Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know chinese dudes 

[BeKind21Another]

Hi! I'm seeking to date (for LTR) and to expand my social circle.

Me: SG'an, Malay vers btm, 41yo, 172cm, 90+kg, average stocky chub.  

Enjoys mutual sensible conversation, spend time with persons of interest, chill to Netflix, movies, music, some outdoor/indoor activities, planned getaways. 

Pref: Personable, friendly, financially/mentally stable, communicative, masculine, active, committed, enjoys hugs/cuddles, +/-5 years age difference, local/PR.

If you think there is a chance of match, dm me and let's talk. 🙂 

[kevin]

Harlow, wish to know more people. Ultimately LTR?  
About me:
31 yrs old, 176cm, 88kg, local mly, vers. 

Daily activity: working, gym, running. 

Likes to watch movies, nua, ML. Can DM me if wanna connect!  

[Can_berry80]

Local side/top Chinese 44. 170/75. Looking for same or younger str8 acting chinese with stable job to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel. .. Staying North area. Get to know more....  b4 into LTR. 

[tanwla]

Hello trying again…

I am

- 34 yrs

- local Chinese

- 170 cm

- 58 kg

- working

- like to swim, listen music, sing, weight lifting, push ups, watch dramas, shopping

 

look for

- below 60 yrs

- Chinese / white

- around 170cm or taller

- vers / top

- average / fit / twink / muscle

Can add me on tele @algin2 as I hardly login here… thanks and cheers! 

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besides my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Vers or top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[dam81]

 

1. Name: Dyson Lee

2. Age: 43

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: top / side

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜

 

7. Self-description: was happily dating for 6 months from Jan to July, till the ex date told me “we are not living similar lives and I shouldn’t just always give in to him” after we came back on a trip.I got thrown off the bus. Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the precious date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work

On that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

[Derren]

Believe in Love (for Singles)
Telegram Chat Group

 

Dear fellow Believer in Love

 

Our chat group is created for single gay men who are sincerely and actively looking for friendship with a view towards a serious relationship. With more than 200 members, we have had the privilege to give our blessings to several couples! 

 

We are a welcoming and friendly community of genuine people who want to get to know to each other better. Participants will be required to post a profile of themselves as a starting point for genuine conversations to begin. From time to time, we organize activities for singles to get to know each other and create opportunities for friendship and romance to blossom. Activities include makan, boardgames, ktv, pet cafe visits, chit-chat sessions and many more! But of course, you must take a pro-active role to message and get to know other singles.

Join us if you want to meet other singles who also truly believe in love. Judgmental people with toxic attitudes and lurkers, please find another group!

 

Believe in Love Chat Group Link: https://t.me/+oER0k9479Yk1MDdl

[marinaland]

32 173 80 local chinese looking for friends.

 

What I am looking for:

Age: < 35 years old

Race: must be Chinese

Friendly

Optimistic 

Energetic 

 

If you have the above traits, pm me here thanks!

 

[pusheenpika]

On 10/20/2024 at 8:04 AM, pusheenpika said:

Been posting here for years, always holding on to a glimmer of hope. Giving this another try, even though this community is quite savage to bigger-sized chaps.

 

Hitting the big four zero next year. Never really been in a very stable relationship, always hung out with red flags that treated me like a disposable utensil. 

 

I gym a few times a week, but I still look like I overeat at buffets many times a week. Admittedly a foodie here - lives to eat, loves to explore cafes. At the gym, I spin quite a bit. Would love to become a pro at the free weights section, but keeping to the smith machines for now. 

 

Don't have deep pockets, but I love home improvement projects. Not good with tools, even my own. Hence I choose to be screwed mostly (wait, what? how did we get here?).

 

Loves communicative individuals who can hold a proper conversation in comprehensible English (sorry my mother tongue isn't fab, I use my tongue for other things). I cannot tahan humans who can't differentiate "than" from "then" - irks the hell out of me. 

 

Have a couple of purrkid siblings that keep me busy, so 65.78% of my convo revolves around them, so would be good if you're an animal lurver.

 

That's it for now. Slide into my DMs (and me) please. Don't want to be single when I hit four zero. 

 

 

 

 

Bump bump bump! 

[hotsun]

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Edited January 4, 2025 by hotsun

[sgind]

Looking for a beau with wit, humour, confidence, and a sense of adventure & romance - a grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Local professional, Singaporean, 33, 175 77 here into socials, travel and soulful conversations.

