1983rophi Posted March 15 Posted March 15 Hi Happy weekend 😃 I'm gonna try something crazy:pls P/M me if u are keen.  1) ACS Barker 2) Lasalle 3) Murdoch 4) USS 5) NTUC 6) Young Living I studied in (1 to 3)& Worked in ( 4 to 6). Quote Local Chinese, living in Central.  Busker, normally singing outside 313 Somerset.  Live with Parents.
JoeTanJoeTan Posted March 17 Posted March 17  Hello All,  Trying my luck again. Allow me to introduce myself hor. I am 40chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones.  I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊  1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.  Thanks much for reading.😊 Relationship, superman888 and Dazzo 2 1 Quote
Relationship Posted March 18 Posted March 18 Hi there  looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39. Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. White collar straight acting guys preferred.   Regards Lucasspare, xenojien and Tom88 2 1 Quote
Lucasspare Posted March 18 Posted March 18 From Malaysia, has been here in Singapore for nearly 3 years Working in healthcare 1.8m/ 30yo/ 83kg/ Chinese Body WIP Mainly side or bottom (waiting for the right one to take my v away)  Seeking a boyfriend for life: - Anyone less than 39 yos - Not overly overweight or too short - Dom, kinks are bonus  Hit me up @dsq996 (telegram) Adrius90, Kingfisher09 and dancrew 2 1 Quote
TA11 Posted March 20 Posted March 20 Hey hello! I'm from myanmar, and have been here for three years now. I'm a (inexperienced) bottom, 20yo/169cm/60kg, with an average body. I'm looking for a long term FWB (anyone from 20-40), or an LTR (20-30). Thanks for reading! haengbok14 and jcboy18 2 Quote
Popular Post Uncle Bryan Posted March 20 Popular Post Posted March 20 Hi not looking for love but mainly looking for friendships.  51 local chinese 174 / 74 / Chinese / side  Into food, exercise, cycling, walking, hiking, music, movies, gym Preference for Age 40 to 60  Lets chat and see where it leads to.   TTDan, Balestier, bwind and 3 others 4 2 Quote
Popular Post Rocket_ Posted March 20 Popular Post Posted March 20 (edited) Peace✌ Edited August 14 by Rocket_ Revised. calvt, Dazzo, SunPlaza and 3 others 1 5 Quote
UtsuroTheVoid Posted March 20 Posted March 20 On 1/14/2025 at 12:42 PM, UtsuroTheVoid said: 25 year old Top 168 cm 80 kg Chinese I like gaming, watching anime, hacking/coding, reading Furry Visual Novels looking for someone slim <= 24 year old that can love me for life...it feels like Im the only one whos actually loyal and mean it when I say "Id love you for life"....Id like my partner to be patient with me..I have a lot of trauma and Im willing to do the same for him...Im probably the most patient and sweetest person youd ever meet if you can get me to love you  Quote
Donic Posted March 21 Posted March 21 seeking nice lean mature chinese guys to be friends and more. Â Am 48 chinese, 1.77m, 73kg, likes singing, tennis, animals, cycling. hope to have meaningful connection here. Â Add my telegram @wiltany and we see how it goes. bwind 1 Quote
youngdad Posted March 21 Posted March 21 17 hours ago, TA11 said: Hey hello! I'm from myanmar, and have been here for three years now. I'm a (inexperienced) bottom, 20yo/169cm/60kg, with an average body. I'm looking for a long term FWB (anyone from 20-40), or an LTR (20-30). Thanks for reading! Hi just curious, why older age is preferred for FWB but younger age for LTR? Quote
ToughGuy Posted March 21 Posted March 21 3 minutes ago, youngdad said: Hi just curious, why older age is preferred for FWB but younger age for LTR? I was also thinking about this😂😂😂 Quote Looking for Lean twin bottom.. Only clean safe discreet fun
tallguy84 Posted March 22 Posted March 22 Looking for a top LTR . im married 40 190 89c. loves singing but not very good at it , jogging and oversea travel . D straight looking . looking for someone similar my age . Chemistry and vibes is impt to me . Looks and body type don’t really matter to me as long we have the vibes . I’m more on emotional side . Of course basic hygiene is a must . another note if u can accept a not  : likes to crossdress in bed being treated like a woman however I’m straight looking and acting , no wig or make up  however I also can be normal mode . please no weird stalking person . As I’m married I have my own commitment. I don’t mind ya married too . let me know tele : tallbtm . Slowmo 1 Quote
