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Discreet 47/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies from me.

 

DIslike:
X People who like to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X No CD
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy


Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy(Not Crossdresser type), Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim, Skinny, Average - Flex,Versatile, Ver Top, Ver Btm, Btm

46 years old and below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

Posted (edited)

Not looking for casual chats or fleeting moments but something deeper…

 

A connection where two guys genuinely understand each other, care, and grow into something meaningful.

 

I am 45, 170cm, 65kg, B and if you believe in real chemistry, emotional closeness, and the possibility of building something lasting with the right person, let’s connect.

 

I can host in Punggol where deep connection and intimacy can unfold naturally.

 

Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol | 💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital i)

Edited by NiceOne
Posted

  

20 minutes ago, Hengheng said:
On 10/7/2025 at 12:15 PM, boyastro said:

Hello. I'm 46 166 68 chn. Looking to expand my social circle. Working professional and homey person. Enjoy wine, jazz, swim, yoga, travelling and gardening. Have pet. DM to connect. Thanks.  

Dm

 

12 minutes ago, Hengheng said:
On 7/21/2025 at 8:07 PM, Kaki74 said:

Hi.

 

Any guys in yours 30s and 40s who into gym and swim? Can hang out together, makan or catch a movie together at home on weekends. 

Dm

 

 

@Hengheng how is this different from your "I am interested", "I can join you", etc...??? You are still spamming all over the forum!!!

 

You should send them a PM, not asking them to PM you and NO NEED TO REPLY IN THE THREADS (like above)!!!

Whether they want to reply you, that's a separate thing.

Last warning... Take note!!
<<no need to reply to my post also!>>

 

Posted

Not looking for casual chats or fleeting moments but something deeper…

 

A connection where two guys genuinely understand each other, care and grow into something meaningful.

 

I am 45, 170cm, 65kg, B and if you believe in real chemistry, emotional closeness, and the possibility of building something lasting with the right person, let’s connect.

 

I can host in Punggol where deep connection and intimacy can unfold naturally.

 

 Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol | 💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital i)

Posted
9 minutes ago, NiceOne said:

Not looking for casual chats or fleeting moments but something deeper…

 

A connection where two guys genuinely understand each other, care and grow into something meaningful.

 

I am 45, 170cm, 65kg, B and if you believe in real chemistry, emotional closeness, and the possibility of building something lasting with the right person, let’s connect.

 

I can host in Punggol where deep connection and intimacy can unfold naturally.

 

 Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol | 💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital i)

Nice...nice ..but tooo far😭😭😭

Looking for Lean twin bottom.. Only clean safe discreet fun

Posted (edited)

 

Looking for a confident, respectful bi/straight manly top who enjoys discreet regular meetups.

 

I’m a light matured CD, 46, tall, and craving something steady with the right guy.

 

If the mix of subtle femininity privately and regular chemistry appeals to you, slide into my DMs.

Edited by Bighands00
Posted

Looking for a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Am a local professional. PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

Posted

Looking for a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Am a local professional. PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

Posted
On 4/21/2019 at 12:54 AM, Andrew Tee said:

Hi

 

I am 42 Chinese 173cm, 68kg looking to settle down.

 

I work in IT line. 

I am a strict vegetarian. 

Very much into spiritual studies. 

Likes photography. 

Likes cuddle and hugs. 

Able to give good massage. 

 

Looking for someone in the 30s and 40s.  Decent looking. Good characters. Prefer Chinese, non-chub and non-smoker. 

 

I have low sex drive so definitely not able to satisfy guys with high sex drive.  Those who are only interested in sex please skip.  I am a flex bottom, if that is important to you. 

 

Not interested in money boy also, I am not super rich so can't be sugar daddy. 

 

Thanks for reading. 

Bumping this after 6 years. Still single. But some things have changed. Age now 48. From 68 kg to 75 kg. Went through some medical condition so role is changed to side only. Just to clarify my medical condition is related to my heart ❤️. Rejoin Fitness First recently other than that pretty much the same. And still a vegetarian but I started to take eggs under the advice from the doctor. Just trying my luck again so ping me if you are interested. Thanks 🙏 😊

Posted

I'm a 46-year-old Chinese bi guy, 181cm/ 87kg, lives in Bukit Batok, pure btm here, hoping to settle down with someone matured, kind, and discreet straight acting.

