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I know if I write this reply you are probably going to think I am reactive but I am hoping you started this thread with an intention to draw discussion on this taboo topic and increase the awareness of gay rape. I have spoken to some gay men who have been raped or sexually violated before and it is painful and devastating for them. Most gay men do not realise that being raped or molested can happen to them, just like it can happen to women. And it is nothing like gay pxxn and definitely not exciting at all. Gay rapes are always under reported (or probably not reported in Singapore) because not only it is hard to admit you are a victim, but people tend to think being a male, you are physically more capable of protecting yourself. Or most people do not realise that rapists do not need to be a stranger, it could be your boyfriend or someone you are dating who force you to do something against your will.

Anyone here has special love for speedo ? It gets me real hard on. Sometimes I wear it as my brief and I put on a skimpy pair of speedo to massages. The masseurs get extremely aroused when they see it.

Experience the heart of Cheras‚ there is always something happening around the mall for everyone to enjoy 😁

Toilets at Lot One in CCK feels relatively discreet for cruising since the urinals are tucked away, making it easy to notice when someone enters. I've had several encounters there for a quick hot fun.

Since the previous thread under Traveller's Hut is deleted by the moderator. I think will be good to set up a new thread for member-only. Will start with my first experience at Sempurna Avenue, Cheras As a therapist, it might be surprising that I never been to the famous M2M massage place. I have tried many massage centres, masseurs from the apps, even visited bbboy, and some gay saunas in the past. I first heard about Manchai at Sempurna from my client who said his massage is strong. I decided to give him a try since he is my preferred type. I asked some of the fellow bw members about him. @hornychub kindly replied and gave me his direct whatsapp contact. However, all booking still need to go through the boss. Just happened that Healthland at Sg Chua is closed today. I went there this afternoon but no one around. I have to wait for Manchai to unlocked the main door upon arrival and go up the very dark stairs. No mysejahtera or temperature scan so not suitable for those concerns with COVID-19. Renovation of third floor (due to the recent DBKL raid) is finishing but the boss asked Manchai to use the 2nd floor where some (3) staff stay at that time. Manchai used the room next to the staff common room with workout equipment. The room was air-conditioned with a mattress on the floor. Overall still acceptable but I assume very different compared to third floor (never been). Manchai is friendly and speak Cantonese but I speak mandarin to him. He used to worked at D Spa and Water Spa when he was in Singapore. His brother runs a reflexology centre in Sg when he spent a short stint there too. His hometown from Pahang - origin of Musang King. He started the massage by doing some pressing on the back and proceed with massage of the upper body using lemongrass oil before moving to the legs with good strength using his strong hand, forearm, and elbow. He attempted the batin massage from the face down position. When turned around he massaged the legs and put them on top of his while pressing around my groin area when he asked whether I want extras but I turned down. Then he continues to massage my arms. Lastly, massage on sitting position. I was a bit shocked by the strength on my shoulder blade which was a bit painful but still bearable. Before the massage end, Manchai tried to give me a final body stretch standing up. I can feel his whole body behind and his bulge (could be semi hard) despite not so positive comments on the size, which was tempting to touch but I didn't. Throughout the session he is fully clothed. Overall, I enjoyed the 1h treatment of strong proper massage and he focused on my neck, shoulder, and back as requested. RM70 is definitely value for money. Will return to try again in the future when the third floor is properly re-opened. Skill: 6.5/10 Value: 7/10 Hope @hornychub can share his previous reviews of other masseurs from Sempurna and other places under this thread.

Hi Guys, I recently moved to JB from KL, been looking for Gay massage parlor. before lockdown whenever I come to Jb i go a Massage parlor called Artemis, earlier this month I went there but seems it closed. Last night I found an old friend on Grinder, he told me the Artemis never closed, it relocated few shops lot further on same row. Tody i visited Artemis (ATM) I had a good massage experience, I took William from Myanmar, he is tall, good looking, really enjoyed the massage and his company. For those who as me been thinking Artemis closed, want to shear that it's never closed just relocated. If anyone interested can visit their website for more information artemisjb.com Best Regards Alex

For those looking for gym buddies and sharing stories in Anytime Fitness around Kuala Lumpur. Write down your frequent workout outlets and preferred gym times to see if any buddies will want to join in!

