Discussion on Grindr App + "right now" function (compiled)

[Guest NewlyOut]

Hi

Have embraced my sexuality this year and I've finally downloaded Grindr after a long time of considering it. Any tips or anything else that i should be wary about?

[Kimochi]

Cat fishers (Google it ) and people who block you suddenly ~ again you need to advertise yourself, show best assets and face (if you really came out ), but not direct cock photos. They have moderators to check whether your photos deem fit to post. 

[Guest Hmm]

I would urge you to reconsider your decision to join Grindr.

 

If making friends / networking is what you want there are other options.

 

I trust you're not dumb and you know what Grindr is used for. Being gay doesn't mean you must be promiscuous, but if this really is how you want to spend your life, then of course it is your freedom. Be careful, always wear protection. 

 

All the best.

[vera.]

erm for me that app hasn't really satisfied me sexually...but im addicted to texting so theres that beware of rude people tho

im using the app to replace my gaydar cause mine's faulty af lul...id rather go to a gay sauna than grindr for sex

Edited November 18, 2018 by vera.

[lonely57]

try tinder if u must. although being guys.. u should know most of the time most of them just treat it like another grindr..

[Guest social]

Grindr, Tinder, Hornet alike is just a hookup App period. Most are shallow, dishonest and unfaithful type of people. Noting different than going to gay type of places to look for sex.

 

If you want to make sincere friends, looking for date etc, you should join other social or sport activities. 

[kingbitch]

ALWAYS expect that the other guy is in for a hook up. You can still be adult and courteous about it - lots of hook ups involve nice conversations and activities before the sex. 

 

There will be rarer cases of guys interested in friendship, but you two must really really click. 

 

Romantic relationships definitely happen out of apps if both parties like each other enough. Just cast your net wide though. 

[Guest gmale2068]

You need to be careful and not divulge too much initially. Maintain a chat and if someone really interested in knowing you more, the chat would sustain over a period of time. Usually we will move to Line or WhatsApp for further chats before meeting. So far guys I met have been friends and surprisingly, nothing sexual taken place as yet.

[Guest guest]

Be open and honest in what you want from your experiences on Grindr. If you communicate well, little can go wrong since you're really in control of the situation. It's all transactional after all. Always be safe, and remember that consent can be taken back at any point after its given. If you feel unsafe, communicate this, and leave. When you're having sex, again: communicate. 

[auri]

Grindr only shows people located close to you. So if you are home you will probably find the same old faces after a short while. Can consider using a fake gps app to move your location, or maybe pay for full version of grindr 

[Guest Social App]

1. Be cautious with what you share in the app... Share as much as you are ready to lose in case of misunderstanding...

2. Be cautious when meeting people for the first time... He is a stranger after all

3. Be cautious when hooking up with a stranger... Refrain from putting yourself in circumstance of risky unsafe sex acts...

These advice are probably meant for innocent people lol...

Most importantly, if the guy doesn't reply to your messages, he might be busy, simply doesn't have the habit of checking the app etc. No need to feel annoyed or deflated... No one is obliged to reply anyone's message...  We are all strangers after all...

 

Good luck!

[kidster]

2 hours ago, auri said:

Grindr only shows people located close to you. So if you are home you will probably find the same old faces after a short while. Can consider using a fake gps app to move your location, or maybe pay for full version of grindr 

 

Any reliable fake GPS apps to recommend? Thanks. 

[hahaha]

2 hours ago, kidster said:

 

Any reliable fake GPS apps to recommend? Thanks. 

 

 

Here's a few recommendations based on spoofing on Pokémon go. I think they'll work on grinder as well - FGL pro. Fake GPS free

 

 

[auri]

On 11/20/2018 at 6:12 PM, kidster said:

 

Any reliable fake GPS apps to recommend? Thanks. 

 

I use "fake GPS location" by Lexa

 

seems to work OK

[kjboy]

Grindr

- mainly for hookup, sex

- use it while u r horny (Play safe  - of course)

- 90% ppl who on prep are seeking for CF, Chemical Fun. Curious to try? Think twice before u try.

 

Jackd

- mainly for eyes candy, browse for handsome faces

 

Tinder

- mainly for relationship, but most of them just chat for first day and MIA forever ~

 

To be honest, you can make new friends from Grindr as well. You may see some ppl look for hookup on Tinder.

It is same as your real life society. Be careful and wisely in making friends or sex.