 

I value sincerely, emotional connection, and enjoying the company of each other.

Consider myself grounded, affectionate, and a gd listener. Dm me know more.

 

Posted

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

Posted
On 11/30/2025 at 9:54 AM, dam81 said:

 it’s another new month

 

1. Name: D

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: side, top if needed

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the previous date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. 

 

In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible. Ah yes, I like to hug and kiss a lot too 😉hit me up if you are keen and I hope to hear from you! 
 

Hit me up to go for gym together, have a dinner or movie together.
 

Lastly, last month of the year, have a good one with your loved ones. 

Before the year ends, i’mlooking for someone with similar mindset. Relationship to me begins with Lust, then Love kicks in and finally Kinship. Would be good to find someone to start going hiking, exercise together.

 

Even better if he stays alone. After the last goodbye in July 2024, it’s finally time for me to love myself more. 
 

Merry Christmas to all and have a happy wonderful 2026. May all find their loved ones.

Live and let live

Posted
On 12/18/2025 at 3:11 PM, Relationship said:

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

But I m in Malaysia 😭

Looking for Lean twin bottom.. Only clean safe discreet fun

Posted

Hi there. 

 

Wish to settle down for regular companionship. Dm me.

 

I'm local Chinese pure btm 181, 90, age 46.

 

Looking at one who drives and is respectful and discreet. Straight acting guys preferred. 

Posted
On 1/14/2025 at 12:42 PM, UtsuroTheVoid said:

24 year old Top
168 cm
80 kg
Chinese
I like gaming, watching anime, hacking/coding, reading Furry Visual Novels
looking for someone slim <= 24 year old that can love me for life...it feels like Im the only one whos actually loyal and mean it when I say "Id love you for life"....Id like my partner to be patient with me..I have a lot of trauma and Im willing to do the same for him...Im probably the most patient and sweetest person youd ever meet if you can get me to love you

bump

Posted

My Stats:

51yo 160cm 58kg

role: Pure side

diet: ovo lacto vegetarian

hobbies: jogging and computer gaming

 

My profile is my picture and my Instagram inside my profile have all my face and topless pic in it

My body should be considered fit and i look for other lean/slim fit guys as well

My personal goal is to stay fit and healthy with diets and exercise till the end of life and i will pull my friends to exercise with me to stay on this healthy lifestyle path

I am a pure side and only likes fun of touching fit guys and to be touched

I am looking for more long term close friends especially those who like to hug and cuddle up with me in bed without those sex act. Hopefully one day we can live together with all these close friends in the future.

I have dreams of me and my close friends that would live together, cook together, exercise together, do housework together, support each other emotionally etc

With this kind of setting i believe relationship is considered open and a easy going personality is needed

Posted

Seeking for a genuine relationship built to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding and mutual care, where two guys choose each other intentionally, communicate openly and grow together through different stages of life.

 

I’m 45, 170cm, 65kg, B. If you value real chemistry, emotional closeness, consistency and the possibility of building a meaningful partnership with the right person, connect with me.

 

I can host in Punggol, offering a calm and private environment where trust, connection, and intimacy can develop naturally over time.

 

Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol | 💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

Posted (edited)

 

 

47 / CHN / 181 / 87

 

Drawn to manly, discreet, married, or straight-acting bi bros.

 

Looking for an easygoing buddy to enjoy good conversation and relaxed hangouts. I prefer letting connections develop naturally.

 

If trust, privacy, and authenticity matter to you, let’s grab kopi sometime. Open to a discreet chat or a quiet bromance if there’s mutual chemistry—PM me.

Edited by mindconcepts
Posted

New year new me post? 😂 I still looking for one to date.

