkers explain why they don’t identify with other gay men – here the director examines the top seven reasons 22 OCTOBER 2013 | BY BLAKE PRUITT My new short film 20MALEGAYNYC examines why many gay men are no longer identifying with gay culture in New York. So here’s my take on their top seven complaints. ‘Lady Gaga is a straight woman who has co-opted gay culture because it works for her.’ A lot of gay men look to strong women as role models. This is great. Women are great role models. I’d be nothing without Beyoncé (except $220 richer come this December’s concert). But we also need more strong gay male role models – and not necessarily famous ones. A lot of young gay men are dismissive of older gays, and vice versa, but we all have a lot to learn from one another. Younger gays can learn a lot about self-acceptance and, consequently, acceptance of others from men who’ve been doing so since before we were born. ‘If you were to just say gay guys, an image pops into my head that I’m not so fond of.’ When we talk about ‘annoying gay men’ or hating a stereotype, we’re really talking about the way a gay man is expressing his gender, not his sexuality. Most homophobes, gay or not, don’t care as much about a man having sex with another man as the typically feminine characteristics he displays. Yes, there are obviously still too many people who take issue with homosexuality at its core, but the more pervasive homophobia (which has seeped into the gay community) is one associated with a man acting in any way that is traditionally/ stereotypically not masculine. Which brings us to: ‘Masculine men tend to be attracted to masculine men, and feminine men seem to be attracted to masculine men as well.’ Gay men (and women across the spectrum) typically have a healthier balance of masculine and feminine traits than many heterosexual men. Why don’t we celebrate this? Because a lot of people are put off by a man walking or talking like a woman. Why? Because many men have been taught to internalize a discomfort with feminine behavior. Being feminine means being weak. Acting like a ‘pussy’ is treated like an inherently negative thing (so is acting like a ‘dick,’ but in a different way). So many of us openly prefer and seek out more ‘masculine’ guys. Sexual attraction cannot be totally controlled, but this belittling of femininity needs to go. ‘Then you move to New York and you go to the Boiler Room and everyone’s getting that attention.’ Gay men in big cities have it easy in a lot of ways that we take for granted, but it can often be overwhelming to feel like such a small rainbow fish in a big queer pond. We want to feel different in some way, so we take these ideas of a stereotypical gay man that have been imposed on us by straight culture and try to distance ourselves from said stereotypes by putting others down. It can often feel like there’s no community at all – just the same strange, photogenic faces at the same clubs every weekend. That is a community, though, and we should embrace it. ‘I just thought I hated gay people, but I think that I really just don’t like people in general.’ The gay man’s equivalent of a post-breakup ‘I hate men’ is often ‘I hate gay guys’. I’ve said it, my friends have said it, most of us have thought it. We blame relationship troubles on the fact that ALL GAY MEN ARE SLUTS AND NO ONE WANTS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. Is this really true, though? Probably not. It’s simpler to take out one’s frustrations on everyone else than to accept that maybe the right guy just hasn’t come along yet. Not all gay men only want to sleep around (and those who do are certainly allowed/ encouraged to). Not all gay men are scared of long term commitment. And not all gay man are like your – or my – ex boyfriends/ hookups/ sort-of-boyfriends/ never-called-it-anything-which-is-why-it-fizzled-outs. ‘It means more than just your sexuality.’ We still let decades-old stereotypes define our culture and sense of selves. When so many men in the gay community still assume that a well-dressed man with an interest in musical theater must be gay, we’re holding ourselves back. It’s hard enough so much of the world still perpetuates stereotypes that kept so many of us in the closet for so long; we as gay men don’t need to perpetuate them ourselves. ‘It’s a way of seeming more masculine, of like, “Oh I don’t identify with those boa wearing gay guys.”’ We all know bullies are just insecure and put others down for displaying qualities the bullies fear in themselves, so why is bullying a problem within the gay community? Because gay men, like all people, will always be insecure. Because some of us want to be the cool gay guy who can hang out with his straight bros and laugh at the flamboyant ninety-pound boy in a tank top and heels. Because when you’re insecure it’s easier to distance yourself from the usual targets, to say, ‘Well at least I’m not that gay,’ then to actually address what’s making you feel less than great about yourself. Blake Pruitt is director of short film 20MALEGAYNYC. Watch it here: 20MALEGAYNYC from Blake Pruitt on Vimeo.

ROUGH guide to rates (per h) for various places:$50/h - One One $60/h - ABS, HIS, Luap Luap, Hercules $70/h - Body Master $78/h - Sands, Lime $88/h - Shuang, Waterspa, Dspa Group (沐，清，森） Please call up to confirm rates. These are just approximate rates. For 90 min, just multiply by 1.5. There is always some unpleasant confusion over rates for per hour and per session. Traditionally, per session at health centres has always been for a 45 min session. Customers who dun go to health centres always think it is per hour and feel shortchanged when they encounter such situations. When uncertain about the competency of the masseur, never ask for a 90 min session. An incompetent masseur will almost certainly makan your time! It is very important for one to know where to go for what. If one goes to the wrong place for the wrong things, then one is setting himself up for ugly disappointment. Needless to say, a lot of complaints stem from ignorance. If one needs a hard 2-h massage with no hanky-panky then go to a straight massage parlour. If one has intentions other than massage, please dun try it in a straight massage shop!

Im 60, lifes great n Im in a relationship - but not nearly for as long as those of earlier posters. Just like life after 20 or 30 or 40, life after 50 is basically what u make of it. It can b exciting, adventurous, romantic, fun . . . n usually without the worries n fears that younger guys have. Or u can spend ur younger years terrified that when u r finally older life will be lonely, dull, repetitive n loveless. Ive done lots of things wrong in life that I sometimes wish I cld change. But u cant spend life regretting the wrong decisions. Just b thankful for all right ones u make n get on with the business of ENJOYING it!

Super horny. Humping my pillow now. Wish I'm humping one hot guy, instead. And cuddling him covered in cum.

I'm twelve years into LTR and I'm 68 years old. To sustain a relationship, there must be a level of trust in your partner. The essence of that trust is in your partner's love for you, ..never mind the differences of opinions along the way. There is no need to test each other's love. And once you have that trust in place, love grows...

If you are in the sales, marketing or even teaching industry, you can't be taking a back seat at all. You got to use the glib tongue of yours to gain attention. Remember those boring lectures by some senior lecturers... Remember the complicated numbers shown by some insurance sales personnel.. Enough said... For gay guys, it would be good to take the first move... get his attention and then, mellow down.

Chinese married guy with thick fat hook..need someone to release. Any guy can help? Pm me...

im 19 chn 176 59 lean tall.. anyone wanna massage me ?

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Anyone in north?

From this morning's outing From yesterday's evening outing * Line group has more.

Well i am in my very late 50s yet still enjoying a blissful LTR with a very kind soul. Our love life is still charmingly sweet and beautiful. Love means not only in the sexual context but also emotional and spiritual well-being. I cant ask for more.

Bedok. Got place

As my mom passed away last October, my family decided not to celebrate CNY this year. Almost everyone took the opportunity to go overseas, Bangkok, Taipei and even, Tokyo. So as a sort of reunion dinner, I met with my siblings and nephews/nieces at a coffee shop. We had gathered enough people for 2 tables and ate a 9-course dinner. I paid because I am the eldest among the group and it was to thank them for turning up. So now, I am alone in Taipei. I plucked up enough courage to join a group of strangers at a gathering... most of them are out-of-town folks. It was a memorable evening, chatting with new friends and listening to their amazing Ming-nan accented Mandarin. Suddenly, it was so surreal ..just like living out a Taiwan drama serial. Cheers ... to those who are alone..make an effort to whatsapp your friends, colleagues, associates etc...wish all of them a fantastic year ahead. Built bridges and not burn them... Ganbatte kudasai 加油朋友

I was there late one night last month. Jus had some exercise n came over to check things out. Was in an exercise singlet n fbt shorts with nothing underneath. As i walked around, at first not much was happening. The car park was partly surrounded by those construction fences n i thought i couldn't go beyond. Then i found a passage through n walked in. It was well lighted behind with even more fencing further away, but there was nobody around so i came out and walked around the car park. There were the usual guys waiting in a few parked cars, waiting n watching, n they didn't look interested. Then a few more guys arrived from separate directions n some headed for the same passage thru. I followed them in, and one of them was standing at the edge of the bushes, while the rest wandered within the compound. I walked past him and stopped a little in front of him to see if anything was going to happen. Seeing nothing happening, i turned to go out the passage, and smiled at him as i passed. He was an older gentleman, lean n toned in build, with a friendly smile. As i passed him to step up thru the bushes of the passage, i felt him gently feel me from below. I stopped n felt him rubbing me softly thru my shorts n making me grow. I turned my head and smiled at him, and he followed me out thru the passage while still feeling me. We went to the side where we were blocked by those large cranes n trucks, n he crouched down n began to lift up the leg of my shorts n took me in his mouth. I felt his warm mouth n tongue play with me there, making me so hard. He began to run his hand under my shirt, n finding my nipple, began to pinch n play with it as he sucked on me. As i began to fuck him in the mouth, a large sized guy saw us and came over to watch. By then i had taken off my shirt n held it in my hand to allow the first guy more freedom to feel my body as he sucked. I stopped the first guy for a while so that i could push down my shorts and pull out my cock n balls over it. The second guy then came over to suck my nipple, while the first guy resumed taking my hard on into his mouth. I pushed up the second guy's shirt to feel his chest as he opened his pants button and zip. He was already hard n erect, and put his hand behind my head to gently push my mouth down onto his hard member. The first guy stood up n undid his pants, and as i sucked on the second guy's rock hard stick, i groped n stroked the first guy's dick. I went into a high as i drooled n licked n sucked, n wanted to free myself below from the constraints of the fabric of my clothes. I pulled off my shorts n together with my shirt, i dumped them on the front of the truck next to us, n stood there with only my ankle socks n track shoes. The first guy n i stroked n rubbed each other's hard cock, while i continued to suck on the second guy's dick. As the second guy reached a climax, he gripped his dick n jerked rapidly n quickly shot out over onto the grass. The first guy then went down on my cock, sucking quickly n bringing me to a hot high. I warned him i was going to shoot, but he sucked harder until i erupted into his mouth. He sucked my dick hard and drank all i gave him, as i stood there naked n leaning back against the truck. When he was done, he got up n gave me a kiss n held me in a warm hug. The second guy bade us farewell. I put my clothes back on and hugged the first guy back again. Then i left him and went back home.

Ya, bosses now, 金盆洗手了, must respect, ok! But then, after a while, it will get too boring and they will probably oblige their old fans again..... wink wink!

This anti-gay leaflet is trending right now.... Why would children even be exposed to the sounds of any form of copulation?!!?!?!?!?!

Where I'm keen…pm me?

Hi Guys, I'm keen to try out one of the massage place. Between Waterspa, Shuang, Nature Forest or DSParadise, which one do you reckon is the best for a nice and sensual massage? Any particular masseur to recommend? Thanks all Bob

Any daddies looking for younger ones? Let's make this the place

Hmm based on your definition i am a slut lol. Seriously i couldn't agree with you more! I have seen so many people with their moral high ground and yet their own relationship can't last more than a few years. They preach of true love, fidelity and waiting for the "one" but just can't figure out why cant it work. Anyway, this is like the 11 or 12 years i am with my partner. We have stayed together since year 1(seeing each other like almost every day), was faithful and monogamous for 10 years and a perfect role model couple. Than we started having ONS outside due to sexual compatibility issue But it doesn't mean that we dont love each other anymore..infact, he is and will always be my one and only love. I have no doubt i will give him a kidney if he needs it and he will do likewise. I have prepared my Will under his name in case i pass away. In 10 to 20 years time when we grow old together where sex is not that big of an issue, we would still be deeply in love and together. So i dont see the sex part with others a problem. And yes, contrary to popular belief, having sex with others doesn't necessary need to have the "emotional' bond.

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