Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 46/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies with me.

 

DIslike:
X People that like's to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X No CD
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy, Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim, Skinny ,Average - Flex,Versatile, Top, Btm

46yrs old and Below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

Edited April 15, 2025 by Flexiguy

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 33, 178cm, 85kg, a vers bottom with a stocky build. I'm a local Chinese living in the east. Aside from my main career, I have a deep interest in arts and culture. I'm sincerely seeking a long-term relationship—no hookups or casual fun.

 

What I'm Looking For:

 

1. Vers or top Chinese only

2. Average build or similar to mine

3. Preferably around my age or older (though chemistry matters more than numbers)

4. Financially and emotionally stable

5. Someone who values love, care, respect, and enjoys spending quality time together

 

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out! My Telegram ID is mentioned above. Looking forward to connecting with the right person. 💕

[Leoj]

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 45

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 94kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)
 

 

[Levis]

Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.

 

- Between 33 - 48YO

- Has a decent lifestyle

- Has a white collar job / financially independent

- Knows what you want in life

- SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe)

- Side or not Top

- Is working towards an early retirement

- Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home

 

I'm :

- 46YO

- Chinese

- 175cm / 89kg

- In IT line

- Side-T

- INTP

- Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.

 

Happy to discuss over emails / LINE app if you have and take it slow. I do not have Tele. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding.

[sgind]

 

Looking for a beau with wit, humour, confidence, and a sense of adventure & romance - a grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Local professional here into socials, travel and soulful conversations.

 

PM to connect.

 

 

Don’t let the world break us apart.

We’ve come too far to lose the spark.

I’ll be your hope, your fire, your dream—

Love’s not perfect, but it’s everything we need.

[dam81]

 

1. Name: Damster

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: side (based on reviews and what I have seen so far, I’m quite ok in size 🤣 )

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the precious date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. 

 

In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

Edited April 19, 2025 by dam81

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[cutecutebob]

On 4/10/2025 at 7:33 PM, seldan said:

Is he completely visually impaired? Or only a single eye? I do have several friends with disabilities too and they too long for a ltr. So kind of u to share with us 

He cannot see much and need to use a white cane. What disabilities do yr friends have, mind to share?

[seldan]

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Edited October 22, 2025 by seldan

[tanwla]

On 2/23/2025 at 4:20 PM, tanwla said:

Hello, just another average guy here hoping to look for good ol’ romance…

 

I am:

- Turning 35 yrs old

- Standing at 170cm and weigh 58kg

- local chinese

- working

- enjoys swimming, listening to music, singing, gaming, watching drama shows, simple home work outs

- vers

Looking for:

- below 50yrs old

- vers / top

- chn / white

Do chat with me more on telegram @algin2.

 

i hardly log in here so wont see your text here…

 

Hope to see you soon! Cheers!

Bump

[T.win]

Hihi, thought I try my luck with this thread too. I know this is a long shot as compared to the better-off bachelors here

 

Wynn here, 24/168/90. 

Local Chinese, potentially looking to be employed in the govt sector (MOE).

Enjoys music (singing, listening, arranging), gaming, late night chats and puns.

Been trying to improve on my physique (and will be even more invested once I start working)

Simple romantic here hehe.

Rather down-to-earth, not chasing for looks or fame/ fortune (tho it would be good)

Been on apps finding romance on ages but haha those apps doesn't work as well. 

 

Some requests for partners

Age: 20 - 40 (40 and above really need to see chemistry)

Non-smoker

No btms

Manly (at least in public)

Preferably Chinese (again, chemistry is the most impt)

 

Hit me up through dms or over tele @wynn_ohgs. 

 

Edited April 24, 2025 by T.win

[JoeTanJoeTan]

Hello All, 

 

Trying my luck again.
Allow me to introduce myself hor. 

I am 38ch , 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

[smart88]

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Edited June 11, 2025 by smart88

[Can_berry80]

Local side/top Chinese 45. 170/75.

Looking for same or younger str8 acting chinese to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel. ..

Staying North area.

 

Hope Get to know more.... b4 into LTR.

[gareth96]

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Edited May 2, 2025 by gareth96

[UtsuroTheVoid]

On 1/14/2025 at 12:42 PM, UtsuroTheVoid said:

25 year old Top
168 cm
80 kg
Chinese
I like gaming, watching anime, hacking/coding, reading Furry Visual Novels
looking for someone slim <= 24 year old that can love me for life...it feels like Im the only one whos actually loyal and mean it when I say "Id love you for life"....Id like my partner to be patient with me..I have a lot of trauma and Im willing to do the same for him...Im probably the most patient and sweetest person youd ever meet if you can get me to love you

bump

[Uncle Bryan]

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Edited July 22, 2025 by Uncle Bryan

[DarKToweRz]

On 4/4/2025 at 3:56 PM, cutecutebob said:

Hi, I just met a long time friend and he cannot see much, is a person with visually impairment now. We were chatting and he was telling me would like to settle down. He is good looking with a good physique, and he has a good characters.just wanted to find out if u can accept a bf with disabilities? I was thinking about it too, if I can.he

I don’t mind if I’m a millionaire.  at least I know he can be loyal to me and I can be loyal to him too.