 

I’m 44 chi 1.83m and 85kg, hobbies include listening to music, watching movies, travel and trying to gym more this year. Gonna work harder on myself to have better health etc. I like hiking with the right company too, go for some scenic route 

 

i hope to find someone older than me or younger than me not more than 5 years old. I’m not a sugar daddy or sugar bro as well :)

 

Somehow I have a liking for guys bald 🙈 but that’s my liking. I used to believe dating must be done in stages, etc dinner, then staycations then travel but now anything goes. 
 

I feel that Lust, Affection, Love and Kinship should be the steps of the relationship. I hope to find someone who stays alone.

 

i’m trying now to get back my health and be a better person for me, and my family and eventually my loved one. I don’t need to meet my other half daily but would be good to meet at least once, we can chat or talk on phone or WhatsApp. On busy days, some short messages will suffice too. 

 

Hope to hear from you if you like what I say. 

Live and let live

Posted
16 hours ago, dam81 said:

New year new me post? 😂 I still looking for one to date.

 

I’m 44 chi 1.83m and 85kg, hobbies include listening to music, watching movies, travel and trying to gym more this year. Gonna work harder on myself to have better health etc. I like hiking with the right company too, go for some scenic route 

 

i hope to find someone older than me or younger than me not more than 5 years old. I’m not a sugar daddy or sugar bro as well :)

 

Somehow I have a liking for guys bald 🙈 but that’s my liking. I used to believe dating must be done in stages, etc dinner, then staycations then travel but now anything goes. 
 

I feel that Lust, Affection, Love and Kinship should be the steps of the relationship. I hope to find someone who stays alone.

 

i’m trying now to get back my health and be a better person for me, and my family and eventually my loved one. I don’t need to meet my other half daily but would be good to meet at least once, we can chat or talk on phone or WhatsApp. On busy days, some short messages will suffice too. 

 

Hope to hear from you if you like what I say. 

Keen and open to getting to know U.

I'm 59 1.76 70 Chi... likes what I am reading, almost similar interests, no partner to do hiking or workout, not bald and not as young as U like.

But willing to make a friend, regardless of race, religion or language (sound like S'pore Pledge... hahaha).

Prefer to be jovial and positive. I am a joker at times but can be serious person with open discussion.

Posted (edited)

Desire a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the mind of a dreamer and a penchant for life’s finer things. PM to get connected.

 

Facing The World With An Empty Heart

I Could Disappear Into The Dark

And You Were The One

Who Could Make My Dreams Come True

My Dear, It's You

When You're Not Around

My Heart Stood Still

Within You'll Remain And Always Will

Illusion Says There Is Another Man

Who Would Interfere Into My Plans

我愛妳 I Love You

我愛妳 I Need You

More Than I Ever Did Anyone

I've Never Felt Like This Before

Edited by sgind
Posted

Seeking mature friends/more
Lucas
44
165
60kg
Side
Travelling, cafe hopping, baking, hiking
I'm easy going, independent, with a good sense of humour.
Looking for someone mature in thinking and life, positive and funny

Posted (edited)

Hi, I’m a 46 year-old (2026) discreet, local Chinese guy looking for friends/ travel buddies/ long-term relationship /soulmate.

 

About Me:

• Height: 178cm

• Weight: 78kg (working towards 72kg—currently hitting the gym)

• Look younger than my age (according to my friends.😂)

• Professional and independent

• Simple and easy-going personality

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys movies, BLs, and Netflix

• Loves traveling and exploring cafes

• Non-smoker

• Social drinker (occasionally)

 

What I’m Looking For:

• Someone around 30 to 49 years old (+/-)

• Preferably Chinese

• Average, toned, or lean build (and open to hitting the gym together)

• Professional, financially stable, and independent

• Easy-going, fun-loving, and cheerful

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys spending quality time, whether it’s a simple dinner or wandering aimlessly at the mall

• Open to doing silly activities together once in a while 😂

• Loves traveling 

• Non-smoker and occasional/non-drinker

• Most importantly: someone who takes good care of themselves and takes pride in their grooming and appearance

 

If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect! 😊

Edited by LookingforLTR
Posted (edited)

Seeking for a genuine relationship built to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding and mutual care, where two guys choose each other intentionally, communicate openly and grow together through different stages of life.

