Does bottoming make a bicurious guy gay??

[YoungnHorny]

Met a 19y.o NSF off this forum who wanted to try gay sex for his first time.

 

Invited him to my place and we started engaging in heavy foreplay on my bed. 

As things got heated up between us, I wanted more than just the usual kissing and JO action. 

 

I began to play with his virgin hole and lubed it up. He moaned like crazy but before I could penetrate him, he asked me if this will turn him gay. He said he doesn't want to be gay. 🙄

 

I think cause I was damn horny so I told him it's just two guys experimenting with each other and it's not going to make him gay whatsoever. 😅 

 

We proceeded to have really wild and intense sex but I kinda felt that he wanted to deny his sexuality? 

 

Should I have told him the truth and risk getting rejected?

Edited July 28, 2022 by YoungnHorny

[manehiso]

If you have your own place, u're definitely not young. U're just horny! Haha.. 

[GachiMuchi]

On 7/29/2022 at 12:21 AM, YoungnHorny said:

Met a 19y.o NSF off this forum who wanted to try gay sex for his first time.

 

Invited him to my place and we started engaging in heavy foreplay on my bed. 

As things got heated up between us, I wanted more than just the usual kissing and JO action. 

 

I began to play with his virgin hole and lubed it up. He moaned like crazy but before I could penetrate him, he asked me if this will turn him gay. He said he doesn't want to be gay. 🙄

 

I think cause I was damn horny so I told him it's just two guys experimenting with each other and it's not going to make him gay whatsoever. 😅 

 

The sex was really good and intense but I kinda felt that he wanted to deny his sexuality? 

 

Should I have told him the truth and risk getting rejected?

 

And by posting this question in this forum where you found him, you think he won't know?

After making him so high and then penetrating him and taking his virginity, the only consolation he can get from you is what he wants to hear.  So, yes, if you need to lie, lie to him, it's what he wants to hear.

Actually you should not have posted your question here because if he knows that you are doing this, he might not be happy and will not want to meet you again, unless he super horny and enjoyed what you did to him.

Anyway, meet him some more time and open his mind that sex can be so enjoyable regardless if he is straight or gay.

[Sports]

This is the funniest thing I've heard for quite some time.

 

Anywho, sexuality is really not so much of a:

A) Straight

B) Gay

C) Bi

D) (The rest of the remainders of the LGBTQ+ spectrum, oh gosh!)

 

However, it's more like a 'slider' kind of thing. Whether you're 30% gay, 70% straight -- 80% straight, 20% gay... You get my point.

 

Surprisingly, this theory was actually told to me by a very good friend of mine, whom is 100% straight as a nail and no amount of rainbows could bend him over (HA, I did the joke!)

 

I won't say that he's wrong... But then, if getting anally penetrated by another man's schlong could turn a straight man gay, then wouldn't that for him to have an intercourse with a woman turns him straight again? Huh, odd.

 

Don't mind me, I like thinking a log trails of stuffs in theory

[YoungnHorny]

On 7/29/2022 at 1:03 AM, GachiMuchi said:

 

And by posting this question in this forum where you found him, you think he won't know?

After making him so high and then penetrating him and taking his virginity, the only consolation he can get from you is what he wants to hear.  So, yes, if you need to lie, lie to him, it's what he wants to hear.

Actually you should not have posted your question here because if he knows that you are doing this, he might not be happy and will not want to meet you again, unless he super horny and enjoyed what you did to him.

Anyway, meet him some more time and open his mind that sex can be so enjoyable regardless if he is straight or gay.

 

I am not sure if I had been honest and upfront, he would have just stopped there you see...

And he was q worried about turning gay because of this experience. 

[YoungnHorny]

On 7/29/2022 at 12:58 AM, manehiso said:

If you have your own place, u're definitely not young. U're just horny! Haha.. 

Rent one mah haha

[Guest Haha]

I guess if doctor do a prostrate exam on you, that guy automatically turned gay. 

[fab]

On 7/29/2022 at 12:21 AM, YoungnHorny said:

Met a 19y.o NSF off this forum who wanted to try gay sex for his first time.

 

Invited him to my place and we started engaging in heavy foreplay on my bed. 

As things got heated up between us, I wanted more than just the usual kissing and JO action. 

 

I began to play with his virgin hole and lubed it up. He moaned like crazy but before I could penetrate him, he asked me if this will turn him gay. He said he doesn't want to be gay. 🙄

 

I think cause I was damn horny so I told him it's just two guys experimenting with each other and it's not going to make him gay whatsoever. 😅 

 

We proceeded to have really wild and intense sex but I kinda felt that he wanted to deny his sexuality? 

 

Should I have told him the truth and risk getting rejected?

 

So u r the bicurious one and he is the in denial btm?

[singalion]

On 7/29/2022 at 12:21 AM, YoungnHorny said:

Met a 19y.o NSF off this forum who wanted to try gay sex for his first time.

 

Invited him to my place and we started engaging in heavy foreplay on my bed. 

As things got heated up between us, I wanted more than just the usual kissing and JO action. 

