Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[youngdad]

I'm not married and I don't have a kid. It's just a nick. 

 

Sincerely looking for Chinese only who are 30 years and below for relationship. Not looking for fun. Had enough. 

 

Stats

46 177 69 Sg Chinese

Role: Top but don't mind letting my bf top me once awhile

Appearance: Looks young like 35 (Compliments from others, not ownself praise ownself) 

Body: Lean fit 

Dick size: 15cm length by 4cm diameter 

Smooth by nature and clean shaven below

 

My Character 

Romantic 

Caring

Understanding 

Hardworking 

 

Face and body photos available on Telegram. Add me @findmyboi

[milodinosaur91]

35c 175 78 seek discreet ltr 

[Tom88]

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Edited September 27 by Tom88

[ToughGuy]

10 minutes ago, Tom88 said:

Just try my luck here. Seek for a long term relationship to settle down.
38C 185 65

Nice... But you are tooooo far away 

[blueduck]

 

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Edited July 19 by blueduck

[JoeTanJoeTan]

 

 

Hello All, 

 

Trying my luck again.
Allow me to introduce myself hor. 

I am 40chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

[weezy]

Hii. Trying my luck here

 

- 26 yrs old working full time

- 169cm

- 92kg stocky but I'm working losing more weight hehe

- Malay

- Pure Btm

 

interests:

- Designs, vibe-coding

- Digital Drawing

- All about gadgets and tech!

 

Looking for someone who:

- is of any race (but preferably local 😊)

- can be my gym buddy (hehe this is a bonus)

- stays in the West (i mean i can travel if u live far)

- is ok with a quiet and shy person, but if we like something similar we can yap and chat all day long

- respects personal space and open to expressing anything

 

Hmu in tele @Wzyvil, here also can but will not be as active.

Edited August 10 by weezy

[Undieboy]

42c 172 75 looking for twink or twunk btm bf. Prefer younger 

[tallbigdaddy]

looking for ltr with xdd 18-22 for all kind of activities 

 

183 40 80 chi all race welcome

[True079]

 

47 soon 🎂 | Chinese | 181 cm | 87 kg. More comfortable as a pure bottom and looking to meet a respectful, str looking guy for a discreet, ongoing connection. I appreciate maturity, mutual respect, good conversation, and keeping things drama-free. Bi, married and discreet, and straight-curious guys are welcome.

 

Birthday's coming up soon—if you're keen to take me out and celebrate, my DMs are open. 😊 

 

我遇見誰 會有怎樣的對白

我等的人 他在多遠的未來

我聽見風 來自地鐵和人海

我排著隊 拿著愛的號碼牌

 

Dm me know me 

 

Edited July 11 by True079

[jcboy18]

helloos! trying out again for 2026 after a while

 

info abt me!!!

• 20yo nsf

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top

 

interests:

•kpop, jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my two cats❤️

• pokemon!!

 

looking for someone who is:

•preferrably chi/mly/pinoy
• around my age (can go younger 1-2years, older 1-5years)

• more on the lean-fit side? can work out tgt or smth

• stay in the east! (optional because i want to be nearby😂but if you arent its okay!)

• preferrably has the same/similar interests (we can yap tgt abt the things we like<3) 

• someone who knows and respects boundaries and how to be honest with their feelings and thoughts

 

hmu on the mail function for my tele if youre keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[justnice89]

Looking for a long term partner. I’m 37 chn 186 71, prefer Chinese with similar stats 😊

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Jav08]

Hihi giving this a try 

• 21yo chinese
• 173cm, 60kg
• btm

Interests:

• Gaming
• Tech
• Cybersec

Looking for:

- Preferably staying Northeast-ish

- Someone who is okay with more shy type

- Preferably local

- Someone around my age (+-)

 

hmu for tele

[Can_berry80]

Searching real friendship or companion.

 

Age:46 Chinese Standing at 170cm long. N weight heaviest at 75+-  Side/Topper.

Experiencing retirement at the moment so very free n bored.

Not rich ..... so MB ..... ❌

Likes Travelling (MY, JP, TH, TW), Cruising.... (Real Cruise Trip), Onsen.

As I'm the type of Enuff eat, spend, play type of life person.

If you looking for "high prospect" n good looking partner ... SKIP.

ONS..... SKIP

Next day LTR...... SKIP

DON'T ASK FOR PHOTO OR VIDEO CALL.

There is too many photo collectors n faker.

