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Cruising places: Parks 1. Tasik Kelana Jaya (HAPPENING!) 2. Tasik Permaisuri HUKM side (HAPPENING!) 3. Bukit Kommanwel hill top Swimming Pools 1. Kelana Jaya Swimming Pool (HAPPENING!) 2. Chin Woo Swimming Pool (HAPPENING!) 3. Bandar Tun Razak Malls 1. KL Sentral toilet besides KFC (HAPPENING!) 2. Nu Sentral toilet besides HM (HAPPENING!) 3. Sunway Pyramid toilet below TGV 4. Avenue K toilet Level C & next to Tealive 5. Empire gallery Toilet beside popular / uniqlo. (Once in the blue moon) RnR 1. LDP towards Kepong besides Caltex (HAPPENING!) 2. LDP towards Puchong from Sunway McDonald (HAPPENING!) 3. Shell toilet at kesas highway towards kota kemuning also got. (Depends lucks, mostly taxi driver or lorry driver) 4. Shell toilet USJ Hicom (Happening) Gym 1. CF Sunway Pyramid (HAPPENING!) 2. CF Mid Valley 3. CF 1 Utama (HAPPENING!) 4. FF Avenue K (HAPPENING!) 5. FF The Curve 6. FF Empire (HAPPENING!) 7. FF Paradigm Mall (Happening)

I have recently started using this dating app called Hinge to find a partner, and as someone who is in his mid-thirties and has never dated before, life just started to feel really lonely navigating through alone. I have matched with a few guys and gone on a few dates before, but as with all online dating, you are matching with someone predominantly on whether they are good looking or not, so most of my attraction towards the guys I do meet in real life for such dates are purely due to looks. When those dates don't work out, I don't feel too upset about it because no feelings were involved, we went on the date, we don't vibe, we move on. 3 weeks ago, I ended up matching with this new guy and I remember coming across his profile, but had ran out of likes to give for the day (this shows how desperate I am to try and find someone on the app), so I gave him a rose (which is like a super like on Tinder) because he was cute and was someone who didn't take himself too seriously based on his profile. I was very much looking forward to conversing with him, but I knew it was going to be a 50/50 chance, he had to be interested in my profile first before we could get to that step. He did and actually messaged me back first, so we got to chatting and I really enjoyed our conversation, we had good banter almost immediately and soon brought the chat out to Telegram. The first week was just messages after messages, we replied to one another within the hour and I was constantly looking forward to them. By the second week however, the text messages from his side started slowing down, his replies were also starting to get shorter and I just found myself glued to my phone all day, waiting for him to message back. My interest towards him was still very strong, but it seemed like his has dwindled and I actually got really sad. Third week comes along and the messages were getting more and more sporadic, I tried to pep talk myself many times in my head that I didn't really know this guy, so I shouldn't let it affect me that much, if he was not interested, then I should just move on and hopefully find someone else who will be, but that is easier said than done. I was still very interested in him and I really wanted to give it an actual shot, because if I don't I know I will definitely regret it, so I asked him out. He agreed and we set a date. A huge part of me was so happy we could finally meet in real life, but another smaller part of me was also wishing that it would go horribly and I will instantly get over him once the date was over, because I didn't like how I was feeling, that longing for his attention felt suffocating. Well. The date actually went pretty well and we were able to hit it off in real life, our online banter translated really well offline and at that point in time, I felt like this was enough, if this was going to be our only date, I would be satisfied. The date ended and we went our separate ways, I dropped him a text minutes later and told him it was really nice to finally meet, he replied in kind, and then I half-jokingly told him he had better invite me out for a second meal. He had been "typing...", but the moment I send that out, he stopped and I was just left me on "read". The morning after, I woke up feeling satisfied and happy with the date, but then as the day went on, that sense of longing started to return and it started to intensify by late morning. I found myself once again checking my phone and yearning for a text from him, I couldn't focus on work, I had no appetite for breakfast, all I could think about was him and it was debilitating. I have never been in a relationship before because I have never felt so strongly for someone before to want to pursue a relationship with them, this is honestly the first time in my life I have developed such felt such strong feelings for a person and I do not like it. It's paralyzing, I know this isn't love, I know I'm just going through the infatuation phase, I mean I barely know the guy, we have only been talking online for 3 weeks, and only met up once, even I know that much that love take times to develop. But it's been a hard day. I feel like that intensity I felt during the late morning was probably brought on by my excessive caffeine intake in the morning because I have now calmed down and am feeling a little more in control, I guess typing this out also helped. Thanks for reading if you have gotten to this point, I just needed an outlet to express myself and would like to know if anyone else gone through this before and how you guys dealt with it. Update - 23rd May Thank you for all the replies guys! Just to share an update. He has texted me back and expressed that he isn't interested to pursue anything more, so I have also taken some time to get over him, and the feelings are starting to feel less intense as the days go by, now that I know for sure, it has definitely provided me with the closure I needed and also made it a tad easier to move on.