 

PM to connect.

 

 

Don’t let the world break us apart.

We’ve come too far to lose the spark.

I’ll be your hope, your fire, your dream—

Love’s not perfect, but it’s everything we need.

 

 

[Open_Btm]

Hi, I'm looking for friends and hopefully LTR, to hang out and work out together (super beginner), exploring places together. Have inrerests in current affairs, gaming, investments.

 

I'm local, 33 171 76 chi btm, staying in the East. PM me if you are keen @Yanderubert

[junyuan]

28,170,67,chn,btm

 

here for connections. 

[Kaki74]

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Edited December 26, 2024 by Kaki74

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know chinese dudes 

[ironsquirrel]

SG malay here hoping to connect and to be in an LTR w SG/MY Chi around similar age +/- 35. Idm a lil older. 

 

A lil bout me:

Gyms 3-4 times weekly at AF. I have a pt kit fetish. Used to have 50 over potted plants (aroids) in my bedroom. The only computer games I play is dota2. I play the sax and flute.

 

I don’t club but I do drink. not-in-the-scene. I’m discreet and straight-acting and looking for similar. I’m a flex when comes to bed activities. Love kissing.

 

 

 

 

 

[Can_berry80]

Local side/top Chinese 44. 170/75. Looking for same or younger str8 acting chinese to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel. .. Staying North area. Hope Get to know more....  b4 into LTR. 

[warnarat]

⛔️

Edited January 6, 2025 by warnarat

[lancestars]

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me.

[Dogma]

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Edited January 20, 2025 by Dogma

[EastSgDad]

55 chi here

Visit my profile 

Pm me

[innocentperson]

I am local Chinese 35/176/75 vers bottom and hope to find someone to settle down. I like to travel (as I'm from the aviation industry), sightsee, jog and foods.  

 

Do DM me if you are also looking for settling down. 

 

1) Looking for straight acting (top), gym-tone and like to travel.
2) Someone who is around the same age (slightly +/-). 
3) Financially independent and well-presentable guy.

4) Preferably white-collar. 

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know lean chinese dudes 

[Dave Konaka]

Hi all,

I'm local chi, 31, 182, 104 Side, Bear Build (Big chest and biceps), Handsome-Boyish looking, been told I look way younger than my actual age. Looking for a LTR, with someone around my age, smaller size than me.

I like to explore food options, both hawker foods and fine-dining. I like cooking / baking. I play videos games to kill time, love to travel whenever possible.

HMU if you want to chill over a meal, dessert, or chat + cuddle during this holiday season !

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[anotherboop]

Hewo!

 

I'm 24, 172cm, 102kg, chinese bottom chub can never host (if it matters) Currently studying in a local uni

 

No I don't like to gym, please don't force me to... if it's your thing yay, good for you! It's not mine unfortunately.

 

I probably lean feminine (I've got shoulder length hair)

 

I love food and just chilling in cafes or playing casual games. Music and crafts are a few hobbies I dabble in.

 

Looking for anyone probably close to my age? North side would be good but open. I prefer cuddles over doing the nasty... but I'm also pretty kinky if we ever get to that. 

Edited December 21, 2024 by anotherboop

[GayNomad]

Not looking anymore.

Edited December 30, 2024 by GayNomad

[JoeTanJoeTan]

Hello All, 

 

Trying my luck again.
Allow me to introduce myself hor. 

I am 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

[jcboy18]

helloos!

 

info abt me!!!

• 18yo musician graduated JC student

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years)

• stay in the east! (optional)

• preferrably has the same interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3)

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[Kaki74]

Me:

1. 174/70/50yo chinese

2. Discreet, straight-acting, easygoing 

3. Gym, swim, tan and massages

 

You:

1. 30s or 40s discreet straight-acting chinese

2. Into workout too, such as gym and swim

3. Easygoing and with humour

4. Singles only

[tanwla]

On 12/1/2024 at 8:44 PM, tanwla said:

Hello trying again…

I am

- 34 yrs

- local Chinese

- 170 cm

- 58 kg

- working

- like to swim, listen music, sing, weight lifting, push ups, watch dramas, shopping

 

look for

- below 60 yrs

- Chinese / white

- around 170cm or taller

- vers / top

- average / fit / twink / muscle

Can add me on tele @algin2 as I hardly login here… thanks and cheers! 