Hello, Just wondering if anyone has had such experiences. Kinda similar to females when they squirt colourless liquid while being rubbed (as from what i saw in porn).. Personally i have experienced both squirting before and after cumming. It was done by rubbing ur dickhead continuously Would like to hear from the community. 😃

I have been thinking for quite some time now that we have Singapore's Gay Missed Connection. Why not we make a Malaysia Edition for Malaysian gays?

Do you have any stories to share on kinky piss drinking or golden shower? Is there anyone interested in drinking pee? Or being sprayed w pee?

Shin Min Daily News 新明日报 Man molest man! A middle aged man was charged for hiding in a male's toilet and subsequently molesting a 29 year old man. The molested 29yo man was using the toilet at HDB Hub Toa Payoh when he met the molester. The molester not only watched him from the opposite cubicle, and also molested his legs by touching them through the gap below the partition. The 29 year old man was shocked and ran out of the toilet immediately. This molest case occurred in 19 Nov 2004, at around 6:30pm at Toa Payoh HDB Hub. The molester was a 44 year old man named Hong Ya Sai. He is a computer promoter. He was charged this morning in court. Hong Ya Sai was wearing a blue T-Shirt and was medium built. He faced a charge for molestation and another for peeping. He is out on bail of S$12,000. The case will be adjoured to 24 Oct 2005. According to the courts, the molestation happened at the 3rd level toilet of Toa Payoh HDB Hub.

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Not sure if any such "robbery" incidents happen in Singapore, most probably not ending in killings as encountered in Brazil according to the news report. Certainly, in Singapore any such robbers wouldn't hold a gun against anyone, but it could be a knife etc. But I came across of incidents of people being lured to cruising spots in the direct neighbouring countries by guys who told me. Mostly, it was just one guy who met first, but then other guys turned from behind to help the attacker. Least not unknown in Europe: Certain gangs use similar approaches to rob homosexuals in public spaces or even in their private apartments. Anyone who encountered any such extortion experience through dating apps here in Singapore, Malaysia or Indonesia? Gay Brazilians targeted in deadly stickups, lured by dating apps By Dani Morera Trettin August 26, 2024 CAMBUQUIRA, Brazil, Aug 26 (Reuters) - It was June 12, Lover's Day in Brazil. Leo Nunes, 24, had spent a few days talking to someone he met on Hornet, a popular gay dating app, before arranging their first encounter in Sao Paulo's middle-class Sacoma neighborhood. A security camera captured the moment that two men on a motorcycle showed up in the alley where he was waiting, grabbed his phone and shot him dead. The Nunes family, who shared details of the investigation with Reuters, said one suspect had been arrested. Sao Paulo police said they are investigating the shooting as a robbery resulting in a homicide, but did not provide further information or confirm if there had been an arrest. ... The string of murders and assaults has shaken the gay community in Brazil, which is large and vibrant but still often wary of law enforcement. This reluctance makes it a target for criminals, according to three people who said they had been attacked, as well as LGBT advocates. "Because of structural homophobia, criminals know that LGBT people are vulnerable. They know they will be more easily intimidated," said Wanderley Montanholi, a lawyer for the family of Heleno Veggi Dumba, a gay doctor who was found dead in April in Sao Paulo after being shot in the head. Montanholi said Dumba was killed by criminals in an attempted robbery after they had lured him into an ambush through a dating app. Police declined to comment on whether they had identified a broader pattern of murders and robberies linked to gay dating apps, saying only that investigators in Sao Paulo had cleared four cases involving "love cons" in general. Gabriel, a gay man who declined to give his surname, citing privacy, said in late March he had arranged a date on the same street in Sacoma where Nunes was shot dead. He was lured by the same dating profile as several other victims, he later learned. "One man put a gun to my stomach and asked me the password of my phone," he said. With that, the criminals accessed his bank accounts, stole his savings and maxed out his credit card. Gabriel said a group of women who offered him comfort afterwards had witnessed a nearly identical episode the night before. He detailed the assault in a police report and in a group chat, both seen by Reuters, with six other men who said they had reported to law enforcement experiencing the same violent con. Police declined to comment on their cases. ... The article was only quoted in a shortened form. For reading the complete article refer to the link below: Full article: https://www.reuters.com/world/americas/gay-brazilians-targeted-deadly-stickups-lured-by-dating-apps-2024-08-26/

Anyone mind sharing his juicy stories with mature guy? Can be Twink with mature or Mature with mature. Old thread is dead so thought of starting a new one.