[Guest Yikes]

I am having a hard time finding locals, almost 99% of the chinese men are from msia, china, HK or taiwan. What is happening to SG..

[mature chn]

Haha... I am a local. I do agree that there tend to have more non locals working in sg seeking locals. Not sure what type of guys you seeking. 

[Guest gues]

3 hours ago, Guest Yikes said:

I am having a hard time finding locals, almost 99% of the chinese men are from msia, china, HK or taiwan. What is happening to SG..

 

Low salary , high rentals make foreigners want to get free sex , free venue and compensation for taxi and bus ride back.

 

Not forgetting plenty of  SEA asian money boys too.

[Guest guest]

8 hours ago, Guest gues said:

 

Low salary , high rentals make foreigners want to get free sex , free venue and compensation for taxi and bus ride back.

 

Not forgetting plenty of  SEA asian money boys too.

Foreigners low salary? I don't think so, if salary is low here, why would they want to come here to work? More likely they free sex.

[Guest Gwm hater]

So many gwm as well with their disgusting hairy face and bodies polluting my screen, the govt should send all these angmos back to their own country!

[Guest Guest]

Have you used Grindr to cruise in places like Orchard road, Airport, Botanic Garden etc? 

 

How is your success rate 

[doncoin]

 I recently joined Grindr and I have to admit that i had a number of encounters out of it. Maybe because I am new so I kept getting messages from guys all over. I was traveling quite a bit in Asia for work and pretty much in a span of a week, I hooked up 4x in different cities with 5 different guys. I think the key is not to play games and just be open about what you want. I kept getting asked "what are you looking for?" and I was honest about wanting to fuck. If the back and forth gets too long I lose interest. 

 

So I think I have a 80% success rate so far.  It is just sex. Don't make it complicated. The most fun was at the hotel in Singapore that I was staying at. I was checking in and there was a Pinoy twink ahead of me. While waiting for my turn to be checked in, I was on Grindr. The moment I got to my room, I received a message from him. 1/2 hour later, he was in my room. So... keep it simple and just be clear with what you want. 

[sam8899]

8 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Have you used Grindr to cruise in places like Orchard road, Airport, Botanic Garden etc? 

 

How is your success rate 

 

The success rate absolutely will depend the combination of what you've got, and the type you are looking for.

[horchew]

Is Grindr solely for gays? Or are there gals/couples too? 

[Guest merger]

I thought there is a thread on grindr and app experiences.

 

Maybe Moderators want to merge...

 

[Guest Grindrgay]

anyone feel the same?

is it cos many guys returned from overseas or

cos all stay at home so grindr become only place to cruise

[Guest Horny]

1 hour ago, Guest Grindrgay said:

anyone feel the same?

is it cos many guys returned from overseas or

cos all stay at home so grindr become only place to cruise

Yes. Realise there seems to be more hot guy profiles in my area since last week! 

 

[XgymX]

yea. many are on SHN. some states that upfront

[Guest Guest]

Better don't cruise this period.

Got to know today a rather famous gay kena quarantined cos he was in close contact with someone who tested positive.

I rmb having fun with him late last year.

Imagine those who have fun with him this period,

now all need to quarantine

 

[Guest Cruise]

Anytime Fitness also see more young and old signing up.

[Guest Gayman]

I think cruising activities starting to drop already, which is good!

 

Personally I will stop cruising this period.

 

But must say I’m more horny than usual while staying home.

[Guest Thomas Didymuz Toh]

On Grindr this morning, met up with a army guy, he was very horny and wanted to meet up at my place in the afternoon.

 

when we met, he kept complimenting me for my smooth fair delicate complexion and wanted to eat my hole immediately.

 

We immediately showered together and he fingered my hole while soaping me up. He commented that my hole was very tight, and immediately after drying up, he pushed me onto my bed and lifted my legs onto his shoulders while licking and rimming my hole and playing with my weakest spot - my ringed nipples! 
 

The sensation was too much to bear, and I was moaning away loudly, which made him very horny!

 

He straightaway parted my cheeks with his 8 incher, pumping away rapidly while scolding me in Hokkien and slapped me a few times on my butt cheeks and face! 
 

Never felt so Humiliated, but I enjoyed it quite a lot especially when he shoot his hot man cream all over my face and demanded that I scoop it up to eat it! 
 

Enjoyable Sunday noon! 

[Guest Blocking]

Noticed a huge influx of fatties on grindr due to the virus, and they keep coming back no matter how many times I block. If only they put all this energy into burning their pork fats!