Those Born in Goat/Monkey year are usually Playful n irritating If u can handle.

 

Those Who like to go thailand temples most prefer.

Prefer Same age or younger Chinese or from MY, JP, TH, TW. Also Love to travelling. Staying West is a plus. Can Meet for Meal, shopping, kopi or ......... ......... .... Movie

[dam81]

1. Name: Damian

2. Age: 45

3.Height: 183

4.Weight: 93 ( working on it)

5. Role: side (open to try)

 

6.Interest: music , movies, hike, gym, travel

 

7. Description: a relationship to me now is lust-> love -> kinship . I sleep early and I stay alone Mon to Thurs if that matters. I sleep by 10:30 and wake up 6 plus.

 

8. The kind of guy: someone near my age, the rest you will know it if you like the guy when you meet him

 

9. Life’s too short, no need to play mind games. Say what you want and let each other learn and grow together.

[pusheenpika]

Half a year has passed, trying this out again. 

 

'85 baby / 1.78 / 76 / 0 / Sgrean

I do hit the gym quite frequently, be it classes or my own strength training. Also so I can collect Vitality points and coins. 🤗

 

Looking for someone around my age, well-groomed, fit, active, emotionally steady and ready to progress from friends to besties to whatever comes next. 

 

Plus points if you're a cat lover. More points if you can converse in proper English. 

 

Loves dry humour, dad jokes, photography, architecture, interior design, sunsets, sunrises, gadgets, cats, pastries, bread, cakes, rpm, and more. Available to chat on tele if things work out. 

 

Toodaloo~

[blueduck]

Gonna update a bit

 

Hi, Duck here. 37/164/54kg Indo

 

Status                     : never in relationship

Location                 : Jakarta, can travel to SG

Role                         : never have sex, so I don't know.

skin and features   : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. 

Body shape             : lean muscle Bod

smoke and alcohol : No

Sports                       : Calisthenics, I build my body naturally.

 

Languages                : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write)

 

I love nature traveling, watching movie and outdoor activities.

Looking for LTR or friends is ok.

Edited July 19 by blueduck

[N F F O]

Who wants mature top daddy lol

[yumburger]

29/166/63 filipino but grew up here in Singapore

Single 

role : VB

up for chats and dates! looking for potential LTR and friends. 

hmu for tele thanks!

[BottomDum]

I'll give this a shot lol

 

About me

• 19 year old nsf

• 180cm

• 68kg slim/avg build

• Chinese

• bttm

 

L4 someone who is:

•preferrably chinese (or east asian in general)
• 19 - 26

• more on muscular sidee (I rlly like pecs lol)

• stay in the central (but this is kinda unimportant to me)

• Bi maybe? 

• open to trying new things and chill hangouts

• open minded

• Tall (not that important but it's a plus ^^)

my tele is @YKWIM_96

[jcboy18]

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Edited August 31 by jcboy18

[Dave Konaka]

Hey there,

 

I’m a 33-year-old local chi, standing at 182 cm, 103kg with a bear build (think big chest and biceps, with belly). Handsome-boyish look. People often tell me I look younger than my age, so that’s a plus, right? 😄 I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone around my age, ideally a bit smaller in build than me. I'm a side, please take note !

 

Some things about me:

 

Foodie alert! I love exploring all kinds of food, from hawker stalls (nothing beats a good Char Kuey Tiao or Kai Tao Kueh!) to fine dining. I’m also a big fan of cooking and baking—always experimenting with new recipes!

 

Gaming & Travel: I play video games to unwind, but I’m also all about traveling and exploring new places whenever I get the chance.

 

Texting and Affection: I’m a huge texter and love staying connected with my partner, showering them with affection (and I hope to receive the same in return). I believe that a healthy relationship is about both people putting in effort.

 

Getting into shape: I hit the gym about three times a week, focusing on building muscle and getting into great shape.

 

If you’re into great food, fun conversations, and maybe even some cuddle time, hit me up! Let’s grab a meal, have some dessert, or just chat and relax. Looking forward to meeting someone who’s also looking for something real.

 

Please feel free to DM me and drop your tele ID, I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Thank you !

[twinkkbtm]

abt me:

 

-19 this year

-170cm, 59kg, twink

-bottom

-chinese

-kinky

 

i love music (piano, violin, guitar)

 

looking for:

-top

-slightly older

-any race

-slim/lean/fit/twink

-i love big dick😭

[BiKLdecent]

I am 31/168cm/65kg, malaysia chn, toned, side/top.

