Guest Luke Posted June 27, 2022 Report Share Posted June 27, 2022 Any experts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post doncoin Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 27, 2022 He stands below your HDB block with a boombox and plays his Spotify playlist of love songs. manehiso, Steve5380, fitcubsg and 3 others 2 4 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fitcubsg Posted June 28, 2022 Report Share Posted June 28, 2022 He holds your hand in Singapore and walks around and kisses you on the lips in public. And he shouts from the roof top he is in love with you. No secrets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gozu Posted June 29, 2022 Report Share Posted June 29, 2022 He gets mad seeing you too pally with others.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinkienips Posted June 29, 2022 Report Share Posted June 29, 2022 He will reply your message instantly. He gets jealous when you texting other guys. He shares things with you just to initiate a conversation with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amazon Posted June 29, 2022 Report Share Posted June 29, 2022 He remembers every:- - single word you say, - first event - movie, makan, shopping - special dates - bday, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
practease Posted June 30, 2022 Report Share Posted June 30, 2022 He is always rock hard below and the zipper area is always damp when he is close to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted June 30, 2022 Report Share Posted June 30, 2022 On 6/28/2022 at 3:24 AM, doncoin said: He stands below your HDB block with a boombox and plays his Spotify playlist of love songs. Is there a male Cinderella ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted June 30, 2022 Report Share Posted June 30, 2022 The question would be : Interested in doing what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dart Posted June 30, 2022 Report Share Posted June 30, 2022 He initiates a cordial expression with inviting eyes to establish contact. He shows interest in getting to know you. He does not look away while chatting with you or engages in unnecessary phone activity while with you. Very often he initiates a new subject when the conversation comes to a dead end or a new arrangement when the current proposal is inconvenient to you. There will be follow up calls from him .... my humble opinion 😜 fab and yuquidam 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted June 30, 2022 Report Share Posted June 30, 2022 He will tell you he miss you. He will blush if you kiss him on the cheek. AgentFit, yuquidam and Dart 1 2 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robin Posted June 30, 2022 Report Share Posted June 30, 2022 (edited) There is no need to second guess or try to interpret the actions of the person, too tiring for me. I simply told him; I like you, do you want to be my date & see how things go for us? Edited June 30, 2022 by robin Enci 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted July 2, 2022 Report Share Posted July 2, 2022 On 7/1/2022 at 12:26 AM, fab said: He will tell you he miss you. He will blush if you kiss him on the cheek. Aww... that's really sweet and romantic. *LIKE!* fab and T Gunner 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Startup Posted July 2, 2022 Report Share Posted July 2, 2022 (edited) Usually interest is sustained by the prospect of having sex. Edited July 2, 2022 by Startup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted July 2, 2022 Report Share Posted July 2, 2022 On 7/2/2022 at 11:18 AM, Startup said: Usually interest is sustained by the prospect of having sex. Quite true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mameha Posted July 2, 2022 Report Share Posted July 2, 2022 How do you know if the interest is love interest or just a friend interest? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted July 2, 2022 Report Share Posted July 2, 2022 Most is just lust...keep repeating on its own... If he guy is interested in you and he will directly ask for your number not ig or not line not whatsapp...and intiate plan for date the next day. This one is hard to come by...hold on to this kind person...way rare and different. So it is all depends on how your aura and energy you give it to everyone...they can tell and feel...if you fake or just want the sex or fun or lust or sincerely wants to know more...etc... shenalone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robin Posted July 2, 2022 Report Share Posted July 2, 2022 For those who have responded, based on your reply, I am curious to ask, will you do the same if you are interested in the other party? If the answer is no, then is it fair to have such expectations? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinkienips Posted July 3, 2022 Report Share Posted July 3, 2022 On 7/3/2022 at 2:48 AM, robin said: For those who have responded, based on your reply, I am curious to ask, will you do the same if you are interested in the other party? If the answer is no, then is it fair to have such expectations? Of course. For me, if I like that guy, I will initiate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Try and see Posted July 3, 2022 Report Share Posted July 3, 2022 On 6/28/2022 at 3:24 AM, doncoin said: He stands below your HDB block with a boombox and plays his Spotify playlist of love songs. Your post reminded me of this scene from Desperate Housewives, where George did the same thing outside Bree's house 😄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted July 3, 2022 Report Share Posted July 3, 2022 I am a direct person if I like that someone I confront be it a guy or girl...that way I have no regrets in life..even though I get rejected I thought things will be awkward after that but it seem we get close like close friends...didn't expect that.. so if you like someone just go for it.... crush is lust...liking is more to your heart...men and women loves someone who direct outspoken daring...they knew where you coming from and the respect is there...if you still kuniang shyness by pm ig... stalking...line...dm..pm...and afraid of rejection, I am sorry to say you have years ahead to learn about life philosophy....life have to keep moving time will never wait for you like 15-20 years ago....you have to take risk or gamble dont give a fuck who judge you...etc...who cares... nobody cares...it is always you vs you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Startup Posted July 3, 2022 Report Share Posted July 3, 2022 (edited) This game of holding a flower as you pluck each petal and ask is he interested? Is he not? never gets old. Came across a similar thread below. As you can see, the game is fun at first. But after some time, it costs u your sanity. There is no advice anyone can give u. It’s a matter of how long you can tahan the game. Usually when both parties are interested in each other, you will be texting each other nonstop till you meet. Then all answers will be revealed. If it’s not a clear cut situation, then just get enough flowers to keep plucking till you get sick of it. Edited July 3, 2022 by Startup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest huh? Posted July 3, 2022 Report Share Posted July 3, 2022 Getting past the drama mentioned above, if a total stranger asked me if I needed a fuck, he is definitely the one I was searching for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wonderguy Posted April 2, 2023 Report Share Posted April 2, 2023 There are several signs that a guy may be interested in you. Here are some things to look for: He pays attention to you: If he is interested in you, he will likely pay attention to you when you speak, and may even remember small details about your life or interests. He makes an effort to spend time with you: If he likes you, he will likely try to spend time with you and make plans to see you. He may also try to initiate conversations or hang out with you in group settings. He compliments you: If he is interested in you, he may compliment you on your appearance or something you did or said. He shows physical affection: If he likes you, he may try to touch you in a subtle way, like touching your arm or back, or standing close to you. He seems nervous around you: If he is interested in you, he may seem a bit nervous or shy around you, and may have trouble making eye contact or speaking confidently. It's important to keep in mind that these signs alone are not definitive proof that a guy is interested in you, and some guys may exhibit some of these behaviors without being romantically interested. The best way to know for sure if a guy is interested in you is to communicate directly and ask him how he feels. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Derelict Posted April 3, 2023 Report Share Posted April 3, 2023 If a guy is interested in, he'll point his cock at you.,😛🔥 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calvt Posted April 3, 2023 Report Share Posted April 3, 2023 If a guy likes you, he will make time for you. mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lohwpr Posted April 5, 2023 Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 He insists on walking/driving you home regardless how tired he is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToughGuy Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 On 4/3/2023 at 8:22 PM, calvt said: If a guy likes you, he will make time for you. Very true But if he doesn't like you, zillions of excuses Quote Looking for Lean twin bottom.. Only clean safe discreet fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 He will signal me to follow him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 He cant get enough of you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shenalone Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 On 7/3/2022 at 12:07 AM, BudakFit said: Most is just lust...keep repeating on its own... If he guy is interested in you and he will directly ask for your number not ig or not line not whatsapp...and intiate plan for date the next day. This one is hard to come by...hold on to this kind person...way rare and different. So it is all depends on how your aura and energy you give it to everyone...they can tell and feel...if you fake or just want the sex or fun or lust or sincerely wants to know more...etc... I got into this, we match and chatted and he initiated it to exchange number and I feel comfortable with it and he arrange and plan for the date. But I was so awkward during the date, I think I have f it up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanton_mee Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 It is easier to know if a guy doesn't like you.🤣 cutejack 1 Quote 风没有形状，风骚才有！