Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[dam81]

 it’s another new month

 

1. Name: D

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: side, top if needed

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the previous date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. 

 

In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible. Ah yes, I like to hug and kiss a lot too 😉hit me up if you are keen and I hope to hear from you! 
 

Hit me up to go for gym together, have a dinner or movie together.
 

Lastly, last month of the year, have a good one with your loved ones. 

Edited November 30, 2025 by dam81

[littlejesselyn]

So hard to find serious bf that wan to commit 

[sgind]

Looking for a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Am a local professional. PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

[Andrew Tee]

On 4/21/2019 at 12:54 AM, Andrew Tee said:

Hi

 

I am 42 Chinese 173cm, 68kg looking to settle down.

 

I work in IT line. 

I am a strict vegetarian. 

Very much into spiritual studies. 

Likes photography. 

Likes cuddle and hugs. 

Able to give good massage. 

 

Looking for someone in the 30s and 40s.  Decent looking. Good characters. Prefer Chinese, non-chub and non-smoker. 

 

I have low sex drive so definitely not able to satisfy guys with high sex drive.  Those who are only interested in sex please skip.  I am a flex bottom, if that is important to you. 

 

Not interested in money boy also, I am not super rich so can't be sugar daddy. 

 

Thanks for reading. 

Bumping this after 6 years. Still single. But some things have changed. Age now 48. From 68 kg to 75 kg. Went through some medical condition so role is changed to side only. Just to clarify my medical condition is related to my heart ❤️. Rejoin Fitness First recently other than that pretty much the same. And still a vegetarian but I started to take eggs under the advice from the doctor. Just trying my luck again so ping me if you are interested. Thanks 🙏 😊

[Sens079]

I'm a 46-year-old Chinese bi guy, 181cm/ 87kg, lives in Bukit Batok, pure btm here, hoping to settle down with someone matured, kind, and discreet straight acting.

 

I value sincerely, emotional connection, and enjoying the company of each other.

Consider myself grounded, affectionate, and a gd listener. Dm me know more.

 

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[dam81]

On 11/30/2025 at 9:54 AM, dam81 said:

 it’s another new month

 

1. Name: D

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: side, top if needed

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the previous date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. 

 

In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible. Ah yes, I like to hug and kiss a lot too 😉hit me up if you are keen and I hope to hear from you! 
 

Hit me up to go for gym together, have a dinner or movie together.
 

Lastly, last month of the year, have a good one with your loved ones. 

Before the year ends, i’mlooking for someone with similar mindset. Relationship to me begins with Lust, then Love kicks in and finally Kinship. Would be good to find someone to start going hiking, exercise together.

 

Even better if he stays alone. After the last goodbye in July 2024, it’s finally time for me to love myself more. 
 

Merry Christmas to all and have a happy wonderful 2026. May all find their loved ones.

[ToughGuy]

On 12/18/2025 at 3:11 PM, Relationship said:

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

But I m in Malaysia 😭

[Undieboy]

Looking for a twinkish bf. 
I’m the faithful monogamous sort. 
39c 172 75 singaporean VT

[True079]

Hi there. 

 

Wish to settle down for regular companionship. Dm me.

 

I'm local Chinese pure btm 181, 90, age 46.

 

Looking at one who drives and is respectful and discreet. Straight acting guys preferred. 

[UtsuroTheVoid]

On 1/14/2025 at 12:42 PM, UtsuroTheVoid said:

24 year old Top
168 cm
80 kg
Chinese
I like gaming, watching anime, hacking/coding, reading Furry Visual Novels
looking for someone slim <= 24 year old that can love me for life...it feels like Im the only one whos actually loyal and mean it when I say "Id love you for life"....Id like my partner to be patient with me..I have a lot of trauma and Im willing to do the same for him...Im probably the most patient and sweetest person youd ever meet if you can get me to love you

bump

[junyuan]

here for dates, 30,170,70, local b

Edited December 27, 2025 by junyuan

[TannedHornyHunk]

Hi 27 178 76 mly gymfit btm, any tops wanna bring me out on a date? Am not generally picky, no preference for physique, pref str8 acting and above 23 would be nice. 😊

[marinacove]

Hi I'm 33 local chinese 173 80. Looking for local chinese age 33 and below. No plump guys pls. Pm me, thanks

[yoyo74]

My Stats:

51yo 160cm 58kg

role: Pure side

diet: ovo lacto vegetarian

hobbies: jogging and computer gaming

 

My profile is my picture and my Instagram inside my profile have all my face and topless pic in it

My body should be considered fit and i look for other lean/slim fit guys as well

My personal goal is to stay fit and healthy with diets and exercise till the end of life and i will pull my friends to exercise with me to stay on this healthy lifestyle path

I am a pure side and only likes fun of touching fit guys and to be touched

I am looking for more long term close friends especially those who like to hug and cuddle up with me in bed without those sex act. Hopefully one day we can live together with all these close friends in the future.

