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  1. new to this society only had one bottom experience and not really enjoy it because don't like to prepare or maybe don't know how to prepare? is it okay not to prepare and just start the work? xD just came to sg from msia need friends ....so lonely now
  2. Hi I am currently looking for a full time job. Any one out there have any job opportunities? Any lobang can help to recommend? Thank you!
  3. Any recommended architecture firm in Singapore ?
  4. Will need your advice on something. PM me or Line ID chuuchuu24680.
  5. Hi everyone, I'm in need of advice from people who have suffered from hemmorhoids. I'm going to NS soon and I have been suffering for hemmorhoids for 2 years now, and every time I take a bowel movement I bleed quite badly. I'm afraid that if I go for a specialist check up, I may end up getting my enlistment date pushed back. Anyone here dealt with/dealing with hemmorhoids while going through NS?
  6. So i met this Vietnamese guy almost a year ago and we became FWB and it wasnt until December that i realised i liked him (i got angry at him when he jokingly said he met someone else besides me). We kinda had a fight after that and we didnt meet for like a month-til he came back on grindr to apologise. Ever since that incident i realised we became more close- sometimes after meeting up we would cuddle or just lay in his bed talking about random topics n he even asked me to eat with him once. Tbh i wasnt sure i liked him until he went back to Vietnam for CNY n i missed him like shit. Fast forward to now, we got a matching necklace. The problem now is that im not sure hes liking me back? There was a few instances that makes me think like: 1)At one point i told him jokingly that only my bf can f*ck me n he said then the only way is that he became my bf (or sth like that) 2) i jokingly asked him again (heh) that i feel attached to him n he replied with "i think you already know how i feel about you" which made me blush like shiit. Then just last week i told him about my ex texting me to meet again n he told me to go meet him if i want. ???? Any experts mind reading this lengthy post to evaluate? How should i respond? What should i do to further the rs??
  7. I was asked by someone whether i have a thick cock? I consider my self to have one, though not very thick. But then it got me thinking how much thick does one have to be call their cock as thick one. Any one willing to share their ideas? Note: Please don't ask me share my pics for comment....
  8. Any one with good tips for cleaning up asshole hair at home (without going to a professional haha) Don’t want to shave the area since it’s not the best plus with the ingrown hairs and itchy side effects.... Seeking advice!
  9. Hello guys, Am starting my internship in 10days at Singapore. For your information, I am 20yo from Malaysia. My internship duration will be 1 year and my allowance is not that much and I am not able to claim OT. The case being I am trying to find the cheapest room rental rate which is also reasonable. My Budget is $350. I know it might be too cheap but i don't mind a sharing room but my limit to sharing is only with one person. If you guys have any news, do let me know. My Facebook : Clement Tan My WeChat : djholler199458
  10. Was having a discussion with my friend on this highly debated topic that was fuelled by the recent revision of laws in Japan banning corporal punishment contrasted with the failure of passing a similar bill in the Philippines. The questions I have are: 1) What is your most memorable moment of being punished as a kid? What did you do and how were you punished for it? 2) What were some creative techniques your parents used to discipline you with? 3) Do you agree with corporal punishment? Would you employ it with your own (hypothetical) children in the future haha? Wonder if there's a change in mindset from our parents' generation till today...
  11. Guest

    Being Bottom

    Lots of fake guest posts here. This isn’t one of them. Taking time to create an actual account just doesn’t seem convenient, hence this anonymous guest post. What I’m about to share is factual and if I find the courage will become reality. For the longest time I’ve been a purveyor of ladyboys. Feminine beauty combined with the ruggedness of the male appendage never fails to excite. Years gone by I Long for new exciting thrills. During my last visit to a ladyboy I was offered the option to be pleasured anally. Surprisingly I didn’t flinch or hesitate. Curiousity got the better of me and I spread myself for her to enter. Being well endowed I told her to finger me first. From one to two to three fingers. It was a rush. She pushed deep but it hurt and after a while I think she got tired of my squirming. She offered to TOP me but I couldn’t fathom her tool jamming into me. How can I slowly ease myself into this? I’ve thought of meeting a gentle TOP who could guide me gradually. I’m not turned on by males but a dick is a dick right? What would you guys advise?
