Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[youngdad]

I'm not married and I don't have a kid. It's just a nick. 

 

Sincerely looking for Chinese only who are 30 years and below for relationship. Not looking for fun. Had enough. 

 

Stats

46 177 69 Sg Chinese

Role: Top but don't mind letting my bf top me once awhile

Appearance: Looks young like 35 (Compliments from others, not ownself praise ownself) 

Body: Lean fit 

Dick size: 15cm length by 4cm diameter 

Smooth by nature and clean shaven below

 

My Character 

Romantic 

Caring

Understanding 

Hardworking 

 

Face and body photos available on Telegram. Add me @findmyboi

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 47/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies from me.

 

DIslike:
X People who like to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X No CD
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy(Not Crossdresser type), Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim, Skinny, Average - Flex,Versatile, Ver Top, Ver Btm, Btm

46 years old and below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

[Leoj]

Reposting

 

Looking for special connections which can lead to dates and eventually a relationship
 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 46

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 100kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

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[CKBE-Fanz88]

Looking for a genuine connections, open to possibilities. 

About Me 😁:
ISFJ by nature, warm and loyal once I let someone in. I’m more of a quiet-doer than a loud-talker; thoughtful, consistent, and I usually show care through actions.I’m pretty tidy, organized, and I appreciate good hygiene and a well-kept space.

 

I enjoy walks/hikes, good food, nature, and quality time over noisy crowds. I can also be a homely person, relaxing at home with my partner, keeping each other company.

 

What I’m looking for 🥳:

Someone emotionally mature, financially stable, grounded, and clear about what they want. Seeing age profile between 30-45, Westies are a plus

 

Basic Introduction:

Age: 40 YO

Race: Chinese

Religion: Buddhist

Height/ Weight: 176/80

Profession: Finance & Administration

Role: Side / Bottom

Love Language: Quality Time

Diet: Can’t take beef

 

Nature, light traveling, religious, movie, hiking, calligraphy.

[bwind]

56 170 68 local chinese, easy going and discrete, Seek friendship/ltr/travel buddy

Stays in the north..

[sgind]

For a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the mind of a dreamer and a penchant for life’s finer things. PM to get connected.

 

Facing The World With An Empty Heart

I Could Disappear Into The Dark

And You Were The One

Who Could Make My Dreams Come True

My Dear, It's You

When You're Not Around

My Heart Stood Still

Within You'll Remain And Always Will

Illusion Says There Is Another Man

Who Would Interfere Into My Plans

我愛妳 I Love You

我愛妳 I Need You

More Than I Ever Did Anyone

I've Never Felt Like This Before

[qwertyuio]

Hi am looking for mainly friendships and connections. 
 

About Me

28 / 177 / 85 / Chinese / fit / vers 

Preference for 

Age 25-40 / taller than me / workout 

 

hmu

 

 

 

 

[dam81]

 Reposting again 😅

 

1. Name: Dyson

2. Age: just hit 45

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: side (inexperienced top)

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), goes to Timezone and Cow Play Cow Moo for destress.

 

7. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while.

 

8. I’m looking for someone with similar mindset. Relationship to me begins with Lust, then Love kicks in and finally Kinship. Would be good to find someone to start going hiking or gyms at Fitness first for exercise together.

 

9. I sleep by 10:30pm daily , and I seldom check my phone when working, so please pardon me.

[Balestier]

Seeking a life companion.

Him :

- Between 50s age, 170 cm above

- Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, sports, music， reads , travels etc 

- Knows what you want in life

- Emotionally stable and independent 

- Side 

 

I'm :

- 53++YO Chinese 177cm / 80kg

- In IT line

- Side 

- ESTJ

- Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.

 

Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. 

Edited March 8 by Balestier

[Sens079]

Any respectful discreet gentleman keen to date me out?

46 (almost 47) Chinese 1.81 87kg here.

 

It’s been quite a while since someone last asked me out on a date, and I miss enjoying good conversation over a simple meal.

 

If anyone would like to date me, buying me a meal or coffee, I’d be happy to meet. Let's connect. 

Edited March 14 by Sens079

[1983rophi]

Hi

Happy weekend 😃

I'm gonna try something crazy:pls P/M me if u are keen.

 

1) ACS Barker

2) Lasalle

3) Murdoch

4) USS

5) NTUC

6) Young Living

I studied in (1 to 3)&

Worked in ( 4 to 6).

[JoeTanJoeTan]

 

Hello All, 

 

Trying my luck again.
Allow me to introduce myself hor. 

I am 40chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Lucasspare]

From Malaysia, has been here in Singapore for nearly 3 years

Working in healthcare 

1.8m/ 30yo/ 83kg/ Chinese

Body WIP 

Mainly side or bottom (waiting for the right one to take my v away) 

 

Seeking a boyfriend for life: 

- Anyone less than 39 yos 

- Not overly overweight or too short 

- Dom, kinks are bonus

 

Hit me up @dsq996 (telegram)

[TA11]

Hey hello! I'm from myanmar, and have been here for three years now.
I'm a (inexperienced) bottom, 20yo/169cm/60kg, with an average body.
I'm looking for a long term FWB (anyone from 20-40), or an LTR (20-30).