need some advice!!!! so i (18 turning 19), just got posted out to station with 6 other new PTEs like myself and we are doing infocomm operator stuff. one of them (lets call him S), ive had a rocky relationship w him even during our 5 day vocational trainibg course because personally to me i felt abit uncomfortable with him because he was acting abit too friendly with me even though we only knew each other for a few hours and afterwards 2-3days, so i still had my guards up because i dont easily open up to others. and because it was only a 5 day course, we had tests on the 3rd day onwards, and being the nerd with performance anxiety, i was very locked in because i didnt want to JUST PASS the course (i ended up being overall best trainee but thts besides the point) and when im studying or revising, i dont like to be disturbed/talked to, well this S likes to talk to me and chat w me(ik he has good and pure intentions but still).... so i wld give him short and cold replies to his small talk and tht made it seem like i didnt like him, and he wld repeatedly ask if im angry at him, and i wld repeatedly answer that i wasnt. but him repeatedly asking me was also starting to get on my nerves because how many times do i hv to make my point tht im not angry w you? at this point it was alrdy the end of the course, and all we had to do is wait for our results and also to come back to camp to receive our posting results the following tuesday(which js passed). and when i reflected abt how i acted towards ppl during the past week, i felt bad, and decided to text and talk it out w S to explain myself and why it seemed like i was angry, explaining tht a few of my boundaries were crossed and i was getting frustrated with how much he kept repeatibg the same questions. he said he understood where im cmg from and wont repeat anyth lets js say within a few hours of being posted to the same place he alrdy repeated some stuff, and it irked me. and how he kept joking around and playing when it was time for us to properly learn stuff from our snrs, and when we were doing impt admin stuff(like getting our access cards from the provosts). last straw was when he was openly making fun and belittling a senior from my current confirmed department(S is in a different department handling different infocomm stuff) because my senior is evidently very femme and also gay (he doesnt hide it and is very comfortable with how he is around others in the department). thankfully my senior took leave today and wasnt around to hear S and the other 2 PTEs from the other department make snark comments. and S is quirw the blabber mouth. like during our vocational training course he wld constantly retell and share with others tht i was the one who danced on stage during the last week of BRT and also making fun of my honest mistake when trying to teach others about an appliance (it was my first time seeing the appliance in person). so today i decided to remind him to repay me coz i paid for everyones new nametags and they all agreed to pay me back. and he told me hes broke which doesnt sit right w me because hes always doing stocks and trading?? so i asked to see if hes being fr and honestly this my fault because i cldve phrased it differently but the way hes trying to end it with me and cut ties w me makes it seem like im the one largely at fault because of the "way i talk to him and treat him"??? he said tht it was obvious that i dont want to talk to him??? maybe its because you choose the worst timings possible to strike a convo w me?? and w the worst topics ever??? and your constant comments abt me being so "kilat" and so "pro"?????? im new to everyth also bro??? maybe if you actl paid attention to how our snrs taught us you cld do the same idk so i just wnna get the views and advice from others, do you think im the A-hole in this situation?