  12. Anyone want to study together? I stay at central east
  13. A noob here. Why I ask this question is because with every guy that I met for a hangout, it seems that most have been in a relationship before and mentioned having exes. Im turning 24 this year and have never been out a date before (must be deemed a 'date' by both parties. hangouts is are different) and thus, have not been in a r/s. Somehow, it seems like it's so easy to initiate a date and get into a r/s but I've been having trouble looking for one. Everytime someone mentions about their exes, I cant help but to think what have I been missing out throughout my lifetime. Anyone facing similar issues?
  14. Growing up as a fat kid, I suffer many of the consequences today. Stretch marks + loose skin is something that is more commonly accepted & understood now People view them as 'battle scars' & so perhaps because it's not too much of an eyesore, people are a tad bit more accepting? Though I still hate the little flap of my tummy, it's so soft and I've come to accept it. Some guys think it's cuddly hehe One thing that still bugs me & also the guys that I get intimate with is butt acne scars. I used to pick on the pimples & continuously try to burst them when they appear in the past. It forms this dark scars all over my butt =( One guy was so bothered when he saw them, he put my underwear back on & continued to make sure my butt wasn't touching the bed as we snuggled. I felt so sad aiyo............. I honestly could live with it, but of course if I could get help for it I would love to hear how I could improve it. Not that I particularly care about having the perfect smooth butt, but I'm already not like the best looking in my face, neither do I have a rocking hot bod, it sucks to have an ugly butt too. =(
  15. Hi Guys Just need to share your opinion.I may plan to do it alone or workout with buddy outside without gym together as friend.I wait for your share with gym .Thanks lot
  16. Hello everyone! I'm a skincare junkie and I hope to learn about your skincare routines, favourite products, tips on maintaining your face & combating acne For me in this weather I have oily combination skin, oily on the t-zone and the other parts of my face & a little dry on the inner cheeks of my face. Some of my favourite products Sunscreen: Dr Jart, UV sun fluid, which I bought at Sephora. Took me long to find the perfect sunscreen for me because most sunscreen are generally thick, heavy on the face & leaves a chalky white finish on the face however the consistency and texture of this sunblock is light and thin almost water gel like absorbs into the skin nicely & leaves no white finish. I've been using it for almost a year now and have repurchased a new bottle would continue to use this. Moisturisers: Like the sunblock it took me quite a while to finally find something I like, but for now I'm using the Bioderma Sensibio Light soothing cream as my moisturiser. It's not thick & it absorbs well. I'm currently trying to find and explore other moisturisers so if you have any suggestions please share too
  17. I've been with my current bf for about 3 years now. I love him dearly and I've been entirely faithful all these while even though he isn't into anal sex. We live together and seemingly have everything going for us. I went to Taipei earlier this week to escape some work issues (hey, they can't exactly call me back when I'm not even in Singapore, right?) and also to take a bit of a breather. I go to Taipei almost every year for a solo retreat, and perhaps to meet my taiwanese friends if they are free. I love Taipei because of the sense of space I find it hard to get in Singapore and HK where I sometimes am based for work, the good food, ease of getting around, and also to beo the cute guys there. Haha. During my trip this week I was debilitating on whether or not I should go for my first ever b2b massage - I've not had one before and was tempted to try it out. What was holding me back was the fear of catching an STD and the guilt that might accompany me when I am back home with my bf. I also asked a couple of friends what usually went on in b2b massages, and they told me it may or may not result in a HE. In the end, I thought, fuck it, and booked one on my last day before leaving for Taoyuan. I didn't want to regret another time for not living life a little and go back to Singapore feeling sexually dissatisfied. (Note: I'll describe the sexual experience below. I will post the issues I have in my next post to separate it a little so for those who aren't into details or reading erotica can jump straight into the next post without reading through the long wall