[DarKToweRz]

On 12/30/2024 at 12:15 PM, Want to try said:

Really wonder if anyone has successfully found LTR here and been happy together!? 

I get the sense that most who visit this site is looking for no string attached fun, curious about gay activities, bored at home or just being ass hole and like to tease those vulnerable souls who are lonely. 

May be those who have been successful can give some support to this thread. 

Yes there is. Lasted 6 years before thing went south. A big thank you to the creator that create this forum thread and thank all admins that contribute to maintaining it. I had a wonderful LTR adventure that lasted 6 years.

[cutecutebob]

1 hour ago, DarKToweRz said:

I don’t mind if I’m a millionaire.  at least I know he can be loyal to me and I can be loyal to him too.

Seriously I totally dun get u? What millionaire? What loyal?

[jcboy18]

helloos! trying out again for 2025

 

info abt me!!!

• turning 19 in 2025

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years), but if youre abit older idm seeing how things work out

• more on the lean-fit side? can work out tgt🤭❤️

• stay in the east! (optional because i want to be nearby😂but if you arent its okay!)

• preferrably has the same/similar interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3) 

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function ifyourekeen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[ReallyMeh]

Hi Im 41/175/66 local Chn, Top/Side who lives in the East. 

Size: Lean-fit 

Outdoor Interest: Jogging, Gym, cycling, Hiking, Trekking, OCR and anything fun

Indoor Interest: Singing K, Movies, Board Games, Tabletop wargame, Switch games, meeting friends, hugging and cuddling 

Preferred local chinese who is not drama queen or sissy or chub, and maintain regular workouts/active, and
someone of age from 33 - 41.

If the above simple introduction does pique your interest, please message me.

[1983rophi]

I have a Hickman Line. 

It was inserted on 14th April. 

 

If u also have a catheter, 

If u hv been prescribed Vinblastine, 

or If u are doing chemotherapy, 

Maybe we can be friends. 

                       

Facing end-stage-renal-failure, i end up crying when the(mind games in my brain & heart knowing) Dialysis mite be needed for a year. 

                         

I know the possibility of finding someone-out-there-who-is-sick & gay at the same time is like "me striking ToTo 1st Prize"... but i believe in a higher power & while I-am-facing-death, if i can uplift a Guy/Gay & show him authentic love> that would add value to the c.k.d. I am facing. 🥰😍😘

 

[NiceGuyx]

1 hour ago, 1983rophi said:

I have a Hickman Line. 

It was inserted on 14th April. 

 

If u also have a catheter, 

If u hv been prescribed Vinblastine, 

or If u are doing chemotherapy, 

Maybe we can be friends. 

                       

Facing end-stage-renal-failure, i end up crying when the(mind games in my brain & heart knowing) Dialysis mite be needed for a year. 

                         

I know the possibility of finding someone-out-there-who-is-sick & gay at the same time is like "me striking ToTo 1st Prize"... but i believe in a higher power & while I-am-facing-death, if i can uplift a Guy/Gay & show him authentic love> that would add value to the c.k.d. I am facing. 🥰😍😘

 

I know it’s easy to say this but sometimes hard to do, but be strong! We’re all behind you! 

[1983rophi]

3 hours ago, NiceGuyx said:

I know it’s easy to say this but sometimes hard to do, but be strong! We’re all behind you! 

Thanks Love, 

Doing Dialysis needs:

 

An unbreakable heart when one is faced with disappointments, 

 

A mind that can withstand attacks from the enemy who constantly tries to undermine the courage & bravery your heart has displayed but there is an emotional-Disconnect-btw-the-Heart-and-Mind. 

 

Lastly, crying buckets night after night, for 3 months accepting the harsh reality that> you-are-your-own-cheerleader. 

 

I was in I.C.U. on 23rd March & even till today, i keep myself thriving(& not surviving) because of my 10yo-Niece & 

7yo-Nephew.

They know: "Their Uncle is sick. But they fail to fully comprehend the reality of losing their 42yo Uncle."

 

for now, 

What moves me forward? 