AsianBC Posted March 23 Posted March 23 (edited) . Edited June 5 by AsianBC Adrius90 and Bahamut LGH 2 Quote
boyastro Posted March 26 Posted March 26 On 10/7/2025 at 12:15 PM, boyastro said: Hello. I'm 46 166 68 chn. Looking to expand my social circle. Working professional and homey person. Enjoy wine, jazz, swim, yoga, travelling and gardening. Have pet. DM to connect. Thanks.  +1yo +2kg. Quote
medbuilt Posted March 29 Posted March 29 56 years old, 178cm, 115kg, chinese guy  looking for friends to hang out with, movies, theatre, food, just hang out and maybe can develop into friendship like sex and the city,  living in central,  maybe prefer guys around my age +/- 5 years old so can chat about common things like job, retirement, travel and etc,   Me-Me, Dazzo and Zaq 2 1 Quote
blueduck Posted March 29 Posted March 29 (edited) . Edited July 7 by blueduck haengbok14, Andrew Tee and ToughGuy 1 2 Quote traveling around Greater Jakarta Traditional Massage
littlejesselyn Posted March 30 Posted March 30 Looking for a gym buff top for serious relationship. Age, height, look all don't matters as long ur serious. Quote
Popular Post lancestars Posted April 2 Popular Post Posted April 2 Im a 37-year-old Chinese guy, 177cm tall and 85kg, looking to build a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone genuine. I love shopping, swimming, window shopping, and spending relaxing afternoons in cafes. I value honesty, emotional connection, and shared experiences whether it's exploring the city or just enjoying each other's company. Im grounded, affectionate, and ready to invest in something real. If you are mature, kind, and looking for the same, I’d love to connect.  like to seek some one who are around my age or younger. Kingfisher09, Librium, ivan91navi and 2 others 3 2 Quote
Kopitiam Posted April 4 Posted April 4 (edited)   😊 Edited April 25 by Kopitiam lanjiao, xenojien and dam81 2 1 Quote
Green Destiny Sword Posted April 7 Posted April 7 My partner and I are looking for an additional partner to join us for long term 3some fun "partnership".  50 168 65 Chi ver top (but more to side) 46 168 65 Chi btm/side Our preference age between 46 and 50 Chi/Jap/Korean seeking pure top / ver / side  If you are in open relationship, it's also fine.  PM if interested. Zaq and xenojien 1 1 Quote
Balestier Posted April 7 Posted April 7 On 3/21/2026 at 1:06 PM, youngdad said: Hi just curious, why older age is preferred for FWB but younger age for LTR? Upside down. Lol Quote
Balestier Posted April 7 Posted April 7 (edited) Seeking a life companion.  Him : - Between 50s age, 170 cm above - Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, hiking, sports, music， reads , travels etc - Knows what you want in life - Emotionally stable and independent - Side    I'm : - 53++YO Chinese 177cm / 80kg - In IT line - Side - ESTJ - Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.   Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. Edited April 7 by Balestier Quote
EastSgDad Posted April 9 Posted April 9 (edited) 57 chn 180 72 into dad-son monogamous exclusive relationship ... for boys under 40yo  Or  Exclusive buddy-regular ... for boys above 40 yo Edited April 9 by EastSgDad Zaq, Islandbreeze, Me-Me and 1 other 1 1 2 Quote
qwertyuio Posted April 10 Posted April 10 Hi am looking for mainly friendships and connections.  About Me 28 / 177 / 85 / Chinese / fit / vers Preference for Age 25-40 / taller than me / workout  reposting hmu haengbok14 and Chubby_1986 2 Quote
Wicky Posted April 10 Posted April 10 Hi, im 24 170 50 local sg chi bottom. Out of closet n proud of my sexuality. Im very active in the scene.  Looking to be in an open rs with older dominant top. Someone who can accept me for who i am. Any race is fine. iwontbiteleh, Malaylover, sgayanami and 1 other 4 Quote
wodlife Posted April 11 Posted April 11 been a free agent for a few years now, and it's perhaps time to settle down. if you're, like me, a discreet white collared professional who prioritises fitness and active lifestyle; and in your mid to late 30s/early 40s, then do drop a pm and we'll take it from there! neuwave, dancrew, Balestier and 1 other 2 2 Quote
