Cruising Chronicles

[Baredom]

Would be nice to read about your respective experiences. Good ones are best but bad ones also can so we can avoid the mistakes. 

[Baredom]

I’ll start. 
 

Saw him as I left zone A. He was handsome and got my attention coz he had two buttons undone with the shirt exposing a sexy chest. And he was bedecked in Calvin Klein throughout. He had a duffle bag with him so I concluded he was a traveller on transit and went on my way. But he made an impression. 
 

Saw him again in zone B. This time with just one button open but I got all excited as it meant we shared a common purpose. And he was dashing. We compared notes at the urinals and he showed a hard cock ready for action. We made our way into a cubicle, my heart beating fast. 
 

A slim build, he was a dream come true. I caressed his solid body all over. He stopped my advances by unbuttoning my shirt instead and proceeded to lick both my obliques and finally from my treasure trail up to my chest. Heaven. I learnt a new move. ( I am generous with my descriptions. Reality is that the muscles in my torso are struggling hard to emerge under some sad layers of fat )

 

He took out my cock and started a very gentle and sensual suck. Oh geez. I wanted to moan so loud. He reminded me to keep quiet.
 

I took over and undid his jeans, gaining access to his lovely hard cock. He asserted control and pulled his foreskin over his cock, allowing me only that small hole, perhaps wanting me to tease his cockhead. I happily complied and tasted some precum. It continued for a little while and he finally allowed me access to his shaft. I did not hesitate. He made me lick his balls and clearly appreciated it. 
 

Then he propped himself to sit on the cistern giving me better access to that lovely cock. So smart. I had my fill. He then indicated for me to stop, saying he takes a long time to cum. I take this to be the PC way of saying he does not want to cum yet or that I’m not worthy of his seed. I tried to negotiate but he was firm. To his credit, he offered to make me cum but I declined. 
 

We dressed. I whispered into his ear, “you’re such a fuc.king tease” to which he flashed a wicked smile. How to be upset with such a cheeky hottie. He whipped out his phone, turned on his camera and checked to ensure the coast was clear under the door. Clearly experienced in his craft. 
 

He left. I was aroused, frustrated, grateful, impressed and just so dissatisfied. Hahaha but it was truly a special experience. Hope for more. 

[ebutx]

there was once I was at a pretty well-known cruising spot and saw an acquaintance… I saw him obviously cruising by glancing at people walking by and rubbing his crotch several times.. it was hot but I didn’t go up to intro myself as I thought it would be awkward due to the circumstance, hahah and yea, I was there cruising too :x

[Baredom]

As a discreet person, meeting someone I know is my nightmare! 

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

For me every guy have their sex appeal 😋 🤤 all u need is just a tease from me haha love to accidentally physical touch you let it hard....tits hard....haha 

 

Hope to meet up at a quiet or secluded spot n share our stories haha whatever happen stays there haha even night hiking or walk or any sports or tapow makan etc...or even camping or reservist bunk/shower/canteen or office space 😏

 

Sex fun side horny hard jo touch n go etc and release makes u young haha 

[Baredom]

Sadly for me, not everyone has sex appeal. Whether it be physical or personality. 
 

one time, after a swim, saw a guy brushing his teeth at the sink. I found it somewhat strange but let it slide. After I showered, he sought me out and we got it going. And then I realised why he brushed his teeth. He had sour breath. Even after brushing. This resulted in, what we call in Malaysia, potong stim. Literally. 

[Baredom]

We connected at the basins but he walked out. I followed him and he led me to a pretty open stairwell unlike the usual secluded one. Plus point was that it was spacious and airy. I was apprehensive but he assured me there was no CCTV. He was in his late twenties. The inner exhibitionist in me emerged and I felt up his bulge, moving on to free it from the confines of his bermudas. 
 

I started sucking his delicious cock. He clearly liked it and started pumping my mouth. He asked to f.uck me to which I declined. As if unconvinced, he bent over and started pulling out my work shirt and reached for my pants. He started unbuttoning my shirt, with urgency, no doubt getting more and more high from my sucking his yummy cock.