Time Should I waste my time on you who i can't control Should i waste my time on things that is of my beyond Can't we see the time that went tick tock Is this the right time or is it not? They say time flows like a stream To a land where there are many dreams But you told me you did like to be a place full of surprises and supremes There are no other choices but this is the way its seems. I do not know what to say The world is so full of grey You say I am imperfect and this I know Yet I still think you are gold I may be kind and silly but it’s not fine. Your avoidant ways clearly shows through time Time will reveal who you are And you can really be a pain in the arse Letting you go should keep you afar As there is nothing left to be my fuss Finally I can get on my path. E.T. 13.01.2019

Always was interested in public encounters but was too scared. Any1 want to share their experience in sg. Share ur favourite/ riskiest moments.

So while I was on the beach house a few weeks ago, I had stopped by to hang out with a friend of mine who was staying at a guest house with a pool. The guest house is clothing optional, and no women. It wasn't a big pool, and there were like 8 chaise surrounding it. Most seems to be taken. I found one odd chaise, but the ones next to it were occupied. My friend didn't seem to mind, we we figured we will just chill in the pool instead and grab some sun on the floaties. While in the pool, there was a gay couple, and we started chatting a bit. The usual vacation chit chat, where you from, how long you staying here etc. They seem nice, in their late 20s, early 30s I guess, very hipster looking, including the facial hair. One of them is a tad hairy for my taste but it is me. After a while, I got out of the water, and sat on the chaise to people watch. A few of the guys were tanning in the nude, and some in their trunks. The gay couple my friend and I had spoken to earlier were wrapped up in their own world, kissing and hugging each other. It was very sweet. Then the gay couple decided to get out of the water. The hairier one got out first, and that is when I noticed that he is a trans man. I mean where the penis should be, was just some skin folds, and hair. I admit that this is the first time in a long time since I saw a pussy. I wasn't expecting to see one at the guest house, but hey it is 2021. Yes we can all go into the whole discussion and debate about a FTM transperson being gay, and may as well remain a female, but that is not how he views or sees himself. I do admire his courage in showing the world who he is as a trans person, and having a positive experience. Nobody by the pool even bothered. Guys were either napping, or occupied on their smartphones, or just minding their own business. The couple got dressed shortly, and left the pool and said bye to my friend and I. I have to confess that that was my first actual encounter with someone that I know is FTM, and apparently since Buck Angle, there is now a whole porn category dedicated to FTM, which I supposed is no different that MTF. So would you consider dating or having sex with a FTM guy?

For those with submissive tendencies or into related kinks, what are some of the humiliating things you have done when you were horny? Once, in a moment of horny madness, I shaved off my pubic hair and used a marker to write the word "cocklet" along the length of dick. No one would see it of course, but I had to see it everytime I went to the urinal over the next two days or so until the ink faded. I remembered feeling humiliated then - humiliation at seeing the appearance of my crotch, and also a reminder that I had done this to myself when I was horny. It took a longer while for the hair to grow back, and I became very self-concious at the changing rooms for a while. More recently, I had a long stretch when I did not have the energy or time to jack off due to work pressure. One Friday when things finally calmed down, I was overwhelmed with my horniness and when I got back to my room, I stripped off all my clothes and and pulled my briefs over my face so that I could sniff the precum that had accumulated. I knelt down on the floor, hands behind my head, and set a 7-minute timer on the clock behind myself. And then I stayed in that way until the alarm rang - those were perhaps the longest 7 minutes I ever endured. I was safe in my room, but not knowing the time and whether the ordeal would end soon made me very nervous. It did not help that as I started breathing more heavily, it further moistened the brief pouch and heightned the smells that I was forced to continue inhaling. The latter probably flooded my nose hairs, because I continued smelling traces of it for the rest of the day after I had removed the briefs from face.