medbuilt Posted April 12 Posted April 12 On 3/29/2026 at 10:40 PM, medbuilt said: 56 years old, 178cm, 115kg, chinese guy  looking for friends to hang out with, movies, theatre, food, just hang out and maybe can develop into friendship like sex and the city,  living in central,  maybe prefer guys around my age +/- 5 years old so can chat about common things like job, retirement, travel and etc,    refining my search, after a date and reflection,  prefer someone shorter than me, dont like skinny, or muscular or body beautiful guys or super chubs  prefer someone whose blood type is not B+, star sign NOT virgo, saggitarus, aquarius,  those who replied but no response, sorry not my type or we had a history,  found some already ignored or block on other social apps, so i guess i dont have to dig up the history or go through the pain of all the drama,  Quote
Balestier Posted April 12 Posted April 12 (edited) On 4/7/2026 at 11:20 AM, Balestier said: Seeking a life companion.  Him : - Between 50s age, 170 cm above - Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, hiking, sports, music， reads , travels etc - Knows what you want in life - Emotionally stable and independent - Side    I'm : - 53++YO Chinese 177cm / 80kg - In IT line - Side - ESTJ - Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.   Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. Prefer a discreet white collared professional into fitness and active lifestyle; and in your late 40s/early 50s. Do drop a Tele johntansg Edited April 12 by Balestier Joseph Tan 1 Quote
BlueCygnus Posted April 14 Posted April 14 Hi everyone! Looking for dates and monogamous LTR.  about me: 170/97/33 indonesian chinese, side/bottom new to bottoming. Into Pokemon/Digimon/Vinyls/coffee/gunpla. ESFJ and 1w2 if it matters.  Looking for: someone older (30-50), muscular/stocky/buff/dad-hod/bears (non-skinny/twink and meaty essentially), hairy (face and body hairs turn me on), preferably top/vers/side. Emotionally mature and willing to communicate, tired of being ghosted.  At the end of the day, those physical traits are just what I am into/find hit and not deal-breakers. Do hit me up if you’re keen to know more about me and see where things go:) jcboy18 1 Quote
dam81 Posted April 15 Posted April 15 On 3/8/2026 at 2:45 PM, dam81 said:  Reposting again 😅  1. Name: Dyson 2. Age: just hit 45 3. Height: 1.83 4. Weight: 85kg  5. Role: side (inexperienced top)  6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), goes to Timezone and Cow Play Cow Moo for destress.  7. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age.  I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while.  8. I’m looking for someone with similar mindset. Relationship to me begins with Lust, then Love kicks in and finally Kinship. Would be good to find someone to start going hiking or gyms at Fitness first for exercise together.  9. I sleep by 10:30pm daily , and I seldom check my phone when working, so please pardon me. Hi all, just trying my luck again if anyone is keen. I like guys if possible near my age, works out at ff gym would be nice and staying in the north or west… hit me up if keen. Me-Me 1 Quote Live and let live
Ramenboi Posted April 15 Posted April 15 (edited) Looking for dates, eventually a partner to settle down with if we click. About Me: 37 176 72 local Chinese Eastie ISTJ Financially stable Stays in my own place Closeted to family and colleagues Side, but open to explore Interests: Gym (FF), gaming, music, concerts, cats, hiking, travel, food  Ideal Partner: 30-38yo Chinese Active lifestyle, non-chub Some degree of overlap in interests would be good Edited April 15 by Ramenboi BlueCygnus and Adrius90 2 Quote
boyastro Posted April 16 Posted April 16 Hello. I'm 47 166 70 chn. Looking to expand my social circle. Working professional and homey person. Enjoy wine, jazz, swim, yoga, travelling and gardening. Have pet. DM to connect. Looking for meaningful connections. Thanks! BlueCygnus, dam81 and lanjiao 3 Quote
Relationship Posted April 17 Posted April 17 Hi there  looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39. Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. White collar straight acting guys preferred.   Regards ToughGuy and BlueCygnus 2 Quote
EastSgDad Posted April 19 Posted April 19 On 4/9/2026 at 9:13 AM, EastSgDad said: 57 chn 180 72 into dad-son monogamous exclusive relationship ... for boys under 40yo  Or  Exclusive buddy-regular ... for boys above 40 yo Being ghosted by potential ... with all due respect.  The Search begins again ... 👀 BlueCygnus 1 Quote