I do not think it is true. but does anyone think otherwise though?

Saw in the news about the "Man charged with theft on flight..." (here and there), so thought of 'compiling' a list of things we all could take note of when travelling. [not sure if there is an existing/similar thread on this though... and this thread is not about travel destinations and/or its itinerary] Assuming you had already booked the best air tickets and accommodations, the following are the things I would do: Before traveling make sure passport has at least 6 months of validity (save soft copies of documents, if necessary) e-register with MFA (sometimes forgotten, especially for short trips, haha) submit online arrival card for travel destination, if any check VISA requirements, if any, of travel destinations check travel destinations' entry requirements/restrictions; health & vaccinations requirements; customs regulations bring enough cash (if cards are not widely accepted as source of transactions at travel destinations) * get travel insurance get e-SIM (cheaper) for travel destination(s) in advance, or buy it over there (optional) get International Driving License (optional) Onboard the plane carry important documents/cash with you at all times (not leaving them in the bag/luggage) board the plane as early as possible ** do not help strangers with their bag/luggages on the plane, let the air steward/stewardess do it *** choose aisle seat (optional) - I prefer to keep sight of my bag/luggage avoid drinking too much water, else you might need to use the toilet but seatbelt sign is on for a very, very long duration due to turbulence (happened to me once) Abroad do not help strangers with their bag/luggages at the airport (should something happened, you might become the 'accomplice') *** take care of personal safety at all times obey the laws and respect the cultures/customs of travel destinations lockup important documents/cash, carry minimum cash where possible if you are driving, know the traffic rules and check vehicle insurance coverage (optional to drive overseas) Prior to return submit 'Sg Arrival Card' online as above on "Onboard the plane" * nowadays, I bring YouTrip card (multi-currency travel card/wallet), pretty much hassle-free and easy to use. There are other similar such card options of course. ** this is to ensure that my bag/luggage is within sight from where I'm seated, either above or opposite overhead compartment, don't want to take any chances eh. *** not because I am not helpful, just a precaution to safeguard ourselves from crime(s), so that we don't leave behind our thumbprints/DNA (or being mistaken as 'accomplice'), etc. The above list is not exhaustive, please feel free to share/add on your important 'must do' list eh, haha.

helloo i was wondering if anyone is able to give some work out tips if i want to work out at home (mainly focusing on fat loss rather than muscle gain) thank youu🙏🙏

Hi everyone, I wanted to open a discussion about the different sexual roles within the LGBTQ+ community, specifically focusing on terms like top, bottom, versatile, flex top, flex bottom, and side. Understanding these roles can help us communicate better and respect each other’s preferences. Top: This refers to someone who prefers to be the insertive partner during sexual activities. They often take a more dominant role. Flex Top: A “flex top” is someone who primarily prefers to be the insertive partner but is also open to being versatile, meaning they can switch roles if desired. Flex: This term is short for “versatile” and refers to someone who enjoys both being the insertive partner (top) and the receptive partner (bottom) during sexual activities. They are flexible and comfortable in either role. Bottom: This refers to someone who prefers to be the receptive partner during sexual activities. They often take a more submissive role. Flex Bottom: A “flex bottom” is someone who primarily prefers to be the receptive partner but is also open to being versatile, meaning they can switch roles if desired. Side: A “side” refers to someone who does not engage in anal sex but still enjoys other forms of sexual activity, such as oral sex, mutual masturbation, and other non-penetrative acts. This term was popularized to provide a label for those who don’t fit into the traditional “top” or “bottom” roles. The concept of being a “side” helps to acknowledge and validate the diverse ways people can experience and enjoy intimacy without the need for penetration. It emphasizes that there are many ways to have fulfilling and satisfying sexual relationships. These terms help people communicate their preferences and comfort levels in relationships and sexual activities. Let’s share our thoughts and experiences to foster a more inclusive and understanding community!