 

not getting his intended response from me, he gave up trying to f.uck me and started thrusting harder. Then he slapped my face. I was shocked. I’m not a fan of rough play and it caught me completely off guard. He slapped me again. I was still shocked and didn’t know how to respond. But I continued sucking. I managed to avoid the next I coming slap by which time he was close. A few sucks later, he shots load. I pulled away and looked at him with disgust.
 

He didn’t flinch or say anything. He dressed and walked off. I let him go, still reeling, and increasingly feeling stupid for not doing anything about something I was unconfortable about. 
 

I learnt that day, never let anyone do anything that you are not agreeable to. Never let lust or passion dictate the order of fun. 

[Baredom]

One of my first cruising experiences was at a park. At night. I remember heading there with so many butterflies in my stomach. I walked the path, saw a fair number of men, tried to avoid any contact as I was shy as hell and so nervous. I don’t recall seeing any action but I believe it was not due to lack of it. More because I was so focussed on not making an ass of myself; or being caught.
 

I sat down on one of the seats to calm myself down. Soon enough someone sat next to me and started a conversation. It was clear I was tense and new to it so he tried to relax me with innocuous questions and chat. I am not much of a conversationalist in such situations due to my discreet nature. I think he sensed it and asked me to join him for a walk. Smart of him as the activity brought a distraction and reduced my apprehension. 
 

I don’t recall what we spoke about but it certainly created a much more comfortable environment. In fact, I don’t even recall what he looked like. He led me to an open part of the park overlooking a body of water, and started caressing me. Being young and horny, my body and mind responded immediately to the thrill of his touch leaving little doubt to the pleasure he was inducing. Before I knew it, my shorts were undone, underwear brought down and he was sucking me off, bringing me to new heights. The excitement of it all brought a quick end to the experience with a memorable eruption. 
 

Looking back now, it was probably foolish of me to let that happen in an open space. Who knows what eyes were locked on us, or worse, phones and cameras. I guess that time, years ago, this concern would be less pronounced as smart phones were not as ubiquitous as they are now. 
 

Since then, I’ve learnt and am better prepared with more knowledge on park cruising. But this has taken a back seat due to the heat and mosquitoes! Hahaha. As I grow older, physical comfort becomes more important. Hahaha. 
 

Are you a park person? What’s been your experience there?

[Baredom]

One tip I’ve learnt that is very useful - hydrate! Especially for those who are prepared to spend hours looking for the right man/men. I typically buy a bottle of 1.5litre water and try to consume that within the duration I’m cruising. This has a double outcome of actually needing to pee and also to keep my breath fresh. It’s never nice to get up close to someone only to find sour breath. 

[JYAG-sim]

I first learnt about the concept of cruising when I joined BW a decade ago. I never knew swimming pools were a hotbed for mysterious encounters until I decided to try my luck at one of the "Big 4 pools" - Kallang Basin. On one weekday afternoon, I headed there for my laps. The lanes were quiet and as I rested between sets, I espied a beefy man at the spectator stands as he placed his belongings down. We had hardly any eye contact in the pool and after some time, he left to shower before me. Since I was done, I headed out soon after and walked to the changing room.

 

As we changed, my eyes met his and my gaydar told me he was definitely giving out vibes. As we slowly got changed, my heart was beating wildly, at the same time, I seized the chance to look around just to ensure it was safe before doing anything. When the coast was clear and giving him a signal, I walked into a toilet cubicle and within seconds, he joined me.

 

Being my first time, I didn't know how to proceed but the man was very patient. We fondled, kissed, sucked and he introduced me to the most euphoric feeling one can experience - getting rimmed. I remember I had to cover my mouth so that my moans were inaudible. He wanted to fuck me but got cold feet as we heard people coming into the changing room. We ended up jerking each other off before going our separate ways. 

[Baredom]

11 hours ago, JYAG-sim said:

I first learnt about the concept of cruising when I joined BW a decade ago. I never knew swimming pools were a hotbed for mysterious encounters until I decided to try my luck at one of the "Big 4 pools" - Kallang Basin. On one weekday afternoon, I headed there for my laps. The lanes were quiet and as I rested between sets, I espied a beefy man at the spectator stands as he placed his belongings down. We had hardly any eye contact in the pool and after some time, he left to shower before me. Since I was done, I headed out soon after and walked to the changing room.