Balestier Posted April 19 Posted April 19 On 4/7/2026 at 11:20 AM, Balestier said: Seeking a life companion.  Him : - Between 50s age, 170 cm above - Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, hiking, sports, music， reads , travels etc - Knows what you want in life - Emotionally stable and independent - Side    I'm : - 53++YO Chinese 177cm / 80kg - In IT line - Side - ESTJ - Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.   Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. Repost Quote
Sens079 Posted April 19 Posted April 19 Seeking a respectful, discreet bi or straight gentleman who’s interested in dating.  I’m 46 (almost 47), Chinese, 1.81m, 87kg.  It’s been quite a while since I was last asked out on a date.  If you’d like to buy me coffee or a meal, I’d be happy to connect. Looking forward to hearing from you. BlueCygnus 1 Quote
pusheenpika Posted April 27 Posted April 27 Hi forumers,  It's me, again.  Been a while, but the one I seek still remains pretty elusive. Quit playing hide and seek!  Here's an about me: 41 this Nov 1.78m, 79-80kg, body is a work in progress. I do a mix of Les Mills classes and my own strength training at a commercial gym located in PL and the CBD 4-5 times weekly.  Loves cosy games (like Pokopia, and Animal Crossing), Pokémon (bad at remembering their typing, moves and names, but they're cute), gadgets (foldables especially), and interior design (always finding ways to spruce the home up).  There are 3 pussies where I live - 2 cats + me 😉. If you get the math, we will click.  I'm looking for someone I can vibe with. Someone who works out regularly, takes care of himself (I'm a very very visual person), preferably above 35, has a stable job, prefers giving over receiving and is a decently decent person.  I do not appreciate fictitious physical attributes that are based off third-party or your own delusional opinions. if you're 50, you are 50, no matter how baby-faced you are. if you're 95kg, you're 95kg, regardless of whoever commented you look 80. Presenting yourself as someone you wish you were is an absolute red flag for me.  Kthxbai    dam81 1 Quote
Levis Posted April 30 Posted April 30 Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.  - Between 30 - 52YO - Has a decent lifestyle - Has a white collar job / financially independent - Knows what you want in life - SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe) - Side or not Top - Is working towards an early retirement - Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home  Honestly, we know in reality no one can perfectly tick-check all our defined boxes. So above is more of a guide to me, though I treat the last point most critically.  I'm : - 48YO(2026) - Chinese - 175cm / 89kg - In IT line - Side & Dominant - INTP - Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.  Happy to discuss over emails / Tele / LINE app if you have and take it slow. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding. Andrew Tee 1 Quote
youngdad Posted April 30 Posted April 30 I'm not married and I don't have a kid. It's just a nick.  Sincerely looking for Chinese only who are 30 years and below for relationship. Not looking for fun. Had enough.  Stats 46 177 69 Sg Chinese Role: Top but don't mind letting my bf top me once awhile Appearance: Looks young like 35 (Compliments from others, not ownself praise ownself) Body: Lean fit Dick size: 15cm length by 4cm diameter Smooth by nature and clean shaven below  My Character Romantic Caring Understanding Hardworking  Face and body photos available on Telegram. Add me @findmyboi Tom88 and dancrew 2 Quote
sgind Posted May 1 Posted May 1  For a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the mind of a dreamer and a penchant for life’s finer things. PM to get connected.  Facing The World With An Empty Heart I Could Disappear Into The Dark And You Were The One Who Could Make My Dreams Come True My Dear, It's You When You're Not Around My Heart Stood Still Within You'll Remain And Always Will Illusion Says There Is Another Man Who Would Interfere Into My Plans 我愛妳 I Love You 我愛妳 I Need You More Than I Ever Did Anyone I've Never Felt Like This Before hadenuhade 1 Quote