Finding a Gay/Guy willing to walk this journey with me. 💋😍🥰🤩

[kevin]

Harlow, wish to know more people. Ultimately LTR?  
About me:
31 yrs old, 176cm, 88kg, local mly, vers b

Daily activity: working, gym, running. 

Likes to watch movies, nua, ML. Can DM me if wanna connect!  

[lancestars]

Im a 36-year-old Chinese guy, 177cm tall and 85kg, looking to build a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone genuine. I love shopping, swimming, window shopping, and spending relaxing afternoons in cafes. I value honesty, emotional connection, and shared experiences whether it's exploring the city or just enjoying each other's company. Im grounded, affectionate, and ready to invest in something real. If you are mature, kind, and looking for the same, I’d love to connect.

 

like to seek some one who are around my age or younger. 

[Can_berry80]

I look left look right.... look left look right .... Why finding a true LTR so diffcult ?

 

Local Chinese 45yrs Standing at 170 long. Slight heavy 75.  

Looking for same age uncle or younger ahboi that str8 acting. Hopefully a chinese frm 🇸🇬 🇲🇾 or  cute guys frm 🇹🇭 🇯🇵   staying in Singapore to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel to Japan, taiwan, malaysia or any part in asia. And Sometime Cruise..

( I mean 🛳️cruise.... not cruising at toilet ). . Hope Get to know more about each other b4 jump into LTR.

( Open relationship, those in mid of gonna starting or gonna end relationship and got many lovers. Pls DO NOT APPLY this vacent position).

Lastly..... my Position is Side. Hardly Top. cannot Btm me. 😝

Edited May 10, 2025 by Can_berry80

[True079]

I'm 46yo tall and slightly stocky build Chinese. 

 

Seeking out str-acting gentlemen for friendship and discreet companionship. If you are respectful, pm me.

[youngdad]

I'm not married and I don't have a kid. It's just a nick. 

 

Sincerely looking for Chinese only who are 25 years and below for relationship. Not looking for fun. Had enough. 

 

Stats

46 177 69 Sg Chinese

Role: Top but don't mind letting my bf top me once awhile

Appearance: Looks young like 35

Body: Lean fit 

Dick size: 15cm length by 4cm diameter 

 

My Character 

Romantic 

Caring

Understanding 

Hardworking 

 

Face and body photos available on Telegram. Add me @findmyboi

[TechDotCom]

Deleted

 

Edited November 13, 2025 by TechDotCom

[skybabylister]

1. Name: skybaby

 

2. Age: 36 years old. 

 

3. Height: 170cm

 

4. Weight: 85 kg (average) 

 

5. Role: Versatile 

 

6. Interests/hobbies: gym, swimming, cooking and baking

 

5. Self-description: Simple and down to earth guy who is always friendly and kind to the people around me. Also, stable career, now looking for home sweet 3 room resale flat

 

6. The kind of guy I hope to be with: Chinese guy (Age between 30 to 45) only. (No offense to other races as this is my preference) Sincere, committed, financially stable.

 

7. Other remarks: Aim to have a long term relationship

[gaysianusa888]

Hey all,

 

Is there anyone here in the usa or have connections in the usa? If so would love to chat.

 

Me:

Californian chinese American

5'10 ish

Weight - 170 lbs

Role- vers

Interests / hobbies - health /fitness, baking, home cooking,  gaming

Career - We don't have to chat about this unless it gets serious

 

Looking for my next Singaporean date..... 25-35 yrs preferred 

 

[True079]

46 Chinese / 181cm / 90kg /slightly stocky build.

 

Looking for regular manly top gentlemen for discreet and respectful companionship. 

 

Prefer to meet up first for coffee / chat to see if we click, Pm me if interested. 

 

If you are sincere and respectful, pm me.

[fibo]

I live in Sengkang (can host), semi-retired (IT), own a car. I am looking for: 

 

- Between 18-69 years old 

- friendship and/or fun 

- Side or Top 

  

I'm : 

- 59 years old, 165cm / 68kg, Chinese,  

- Side 

I look forward to hearing from you. 

Edited May 26, 2025 by fibo

[jcboy18]

helloos! trying out again for 2025

 

info abt me!!!

• turning 19 in 2025

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years), but if youre abit older idm seeing how things work out

• more on the lean-fit side? can work out tgt🤭❤️

• stay in the east! (optional because i want to be nearby😂but if you arent its okay!)

• preferrably has the same/similar interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3) 

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[blueduck]

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Edited July 7, 2025 by blueduck

[Kaki74]

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Edited May 22, 2025 by Kaki74

[jcboy18]

helloos! trying out again for 2025

 

info abt me!!!