I like to travel, gaming and food hunt.

Gym is for maintain body shape.

 

I am looking for a LTR BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for.

 

I am looking for

-straight act

-non chub

-Older than me few years old will be great

-both putting effort together in a relationship

 

Edited August 5 by BiKLdecent

[JustAnotherGuy1]

Hey! 25/183/73 here, Chinese and currently a uni student. I'm really into gaming and I’ve been trying to get into reading, but between juggling school, my internship, and looking for a full-time job is keeping me pretty busy right now.

 

Just signed up for the gym last month so I'm starting to focus on getting healthier!  I'm not super happy with how my body looks at the moment, but I'm definitely interested in meeting someone who's down to earth and chill. If you're looking for someone who's fun-loving and enjoys a good laugh, let's chat! 

 

Communication is super important to me, so if you can hold your own in a conversation and communicate your thoughts and needs clearly, bonus points! I'm also a pretty good texter. My only preferences are don’t be an asshole, and not too skinny, that's all.

 

Feel free to message me if any of this sounds interesting! 

[sgind]

Looking for a man with with, humour, confidence, persistence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the mind of a dreamer and a penchant for life’s finer things. PM to get connected and join me for this dance.

[Donic]

48 mature Chinese 1.77 73 seeking decent Chinese guys for friends and connection . Like to play tennis , pets ,singing , cycling and nature . Not into married man . Interested please comment with me on telegram @holymofo 

[weezy]

On 7/10/2026 at 7:19 AM, weezy said:

Hii. Trying my luck here

 

- 26 yrs old working full time

- 169cm

- 92kg chubby but I'm working on being stocky hehe

- Malay

- Pure Btm

 

interests:

- Designs, vibe-coding

- Digital Drawing

- All about gadgets and tech!

 

Looking for someone who:

- is of any race (but preferably local 😊)

- can be my gym buddy (hehe this is a bonus)

- stays in the West (i mean i can travel if u live far)

- is ok with a quiet and shy person, but if we like something similar we can yap and chat all day long

- respects personal space and open to expressing anything

 

Hmu in tele @Wzyvil, here also can but will not be as active.

Definitely not working out ig as everyone who tele-d me instantly deleted their chats when I introed myself smh

[Jo L]

On 8/2/2026 at 10:15 AM, Dave Konaka said:

Hey there,

 

I’m a 33-year-old local chi, standing at 182 cm, 103kg with a bear build (think big chest and biceps, with belly). Handsome-boyish look. People often tell me I look younger than my age, so that’s a plus, right? 😄 I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone around my age, ideally a bit smaller in build than me. I'm a side, please take note !

 

Some things about me:

 

Foodie alert! I love exploring all kinds of food, from hawker stalls (nothing beats a good Char Kuey Tiao or Kai Tao Kueh!) to fine dining. I’m also a big fan of cooking and baking—always experimenting with new recipes!

 

Gaming & Travel: I play video games to unwind, but I’m also all about traveling and exploring new places whenever I get the chance.

 

Texting and Affection: I’m a huge texter and love staying connected with my partner, showering them with affection (and I hope to receive the same in return). I believe that a healthy relationship is about both people putting in effort.

 

Getting into shape: I hit the gym about three times a week, focusing on building muscle and getting into great shape.

 

If you’re into great food, fun conversations, and maybe even some cuddle time, hit me up! Let’s grab a meal, have some dessert, or just chat and relax. Looking forward to meeting someone who’s also looking for something real.

 

Please feel free to DM me and drop your tele ID, I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Thank you !

I would love to know you. I am into tall bear guys. I am quite short at 161cm in comparison.

[V.Wynn]

25yo looking for dating/LTR + gym buddy

 

25 Chinese, 169cm, bigger-sized guy (about 93-95kg) here. Currently teacher-in-training, and outside of school/work I'm quite involved in music, performances and community projects.

 

Quite chatty and playful once comfortable, but I also enjoy deeper conversations and getting to know someone beyond the usual “wyd”. Big Mandopop person, enjoy singing, travelling and trying new things.

 

Mainly looking to meet someone around my age for dating and hopefully an LTR if we click. I like affection, communication and someone whom I can be silly with but also talk things through when needed. No strict body type — attraction matters, but how we connect matters more.

 

Also hoping to find someone who can motivate me to gym more regularly, so a gym buddy would be a huge plus.