 

As we changed, my eyes met his and my gaydar told me he was definitely giving out vibes. As we slowly got changed, my heart was beating wildly, at the same time, I seized the chance to look around just to ensure it was safe before doing anything. When the coast was clear and giving him a signal, I walked into a toilet cubicle and within seconds, he joined me.

 

Being my first time, I didn't know how to proceed but the man was very patient. We fondled, kissed, sucked and he introduced me to the most euphoric feeling one can experience - getting rimmed. I remember I had to cover my mouth so that my moans were inaudible. He wanted to fuck me but got cold feet as we heard people coming into the changing room. We ended up jerking each other off before going our separate ways. 

What a memorable experience. Thanks for sharing 

 

has the gaydar ever been wrong?

[Baredom]

He was medium built and wore a loose sleeveless top. Initial contact was made and he led me to a higher floor in the mall that was less busy. We made our way to a cubicle and I pulled the sleeve hole inwards to reveal a juicy taut nipple. Toyed with it a little with my fingers while my other hand explored his firm body. My mouth went to said nipple, freeing my hands to grope the rest of him, caressing and squeezing all his muscled self. He was enjoying it. Pulled the other sleeve in too and repeated on that now exposed nipple as well. 
 

He pulled my face up and planted a kiss on my lips. Fresh and luscious. Lovely. We kissed more. He was the exception, being a good kisser. So rare. We deliciously tasted each other, trying to keep quiet but clearly getting more and more excited. 
 

The usual deeds were exchanged, to much satisfaction. He offered tissue and proceeded to also wipe up his cum from the floor. How responsible. I admired him even more. Mine went down his throat so there were no worries there. 

As we dressed, he said three words that froze me. “We’ve met before”. Panic coursed through my whole being. 
 

“Really? Where?”

 

”At XXX”

 

I remembered. He was the wonderful kisser. The unexpected encounter as I was leaving and he entering. The one I actually also wrote about. The panic of being identified diluted into memories of that sweet encounter. The discreet part of me was agitated but the sexual part of me felt warm and fuzzy. 
 

We parted with smiles and no attempt of reconnecting. Gave me the confidence that it was ok and he would keep me safe. Still, a good reminder that even though I try to keep anonymous, there are certain physical attributes about me that are easily identifiable. And dare I say, certain skills. 
 

Sometimes I wonder about the ramifications of being outed. And recoil. Until the next horny hits again. Damn. 

[JYAG-sim]

14 hours ago, Baredom said:

What a memorable experience. Thanks for sharing 

 

has the gaydar ever been wrong?

 

Actually not really. I find it easy to see that a guy is gay.

 

11 hours ago, Baredom said:

He pulled my face up and planted a kiss on my lips. Fresh and luscious. Lovely. We kissed more. He was the exception, being a good kisser. So rare. We deliciously tasted each other, trying to keep quiet but clearly getting more and more excited. 
 

The usual deeds were exchanged, to much satisfaction. He offered tissue and proceeded to also wipe up his cum from the floor. How responsible. I admired him even more. Mine went down his throat so there were no worries there. 
 

 

Mmm... a cruiser who kisses is very much a rare gem. This is hawt - "mine went down his throat" 🔥

[Baredom]

10 hours ago, JYAG-sim said:

 

Actually not really. I find it easy to see that a guy is gay.

 

What are the signs? I’ve suspected some guys are PLU only to see their female partner join them shortly. 

[JYAG-sim]

It's the vibes that they give out generally. These could range from their gait (not sashay, please 🙄), their eyebrows (yes, more and more are getting their brows manicured or worse, tattooed) or the way they're dressed (I don't mean luxury brands from head to toe). Sometimes, when my eyes lock with those of a gay guy, he immediately looks away haha. It's as though he knows that I know he's gay.

 

@Baredom How's the behaviour of cruisers in M'sia? I feel that some of the SG ones tend to exhibit self-entitled behaviour or think that they're superior than the plebians.