This is a collective plea from all of us here at BW for you readers to share your sexual experiences. Come on don't be shy! I am sure everyone has some unique experiences to share. Do not worry about writing in broken english. It in fact provides a distinctive flavour to the post. Since we have allowed posting to be made anonymously (you do not need to be a registered member to post), your identity will not be exposed. I am attaching an example of a great post written in somewhat working class singlish. Up to today, I get hard reading it. I am sure many of you guys have similar stories to tell. Kindly share. ==================================================================== SteamedFish Unregistered User (4/8/04 7:23 am) FishingMan Last weekend I was drinking with friends at the NTUC Club. When we said goodbye, I thought I'll go to the nearby seaside to get some fresh air. There are some lovers and 2 men fishing. I walked to the far side to sit near the man to see how was his luck. The lights were quite dim but I can see him. Quite a stout chap with a handsome fair face about 30+. After a while, he got up, unzipped and peed into the sea. Hehe, I of course looked at his cock. Nice. He saw me that. He sat down and carried on his fishing. I asked him got any fish. He said no but got cheekopek. I know he was referring to me. But I was thick-skinned. I said we all men why say until like that? See also no harm right. He said don't know why ah quas like to peep at him. Happened so many time already. I said he's handsome, that's why. He say he old cock liao and got 2 children already. So I say he got man flavor. He said I got very sweet mouth. Is it I want to makan him. I say I dare not, wait he beat me up. He said don't bluff, last time that kelong owner also behaved like me. Seems like he's got naughty story so I asked him to tell me. He said last time he fishing at Changi, got one man saw him and told him he got kelong and he can fish there many fish. Since he said it's free, so he went because the kelong's nearby. When they got on the kelong, there were 2 workers there. The owner told them to go mainland to do something so they left. While he's fishing, he caught many fishes. The owner took a big pail to put in the fishes. But one time, he accidentally spill water on him. The owner said sorry and told him to wash with the clean pail of water. He said here nobody so can just wash naked nobody see also. So he got naked and washed. Then the owner also strip naked and his cock was hard already. He said he also want to wash. So they washed. Then the owner washed his back for him. Then told him to relax while he massage his back. He put a big canvas cloth on the floor and told him to lie down. He told the owner he's not gay. The owner said never mind, only help him relax. The owner massaged until his cock stand also. Quite nice. Then he asked him want to release fire or not? He said no. But the owner already shaking his cock until he cums. The owner also masturbated till he cummed. I said his story made me steamed. He said he also steamed. He asked me whether I got let people play backside. I said very seldom. He said he want to fxxk my backside. I said cannot, here so dangerous. He said I am so hamsup, he want to fxxk me also think twice. Wait he changed his mind then it's too late. So I said go someplace can or not? He said can if not far away. So he kept his fishing line and carried his big bag. We walked to Marina South and saw a big lorry park that's quite dim. There's one big lorry so we climbed on. He lay his canvas on the floor and we striped naked. He asked why I not shy to let men fxxk. I said not always but must be handsome like him then I willing. If not, then I don't want also. He laughed, like that he can fxxk any men if he want. I asked he got condom or not. He said no. He say how? I said if not then we just shake out. He said cannot that means he not handsome enough is it? I said no condom dangerous. He said I clean backide or not? I said should be, I washed before going out. He said he got plenty of water. He said he has an idea. He took out a plastic bag and inside was a big sandwich wrapped in lots of cellophane. He carefully removed the cellophane and put the sandwich back into the plastic bag. He wrapped the cellophane a few times round his cock and tie round his balls. I touched it and it felt quite strong with the few layers. He said I am like a wolf. But then no lube. Again he opened the sandwich bag and took out the small piece of wrapped butter. Wah lan eh, he said this time it is like people said I "bua" butter on my backside and kan karchng. I must say he's quite a good fxxker with all the right moves. I got my legs on his shoulders and told him he's good. He smiled and pumped me slow and fast. First I cummed then he after. We used his water to wipe clean and put on our clothes. He said it was fun. I said next time we better go hotel. ======================================================================

Hi all Somehow I could no longer find the old thread of the same topic. So I have created a new thread. Let’s contribute and make Katong pool great again. To start the ball rolling, here my 1st post to this thread. Date: 29 June Time: 1-gish pm. Saw someone in black thong but he was discreet when he walked around. He had a shorts on. Wave wave Mr Thong.

