Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[sgind]

Looking for a man with with, humour, confidence, persistence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the mind of a dreamer and a penchant for life’s finer things. PM to get connected and join me for this dance.

[retrohao]

40 chn here, looking for younger peeps.

(Can be average build and below)

[Levis]

Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.

 

- Between 30 - 52YO

- Has a decent lifestyle

- Has a white collar job / financially independent

- Knows what you want in life

- SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe)

- Side or not Top

- Is working towards an early retirement

- Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home

 

Honestly, we know in reality no one can perfectly tick-check all our defined boxes. So above is more of a guide to me, though I treat the last point most critically.

 

I'm :

- 48YO(2026)

- Chinese

- 175cm / 89kg

- In IT line

- Side & Dominant

- INTP

- Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.

 

Happy to discuss over emails / Tele / LINE app if you have and take it slow. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding.

[youngdad]

I'm not married and I don't have a kid. It's just a nick. 

 

Sincerely looking for Chinese only who are 30 years and below for relationship. Not looking for fun. Had enough. 

 

Stats

46 177 69 Sg Chinese

Role: Top but don't mind letting my bf top me once awhile

Appearance: Looks young like 35 (Compliments from others, not ownself praise ownself) 

Body: Lean fit 

Dick size: 15cm length by 4cm diameter 

Smooth by nature and clean shaven below

 

My Character 

Romantic 

Caring

Understanding 

Hardworking 

 

Face and body photos available on Telegram. Pls intro yourself with your stats in your first message. Thanks. Add me @findmyboi

[dam81]

Here it comes again

 

1. Name: Damian 

2. Age: 45

3.Height: 183

4.Weight: 93 ( working on it)

5. Role: side (open to try)

 

6.Interest: music , movies, hike, gym, travel

 

7. Description: a relationship to me now is lust-> love -> kinship . I sleep early and I stay alone Mon to Thurs if that matters. I sleep by 10:30 and wake up 6 plus.

 

8. The kind of guy: someone near my age, the rest you will know it if you like the guy when you meet him 

 

9. Life’s too short, no need to play mind games. Say what you want and let each other learn and grow together.

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 48/165/54kg slim local SG Chinese - VersTop - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies from me.

 

DIslike:
X People who like to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X No CD
X Not interested in people who only want to have fun.
X Not interested in a bit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for:  Effeminate boy, Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim, Skinny, Average - Flex Versatile, Ver Btm, Btm

46 years old and below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

Edited September 17 by Flexiguy

[buddy4life]

Circumstances changed so I am back posting here again.

 

51/170/65 chn Top/Sides

 

Looking for : 
- fellow chn, slim smaller build than me : simply because this is what attracts me physically
- easy going, free thinker/Buddhist, discreet/non-feminine/straight-acting/closeted : because I don't need more drama in my life
- non-smoker, non-alcoholic : sensitive to smoke, can't drink
- healthy living : shows maturity and responsibility towards one's life
- not constantly feeling marginalised, entitled : too negative to be around with
- can hold conversations ranging from the arts, politics, science and philosophy etc : so that there can be meaningful conversations
- willing to meet for coffee/meals instead of asking for pictures first : because once your picture goes online, there is no guarantee of staying closeted  
- willing to go for full STD test before commiting sexually : I cleared mine and had not met anyone for even a HJ since.

 

A long list of wants and I am aware that the chances are almost zero (judging from the number of repeated posters here, including myself) and especially at my age but I am just going to try anyway.

 

I sincerely apologise if I do not reply to those with no self intro that fits my long list of wants because it is very tiring to have to explain everything again.

 

However, if our wants fits, do drop me a pm and let's meet for coffee. Thank you for reading.

Edited September 17 by buddy4life
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[NiceOne]

Not looking for someone to pass the time with, but for someone to build a life with ❤️

 

At this stage of life, I know I’m looking for something genuine — a relationship that has the potential to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding, mutual care and attraction, where two guys choose each other intentionally. Not only when things are exciting, but through the ordinary days, changing seasons and different stages of life.

I believe the right relationship should feel like both chemistry and home, emotional closeness, open communication, consistency, laughter, affection, and simply knowing that we genuinely have each other.

 

Me: 45, 170cm, 65kg, B.

 

And perhaps it’s time to go beyond the superficial. We can all list what we like and don’t like, our preferences and our “types” but sometimes the person we connect with most isn’t someone we would have imagined on paper.

 

So why not just meet, have a conversation, and see where things go? Just two people getting to know each other and seeing if there’s something worth exploring.

 

I’m not looking for perfection. Just hoping to meet someone who is also ready for something meaningful and perhaps, in the process, we might surprise each other ❤️

 

📍 Punggol

💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

🚫 Not into chubs

[Donic]

49 chinese 1.77m 73 kg seeking decent connections with chinese guys who are around my age, love tennis, singing, plants and nature, prefer down to earth decent lean guys. If keen please connect with me on Telegram @holymofo

 

Thanks

Jason

[justnice89]

hello! 37 chn 186 71 looking for LTR. prefer similar stats and age 🙂 

[lean n mean]

I wonder wat is the success rate here? Wud be inspiring to know if there r any.

[MichaelBY]

Chn 69 165 65 matured married daddy seek young top for permanent buddy. Only genuine chaser. No sugar boy.

[randomuse]

On 9/23/2026 at 3:00 PM, lean n mean said:

I wonder wat is the success rate here? Wud be inspiring to know if there r any.

I also wonder. And I'm starting to see that LTR means different things to different folks 😅

[marinacove]

Hi, I am 34 173 80 chinese local.

I looking for LTR / friends here.

I prefer local chinese age 34 or younger.

No chubs pls.