 

On the more adventurous side, I'm also curious about pup play and would love to meet an experienced handler who can introduce me to it safely. I'm relatively inexperienced sexually too and would be open to exploring/learning with someone patient whom I trust.

 

Not expecting one person to tick every box haha — ultimately just hoping to meet people, date, and see where things naturally go.

 

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out

Edited August 10 by V.Wynn

[Balestier]

REPOST

 

Seeking a life companion.

Him :

- Between 48-58 of age

- Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, sports, music， reads , travels etc 

- Knows what you want in life

- Emotionally stable and independent 

- Side 

 

 

 

I'm :

- 54YO (Aug) Chinese 177cm / 80kg

- In IT line

- Side 

- ESTJ

- Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.

 

Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. 

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 40.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Enforcer]

38C/175/75 looking for sincere monogamous LTR.

-Westie gaymer here!
~Friends & travel buddies welcomed!

[habibi_bear]

28/169cm/109kg

Local, Arab mix indian

 

Looking for a partner to just go through life together.

I love to read comic, collect figurines, watch movies, travel and of course eat.

 

He just gotta be kind, understanding  and responsive. Also, he needs to be well versed and understand what HIV is and not caught up in the stigma.

 

DM me and we shall see where this goes

 

 

[innocense]

Local chn 38 176 67, discreet, side and not into the scene, seek someone who is older, discreet, with healthy weight and around my height for LTR.

[skybabylister]

1. Male :Skybaby 

2. Age: 38 years old. 

3. Height: 170cm

4. Weight: 85 kg (average) 

5. Role: Versatile 

6. Interests/hobbies: gym, swimming, cooking and baking

5. Self-description: Simple and down to earth guy who is always friendly and kind to the people around me. Also, looking for stable career, now got 3 room resale flat

6. The kind of guy I hope to be with: Chinese guy (Age between 30 to 45) only. (No offense to other races as this is my preference) Sincere, committed, financially stable.

7. Other remarks: Aim to have a long term relationship.

8. Hope to stay tgt. Pm me. Don mind malaysian chinese

[EastSgDad]

57 chn 180 72 tampines. 

 

Non sexual Dad-Son Companionship

 

 

[single42]

Local chn 50 159 95 hairy chub bi, discreet, side and not into the scene, seek someone who is slightly younger or older, discreet, and around my height for friendship first. if click, then we shall see how. 

[Balestier]

On 8/11/2026 at 8:42 AM, Balestier said:

REPOST

 

Seeking a life companion.

Him :

- Between 48-58 of age

- Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, sports, music， reads , travels etc 

- Knows what you want in life

- Emotionally stable and independent 

- Side 

 

 

 

I'm :

- 54YO (Aug) Chinese 177cm / 80kg

- In IT line

- Side 

- ESTJ

- Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.

 

Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. 

The kind of guy I hope to be with: gay (Age between 48 to 58) only, Sporty, Sincere, committed, financially stable. Preference stay around north and have own place

Edited August 21 by Balestier

[littlejesselyn]

On 8/2/2026 at 10:15 AM, Dave Konaka said:

Hey there,

 

I’m a 33-year-old local chi, standing at 182 cm, 103kg with a bear build (think big chest and biceps, with belly). Handsome-boyish look. People often tell me I look younger than my age, so that’s a plus, right? 😄 I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone around my age, ideally a bit smaller in build than me. I'm a side, please take note !

 

Some things about me:

 

Foodie alert! I love exploring all kinds of food, from hawker stalls (nothing beats a good Char Kuey Tiao or Kai Tao Kueh!) to fine dining. I’m also a big fan of cooking and baking—always experimenting with new recipes!

 

Gaming & Travel: I play video games to unwind, but I’m also all about traveling and exploring new places whenever I get the chance.

 

Texting and Affection: I’m a huge texter and love staying connected with my partner, showering them with affection (and I hope to receive the same in return). I believe that a healthy relationship is about both people putting in effort.

 

Getting into shape: I hit the gym about three times a week, focusing on building muscle and getting into great shape.

 

If you’re into great food, fun conversations, and maybe even some cuddle time, hit me up! Let’s grab a meal, have some dessert, or just chat and relax. Looking forward to meeting someone who’s also looking for something real.

 

Please feel free to DM me and drop your tele ID, I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Thank you !