of text below) I arranged for it the night before, and chose this adorable boy-next-door masseuse with a goatee. They had more (by society's standards) "hot" guys, but the picture of him online had me smitten with his doe eyes haha. Anyway, I was early for my appointment, and was a bunch of nerves outside the gate (it was in an apartment/office block) waiting for him to arrive. He (let's call him 'S') showed up looking exactly like what I saw online, and we shyly greeted each other while he unlocked the door. S led me to the room, and told me to take a shower in the ensuite. He left the room, and I wrapped myself in the towel provided when I was done. He came back ten minutes later and told me to lie face-down on the massage table. The massage began and I have to be honest: it wasn't a good massage - he definitely lacked skill but I have to give him some credit for trying. I always go for a back rub, a proper one with clothes on, because I get a stiff neck and back very easily. It felt like S was pressing all the wrong points and many times just stretching the skin. I casually asked how long he's done massage for, and he confessed that he was actually hired as the admin guy, and sort of delved into doing massage because of the more lucrative earnings. He also let in on how he doesn't really enjoy doing massages because it's physically tiring for him. He told me he's 24 years old (just a few years younger than me!), a last year university student majoring in economics, and how he hoped to open his own bistro after working for a couple of years post graduation. He spoke very decent English which made me believe his uni student claim. I nervously admitted that it's my first time doing a b2b massage, and didn't know what to expect. S: "hmm a b2b massage involves me using my body to massage you, and you can play with my body, but doesn't usually involve penetration." Me: "oh ok. Doesn't usually? What if a client wanted penetration?" S: "there's a fee" Me: "how much?" S (chuckles nervously): "it's a bit expensive..." M: "多少?" (how much?) S: "NTD6,000" I fell silent for a while and at last told him I don't have NTD6,000 with me. We then changed topics and spoke about his life, and he let on that S wasn't his real name (I guessed as much), and that his real name was E, how he doesn't have a boyfriend because not many guys can accept their boyfriend being a masseuse at a gay spa. After 45 minutes into the 2 hour session I booked, he announced he needed a break. He left the room, and I checked my phone for texts and wallet to see exactly how much NTD I had on me. Then I snuck out, naked, into the hallway where I saw him at the counter replying texts messages and doing some quick paperwork. I was alone in the entire establishment so he told me to not worry and make myself comfortable. He came back 10 minutes later and that's when the real b2b massage began: he rubbed my back with massage oil, and starting working on my inner thighs too. M (a bit shyly): "我可以摸你的屌嗎?" (can I pls touch your dick?) S: "haha! 當然可以啊. 反正等一下你全都可以摸了." (of course you can. You'll be able to touch everything in a while any way" I shyly groped him through his berms, and was pleased to find out he packed a big one even when flaccid. M: "Mmmm. feels good. How big are you?" S: "very small la, only 14cm" He then walked behind to knead my inner thighs, and my hard cock strained against the massage table. I heard the rustle of clothes being removed, and turned back to sneak a peak. Holy cow, S was hung and I accidentally let out an exclamation of surprise at how big he was. He looked embarrassed, and walked over to let me touch his slowly hardening cock when I gestured him over. I touched the head and brought it to my nose and mouth - it smelled a wee bit fishy. Manly smells. I felt myself leaking precum into the paper towel draped over the massage table. He pounced on me a bit playfully, and used body to rub against mine. My inner thighs and ass were extremely aware of the shaft protruding out of his body. I moaned into the hole of the massage table and he took it as a sign I was finally enjoying the massage. He continued to rub against me, our naked bodies making shlick-shlick sounds. I part-moaned-part-groaned, like a cat in heat, wanting more. He started to use his (now very hard and leaking) cock to rub against my asshole and I swear the paper towel my own hard cock was pressed against was soaked with precum. A few strokes, and I felt him slipping into my anus. I clenched my butt and didn't want to let him out, but he playfully pulled out, rubbed it around some more, and pushed it back in. This happened quite a few times till I was moaning