 

My hobbies: Travelling, onsen and movies!

 

Chat with me to follow up, thank you 😀

[NiceOne]

On 9/17/2026 at 1:15 PM, NiceOne said:

Not looking for someone to pass the time with, but for someone to build a life with ❤️

 

At this stage of life, I know I’m looking for something genuine — a relationship that has the potential to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding, mutual care and attraction, where two guys choose each other intentionally. Not only when things are exciting, but through the ordinary days, changing seasons and different stages of life.

I believe the right relationship should feel like both chemistry and home, emotional closeness, open communication, consistency, laughter, affection, and simply knowing that we genuinely have each other.

 

Me: 45, 170cm, 65kg, B.

 

And perhaps it’s time to go beyond the superficial. We can all list what we like and don’t like, our preferences and our “types” but sometimes the person we connect with most isn’t someone we would have imagined on paper.

 

So why not just meet, have a conversation, and see where things go? Just two people getting to know each other and seeing if there’s something worth exploring.

 

I’m not looking for perfection. Just hoping to meet someone who is also ready for something meaningful and perhaps, in the process, we might surprise each other ❤️

 

📍 Punggol

💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

🚫 Not into chubs

Anyone keen can drop me a telegram text

[womper.jpg]

18, 170, 70 btm. Seeking a ltr with ideally an older guy :)) I'm really into skiing, ice skating, tennis etc so if ur interested shoot me a dm!!

[Donic]

49 Chinese guy 1.77m, 73kg seeking genuine connection with striaght acting, looking lean chinese guys around my age for friendship and more, in my free time i like tennis, singing, nature, plants and pets, not into gas lighting personalities, those who had message me before can ignore, if keen add me in Telegram @holymofo, by the way am bald if that matters.

 

 

[Balestier]

REPOST

Seeking a life companion.

 

Him :

- Age around 40s-50s

- Has a simple lifestyle etc 

- Knows what you want in life

- Emotionally stable and independent 

- Side 

 

I'm :

- 54YO (Aug) Chinese 177cm / 80kg

- In IT line & teaches Pilates/Yoga

- Side 

- ESTJ

- Stays in AMK w mum helper

- Exercises at FF, travel occasionally around Asia, movie, music and spending private time together etc.

 

Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. 

[True079]

47 182 87kg chi.

 

Seeking a life companion who is respectful and discreet. Emotionally/financial stable and independent.

 

Dm me know me more.

Edited October 3 by True079

[boy.vibe]

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Edited October 7 by boy.vibe

[jsc22]

22 / 174 / 60kg chi

 

Looking for a ltr, not just fun

DM me and see where things go 

 

[dam81]

 

Name: Damian 

2. Age: 45

3.Height: 183

4.Weight: 93 ( working on it)

5. Role: side (open to try)

 

6.Interest: music , movies, hike, gym, travel

 

7. Description: a relationship to me now is lust-> love -> kinship . I sleep early and I stay alone Mon to Thurs if that matters. I sleep by 10:30 and wake up 6 plus.

 

8. The kind of guy: someone near my age, the rest you will know it if you like the guy when you meet him 

 

9. Life’s too short, no need to play mind games. Say what you want and let each other learn and grow together.

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[NiceOne]

Not looking for someone to pass the time with, but for someone to build a life with ❤️

 

At this stage of life, I know I’m looking for something genuine — a relationship that has the potential to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding, mutual care and attraction, where two guys choose each other intentionally. Not only when things are exciting, but through the ordinary days, changing seasons and different stages of life.

I believe the right relationship should feel like both chemistry and home, emotional closeness, open communication, consistency, laughter, affection, and simply knowing that we genuinely have each other.

 

Me: 45, 170cm, 65kg, B.

 

And perhaps it’s time to go beyond the superficial. We can all list what we like and don’t like, our preferences and our “types” but sometimes the person we connect with most isn’t someone we would have imagined on paper.

 

So why not just meet, have a conversation, and see where things go? Just two people getting to know each other and seeing if there’s something worth exploring.

 

I’m not looking for perfection. Just hoping to meet someone who is also ready for something meaningful and perhaps, in the process, we might surprise each other ❤️

 

📍 Punggol

💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

🚫 Not into chubs

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 40.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Bighands00]

Hi everyone! 💕

 

I’m 47, tall, and slightly stocky, and I’m slowly embracing and discovering my softer, more feminine side. Although I’ve always had a rather straight-looking appearance, I’m enjoying exploring this side of myself and expressing it in my own special way.

 

I’ve always been drawn to confident, mature gentlemen with a strong masculine presence. I find it especially attractive when a man carries himself with quiet confidence, is well-mannered, and knows how to make someone feel cherished, pampered, and feminine. 

 

I have a particular soft spot for gentlemen who drive. There’s just something about a confident man behind the wheel that I find rather charming and irresistible. 😉❤️

 

If we connect and feel comfortable with each other, I’d also be happy to dress up femininely for you in private. 🎀

 

For me, it’s about chemistry, mutual respect, trust, and enjoying those little moments that make a connection feel special.

 

If this resonates with you, please feel free to PM me. I’d love to get to know a gentleman who makes me feel comfortable, appreciated, and free to express my feminine side.

 

Thank you for reading, and perhaps the right gentleman will come along. 💕🌹

Edited Wednesday at 01:48 PM by Bighands00

[boy.vibe]

34, Chinese male, 175cm/75kg, boyish looking.
Seeking friends and bromance.

Looking for guys who are pleasant, non-smokers, with no tattoos or piercings. Not into oral or anal.

Hit me up on Telegram!

[kkennyy]

I’m 39 170 70 chn. Seeking for a ltr or friends too.

ESFJ, like singing, exercise & traveling.