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So I’m 18 and still live with my parents, was planning to buy a simple and cheap sex toy for my personal use but receiving it/the package without my parents knowing/opening it is next to impossible, anyone has any tips on how I can get it discreetly?? Sadly I don’t have any comfortable friends or “partners” to borrow their address from to order it. Any suggestions?? Or should I buy it directly from someone on this website??

Anyone has any idea how the cruising scene in the north of sg is? Around Yishun,Sembawang,Woodlands? The usual ( singular) haunt is losing its effectiveness and no one is really there late at night. Any clues on some places i should explore more in detail?

Hello everyone, Today is Monday, and I hope you’re all having a great start to the week. I wanted to share some thoughts on the difference between having an attitude problem and being easygoing, especially in the context of the LGBTQ+ community. A person with an attitude problem can be difficult to deal with. They might be very picky, often negative, and hard to please. Their interactions with others can come across as harsh or unpleasant. Difficult to Deal With: They often have a negative outlook, making interactions challenging. Picky and Hard to Please: Their high standards and critical nature can create tension. Harsh Interactions: Their communication style can be blunt or unpleasant, leading to conflicts. Resistance to Change: They may be inflexible, which can hinder progress and cooperation. On the other hand, a person with a positive attitude is easygoing, humble, polite, and pleasant to be around. They are approachable and make interactions smooth and enjoyable. Easygoing and Humble: They are approachable and open-minded, making them pleasant to be around. Polite and Pleasant: Their respectful and kind demeanor fosters positive interactions. Smooth Interactions: They handle situations with grace, making socializing enjoyable. Adaptable: They are willing to embrace change and new ideas, promoting a harmonious environment. In summary, understanding the difference between these attitudes can greatly impact our interactions and the overall atmosphere within our communities. Let’s strive to be more positive and approachable, fostering inclusivity and support for everyone.

This is a profound finding after 2 years in the search to perfecting the massage. 1. It helped us understand polarity and discover the inner masculine and feminine energies. We started becoming aware of what we were ashamed of within ourselves and started to release these attachments. 2. Through Tantric massage, we started creating more meaningful relationships. It has became more intimate and loving, giving us an experience of deep satisfaction and love, instead of feeding the constant loop of running after lustful thoughts. 3. Tantric massage is a respectful connection that supported us deeply in rebuilding the relationship to our own body. I learned to love more of me than I used to, and with that I was able to accept myself more, and enter relationships from a more emotionally and mentally balanced state of being. 4. We became capable of "lasting longer" and even experience more full-body bliss-states. In other words, we discovered what full-body orgasms feel like with the awareness of breathing (giver and receiver) throughout the session. Do you agree? Have you try a good and blissful massage?

For information purposes as Thailand is a common and frequently used tourist location for Singaporeans also in raising awareness: Surprisingly Thailand has not stocked up any Mpox Vaccine. Vaccines are not available currently in Thailand. In September 2022 Thailand ordered one batch of 500 vaccines to distribute to "high risk groups". But after that nothing happened. Actually, nobody really knows who got the vaccine (probably the political elite? 🤣) Visitors to Thailand should be aware of the recently released numbers of Mpox infections in the country, which looks like Thailand never really resolved the previous Mpox surge from 2022 and Mpox is still spreading around in Thailand. Note that Clade 2 is not the more dangerous African new strain (Clade 1 / 1B), which is more severe and has a higher death rate. Some excerpts from the recent media in Thailand: Mpox in Thailand different from African strain: Health authorities AUGUST 15, 2024 In Thailand, Clade 2 cases number 827, with 11 deaths between January 1 to August 10, 2024. Of these, 97.46% are male and 2.54% are female. The department's website lists the top 10 provinces with the highest Mpox case numbers: Bangkok (441 cases), Chonburi (78), Nonthaburi (42), Samut Prakan (31), Phuket (31), Rayong (25), Pathum Thani (25), Chiang Mai (23), Songkhla (12), and Khon Kaen (12). https://www.nationthailand.com/health-wellness/40040593 => Certain high risk groups might be more probably to get infected. Be informed that Singapore currently imposes a 21 day quarantine, of which are 7 day monitoring phase. The quarantine period may be increased again, once the first cases arrive in Singapore.