Bump

[GayNomad]

On 12/22/2024 at 9:53 PM, GayNomad said:

 

Not looking anymore.

Edited December 30, 2024 by GayNomad

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Vers or top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[True079]

Hello, I'm a 46-year-old Chinese man, 1.81m and 90kg, looking for discreet buddies or bromance.

 

Wishing to know someone who's emotionally mature, stable, intelligent, and a great buddy to hang out with. 

 

If interested to know me, please connect with me on Telegram at True079

 

Edited January 3, 2025 by True079

[jcboy18]

On 12/26/2024 at 9:54 AM, jcboy18 said:

helloos!

 

info abt me!!!

• 18yo musician graduated JC student

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years)

• stay in the east! (optional)

• preferrably has the same interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3)

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

bump!! i wld love to get to know some more new people ahah

[Want to try]

Really wonder if anyone has successfully found LTR here and been happy together!? 

I get the sense that most who visit this site is looking for no string attached fun, curious about gay activities, bored at home or just being ass hole and like to tease those vulnerable souls who are lonely. 

May be those who have been successful can give some support to this thread. 

[GayNomad]

11 hours ago, Want to try said:

Really wonder if anyone has successfully found LTR here and been happy together!? 

I get the sense that most who visit this site is looking for no string attached fun, curious about gay activities, bored at home or just being ass hole and like to tease those vulnerable souls who are lonely. 

May be those who have been successful can give some support to this thread. 

-Deleted-

Edited December 30, 2024 by GayNomad

[Donic]

seeking nice guys to connect and hopefully something more meaningful, am 47, chinese, 1.77 m 71 kg, if keen can add me in telegram which is @wiltany , prefer to know chinese dudes 

[GachiMuchi]

13 hours ago, Want to try said:

Really wonder if anyone has successfully found LTR here and been happy together!? 

I get the sense that most who visit this site is looking for no string attached fun, curious about gay activities, bored at home or just being ass hole and like to tease those vulnerable souls who are lonely. 

May be those who have been successful can give some support to this thread. 

 

I checked your profile @Want to try and you mentioned that you are married to woman. 

My question here is: since you are married, why are you looking for a relationship with a man.

 

Even if the gays here are successful in finding someone, I doubt that would apply to you. 

Are you prepared to leave your family to have a gay partner or are you trying to enjoy the best of both world?

Edited December 30, 2024 by GachiMuchi

[pusheenpika]

On 10/20/2024 at 8:04 AM, pusheenpika said:

Been posting here for years, always holding on to a glimmer of hope. Giving this another try, even though this community is quite savage to bigger-sized chaps.

 

Hitting the big four zero next year. Never really been in a very stable relationship, always hung out with red flags that treated me like a disposable utensil. 

 

I gym a few times a week, but I still look like I overeat at buffets many times a week. Admittedly a foodie here - lives to eat, loves to explore cafes. At the gym, I spin quite a bit. Would love to become a pro at the free weights section, but keeping to the smith machines for now. 

 

Don't have deep pockets, but I love home improvement projects. Not good with tools, even my own. Hence I choose to be screwed mostly (wait, what? how did we get here?).

 

Loves communicative individuals who can hold a proper conversation in comprehensible English (sorry my mother tongue isn't fab, I use my tongue for other things). I cannot tahan humans who can't differentiate "than" from "then" - irks the hell out of me. 

 

Have a couple of purrkid siblings that keep me busy, so 65.78% of my convo revolves around them, so would be good if you're an animal lurver.

 

That's it for now. Slide into my DMs (and me) please. Don't want to be single when I hit four zero. 

 

 

 

 

Last bump before 2025! 

[Want to try]

12 hours ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

I checked your profile @Want to try and you mentioned that you are married to woman. 

My question here is: since you are married, why are you looking for a relationship with a man.

 

Even if the gays here are successful in finding someone, I doubt that would apply to you. 

Are you prepared to leave your family to have a gay partner or are you trying to enjoy the best of both world?

I didn't say I was looking for LTR. I was just curious if people here have been successful in finding one. 

[Eded90838]

Trying my best again, hoping to seek someone who is serious about long term relationship with a guy... like me 😜

 

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 33, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Vers or top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[GachiMuchi]

On 12/31/2024 at 11:50 AM, Want to try said:

I didn't say I was looking for LTR. I was just curious if people here have been successful in finding one. 