[passinthenight]

2 hours ago, Guest Thomas Didymuz Toh said:

On Grindr this morning, met up with a army guy, he was very horny and wanted to meet up at my place in the afternoon.

 

when we met, he kept complimenting me for my smooth fair delicate complexion and wanted to eat my hole immediately.

 

We immediately showered together and he fingered my hole while soaping me up. He commented that my hole was very tight, and immediately after drying up, he pushed me onto my bed and lifted my legs onto his shoulders while licking and rimming my hole and playing with my weakest spot - my ringed nipples! 
 

The sensation was too much to bear, and I was moaning away loudly, which made him very horny!

 

He straightaway parted my cheeks with his 8 incher, pumping away rapidly while scolding me in Hokkien and slapped me a few times on my butt cheeks and face! 
 

Never felt so Humiliated, but I enjoyed it quite a lot especially when he shoot his hot man cream all over my face and demanded that I scoop it up to eat it! 
 

Enjoyable Sunday noon! 

 

 I haven't read such a fairy story since the infamous 'Tightarse' was a poster on Blowingwind. 

[Guest Huh]

On 4/1/2020 at 1:04 AM, Guest Cruise said:

Anytime Fitness also see more young and old signing up.

Gyms have to shut down, who is so stupid to sign up now?

[Guest Guest]

can tell lesser gays are cruising and hooking up already, which is good!

still got lots of chance to play after this epidemic

[leantonedboy]

yes definitely more guys on grindr during these cb period. i also realise. 

 

can tell some of them took opportunity to do grocery shop and cruise at the same time too. 

Was being followed by a guy at ntuc while buying bread and other grocerries. hahah

 

too many buay tahan alr down there.. hahah

[mate69]

Ya horny af lol

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, leantonedboy said:

yes definitely more guys on grindr during these cb period. i also realise. 

 

can tell some of them took opportunity to do grocery shop and cruise at the same time too. 

Was being followed by a guy at ntuc while buying bread and other grocerries. hahah

 

too many buay tahan alr down there.. hahah

Dont be stingy. Just give la

[Guest Paranoid]

There are still a few people on Grindr wanting to meet even though it’s circuit breaker period right now. Do you think it could be the authorities trying to bait out people who are willing to break circuit breaker rules? Are they even allowed to do that? 

[Guest guest]

if you are scare then better don't meet them during this CB period.

[Guest high morals]

This is really a CB period indeed

[BlinkOnce]

9 hours ago, Guest Paranoid said:

There are still a few people on Grindr wanting to meet even though it’s circuit breaker period right now. Do you think it could be the authorities trying to bait out people who are willing to break circuit breaker rules? Are they even allowed to do that? 

either way, please stay home

[Guest Guest didi]

CB period it is very CB to meet another CB

so don’t meet any CB during the CB 

if not you become CCB 

 

[fetish69]

On 4/17/2020 at 5:20 PM, cutejack said:

Dont be stingy. Just give la

I agreed with u. Keep for what just give.

[dnalor20]

Yeah more guys on grindr this period.

[fetish69]

On 4/5/2020 at 5:13 PM, Guest Thomas Didymuz Toh said:

On Grindr this morning, met up with a army guy, he was very horny and wanted to meet up at my place in the afternoon.

 

when we met, he kept complimenting me for my smooth fair delicate complexion and wanted to eat my hole immediately.

 

We immediately showered together and he fingered my hole while soaping me up. He commented that my hole was very tight, and immediately after drying up, he pushed me onto my bed and lifted my legs onto his shoulders while licking and rimming my hole and playing with my weakest spot - my ringed nipples! 
 

The sensation was too much to bear, and I was moaning away loudly, which made him very horny!

 

He straightaway parted my cheeks with his 8 incher, pumping away rapidly while scolding me in Hokkien and slapped me a few times on my butt cheeks and face! 
 

Never felt so Humiliated, but I enjoyed it quite a lot especially when he shoot his hot man cream all over my face and demanded that I scoop it up to eat it! 
 

Enjoyable Sunday noon! 

What you expact army boi seldom jerk off sure  horny sure fuck raw. I bet he got thick juicy shot.

[Guest Pumped]

As a long time user, noticed many new profiles appearing on Grindr since CB. Are these the men that used to loiter in gay saunas and clubs but not forced to use the app to interact with other men?

[mate69]

Yes

[Zomgzmg]

could be the fake/MB profiles too