Thanks for reading!

[Uncle Bryan]

Hi not looking for love but mainly looking for friendships.
 

51 local chinese

174 / 74 / Chinese / side 

 

Into food, exercise, cycling, walking, hiking, music, movies, gym

Preference for 

Age 40 to 60 

 

Lets chat and see where it leads to.

 

 

[Rocket_]

Happy 2026 Gentlemen👬🏻

Short intro, 50s, 173/69 Chinese Top

For me, always enjoy a quick gym/swim and some short getaways (Seoul, Tokyo, maybe Taiwan, NZ to revisit ++). Looking for someone emotionally available, present and who takes care of his body. I think what’s important in a relationship is quality time together, kindness, be each other best friends and plenty of hugs. If this resonates with you, just ping me, looking forward to our chat. Hope you find your one and only too! Peace✌

Edited March 20 by Rocket_
Revised

[UtsuroTheVoid]

On 1/14/2025 at 12:42 PM, UtsuroTheVoid said:

25 year old Top
168 cm
80 kg
Chinese
I like gaming, watching anime, hacking/coding, reading Furry Visual Novels
looking for someone slim <= 24 year old that can love me for life...it feels like Im the only one whos actually loyal and mean it when I say "Id love you for life"....Id like my partner to be patient with me..I have a lot of trauma and Im willing to do the same for him...Im probably the most patient and sweetest person youd ever meet if you can get me to love you

 

[Donic]

seeking nice lean mature chinese guys to be friends and more.

 

Am 48 chinese, 1.77m, 73kg, likes singing, tennis, animals, cycling. hope to have meaningful connection here.

 

Add my telegram @wiltany and we see how it goes.

[youngdad]

17 hours ago, TA11 said:

Hey hello! I'm from myanmar, and have been here for three years now.
I'm a (inexperienced) bottom, 20yo/169cm/60kg, with an average body.
I'm looking for a long term FWB (anyone from 20-40), or an LTR (20-30).

Thanks for reading!

Hi just curious, why older age is preferred for FWB but younger age for LTR?

[ToughGuy]

3 minutes ago, youngdad said:

Hi just curious, why older age is preferred for FWB but younger age for LTR?

I was also thinking about this😂😂😂

[tallguy84]

Looking for a top LTR .

im married 40 190 89c.

loves singing but not very good at it , jogging and oversea travel . D
straight looking .

looking for someone similar my age . Chemistry and vibes is impt to me . 

Looks and body type don’t really matter to me as long we have the vibes . I’m more on emotional side . Of course basic hygiene is a must . 
another note if u can accept a not  : likes to crossdress in bed being treated like a woman however I’m straight looking and acting , no wig or make up  however I also can be normal mode . 
please no weird stalking person . As I’m married I have my own commitment. I don’t mind ya married too . 

let me know 

tele : tallbtm . 

[AsianBC]

180 73 36 chi btm here

[boyastro]

On 10/7/2025 at 12:15 PM, boyastro said:

Hello. I'm 46 166 68 chn. Looking to expand my social circle. Working professional and homey person. Enjoy wine, jazz, swim, yoga, travelling and gardening. Have pet. DM to connect. Thanks.  

+1yo +2kg. 

[medbuilt]

56 years old, 178cm, 115kg, chinese guy

 

looking for friends to hang out with, movies, theatre, food, just hang out and maybe can develop into friendship like sex and the city,

 

living in central,

 

maybe prefer guys around my age +/- 5 years old so can chat about common things like job, retirement, travel and etc,

 

 

[blueduck]

Hi, Duck here. 37/164/54kg Indo

 

Status                     : never in relationship

Location                 : Jakarta

Role                         : never have sex, so I don't know. but fantasizing doing both.

skin and features   : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. 

Body shape             : lean muscle Bod

smoke and alcohol : No

hobby                      : animating, gardening and cooking

Interest                    : animation, tech, gaming, movie

Fav movie                : BB mountain, Wall-E, anything Ghibli

Fav food                   : fruits, pizza, sea food, rendang, and durian (I have durian tree)

Fav activity              : hiking, camping and snorkeling, fishing

Sports                       : Calisthenics. I was doing run, but stopped due to risk of joint ache. 

Skills                         : animating, acting and massage (I think this is family inherit skill)

Languages                : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write)

Occupation.              : Durian grower

 

It might costly for LDR, so I looking for financially stable partner. I would love to stay with you anytime you want, and I can control my durian trees regularly.

 

Dream: have dairy farm and huge durian plantation, so that I can travel with you and work

 

like      : nerds, introvert, skinny, muscle, bushy, facial hair, glasses, Bald.

dislike : fat, sissy, drama queen, bad breath, smoke.

[littlejesselyn]

Looking for a gym buff top for serious relationship. Age, height, look all don't matters as long ur serious. 