non-stop, and told him to please just get a condom and fuck my brains out, S (chuckling): "is that really what you want?" M: "Yes... But I really don't have NTD6,000 to pay you." It was true. I had only intended a NTD2,000 tip to him on top of the NTD2,800 massage fees the establishment charged. It was my last day and I didn't have enough. S: "it's ok. You just tip me how much you want" M: "are you sure? Are you really enjoying it as much as me? You really don't have to do anything you don't want, you know". S: "silly boy, if I really weren't enjoying it so much I wouldn't be this wet and hard." He took his hard rod and slapped it against the massage table a couple of times to make his point before guiding my hand to it to let me feel the state of his arousal. He jumped off the table and came back a few minutes later, fumbling with a condom he took, "new brand... I've never used this before... just took it from the counter drawer...". He sheathed himself, and made me lie on my back this time, missionary style, while he pushed into me. Good God, the first push was such an invasion. My eyes widened and I gasped - It really didn't feel like 14cm. He was being modest, I was sure. "Please wait. Give me a few seconds. You are so... big". A flash of concern came over him, and he bent down to stroke my face with his hands. "Relax," he purred "Take your time". I don't know why he slipped in so easily when he was lying against my ass but in the missionary position I felt being sliced into two. As I grew accustomed to his size I started rocking myself against him, and he took that as a cue to start. Deep, long strokes, bringing me to ecstasy, and I threw aside all inhibition and reached over to grope him everywhere from his bushy pubic hair to his firm chest with small and dark but erect nipples. He started banging in to me, and the room was filled with sounds of his pants, my grunts, and a bit of dirty talk in both Mandarin and English. We both groaned each other's names (I alternated between S and E). He suddenly slowed down, and swatted my hand away from my own cock, and started stroking it. We were looking deep into each other's eyes the entire time. I reached out to touch his back - it was dripping with perspiration - and he sheepishly told me he actually came into the condom already. He then asked if I wanted him to jerk me off to my orgasm. M: "please, I want to see you shoot. On me. Can do it again?" S: "I'm not sure if I can. I came three times yesterday. But I'll try my best" M: "you naughty horny boy" (slaps his butt cheeks) He then continued banging me for a while more before pulling out and throwing aside the condom, muttering how it might be easier if he wanked himself instead (I suppose he was a bit tired by then). He towered over me, and I reached over a few times to take his cock into my mouth and let him fuck my mouth. He came a few minutes later onto my chest while sitting on my stomach and I myself erupted behind his back at the exact same moment he did. It was one of the most intense orgasms I've had in my life (ok perhaps I'm not very sexually experienced). I glanced down at my chest to see the long puddles of cum above my right nipple leading to my neck. "that's still quite a load. The glory of young men is indeed their strength", I teased. He smiled bashfully and climbed off me, telling me we both should get cleaned. I dragged him into the tiny ensuite shower closet and washed him from head to toe - I gave him a bit of a head, shoulders, and back massage for all his effort. I paid special attention to washing his cock, playfully licking it a few times, watching in amazement and perhaps amusement as his ample foreskin alternated between exposing his entire head and covering it. I am circumcised, so to me it's always nice to play with a nice cock's foreskin. I scrubbed off my cum from his back, and revelled in the ropes of sinewy muscle around his shoulders. He told me he takes pole dancing classes as a past time to keep fit, and his strong core, ripped shoulders, and muscular legs sang the same song as he did. We both got dressed, and I followed him out to the counter. I passed him NTD3,000, together with the SGD200 I always have in my travel wallet in case of running out of cash while overseas and not being able to find a partnering ATM. He tried to return me the NTD200 change but I told him to keep it. We chatted for a bit, and I asked if we could keep in contact via Fb - he suggested WeChat or LINE, so we exchanged LINE IDs and texted each other. We both expressed hope in meeting each other again the next time I'm in Taipei, and enveloped me in a nice and warm bear hug before I left.
  18. just like to share and warn others to be aware and take caution of a scammer trying to sell supplements for weight loss and muscle gains. Got to know thru the app. Selling some supplements and list (probably screenshot, from gainzlab). After trasnferring the money, no news from him. Before that, he even showed past messages and pictures to prove he is real. Bank account is POSB Savings : 193-41432-0 Goes by jeremy ( or in the app, be something like fat burner, etc) Guess an expensive lesson learnt.. sigh,,already trying to go for equality, but still scammers everywhere. So just do take note and beware. Best luck
  19. Guest

    Am I Scary?

    Someone once told me that I am a scary person. He wanted to stop seeing me for the next few months. And we didn't see each other again after that. We were quite close together as friends. We went out together often. Three to five times a week, we would meet after work for meals and stay over at his rented place. I was more free back then. I would go out with him to help him get stuff or wait for him to finish his training session. We also went overseas three months after knowing each other. During and after the trip, I was angry at him probably to a greater extent than I should be. I quarrelled with him over WhatsApp over two issues mainly. In the midst of these, I also told him I liked him and tossed out the idea of dating him officially. He felt uncomfortable with this changing side of me. He said this is "scary" at the end of our conflict. Then, he requested to stop seeing me for a few months. And I never saw him again. For the next few months, I was very sad and was always trying to communicate with him again. Now, I wished I never would have to go through this kind of hurtful and undignified experience again. If only I had not believed his sweet actions... Because he was a player from his veins... He still is now...
  20. Being one of they gay youths (19ish) in Singapore, it is relieving to see that it is an inclusive and open (relatively) society. A lot of work has been put in to create what it is today. I’m asking for both myself and for others like me, how do I go about contributing and involving myself in the gay community without coming out ? Other than pink dot itself of course.
  21. Recently went into an agreement with a company. But later realised that they have breached the contract. Would like to know what are the legal means to crawl back the invested amount? And how much is the legal fees involved? Will appreciate advice from someone who went thru similar experience or have legal knowledge. Can discuss here or PM me for further info. Thanks in advance.
  22. Anyone work in the funeral industry? I am planning to find job in the industry but its quite closed to public. Anyone can provide advice like the expected job scene and salary?
  23. Having questions around sexual identity, sexual orientation and sexual well-being can be confusing, anxiety provoking and intimidating at first. By addressing these complicated and often misunderstood aspects of male sexuality, deep healing can take place. Today we live in a society of emotional turmoil. Emotional health is a precious gift to our physical health and well-being. Aromatherapy or the use of essential oils can assist in helping people move beyond emotional blocks through their relaxing effect. The active ingredients inside pure unadulterated essential oils allows us to relax instead of getting caught in an anxiety spiral. Anxiety if left unattended overtime creates an acidic condition in the transcript enzyme, which then transcribes that anxiety on the RNA template and stores it in the DNA. That emotion then becomes a predominant factor in our lives that moment on. This has implications in our health, both physically and emotionally. Many essential oil blend we use have been created precisely for the purpose of helping to release negative or self-defeating emotional patterns. For men, desire disorders, as well as arousal and orgasm disorders, may have physical causes. It is recommended that you meet with a qualified physician or urologist to rule out any medical conditions before working with us. A key sign that the problem is mental and not physical is when a man is able to remain hard during masturbation but not during sex with a partner. Anxiety is often the root cause of erectile dysfunctional (ED). Working with aromatherapy may help to decrease performance anxiety. With less pressure around maintaining an erection, you are free to connect with your body and enjoy sexual pleasure. It is important to note that we respect that each individual is different and unique when we are working with essential oils. Hence, two individuals may not respond excatly the same way to the same type of essential oils.
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