Hi I tried to reach out to u but unable to. If u still looking for a real ltr to commit please let me know 

[NiceOne]

Not looking for someone to pass the time with but for someone to build a life with❤️

 

At this stage of life, I know what I’m looking for — a genuine relationship built to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding, mutual care and attraction, where two guys choose each other intentionally, not only when things are exciting, but through the ordinary days, changing seasons and different stages of life.

 

I believe the right relationship should feel like both chemistry and home - emotional closeness, open communication, consistency, laughter, affection and knowing that we genuinely have each other.

 

Me 45, 170cm, 65kg, B. Hoping to meet someone who is also ready for something meaningful, someone who values connection beyond the physical and wants to see where something genuine can grow.

 

Not looking for perfection. Just the right person who is also looking for me.

✨ Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol

💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

[TadashiN_]

Back after a long time, 

I am Sundram, 30 this year and Singaporean. I am shy guy but definitely not shy when situation calls for it. I am artist and designer as well. I am just your average guy who is looking for LTR.

Love to play games, hardworking and loves food all the time. 
Been gyming and I am also looking for a gym buddy and also a guy who loves to eat food.

I have no preference in guys, no racial preference or age either. 
Just decent guy who keeps himself healthy and is hardwork. 

Tele: @TadashiN_1

if you are keen, hit me up

[Rocket_]

Hey there, Quick intro about me, chinese, in my 50s, 173/69, Top, ISFJ-A.
 

Presently still enjoying gym, swim and walking about 10k steps a day. Not much of a foodie😊Started learning about daily calorie intake. Planning more solo trips ahead, to explore Seoul, Tokyo and Taiwan more deeply, going forward likely parts of China as well. Plus trying to improve my photography. 

 

For me, a relationship doesnt need to mean spending hours together every day. What matters is being present when we're together, and genuinely finding out how each other is doing, that can mean a lot. Kindness, open communication and starting as friends I think are important elements.

 

If you are single, have similar build and we are mutually attracted to each other when we meet, maybe there is a chance for something long-term.

 

Feel free to ping me, happy to chat and see where that takes us🩵🐬

[EastSgDad]

Are YOU:

 

Age below 40

Ht between 170 to 180 cm

Wt - not chub/ plump

 

With similar...

Chat topic 

Hobby

Exercise 

Meal taste

Travelling destinations 

Etc... ... 

[Leoj]

 

 

 

Reposting

 

Looking for special connections which can lead to dates and eventually a relationship
 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 46

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 100kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

 

 

•  

[N F F O]

53 176 70 chn mature top seeking a long term relationship with someone younger and fit / toned 

 

Hit me up

[BlueCygnus]

On 8/2/2026 at 10:15 AM, Dave Konaka said:

Hey there,

 

I’m a 33-year-old local chi, standing at 182 cm, 103kg with a bear build (think big chest and biceps, with belly). Handsome-boyish look. People often tell me I look younger than my age, so that’s a plus, right? 😄 I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone around my age, ideally a bit smaller in build than me. I'm a side, please take note !

 

Some things about me:

 

Foodie alert! I love exploring all kinds of food, from hawker stalls (nothing beats a good Char Kuey Tiao or Kai Tao Kueh!) to fine dining. I’m also a big fan of cooking and baking—always experimenting with new recipes!

 

Gaming & Travel: I play video games to unwind, but I’m also all about traveling and exploring new places whenever I get the chance.

 

Texting and Affection: I’m a huge texter and love staying connected with my partner, showering them with affection (and I hope to receive the same in return). I believe that a healthy relationship is about both people putting in effort.

 

Getting into shape: I hit the gym about three times a week, focusing on building muscle and getting into great shape.

 

If you’re into great food, fun conversations, and maybe even some cuddle time, hit me up! Let’s grab a meal, have some dessert, or just chat and relax. Looking forward to meeting someone who’s also looking for something real.

 

Please feel free to DM me and drop your tele ID, I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Thank you !

Hi I am unable to message you. Please message me or tele me bluecygnus

[Rayzzor]

Abt me

 

- 30 this year, 170, 66kg, Single

- Local chn also looking for similar

- Want to try dating a guy to see how its like, no sexual things

- Started gyming more regularly recently. Will be good if can gym tgt or motivate one another. Beginner swimmer as well

- Easty

- Can be considered a foodie.

- Good that you are stable, curious, present and straight looking. 

 

No hard feelings but finding someone similar as me, exploring and local chn. Age can be a 1-2 years older or younger.

 

PM me or Tele Rayyzor27

 

Edited September 8 by Rayzzor

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 40.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards