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Fitness First
EugeneSavoy and 3 others reacted to bbchard for a topic
Lots of hot, steamy action in Paragon, Paya Lebar and 100AM these past 2 days. My pecs and cock have been played with so much 😂 Super hot4 points -
Might appear to be a weird question, is finding ltr in Keybox sauna a good idea?2 points
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Met my friend after many many years...... would you keep in touch again?
joshTWjosh and one other reacted to lonelyglobe for a topic
Need to be careful, probably facing financial difficulties and need to borrow money2 points -
Singapore Public Shower Bulletin
tinkymale and one other reacted to slickdick87 for a topic
Was at decathalon showers just now. Saw a slim tanned guy showering. Nice thick hard dick. Wonder how he remained hard with that cold showers.2 points -
finally got a profile pic on here
lightsaberfour and one other reacted to olyolyoly12 for a status update
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Ten men Club (TMC)
MKay and one other reacted to MarriedDaddy for a topic
I want join you and suck you while people watching2 points -
Am I seeking what I want the right way, or am I simply asking too much? Need opinions.
cuddlebuddy10 and one other reacted to SSSir for a topic
Good day, this is my first post. I am seeking Ltr and have few doubts. 1. How should I position myself in the app. I am seeking a partner using Grindr, as I found my ex through Grindr (who broke up with me due to long distance). I put up shirtless pictures and tell others I don't like to hook up when they approach me. Yes, I am not a big fan of hooking up. My first experience was with a girl. She made me aware that I am attracted to guys instead. For me, sex with her was better than "dead fish" fun with an attractive guy because of the connection we had, and we tried our best to make each other feel good while doing it. Someone told me I should make more mistakes and have repulsive acts before I get old. I wonder if I should position myself as a "no hookup" person? 2. I will feel hollow if the fun is just "fuck and go." How to stop feeling that way? I need to at least cuddle overnight so I don't feel that way. Cuddling without the fun would be great too. The meetup scene goes like this: -> We mutually agree to cuddle and chat. -> We meet up at his place. -> The guy gets really horny after we meet and wants to have fun before I can generate feelings for him. -> I help him release even though I am actually not turned on (a bit of light fun). -> That guy loses interest and gets sleepy. I understand that physiological condition as a guy. I will just leave, feeling like it was a waste of my time. I don't meet guys that frequently, maybe once every few months. But this has happened about three times. When I say the guy gets really horny, it does not indicate that I am super attractive; I am just a normal guy. However, this indicates that my tempo and needs mismatch with most guys on the application. What advice would you give me if I don't want to feel that way? 3. Is my standard high? Looks-wise, I hate myself for this. I am only turned on by lean and fit guys, which is the hardest type to achieve. My body type is as shown in my profile picture. Regarding face and body odor, just taking care of hygiene is good enough. I want to escape this aesthetic preference, but I simply can't. I don't mind if the guy is rich or poor; I am self-sustainable. In fact, I feel pressure if the guy is rich. When a rich guy I meet brings me to those fancy places that I cannot afford regularly, I refuse to let him pay for me. I hope the guy is someone who is kind, has curiosity, don't need to be smart but can be in a conversation. I don't mind that much about age. I am 27 myself, and ideally, the age difference should be within 7 years. Is my standard reasonable? That's all, thanks for reading.2 points -
Nus / Ntu (Compiled)
cottonwool and one other reacted to MasterFitMalaySG4U for a topic
I thought you guys know that both SRC is cruisy and the guys are damn cute. Slim to muscular fits toned n their body is tanned so sedap. Just be wary of your surroundings that is all. Play discreetly. I fuck a cute guy at new NTU SRC on that bench. And shower fun/sex at NUS old school SRC. Best if u have your regulars or buddies to drive in. again, wary of your surroundings n discreetly n respect their unis regulations as well.2 points -
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Any top wanna let me suck his cock? I’m a submissive Chinese bottom, you can do whatever you want..1 point
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but he is pedo... not safe for other children there..1 point
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No, I don’t think you were stupid for telling him. In fact, what you did sounds more like honest closure than a confession intended to disrupt his life. For many people, a “first love” or an unspoken love leaves a lingering question for decades. By telling him that you had strong feelings back then and that his marriage was painful for you, you gave context to why you disappeared from his life. That can actually make the reunion more genuine and less mysterious. The more important question is: what happens now? From what you described, a few things stand out: He is married and appears to be emotionally dissatisfied. You are currently attached and were transparent with your boyfriend, which is a healthy sign. There is a history of unresolved feelings between you (even if they were never acted upon). The recent meetup created emotional intimacy very quickly. Can you remain friends? Yes — but only if the friendship has clear boundaries. I’d ask yourself these questions: Self-check questions Are you hoping, even secretly, that he might someday choose you? Do you find yourself thinking about him much more than before the meetup? Would you be comfortable if your boyfriend had a similarly intimate reconnection with an old love? Are your conversations becoming emotionally deeper than what you normally share with ordinary friends? Do you feel responsible for his unhappiness or want to “save” him? One thing I’d be careful about When someone is struggling in a marriage, an old admirer can easily become an emotional refuge. That doesn’t mean either of you intends to have an affair. But emotional affairs often begin with: “We’re just catching up.” “He understands me.” “I’m only supporting him.” “Nothing physical is happening.” Given your history, the risk is not zero. My practical suggestion A balanced approach Maintain the friendship, but keep it in the “old friend” category, not the “primary emotional confidant” category. Meet occasionally in public settings. Avoid late-night emotionally charged messaging. Don’t become the person he vents to constantly about his marriage. Continue being transparent with your boyfriend. Notice your own feelings honestly. One final thought The fact that you told your boyfriend about the meetup is actually a very good sign. People who are already drifting into something secretive usually hide it. Your openness suggests you’re trying to handle this ethically. If I were in your position, I would keep the friendship light and bounded for a few months and observe how both of you behave. If you notice growing emotional dependence, longing, jealousy, or secrecy, that’s the signal to step back. What I’m most curious about is this: after the coffee meetup, did you feel peace and closure, or did you feel that old attachment becoming alive again? That answer will probably tell you more than anything else.1 point
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Enjoy, but don't attach.