 

I began to play with his virgin hole and lubed it up. He moaned like crazy but before I could penetrate him, he asked me if this will turn him gay. He said he doesn't want to be gay. 🙄

 

I think cause I was damn horny so I told him it's just two guys experimenting with each other and it's not going to make him gay whatsoever. 😅 

 

We proceeded to have really wild and intense sex but I kinda felt that he wanted to deny his sexuality? 

 

Should I have told him the truth and risk getting rejected?

 

In that age I would say you are experimenting. It depends if the NSF 19y old is attracted to guys for the future. 

 

I don't think being bottomed makes the point.

 

There are straight guys who have their gf or wife "bottom" them with tools or fingering.

There is a lot out in the market you are not aware of .

 

The label of being gay applies applies if you in general get attracted by males, their sex organs, watch gay porn and such things.

 

Most guys may experiment. it is not uncommon for teens to view their erected dicks and compare sizes and even jerk off together. It happens,

but that doesn't necessarily mean someone is gay.

 

You are gay if you get sexually aroused by another man.

 

Whether you tell him the truth or not, does it matter?

 

The 19y NSF has to find out for himself what he wants and how he intends to perform sex in his life.

 

 

 

 

Edited July 29, 2022 by singalion

[robin]

In our world of gayness, we have bottoms who call them flex, gays-in-denial address themselves as bi-curious or even straight, effeminate guys describing themselves as  straight acting…..

 

Don’t think too much about it, two of you are just out for a good time! 

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Obviously yes. Malas aku nak elaborate. Go figure eh...

 

Once you dah main dengan jantan, you dah masuk dah gay/bi world! 

 

Fun & sex is diff...if I were you, fun is just enough for that experience. 

[Guest xXx]

Tell him: Many straight men, happily married with kids or even grandchildren, also have gay sex. Straight or gay is just an identity e.g. I’m a doctor but I can also be a patient when I get ill. 

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/29/2022 at 6:44 AM, fab said:

 

So u r the bicurious one and he is the in denial btm?

 

No, the NSF is both the bicurious one, and the bottom in denial.

 

Yes, the title of the thread is gramatically ambiguous, because it sounds like the OP bottomed for the bicurious NSF.

 

Instead of saying,

 

"Does bottoming for a bicurious guy makes him gay?",

 

he could have said,

 

"Does a bicurious guy bottoming mean that he is gay?".

 

 

(sorry the font got so big after I copied and pasted the title 😅)

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/29/2022 at 1:04 AM, Sports said:

I won't say that he's wrong... But then, if getting anally penetrated by another man's schlong could turn a straight man gay, then wouldn't that for him to have an intercourse with a woman turns him straight again? Huh, odd.

 

Very good point! 

Being gay or straight is also a lot to do with what you identify as, not just by what happened during a one-time incident.

E.g. Sometimes I fantasise about having a wife and kids. But I still consider myself 100% gay.

 

On that note, what you said reminds me of what I read, about how when a straight guy is raped, very often, he will cope with the trauma by having sex with multiple women i.e. to prove that he is straight.

[fab]

On 7/30/2022 at 9:32 AM, Guest Try and see said:

 

No, the NSF is both the bicurious one, and the bottom in denial.

 

Yes, the title of the thread is gramatically ambiguous, because it sounds like the OP bottomed for the bicurious NSF.

 

Instead of saying,

 

"Does bottoming for a bicurious guy makes him gay?",

 

he could have said,

 

"Does a bicurious guy bottoming mean that he is gay?".

 

 

(sorry the font got so big after I copied and pasted the title 😅)

 

Does bottoming make a bicurious guy gay?

[Steve5380]

On 7/28/2022 at 11:21 AM, YoungnHorny said:

 

Should I have told him the truth and risk getting rejected?

 

 

 

My child,  don't let this guilt ruin your possibilities of happiness for the rest of your life!!

 

Recognize that this "bicurious" guy should take responsibility for his actions and his weaknesses to want to try to bottom!    And you didn't lie.  Just trying to bottom, and even if he gets the habit of it,  does not necessarily make him gay.   There are plenty of straights who like to bottom.

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/30/2022 at 10:10 AM, fab said:

 

Does bottoming make a bicurious guy gay?

 

Yes! That should have been the thread title! 👍

Cos when I read the title initially, I also thought the bicurious guy was top.

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/30/2022 at 10:26 AM, Steve5380 said:

My child,  don't let this guilt ruin your possibilities of happiness for the rest of your life!!

 

Recognize that this "bicurious" guy should take responsibility for his actions and his weaknesses to want to try to bottom!    And you didn't lie.  Just trying to bottom, and even if he gets the habit of it,  does not necessarily make him gay.   There are plenty of straights who like to bottom.

 

You sound like a priest saying all these in the confessional, while the OP is the guy on the other side of the curtain 🤣

[fetish69]

Some married men get addicted from experienced either they get fuck by men or if their are kinky couple the wife will wear the strap on dildo and fuck their husband till moan like we guys fuck them. Either being gay or or bi is all about being label as individual as some guys doesnt want to be label. It simply living with the denial.