• turning 19 in 2025

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years), but if youre abit older idm seeing how things work out

• more on the lean-fit side? can work out tgt🤭❤️

• stay in the east! (optional because i want to be nearby😂but if you arent its okay!)

• preferrably has the same/similar interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3) 

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[youthisforyou]

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Edited May 25, 2025 by youthisforyou

[marvistemp]

Hello, shooting my shot here

 

About me

30, 178cm, 76kg

Discreet Sg Chinese

Have belly fats but am working on my physique at FF

Vers btm

Stays in the east

 

Interests: Taking long walks, hiking, KTV, gaming, netflix and drinks

 

About you

Prefers someone between 36-50

Chinese

>170cm and not too chubby

Straight acting

Vers or top

 

Ideal weekend dates: taking walks, exploring neighborhoods or new places together, weekend drinks at bars, watching films or netflix together while we lay and cuddle.

 

Seeking someone whom is serious in seeking LTR, someone whom I can walk this life with and the one that I would "die with a smile" to (pardon my lame pun as it is LG concert weekend lol).  Prefers monogamous as I am a strong believe of "traditional relationship values" but also open to non-monogamy as long as we both establish clear boundaries . Start off as friends and we'll see how things go, if things don't work out, we can still be friends. If that piques your interest, drop me a DM.

 

Similarly, above criteria is just a preference for my ideal partner, if you don't fit in the criteria and are looking for friends, do drop me a DM too. 

 

 

 

 

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Kaki74]

Hi

 

Me: 174/70/51 yo chinese.

Interest: Gym, swim, tan, massage

 

Looking for:

Chinese in their 30s, 40s and 50s who are into gym and swim. 

[dan0654]

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Edited May 25, 2025 by dan0654

[marinaland]

I'm 33 local Chinese sg male. Looking for age 30-33 Chinese sg local. Prefer Singaporean. Not into bears. Chat with me if you are keen.

[Ifthereismiracle]

I'm not looking for a d**k to play with but looking for someone who has a greatest heart who share the same mindset of how a monogamous relationship will be like. Ideally I like how things to fall in place once you are together and how two person can bond together as a couple. There is no fairytale story on how wonderful a gay relationship will be like but I'm looking forward to creating memories on how the relationship will turn out. If you think that you are having the same mentality as me, do drop me a pm and hope things will turn out great from the moment you pen me your interest. Thank you.

 

My statistic and intro as follow.
Age: 44 turning 45 this year.
Stat: 175/90(Definitely not a chub)
Nationality: Singaporean
Role: Versatile/Side
Interest: Walking(Enjoying walk in the park), reading, gardening, going for spa relaxation (Straight spa) etc. 
Occupation : White collar job

Smoking: Non smoker

 

Preference
Age: Between 45 to early 50s
Role: Same as me (Optional) 
Race: Strictly Chinese only (Personal preference)
Character: Mature in mindset, down to earth, simple, someone who take monogamously seriously when in a relationship and a non smoker preferably. 

Type: Bearish (If you are is a bonus) and not a chub or feminine type.

 

Hope to hear from you soon. 

 

Edited May 25, 2025 by Ifthereismiracle

[blud]

Hi, im here to network and know new faces. But i am also fully open if things evolve into something more intimate.

 

Some info below that may help

age: 29

height: 170

weight: 65

role: b

 

been trying to stay consistent with the gym for about a year now, love to explore locally and internationally. i appreciate someone who takes the lead, is insightful and always have my back. My dominant love language includes acts of service and physical touch. 

 

i would prefer someone older but does not limit to it.
 

Lets get to know one another on a deeper level, pass all the shallow requirements  

[jcboy18]

helloos! trying out again for 2025

 

info abt me!!!

• turning 19 in 2025

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop
•jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-6years), but if youre abit older idm seeing how things work out

• more on the lean-fit side? can work out tgt🤭❤️

• stay in the east! (optional because i want to be nearby😂but if you arent its okay!)

• preferrably has the same/similar interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3) 

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[Jonathan_Horny_sexy btm]

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Edited February 3 by Jonathan_Horny_sexy btm
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[youngdad]

I'm not married and I don't have a kid. It's just a nick. 

 

Sincerely looking for Chinese only who are 30 years and below for relationship. Not looking for fun. Had enough. 

 

Stats

46 177 69 Sg Chinese

Role: Top but don't mind letting my bf top me once awhile

Appearance: Looks young like 35

Body: Lean fit 

Dick size: 15cm length by 4cm diameter 

Smooth by nature and clean shaven below

 

My Character 

Romantic 

Caring

Understanding 

Hardworking 

 

Face and body photos available on Telegram. Add me @findmyboi

Edited June 24, 2025 by youngdad