I need some serious advice from any experienced gays out there. I've new to the homosexual world & not actively looking for relationships or anything.. BUT for some reason I tend to attract/lucky enough to befriend guys I find cute... The thing is.. it stays there: at friendship level only & as time passes, we continue to only act straight etc... i think their interest wanes. I'm not sure what I did wrong but reading around I was wondering if its the sexual part... I've NEVER gathered enough courage to kiss/sex etcetc those kinds of stuffs & I think they hinted? (I dunno I'm dumb) but I never got it & they never advanced... SO to all those experienced guys out there: Must sex come into the picture one time or another for it to move past friendship & how? I'm a dumb virgin so is there a way to not be friendzoned? & after we pass the friends mark, is there any hope to return? P.S: I'm a Libra & apparently I've been attracted & attracting Tauruses & Scorpios... I wanna lasting relationship with them but.. completely stupid in the sensual/sexual section. Any help/advice is appreciated.

Do you have passion for worshipping Cock, anyone near kepong, mont kiara, desa Sri hartamas, publika, solaris... Please share availability or places nearby this location where dicks can get sucked at any time... Also please share what are the Do's n Don't that you experience while worshipping a cock or more than 1 cock. Fantasies: *Continue to have the dick in ur mouth while youre on call or browsing ur phone or checking emails. * Sensual extremely slow start by taking only the tip or the head in the mouth n slowly start teasing n swirling ur tongue ard the dick. Don't, don't start the rhythm of up down up down immediately as if all u want is to make him cum fast... He will always look for other if u make him cum fast... Keep his balls in Yr hands while making him cum late..

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I am new to BW. Read some stories and was inspired to write my own. My friendship with a straight friend When I was in Sec 1, I had a friend and we were very close. I almost went to his house every afternoon to do work. We talked a lot, including sensitive topic about masturbation. We talked about the number of times we jerk a day, our penis size, his gfs etc. One day, he showed a his dad Jap porn magazines and we saw the magazines together. Occasionally, he will adjust his shorts due to his hard on. This becomes our rest break activity in between homework. Another day, my first time watching a Jap porn video. He was aroused by the Jap girl and I without his knowledge was the cute Jap guys. Halfway through the video, we dared each other to jerk off the other party. He was confident that if I jerk him off, he will not cum. I jo him and he cummed like crazy. I love to see his 14cm hardon. Jerking session becomes common activity ( at least once a week) Many horny stories (shared next time) We were good friends until he went overseas to study. We lost touch then. One day, he came back from overseas. He called me and we met up at my void deck. He asked if I was attached to a girl. I said No and gave usual excuse like no time, uni studies more important. Then he pop the question which totally caught me off guard, "Are you a gay?" It came as a shock but I did not know where I got the courage, I replied "Yes, Maybe". It was my first time coming out to my close friends. We chatted for a while and he left. I never heard from him again... Till today, it was one of my regrets. I could have just brushed it off. I do think about this friendship from time to time, especially when I travel past our ex sec schools, his house. I decided to write this story today. Perhaps it is my first step to moving on from this regret of my life.

Hi just curious, does anyone has experience sex in office or workplace? I had mine in the ex workplace address and currently at the new location as office shift location. To share abit, know my ex at the workplace. He was in HR and I was hired for the job. We became close and eventually few months later we are attached. During our period together, we always find excuses to visit the toilets in the office. We are in different levels. He was at level 10 and I was at level 15 and level 13 I think was a lounge and we know the toilet there is always quiet so we will visit there ard 3pm. He will msg me and I will find excuses to say I am hungry and will go down to buy food. Then we will meet at the toilet at level 13. We will kiss and we will bj each other till we cum. After that we will go back to our respective levels and I will wait for him to finish work before going home. But the sex was really shiok and kind of missed having fun there in the office. The excitement and anxiety of not being discovered. Anyway, here is just one of my story, do share urs here. Cheers.