[Equine Park]

On 6/4/2025 at 7:03 PM, JYAG-sim said:

I first learnt about the concept of cruising when I joined BW a decade ago. I never knew swimming pools were a hotbed for mysterious encounters until I decided to try my luck at one of the "Big 4 pools" - Kallang Basin. On one weekday afternoon, I headed there for my laps. The lanes were quiet and as I rested between sets, I espied a beefy man at the spectator stands as he placed his belongings down. We had hardly any eye contact in the pool and after some time, he left to shower before me. Since I was done, I headed out soon after and walked to the changing room.

 

As we changed, my eyes met his and my gaydar told me he was definitely giving out vibes. As we slowly got changed, my heart was beating wildly, at the same time, I seized the chance to look around just to ensure it was safe before doing anything. When the coast was clear and giving him a signal, I walked into a toilet cubicle and within seconds, he joined me.

 

Being my first time, I didn't know how to proceed but the man was very patient. We fondled, kissed, sucked and he introduced me to the most euphoric feeling one can experience - getting rimmed. I remember I had to cover my mouth so that my moans were inaudible. He wanted to fuck me but got cold feet as we heard people coming into the changing room. We ended up jerking each other off before going our separate ways. 

What kind of signal? I wish to learn these things too 

[Baredom]

On 6/6/2025 at 7:46 PM, JYAG-sim said:

It's the vibes that they give out generally. These could range from their gait (not sashay, please 🙄), their eyebrows (yes, more and more are getting their brows manicured or worse, tattooed) or the way they're dressed (I don't mean luxury brands from head to toe). Sometimes, when my eyes lock with those of a gay guy, he immediately looks away haha. It's as though he knows that I know he's gay.

 

@Baredom How's the behaviour of cruisers in M'sia? I feel that some of the SG ones tend to exhibit self-entitled behaviour or think that they're superior than the plebians.

That’s very detailed to look into when it comes to even eyebrows. I tend not to look directly at people much as I don’t want to be creepy but I increasingly find that to be the best way to identify a prospect. Most guys turn away when eyes meet except for a fellow cruiser. When that happens, a simple smile or nod takes it to the next course of action. 
 

I’m not the expert ( looking at you @MT0601 😅 ) but I don’t think Msian cruisers have a better-than-you outlook. Of course there will be the peacocks but I generally don’t cruise in high profile areas where they would be found. I’ve found most, if not all, to be pretty down to earth and happy to oblige. I have had one or two who displayed slap-worthy behaviours but by and large, it’s been positive. 
 

If Sg’reans are not giving you good value, come up to KL. Instantly 3.5 times better value! I would like to say that is of the men here but there are a damned high number of fine looking specimens in this forum that I dare not. 

[JYAG-sim]

5 hours ago, Baredom said:

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I’m not the expert ( looking at you @MT0601 😅 ) but I don’t think Msian cruisers have a better-than-you outlook. Of course there will be the peacocks but I generally don’t cruise in high profile areas where they would be found. I’ve found most, if not all, to be pretty down to earth and happy to oblige. I have had one or two who displayed slap-worthy behaviours but by and large, it’s been positive. 
 

If Sg’reans are not giving you good value, come up to KL. Instantly 3.5 times better value! I would like to say that is of the men here but there are a damned high number of fine looking specimens in this forum that I dare not. 

 

Hahaha 'slap-worthy'...

 

Sometimes I think I'll have much better luck cruising in M'sia, but of course if I'm there, it's for a purpose like leisure travel. I mean the Malay guys are super fine!

 

On 6/7/2025 at 3:02 AM, Equine Park said:

What kind of signal? I wish to learn these things too 

 

These signals usually start with establishing eye contact for a while - the "I peek at you, you peek at me" kind - and when there's a common understanding, a display of the flesh follows after (e.g. showing the dick if it's the changing room or the steam room) to see if the other guy's interested. 

[Baredom]

The Malays are so fine they blow my mind. 
 

Then there are the Indians who are so delectable. 
 

And the Chinese. Mmmmmm, charsiew 😝

 

Of course, our indigenous friends, so refreshing. 
 

Not forgetting foreign workers both Caucasian and Asian as well as neighbouring tourists too. 
 

Man, Malaysia is Truly Asia. A taste for everyone. What are you waiting for?

Edited Monday at 11:24 PM by Baredom