lightsaberfour reacted to DMassage for a status update
Enjoy, but don't attach.1 point -
Ten men Club (TMC)
iwanit reacted to andiiandii for a topic
Never been to sauna before, but wish to try tonight, 45 Malay here. Any advice?1 point -
Jurong Xplore Hub (All Areas) - Anything
Sgtwink reacted to terence81827goh for a topic
22/172/59 moving to lakeside. Bring me around pls. Btm1 point -
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Hi 41 Mly. Can host for bukkake/gangbang this fri till 4pm. Pm me if keen1 point
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32cd chn seeks 3some. Can host north area tele me @V96281511 point
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Still hosting. Pls pm if keen1 point
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maybe i am too innocent, why can't they be friends? ok, he is a normal family man. there are no more feelings, so they can just be friends, right? no need for roi too; if you need roi, then you are not just friends, as friends just be there for each other, with no expectations etc, imho. he does not want to eat him kaw kaw, lol. ok, i guess the best way is just to ask him indirectly why the suddden contact.1 point
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It’s been over a year since a man last shared my bed. The rhythm of his snoring, the
Nivek reacted to Eddie Adrika for a status update
It’s been over a year since a man last shared my bed. The rhythm of his snoring, the heat of his body pressed close, and the way he surrendered to sleep in such tender vulnerability… it awakens a hunger I’d almost forgotten, a thrill that lingers in the hush of the night.1 point -
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Note: The official slogan for Pink Dot 2024 was: "No One Left Behind:. https://the-singapore-lgbt-encyclopaedia.fandom.com/wiki/Pink_Dot_20241 point
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https://whereby.com/poppersbear1021 point
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wow lau.....what eat him kaw kaw.... LOL no lah. I am not interested to do with him anymore......hahaha "one can't trust married men for good." is it really that bad?1 point
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Not just meta Ray-Ban has camera glasses, u can buy a lot of china one from online. I think moving on I need to just stare closely at everyone that is wearing glasses and make sure their glasses don't have an inbuilt camera1 point
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Jurong Xplore Hub (All Areas) - Anything
terence81827goh reacted to MasterFitMalaySG4U for a topic
Now? Or even cuddle 🤗 or release together1 point -
Anyone around Northshore area keen to give me a suck? 27chn 171 63 here1 point
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Looking for Nudist Friends/ Buddies (compiled)
kinky kyle reacted to Hiitsme for a topic
Would love to be naked around!1 point -
craving for migrant workers aside, most of these pakistanis workers don't really like fucking with condom. Be sure to ask beforehand if he is okay with wearing condom. Met plenty of them, only a few would wear it. Some would insist on wearing condom which is good.1 point
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Eewwww. Must be with alot of cheese underneath. Lol1 point
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North ~ Woodlands, Admiralty, Sembawang, Yishun, Marsiling Park
Ambuz reacted to gameswithcuffs for a topic
Anyone interested in sucking my BWC tonight in Woodlands? PM me.1 point -
North ~ Woodlands, Admiralty, Sembawang, Yishun, Marsiling Park
Ambuz reacted to YellowSaviour for a topic
Whos goinf JTC tonight around 10?1 point -
North ~ Woodlands, Admiralty, Sembawang, Yishun, Marsiling Park
Ambuz reacted to Sgboynextdoorsk for a topic
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How extreme and risky u like to try? Make u wear skimpy attire in public queue for food or drink. Make u expose dick in public and get topless or naked at anywhere when it’s safe1 point
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Looking for Meetups in Penang
Doremifaso reacted to Ryvin for a topic
Raffles park got people ah ? Been there before and I dont see any1 point -
35 170 54 Chn. Seeking a naked regular outdoor exhibitionist for me to play and tease, own his body. Exhibit and humiliate him in public in diff ways… make him wear skimpy attire, sexy thongs to parade at diff places. Strip him totally naked and love office wear fun as well.1 point
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Anytime Fitness (All Outlets) [Compiled]
terence81827goh reacted to gymfitch for a topic
any gym buddy for af in jurong east? pm me1 point -
Straight Massage Shop Recommendation in Singapore
Ven_SG reacted to thinking35 for a topic
Now is called The Jungle SPA, I went last time was called Mesago The Safari SPA by Mary Chia. So now they have male therapists there too?1 point -
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