 

On 12/30/2024 at 12:15 PM, Want to try said:

Really wonder if anyone has successfully found LTR here and been happy together!? 

I get the sense that most who visit this site is looking for no string attached fun, curious about gay activities, bored at home or just being ass hole and like to tease those vulnerable souls who are lonely. 

May be those who have been successful can give some support to this thread. 

 

I would caution those gays who are looking for LTR to avoid people who are "married" and that "had nothing to do"and "looking for vulnerable souls who are lonely". These type of bored, married, horny men, will break your heart and they just treat you as a sex objects, for them to get their free fucks, they will turn out to be the biggest assholes you will ever meet.  

These married men will make you feels that you are hanging on a threat, not committing and not getting involved with you emotionally and you will feel that you are an object for them to use. 

 

I am speaking from personal experience, so be warned.

 

As for those who are only looking for fun, you can go ahead and be with such asshole and make use of these married men and treats them like a sex object/fuck buddies. 

 

My 2 cents

 

[Want to try]

3 hours ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

 

I would caution those gays who are looking for LTR to avoid people who are "married" and that "had nothing to do"and "looking for vulnerable souls who are lonely". These type of bored, married, horny men, will break your heart and they just treat you as a sex objects, for them to get their free fucks, they will turn out to be the biggest assholes you will ever meet.  

These married men will make you feels that you are hanging on a threat, not committing and not getting involved with you emotionally and you will feel that you are an object for them to use. 

 

I am speaking from personal experience, so be warned.

 

As for those who are only looking for fun, you can go ahead and be with such asshole and make use of these married men and treats them like a sex object/fuck buddies. 

 

My 2 cents

 

Not sure if your English comprehension is not good or your bad relationship with that married man had clouded your judgement for you to be so bitter with a simple question a fellow member asked. Just chilled OK especially in the new year. 

Also don't because of your one bad married man experience assume all other married men are bad. 

 

[GachiMuchi]

6 hours ago, Want to try said:

Not sure if your English comprehension is not good or your bad relationship with that married man had clouded your judgement for you to be so bitter with a simple question a fellow member asked. Just chilled OK especially in the new year. 

Also don't because of your one bad married man experience assume all other married men are bad. 

 

I had mentioned that I am speaking from experience and had also shared my experience in other post. 

My first ex was such example and I am speaking of him as an example. I did not mention your name. I merely quote what you had written and expanded on the context. Don't admit yourself to be the one criticized.

 

It's not always about you. 

 

Are you trying to defend yourself that you are not such an asshole and you are sincerly looking for a LTR and that you would not break the relationship should your wife/family finds out you have a gay boyfriend?

 

Will you tell your wife that your will take care of your family but she has to agree to you taking a gay boyfriend because you are looking for a LTR with a gay man?

 

Who are you trying to kid? It's either you deceiving your wife or you will be deceiving your gay boyfriend or worst, you deciving yourself that you can balance a married life and a gay relationship. 

 

What can married men give back to a gay man? Hello! They are already married, they can't commit shit!

 

Even if a married man can commit to the relationship, the gay man is nothing but a 3rd party (小三) in the eyes of the law (married certificate).

 

So, if you truly wants to be with gay man, you better be single and not married and, please leave the gays alone to find their love and to be with someone that Can commit in a relationship.

Edited January 1, 2025 by GachiMuchi

[jcboy18]

On 12/26/2024 at 9:54 AM, jcboy18 said:

helloos!

 

info abt me!!!

• 18yo musician graduated JC student

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years)

• stay in the east! (optional)

• preferrably has the same interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3)

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

bump!! still waiting for someone to walk into my life eheh

[Gagalover]

10 hours ago, jcboy18 said:

bump!! still waiting for someone to walk into my life eheh

Hi there!

[sgind]

On 12/8/2024 at 9:09 PM, sgind said:

Looking for a beau with wit, humour, confidence, and a sense of adventure & romance - a grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Local professional, Singaporean, 33, 175 77 here into socials, travel and soulful conversations.

 

PM to connect.

 

 

Don’t let the world break us apart.

We’ve come too far to lose the spark.

I’ll be your hope, your fire, your dream—

Love’s not perfect, but it’s everything we need.

 

 

Bump