[YoungnHorny]

On 7/29/2022 at 12:21 AM, YoungnHorny said:

Met a 19y.o NSF off this forum who wanted to try gay sex for his first time.

 

Invited him to my place and we started engaging in heavy foreplay on my bed. 

As things got heated up between us, I wanted more than just the usual kissing and JO action. 

 

I began to play with his virgin hole and lubed it up. He moaned like crazy but before I could penetrate him, he asked me if this will turn him gay. He said he doesn't want to be gay. 🙄

 

I think cause I was damn horny so I told him it's just two guys experimenting with each other and it's not going to make him gay whatsoever. 😅 

 

We proceeded to have really wild and intense sex but I kinda felt that he wanted to deny his sexuality? 

 

Should I have told him the truth and risk getting rejected?

For those pm-ing me for his @, really sorry not convenient to give. 😅 

For those wondering, he saw this post and told me it's a one-off thing since he was only curious about it.

 

About what we did during the session

- I didn't want to rush things so we started off by getting naked and kissed / cuddled on my bed
- I saw that he was very hard and leaking a lot of pre-cum
- So I gave him a blowjob 

- To test whether he was open to having sex, i fingered him with one finger while blowing him

- He didn't resist so I escalated by rimming and rubbing my D head against his hole

- He was moaning in pleasure so I decided to lube up his hole and my D

- Before I entered, he told him he didn't want to turn gay from us fucking so I gave him the assurance it's just us experimenting

- Then I popped his cherry, we both autocum (I shoot inside him and he cum on his stomach) from the sex 
 

Edited July 31, 2022 by YoungnHorny

[Guest Guest Virgin Virgin]

How do you know that he's a virgin and not lying to get sex out of you? 

 

His forehead got a virgin label meh.

 

So many liars out here.  

[YoungnHorny]

He's officially bi haha

[drektster]

does it makes a person a bottom or a gay if he goes for prostate checkup?

[iwearthongs]

On 7/31/2022 at 12:25 PM, YoungnHorny said:

For those pm-ing me for his @, really sorry not convenient to give. 😅 

For those wondering, he saw this post and told me it's a one-off thing since he was only curious about it.

 

About what we did during the session

- I didn't want to rush things so we started off by getting naked and kissed / cuddled on my bed
- I saw that he was very hard and leaking a lot of pre-cum
- So I gave him a blowjob 

- To test whether he was open to having sex, i fingered him with one finger while blowing him

- He didn't resist so I escalated by rimming and rubbing my D head against his hole

- He was moaning in pleasure so I decided to lube up his hole and my D

- Before I entered, he told him he didn't want to turn gay from us fucking so I gave him the assurance it's just us experimenting

- Then I popped his cherry, we both autocum (I shoot inside him and he cum on his stomach) from the sex 
 

 

Let me tell u from experience, trying to convince urself this will be a 1 off thing doesn't work. This was how I started off in the beginning when I thought I was still straight. After a couple of days, the urge to try it again with a guy came back. I found myself wanting it is so badly.

 

But that doesn't mean the experience turned me gay. I still like women but not as much as I once did because the experience allowed me to discover a part of me I never knew existed. Nowadays, I just accept it & am no longer trying to fight urge. 

[fab]

Tell the btm as long as he doesn't get caught with a cock inside his ass, he can be as straight as he wants. 

[Guest Nonsense]

In the straight world there are so called pegging. Where girl / wives / girlfriend will put on a dildo and fuck the guy. 

 

Those guys are not gay la. 

 

But ofc once they have been fucked by real man and feel the force and the beastly nature of man to man sex, they will also enjoy haha. 

 

No. For me, what makes a gay is that he likes another man with cock. 

 

If you like a trans male does it make you gay or straight? 

 

I've always like cock. Cock is everything. 

So I'm gay. 

 

So if the doctor insert his finger into your ass to do prostrate exam and you like it, you are gay?

 

That feel good feeling is prostrate stimulation la. No difference than does jerking off another man's cock make you gay? What if the other man's cock is your cock? 

 

I know I won't like pussy. 

If a pussy sit on my cock, will I like it? Sure. 

If I close my eyes I can imagine it's a hot dude riding me. 

If I open my eyes, does that makes me straight? 

 

Cause if the formula is so easy to be gay, we can also easily be straight by sticking our cock inside pussy once a while to restore the straightness. 

 

Anyway this thread makes no sense, so it's nonsense 

[fetish69]

On 10/19/2022 at 4:47 AM, iwearthongs said:

 

Let me tell u from experience, trying to convince urself this will be a 1 off thing doesn't work. This was how I started off in the beginning when I thought I was still straight. After a couple of days, the urge to try it again with a guy came back. I found myself wanting it is so badly.

 

But that doesn't mean the experience turned me gay. I still like women but not as much as I once did because the experience allowed me to discover a part of me I never knew existed. Nowadays, I just accept it & am no longer trying to fight urge. 

I do deflower some guys claiming they are straight but what i think if he still likes a woman he is not gay. He is bi only that some guys doesn't like to be label but they enjoyed both world.