dam81 Posted May 1 Posted May 1 Reposting again 😅  1. Name: Dyson 2. Age: just hit 45 3. Height: 1.83 4. Weight: 85kg  5. Role: side (inexperienced top)  6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), goes to Timezone and Cow Play Cow Moo for destress.  7. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age.  I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while.  8. I’m looking for someone with similar mindset. Relationship to me begins with Lust, then Love kicks in and finally Kinship. Would be good to find someone to start going hiking or gyms at Fitness first for exercise together.  9. I sleep by 10:30pm daily , and I seldom check my phone when working, so please pardon me. Quote Live and let live
Flexiguy Posted May 1 Posted May 1 Discreet 47/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more. It's alright if you have different hobbies from me.  DIslike: X People who like to Dominate others X No Open Relationship X No Fetish X No Sugar boy X No Fwb X No CD X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy(Not Crossdresser type), Ladyboy for LTR Discreet Singapore Local Chinese Slim, Skinny, Average - Flex,Versatile, Ver Top, Ver Btm, Btm 46 years old and below  Hit me up if we have lost contact before. If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You! VanillaSalt 1 Quote
EastSgDad Posted May 2 Posted May 2 (edited) 57 chn 180 72 into dad-son monogamous exclusive relationship ... for boys under 40yo ... dad-son cum BF cum blue-black stickmen relationship Only into sincere boys, not daughter 🤪  Edited May 10 by EastSgDad Quote
Leoj Posted May 2 Posted May 2  Reposting  Looking for special connections which can lead to dates and eventually a relationship  Compatibility and Chemistry are important if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?  1. Name: Joel  2. Age: 46  3. Height: 185cm  4. Weight: 100kg  5. Role: Bottom  6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling  7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one?  8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind) Quote
alex15533 Posted May 4 Posted May 4 I am 34 yo, local chinese, go to gym often but i dont think i am considered muscular. Probably lean.  Looking for dates or friends. I am btm / side.  Interest: play games, board games, dancing, watch anime and random videos  Hope to find a top / sides:  - gym and/or does workout - can vibe / chat with me  Hope to meet and say hi.   Adrius90, reece7700, Puretopnicefitman and 1 other 3 1 Quote
wingshy Posted May 6 Posted May 6 (edited) Hi Daddies, 40s Chinese CD in SK here — not the passable type, but definitely fun in my own way 😉  Looking for a mature man who knows how to relax and enjoy some good company. Bonus points if you’ve got your own cozy place in SK… makes sneaky little night meetups much easier.  I’m into easy chats, warm cuddles, and a bit of playful closeness — nothing too serious, just two people enjoying the sides moment when we can. Nights work best for me, and I like keeping things discreet but fun.  If you’re gentle, cheeky, and know how to make a girl smile, come say hi in telegram @wingshy 😘 Edited May 8 by wingshy Quote
Balestier Posted May 12 Posted May 12 REPOST Seeking a life companion. Him : - Between 48-58 of age - Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, sports, music， reads , travels etc - Knows what you want in life - Emotionally stable and independent - Side  I'm : - 54YO (Aug) Chinese 177cm / 80kg - In IT line - Side - ESTJ - Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.  Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. Quote
NiceOne Posted May 12 Posted May 12 25 minutes ago, Balestier said: REPOST Seeking a life companion. Him : - Between 48-58 of age - Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, sports, music， reads , travels etc - Knows what you want in life - Emotionally stable and independent - Side  I'm : - 54YO (Aug) Chinese 177cm / 80kg - In IT line - Side - ESTJ - Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.  Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. Wanna get to know u. Chat me in telegram Iamnic80 (capital i) and we can take our conversation from there Quote
Wicky Posted May 13 Posted May 13 On 4/11/2026 at 3:35 AM, Wicky said: Hi, im 24 170 50 local sg chi bottom. Out of closet n proud of my sexuality. Im very active in the scene.  Looking to be in an open rs with older dominant top. Someone who can accept me for who i am. Any race is fine.  still open Letsuckit, sgayanami and Jonahamed00 3 Quote
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