[lbk]

173 60 33 slim chi btm here

[lancestars]

Im a 37-year-old Chinese guy, 177cm tall and 85kg, looking to build a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone genuine. I love shopping, swimming, window shopping, and spending relaxing afternoons in cafes. I value honesty, emotional connection, and shared experiences whether it's exploring the city or just enjoying each other's company. Im grounded, affectionate, and ready to invest in something real. If you are mature, kind, and looking for the same, I’d love to connect.

 

like to seek some one who are around my age or younger. 

[Kopitiam]

I am 43 chn, 172cm,72kg ,local I like to travel, jog, eat, movies and cycle and stay home.

I am looking for a long-term relationship do text me if you are : 

 

I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to travel or similar hobbies. 
Someone younger than me be nice but similar age group is ok 

Take initiative and enjoy simple things together 
 

 😊

Edited April 4 by Kopitiam

[Green Destiny Sword]

My partner and I are looking for an additional partner to join us for long term 3some fun "partnership".

 

50 168 65 Chi ver top (but more to side)

46 168 65 Chi btm/side

Our preference

age between 46 and 50

Chi/Jap/Korean

seeking pure top / ver / side

 

If you are in open relationship, it's also fine.  PM if interested.

[Balestier]

On 3/21/2026 at 1:06 PM, youngdad said:

Hi just curious, why older age is preferred for FWB but younger age for LTR?

Upside down. Lol

[Balestier]

Seeking a life companion.

 

Him :

- Between 50s age, 170 cm above

- Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, hiking, sports, music， reads , travels etc 

- Knows what you want in life

- Emotionally stable and independent 

- Side 

 

 

 

I'm :

- 53++YO Chinese 177cm / 80kg

- In IT line

- Side 

- ESTJ

- Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.

 

 

Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. 

Edited April 7 by Balestier

[EastSgDad]

57 chn 180 72 into dad-son monogamous exclusive relationship ... for boys under 40yo

 

Or

 

Exclusive buddy-regular ... for boys above 40 yo

Edited Thursday at 02:07 AM by EastSgDad

[qwertyuio]

Hi am looking for mainly friendships and connections. 
 

About Me

28 / 177 / 85 / Chinese / fit / vers 

Preference for 

Age 25-40 / taller than me / workout 

 

reposting hmu

[Wicky]

Hi, im 24 170 50 local sg chi bottom. Out of closet n proud of my sexuality. Im very active in the scene.

 

Looking to be in an open rs with older dominant top. Someone who can accept me for who i am. Any race is fine. 

[wodlife]

been a free agent for a few years now, and it's perhaps time to settle down. 

if you're, like me, a discreet white collared professional who prioritises fitness and active lifestyle; and in your mid to late 30s/early 40s, then do drop a pm and we'll take it from there!

[medbuilt]

On 3/29/2026 at 10:40 PM, medbuilt said:

56 years old, 178cm, 115kg, chinese guy

 

looking for friends to hang out with, movies, theatre, food, just hang out and maybe can develop into friendship like sex and the city,

 

living in central,

 

maybe prefer guys around my age +/- 5 years old so can chat about common things like job, retirement, travel and etc,

 

 

 

refining my search, after a date and reflection,

 

prefer someone shorter than me, dont like skinny, or muscular or body beautiful guys or super chubs

 

prefer someone whose blood type is not B+, star sign NOT virgo, saggitarus, aquarius, 

 

those who replied but no response, sorry not my type or we had a history, 

 

found some already ignored or block on other social apps, so i guess i dont have to dig up the history or go through the pain of all the drama,

 

[Balestier]

On 4/7/2026 at 11:20 AM, Balestier said:

Seeking a life companion.

 

Him :

- Between 50s age, 170 cm above

- Has a simple lifestyle going to FF too, hiking, sports, music， reads , travels etc 

- Knows what you want in life

- Emotionally stable and independent 

- Side 

 

 

 

I'm :

- 53++YO Chinese 177cm / 80kg

- In IT line

- Side 

- ESTJ

- Interests include : exercises at FF, treks, teaches yoga pilates, travel occasionally around AP, music etc.

 

 

Happy to discuss over telegram johntansg or inbox. Too many scammers around. 

Prefer a discreet white collared professional into fitness and active lifestyle; and in your late 40s/early 50s. Do drop a  Tele johntansg 

Edited Sunday at 06:47 AM by Balestier

[BlueCygnus]

Hi everyone! Looking for dates and monogamous LTR. 
 

about me: 170/97/33 indonesian chinese, side/bottom new to bottoming. Into Pokemon/Digimon/Vinyls/coffee/gunpla. ESFJ and 1w2 if it matters. 

 

Looking for: someone older (30-50), muscular/stocky/buff/dad-hod/bears (non-skinny/twink and meaty essentially), hairy (face and body hairs turn me on), preferably top/vers/side. Emotionally mature and willing to communicate, tired of being ghosted. 

 

At the end of the day, those physical traits are just what I am into/find hit and not deal-breakers. Do hit me up if you’re keen to know more about me and see where things go:)