begleitung Posted June 9, 2020 Report Share Posted June 9, 2020 (edited) Inspired by the living in ur 30s discussion, what would you have done differently had you have known what you know today? or no regrets etc at all? Can you still salvage the situation, if necessary? Edited June 9, 2020 by begleitung Added last question Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shrugs Posted June 9, 2020 Report Share Posted June 9, 2020 i wish i had more self esteem and knew that i was worth a lot more. i wish i was brave enough to pursue the course of study i wanted. Clivess 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tongue Tight Posted June 9, 2020 Report Share Posted June 9, 2020 I wish I had studied a 3rd language or even a 4th one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted June 9, 2020 Report Share Posted June 9, 2020 I should have emigrated back then, and not waited till 2018 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted June 9, 2020 Report Share Posted June 9, 2020 I still wished I joined the community earlier. My mental development would have been more mature with more experiences in the LGBT circle. wilfgene and mate69 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilfgene Posted June 9, 2020 Report Share Posted June 9, 2020 3 minutes ago, repressednerd said: I still wished I joined the community earlier. My mental development would have been more mature with more experiences in the LGBT circle. I don't lost what I have never gained. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phewphew Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 On 6/9/2020 at 1:19 PM, repressednerd said: I still wished I joined the community earlier. My mental development would have been more mature with more experiences in the LGBT circle. Mood, but also most ppl won't talk to Pic-less accounts XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest btm Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 I would have chosen a job that would teach me more against the amount I can earn as a freshie. It's a deep regret now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mary Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 On 6/9/2020 at 11:41 AM, Guest Tongue Tight said: I wish I had studied a 3rd language or even a 4th one. Now u cannot do it ah ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Study Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 Studied much, much harder. Get scholarship, get out of this country. Knowing the winning 4D/Toto numbers, go buy them xD Buy Apple stock maybe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 18, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 Lol, toto. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neh Neh Posted June 18, 2020 Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 I should buy more properties 10 yrs ago. Should choose for oversea expat high pay job. Clivess and share 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nofap Posted June 18, 2020 Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 No fap or masturbate lesser. Avoid hard grip masturbation. Learn online business. Eat beef n drink milk to get bigger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happiness Posted June 18, 2020 Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 32 minutes ago, Guest Nofap said: No fap or masturbate lesser. Avoid hard grip masturbation. Learn online business. Eat beef n drink milk to get bigger. Why no fap? Why avoid hard grip masturbation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 18, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 1 hour ago, Guest Nofap said: No fap or masturbate lesser. Avoid hard grip masturbation. Learn online business. Eat beef n drink milk to get bigger. How to do it handfree? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phewphew Posted June 19, 2020 Report Share Posted June 19, 2020 2 hours ago, happiness said: Why no fap? Why avoid hard grip masturbation? I think so he can enjoy sex more? mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 19, 2020 Possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 19, 2020 Report Share Posted June 19, 2020 On 6/19/2020 at 7:11 AM, happiness said: Why no fap? Why avoid hard grip masturbation? Maybe now his cock spoil? Or less sensitive ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 19, 2020 38 minutes ago, cutejack said: Maybe now his cock spoil? Or less sensitive ? Then must practice more. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 19, 2020 Report Share Posted June 19, 2020 25 minutes ago, begleitung said: Then must practice more. Lol. More of ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 19, 2020 Sexx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TT2880 Posted June 25, 2020 Report Share Posted June 25, 2020 I will do what I am doing today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 25, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2020 Nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted June 25, 2020 Report Share Posted June 25, 2020 (edited) Not get into any relationships at all for the rest of my life Edited June 25, 2020 by mate69 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 25, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2020 That bad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted June 25, 2020 Report Share Posted June 25, 2020 Yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 25, 2020 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2020 Undo it with new ones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted July 3, 2020 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2020 More stories? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cutecuteguy Posted July 3, 2020 Report Share Posted July 3, 2020 I would have chosen to lead a simple life. Very simple life with no complications. Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted July 3, 2020 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2020 33 minutes ago, Cutecuteguy said: I would have chosen to lead a simple life. Very simple life with no complications. Is it very complicated now) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Done! Posted July 3, 2020 Report Share Posted July 3, 2020 I had done and tried everything I needed to do 10 years ago. Looking back, failure or success is no longer matter because it reached my limit, my capacity. If I return to 10 years ago, I would have done the same and the outcome will still be the same. Look at Singapore, nothing much has changed even 20 years ago till now. So, I am not looking back, but looking forward 10 years from now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted July 3, 2020 Report Share Posted July 3, 2020 I rarely have regrets. Hindsight is perfect. But I made those decisions because of my maturity, life experiences and circumstances Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hi I'm Bi Posted July 4, 2020 Report Share Posted July 4, 2020 Always listen to your inner voice, trust your own instincts. Don't let other people cloud your judgement. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted July 6, 2020 Author Report Share Posted July 6, 2020 But the society has different standards Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted August 7, 2020 Author Report Share Posted August 7, 2020 On 7/3/2020 at 11:28 PM, auscent said: I rarely have regrets. Hindsight is perfect. But I made those decisions because of my maturity, life experiences and circumstances That was good thinking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tic-toc Posted August 7, 2020 Report Share Posted August 7, 2020 I would have ended a toxic relationship then. Quote If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wkayz Posted August 7, 2020 Report Share Posted August 7, 2020 On 6/9/2020 at 10:25 AM, begleitung said: Inspired by the living in ur 30s discussion, what would you have done differently had you have known what you know today? or no regrets etc at all? Can you still salvage the situation, if necessary? Won’t say regret anything but there’s definitely some things that I’d do differently if I had known. 1. don’t let anyone belittle or mistreat you (met some jerks) 2. Study more, be more knowledgeable because knowledge is indeed power 3. Be more positive and happy, was always negative and overthinking stuff when 20 Steve5380 1 Quote “Hi it’s me” 🌑 🌘 🌗 🌖 🌕 🌔 🌓 🌒 🌑 🐶 only taking the willing victims 😈 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted August 8, 2020 Report Share Posted August 8, 2020 On 7/3/2020 at 9:24 AM, Cutecuteguy said: I would have chosen to lead a simple life. Very simple life with no complications. On 7/3/2020 at 9:26 AM, begleitung said: Is it very complicated now) No, it is not more complicated than at any other time. On the contrary, technology offers us powerful tools, like the Internet. So many things I order online, and they appear at my doorstep. So much information we have now access to, without opening a book. Add TV and recorded media, and there was never so much entertainment at home readily available. No need to get bored. Not even during this covid times of lockdown. And during normal times, it has never been easier to travel. Even sex is easier, with online dating sites and saunas. About the topic, what would have done differently 10 years ago? I have few regrets about this. And I understand why I did what I did 10 years ago. More things I wish I had done differently 50 years ago. But then I was an inexperienced nerd full of complexes. One cannot ask too much for such an individual Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pubic01 Posted August 8, 2020 Report Share Posted August 8, 2020 (edited) On 6/9/2020 at 10:25 AM, begleitung said: Inspired by the living in ur 30s discussion, what would you have done differently had you have known what you know today? or no regrets etc at all? Can you still salvage the situation, if necessary? Looking back I realise now I really enjoyed my previous career life. Pay wasn’t great, work hours demanding, but that was the real me doing work I love doing. I may be quite different a person now if I’ve kept to it. Likely with a different set of life gains and pains lol. Being align with one’s own authenticity is priceless (at least for myself). Relationship wise, even if I do go back 10 years in time, I don’t think I can escape the lessons I’m meant to learn. There’re pains, but there’s also growth from these pains. If I’ve known it’ll end, I’ll treasure it even more while it’s still mutual and sweet. Edited August 8, 2020 by Pubic01 Spelling error lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest line Posted August 8, 2020 Report Share Posted August 8, 2020 4 minutes ago, Pubic01 said: Looking back I realise now I really enjoyed my previous career life. Pay wasn’t great, work hours demanding, but that was the real me doing work I love doing. I may be quite different a person now if I’ve kept to it. Likely with a different set of life gains and pains lol. Being align with one’s own authenticity is priceless (at least for myself). Relationship wise, even if I do go back 10 years in time, I don’t think I can escape the lessons I’m meant to learn. There’re pains, but there’s also growth for these pains. If I’ve known it’ll end, I’ll treasure it even more while it’s still mutual and sweet. May I know in which line is it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pubic01 Posted August 8, 2020 Report Share Posted August 8, 2020 2 minutes ago, Guest line said: May I know in which line is it? Ahh.. I was in the creative line previously Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted August 9, 2020 Author Report Share Posted August 9, 2020 On 8/8/2020 at 12:26 AM, wkayz said: Won’t say regret anything but there’s definitely some things that I’d do differently if I had known. 1. don’t let anyone belittle or mistreat you (met some jerks) 2. Study more, be more knowledgeable because knowledge is indeed power 3. Be more positive and happy, was always negative and overthinking stuff when 20 Sounds like u have movedd on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FIRE2020 Posted August 10, 2020 Report Share Posted August 10, 2020 (edited) If I could turn back the clock to ten years ago, I would want to buy one or two properties for passive income as a source of income for retirement. I would go deeper into retirement planning. Having said that one should live now. There is always opportunity in the next few quarters if Covid 19 really dampened the property demand pushes the property price to more realistic level. There might be opportunity ahead. Let nature takes it course. The more important factor is one must have the thought in mind that's the beginning for any result to be created. Isn't it? In term of Relationship, I have been there done it. Learnt a lot and reaches a level where I no longer seek attachment because it only bring sufferings. Instead love my current bf and focus on time spent with me and am ok to let him goes if he believe that he would be happier if he was to move on from our relationship. That's the art of true love which I learnt through a hard way but glad that I did learn and practice it these days. Happy Holiday! Edited August 10, 2020 by FIRE2020 added comments Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2020 Report Share Posted August 12, 2020 Go for more drinking parties Attend gay chalets and stay for the wild orgies Work harder at the gym Work odd jobs so that I can go to Zirca on Sundays Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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