Now that WeChat pay and AliPay allow foreign bank credit cards, has anyone has experience on using the payment in China? I read online the reviews were rather mixed, some claimed it worked while others having issue.

Anyone doing it? Multiple sources pointed out the full health benefits experienced by practicing at least 100 days. I'm giving it a shot ...but...it's my day-03 and it's already so hard ... I went for decent massage yesterday and precum was already leaking non-stop... At this rate, I don't know how long i can last.. Anyway, here are some of the purported health benefits**: 1. Improved mental clarity and focus: Semen retention is believed to increase focus, clarity, and mental alertness. This can help with tasks that require concentration and focus. 2. Increased energy levels: By harnessing and retaining sexual energy, individuals may experience a boost in energy levels, helping them feel more energized throughout the day. 3. Improved physical performance: Some individuals believe that retention of semen can lead to increased physical strength, endurance, and athletic performance. 4. Better emotional health: Semen retention can help individuals feel more emotionally balanced and stable, reducing feelings of anxiety, depression, and mood swings. 5. Increased confidence and self-esteem: Some people report feeling more confident and self-assured when practicing semen retention, which can lead to improved relationships and social interactions. 6. Enhanced sexual experiences: By practicing semen retention, individuals may experience stronger and more intense orgasms, as well as increased pleasure during sexual activities. 7. Overall health benefits: Some studies suggest that semen retention may have positive effects on the immune system, hormone levels, and overall well-being. **Disclaimer** It's important to note that these benefits are largely anecdotal and may not have scientific evidence to support them. Additionally, semen retention may not be suitable or recommended for everyone, so it's important to speak with a healthcare provider before making any significant changes to your sexual habits.**

Chinese also interested in chinese

helloo!! was wondering if there are any teachers/educators here who taught/are teaching H2 Bio and Econs willing to give me some kinda tuition or crash course😞 my mid years are immediately after the june holidays and im kinda panicking😭😭

Are most gays actually straight acting that we don't register them as gays?

I have been in a long distance relationship with my partner for awhile now, he is from Vietnam, I am looking for ways to help him get SG PR so it is easier for him to stay with me long term. He is not a skilled worker so EP is not an option. Anyone has similar experinces? Or alternatives to help him stay for long term in SG?

Once had moment with a friend and ended up giving him a blowjob, it was my first time and till this day I can’t seem to do it as good as others as my imperfect teeth and my gag reflexes being a challenge too, had someone to teach me but I’d still appreciate tips and experiences. ☺️😉

Hey guys Let's start a pretty harmless discussion. As on the title - I'm perplexed over the Malay/chinese or Chinese/Malay mix background.. I am noticing on dating sites, most of the Malay chaps here identify themselves as " Mly/Chi " mix - but upon meeting, most of them basically good old Malay guys. I did ask - which part are they Chinese - and I get "oh, I can speak a bit of Mandarin" This is where I'm stumped with the response? What defines a Malay/Chinese mix when there is no trace of Chinese DNA in one. Why can't a Malay guys admit that they're Malay? I have friends who are actually Arabs by race, they look like any Malay or Filipinos here in Singapore, they converse in Malay but define themselves as Malay because most of them claim that it be less complicated to explain the ancestry background. I have friends who look very Chinese, fair skinned but they're just full blooded Malay joes... So are the Malay guys here having an identity issues?

Hello!! I am new here. Just want to ask what can one expect when entering TMC? As i am pretty new, what is the recomended steps to enjoy myself there and what is allowed and not allowed. All advice is welcomed! Thanks for your help in advance!!

help, i need your advice

I’m a straight male (26) that recently got a prostate massage and now I’m curious on how it would feel like with a dick in me. Anyone able to advice what I should do?

Hey, I am a newbie on both gym / swimming sections. Anyone who is a freelance swimming / gym coach, lets connect !! Or if you are looking for gym & swimming buddies, I am willing to consider too.. Location: Near PJ & Sg. Buloh