 

I’m 45, 170cm, 65kg, B. If you value real chemistry, emotional closeness, consistency and the possibility of building a meaningful partnership with the right person, connect with me.

 

I can host in Punggol, offering a calm and private environment where trust, connection, and intimacy can develop naturally over time.

 

Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol | 💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

Edited by NiceOne
Posted

Hi guys. Looking for friends or potential partner to live, cherish and do crazy things together. My bf ideally should be younger than me from 18-25 years of age and preferably Chinese twinks. Pm me if you wanna know me better. 

Posted

 

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 46

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 100kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

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Posted
5 hours ago, Leoj said:

 

 

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 46

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 100kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

  •  

 

It doesn't matter whether you're gay, straight or bisexual. Relationships itself, is a tough journey, be it you're young or in your seniors, is subjected to many unpredictable scenarios and with conditions beyond anyone's understanding. Before one start to search for the "right" one, there should be no expectation, demands or listed conditions.

 

As stated, "compatibility and chemistry" are criterias to be considered. Then again, it is you who assesses but not the other party. What does the other party expect? Needs or wants?

 

Exporation by each other will fulfil any gaps in between. Through interests or activities together, then this "compatibity and chemistry" will be able to work. I stand to be corrected, as far as I know, straight people also have their reserve options in believing in a "loyal, honesty and monogamy" mentality. There will be fetishes, fantasies and/or inner desires to be fulfilled.

 

I'm just giving my two cents worth for discussion. Hope I've not offended you or anyone in BWF by offering these thoughts.

Posted

Hello guys,

 

I’m a local Chinese guy who is seeking for a long-term relationship and a lifetime soulmate to walk the journey with me I enjoys the simple things in life like long walks, watching TV and having a good conversations, and genuine connection.

 

I’m looking for someone who is mature in mentality, financially stable, knows what he wants in life and in a relationship, values honesty and understand the meaning of monogamous relationship is and understand that in a relationship is not about business on bed but quality time spend together and lot of communication.

 

More information about me

  • 45/175/88 (Spec Chinese) 
  • Working professional 
  • Versatile in role
  • Simple, straight acting and down to earth person
  • Like long walk, slow jog, browsing tiktok etc, heading to JB once a while for the shopping and massage session.
  • Non smoker/Drinker

 

Prefer someone who are:

  • Strictly between 45 to 52 years old (Not into guys younger than 43
  • Non Chub
  • Straight act and not feminine
  • No dramatic type
  • Chinese Single Gay only (Not into bi or married)
  • Enjoy spending time together whenever time permit doing anything we like
  • Non smoker. Occasional drinking is acceptable.
  • Straight acting and discreet but i am ok if he wants to hold hand in movies or buses
  • Financially stable 

At my current age, i just want to look for someone simple to spend the life with me, to grow with me and nothing complicated.

If you’re someone who’s ready for something real and lasting, I would like to get to know you and i hope to hear from you to join me to walk the journey together. Hope to get your messages soon. 

Posted

If you do not have a certain ‘type’, then let’s get connected and see where it leads to …

Posted

Me:

Working professional into workout (gym and swim). 174/70/51yo Chinese. Discreet and straight acting. 

 

You:

Prefer singles who are easygoing and with humour. Late 30s to early 50s. Into fitness too.

Posted

Am at 48 year old flexi top chinese guy seeking friends and more, cuddle, 1.77m 72 kg, loves to stay at home, play tennis and pets, lets connect if you are a lean chinese guy and simple. thanks! Add my telegram @wiltany if you are sincere 

Posted

Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.

 

- Between 33 - 51YO

- Has a decent lifestyle

- Has a white collar job / financially independent

- Knows what you want in life

- SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe)

- Side or not Top

- Is working towards an early retirement

- Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home

 

Honestly, we know in reality no one can perfectly tick-check all our defined boxes. So above is more of a guide to me, though I treat the last point most critically.

 

I'm :

- 47YO

- Chinese

- 175cm / 89kg

- In IT line

- Side & Dominant

- INTP

- Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.

 

Happy to discuss over emails / LINE app if you have and take it slow. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding.

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