💋 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanton_mee Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 On 4/3/2023 at 8:22 PM, calvt said: If a guy likes you, he will make time for you. I need to go Emergency department. So true... Quote 风没有形状，风骚才有！💋 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robin Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 1 hour ago, shenalone said: I got into this, we match and chatted and he initiated it to exchange number and I feel comfortable with it and he arrange and plan for the date. But I was so awkward during the date, I think I have f it up. Maybe it is not as bad as you think. I once went on a date with this guy. After we parted, I received a text from him apologizing that he f up our date by remaining quiet. I was surprised because I thought it went ok for a first date. Anyway, we did went out a few more times subsequently. It did not work out as he was still too quiet throughout. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 (edited) To know if a guy is interested is not difficult, many good examples have been given here. It is different to know what FEELINGS the guy has for oneself. After a few months with my lifelong bf, he took me to my first visit to a gay sauna. We did not engage others, but I liked it very much. Thereafter, still in a mood of singlehood, I visited it a couple of times my myself. Until he got suspicious and went there, saw my car outside, came in, found me chatting with a guy, and dragged me out of the place. Back at home there was some tension, and finally he came to me to tell me that he was disappointed with me and was going to move out of my place and end the relationship. This hit me very hard, and I started to cry. As soon as he saw me crying, he rushed to my side and embraced me. No more talk of breaking up. In this incident, he discovered my real feelings for him, and I got reassurance of his feelings for me. And our relationship lasted for over 20 more years, till the end. And since then, he never saw me flirting with another guy. . Edited June 23 by Steve5380 dinnyjully 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 42 minutes ago, Steve5380 said: After a few months with my lifelong bf, he took me to my first visit to a gay sauna. Until he got suspicious and went there, saw my car outside, came in, found me chatting with a guy, and dragged me out of the place. This hit me very hard, and I started to cry. As soon as he saw me crying, he rushed to my side and embraced me. And since then, he never saw me flirting with another guy. I'm attempting to understand why you frequently go to Asia Sauna for sex, is not considered "flirting" with another man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 3 hours ago, Why? said: I'm attempting to understand why you frequently go to Asia Sauna for sex, is not considered "flirting" with another man. During my relationship with my bf I made numerous trips, and had sex with guys mostly thousands of miles away from home, away from my bf. So that he never saw me flirting with another guy. While aware that he had my love, he understood my needs and never found anything bad with my sex-tourism. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 (edited) So today, an amusing incident happened while I was at the courthouse. I had to file some paperwork that is fairly routine. Anyway, while waiting, the opposing counsel showed up. I have never met the guy before, so he was randomly asking the people if it is me. I waved and got to his attention, and we went out and found a more quiet section to discuss some of the details. He is kinda cute. There are many older lawyers, and you know they are lawyers because they are the only ones dressed completely in a suit in this unbearable heat blast we are having. Anyway, he is probably in his late 30s, and so we sat and exchanged pleasantries. I felt bad for him as the a/c wasn't the strongest and I can see that even in the slightly cooled room, he is still perspiring and I suggested that he should remove his blazer. (I knew it was a hot day, so I didn't even bother with the whole suit and tie thing. I went to the courthouse in dress pants and a tanktop and had my shirt folded into my bag, and just put to shirt when i got in). He smiled appreciatively. Long story short, we flirted quite a bit and the conversation did steer away from what we were supposed to be discussing. Sure, there is that little voice in my head that says he maybe using this to win the case or try to find some loophole in the process through me, since he is opposing counsel. Also I found out we do have know some people in common from work and social, and he and his friends are doing this pride party event, and he invited me this coming weekend. In the end, we exchanged phone numbers, and I know that I cannot really do anything with him at any level, personal or professional, until this case is resolved. Bummer! Edited June 23 by doncoin lanjiao and HC-B 1 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savagegarden Posted June 25 Report Share Posted June 25 On 6/24/2025 at 5:05 AM, doncoin said: So today, an amusing incident happened while I was at the courthouse. I had to file some paperwork that is fairly routine. Anyway, while waiting, the opposing counsel showed up. I have never met the guy before, so he was randomly asking the people if it is me. I waved and got to his attention, and we went out and found a more quiet section to discuss some of the details. He is kinda cute. There are many older lawyers, and you know they are lawyers because they are the only ones dressed completely in a suit in this unbearable heat blast we are having. Anyway, he is probably in his late 30s, and so we sat and exchanged pleasantries. I felt bad for him as the a/c wasn't the strongest and I can see that even in the slightly cooled room, he is still perspiring and I suggested that he should remove his blazer. (I knew it was a hot day, so I didn't even bother with the whole suit and tie thing. I went to the courthouse in dress pants and a tanktop and had my shirt folded into my bag, and just put to shirt when i got in). He smiled appreciatively. Long story short, we flirted quite a bit and the conversation did steer away from what we were supposed to be discussing. Sure, there is that little voice in my head that says he maybe using this to win the case or try to find some loophole in the process through me, since he is opposing counsel. Also I found out we do have know some people in common from work and social, and he and his friends are doing this pride party event, and he invited me this coming weekend. In the end, we exchanged phone numbers, and I know that I cannot really do anything with him at any level, personal or professional, until this case is resolved. Bummer! Patience.. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted June 25 Report Share Posted June 25 2 hours ago, savagegarden said: There are many older lawyers, ... in his late 30s, And I thought 50s was the new 30s. 2 hours ago, savagegarden said: dress pants and a tanktop That's quite a combo. Perfect for City2Surf. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted June 25 Report Share Posted June 25 58 minutes ago, radiusulnar said: And I thought 50s was the new 30s. Straight 50s is the new 70s. 58 minutes ago, radiusulnar said: That's quite a combo. Perfect for City2Surf. It's just being practical. I don't want my dress shirt to be soaked by the time I get to where I need to be. So I tend to wear tank tops or t-shirts when I move about and just put on the shirt when i get to my destination. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted June 25 Report Share Posted June 25 1 hour ago, doncoin said: So I tend to wear tank tops or t-shirts when I move about and just put on the shirt when i get to my destination. thinking about it, i'm surprised this hasn't caught on here in singapore given our hot and humid weather year round. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AgentFit Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 (edited) Many have shared wise insights so I'll just reinforce this one: An interested person will keep looking at you and his or her gaze follows you everywhere, subtlely or otherwise… You know from the corner of your eye that he or she is looking appreciatively. When you speak in a group setting with multiple conversations going on, he or she will look your way and try to hear what you say.. That to me, is a clear sign of interest 😊 Edited June 26 by AgentFit DunKnow 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IcarusCQC Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Yup, then you are interested in someone, your filtering priority shifts to that someone first. The opposite is also true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nickguy Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted Sunday at 09:27 AM Report Share Posted Sunday at 09:27 AM (edited) When he don't wait too long to reply yr messages. And he make sure he replies all. He takes initiatives to communicate, not waiting for you to say something. When meeting you, your eyes always meet and stays longer than usual. Similarly, if the above are not fulfil, I take the cue and leave him alone. Edited Sunday at 09:43 AM by Leanmeat Alex Pulai Spring Resort and AgentFit 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatguy642 Posted Monday at 02:23 AM Report Share Posted Monday at 02:23 AM They make it a point to talk to you in group settings, also a good sign someone is physically attracted to you if they can’t help but touch you, giving random massages, buying you things, stuff like that. Just from my experience at least! I’m sure there are more signs but I’m a bit stupid when it comes to reading signals unless it’s super obvious. AgentFit 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted Tuesday at 01:41 AM Report Share Posted Tuesday at 01:41 AM 23 hours ago, Thatguy642 said: if they can’t help but touch you Touchy feely. But if you are not keen, then it's creepy Thatguy642 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatguy642 Posted Tuesday at 01:48 AM Report Share Posted Tuesday at 01:48 AM 5 minutes ago, radiusulnar said: Touchy feely. But if you are not keen, then it's creepy I speak only for myself because I know not many people feel the same but I actually don’t mind when people are touchy feely (and kind of enjoy it) regardless of whether I’m keen or not, anywhere on my body (except my dick.) the private part is reserved 😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted Tuesday at 01:50 AM Report Share Posted Tuesday at 01:50 AM 1 minute ago, Thatguy642 said: regardless of whether I’m keen or not, anywhere on my body Judging from your DP you would be a great temptation for many Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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