I have dreams of me and my close friends that would live together, cook together, exercise together, do housework together, support each other emotionally etc

With this kind of setting i believe relationship is considered open and a easy going personality is needed

[buddy4life]

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Edited January 11 by buddy4life
no longer relevant

[NiceOne]

Seeking for a genuine relationship built to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding and mutual care, where two guys choose each other intentionally, communicate openly and grow together through different stages of life.

 

I’m 45, 170cm, 65kg, B. If you value real chemistry, emotional closeness, consistency and the possibility of building a meaningful partnership with the right person, connect with me.

 

I can host in Punggol, offering a calm and private environment where trust, connection, and intimacy can develop naturally over time.

 

✨ Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol | 💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

[lk_09]

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Edited February 10 by lk_09

[mindconcepts]

 

 

47 / CHN / 181 / 87

 

Drawn to manly, discreet, married, or straight-acting bi bros.

 

Looking for an easygoing buddy to enjoy good conversation and relaxed hangouts. I prefer letting connections develop naturally.

 

If trust, privacy, and authenticity matter to you, let’s grab kopi sometime. Open to a discreet chat or a quiet bromance if there’s mutual chemistry—PM me.

Edited January 8 by mindconcepts

[Seekltr]

Hi I m seeking slim

or lean nerdy guy for date any seeking pls dm me new here

[dam81]

New year new me post? 😂 I still looking for one to date.

 

I’m 44 chi 1.83m and 85kg, hobbies include listening to music, watching movies, travel and trying to gym more this year. Gonna work harder on myself to have better health etc. I like hiking with the right company too, go for some scenic route 

 

i hope to find someone older than me or younger than me not more than 5 years old. I’m not a sugar daddy or sugar bro as well

 

Somehow I have a liking for guys bald 🙈 but that’s my liking. I used to believe dating must be done in stages, etc dinner, then staycations then travel but now anything goes. 
 

I feel that Lust, Affection, Love and Kinship should be the steps of the relationship. I hope to find someone who stays alone.

 

i’m trying now to get back my health and be a better person for me, and my family and eventually my loved one. I don’t need to meet my other half daily but would be good to meet at least once, we can chat or talk on phone or WhatsApp. On busy days, some short messages will suffice too. 

 

Hope to hear from you if you like what I say. 

[Rosh Wang]

16 hours ago, dam81 said:

New year new me post? 😂 I still looking for one to date.

 

I’m 44 chi 1.83m and 85kg, hobbies include listening to music, watching movies, travel and trying to gym more this year. Gonna work harder on myself to have better health etc. I like hiking with the right company too, go for some scenic route 

 

i hope to find someone older than me or younger than me not more than 5 years old. I’m not a sugar daddy or sugar bro as well

 

Somehow I have a liking for guys bald 🙈 but that’s my liking. I used to believe dating must be done in stages, etc dinner, then staycations then travel but now anything goes. 
 

I feel that Lust, Affection, Love and Kinship should be the steps of the relationship. I hope to find someone who stays alone.

 

i’m trying now to get back my health and be a better person for me, and my family and eventually my loved one. I don’t need to meet my other half daily but would be good to meet at least once, we can chat or talk on phone or WhatsApp. On busy days, some short messages will suffice too. 

 

Hope to hear from you if you like what I say. 

Keen and open to getting to know U.

I'm 59 1.76 70 Chi... likes what I am reading, almost similar interests, no partner to do hiking or workout, not bald and not as young as U like.

But willing to make a friend, regardless of race, religion or language (sound like S'pore Pledge... hahaha).

Prefer to be jovial and positive. I am a joker at times but can be serious person with open discussion.

[sgind]

Desire a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the mind of a dreamer and a penchant for life’s finer things. PM to get connected.

 

Facing The World With An Empty Heart

I Could Disappear Into The Dark

And You Were The One

Who Could Make My Dreams Come True

My Dear, It's You

When You're Not Around

My Heart Stood Still

Within You'll Remain And Always Will

Illusion Says There Is Another Man

Who Would Interfere Into My Plans

我愛妳 I Love You

我愛妳 I Need You

More Than I Ever Did Anyone

I've Never Felt Like This Before

Edited January 7 by sgind

[lucask]

Seeking mature friends/more
Lucas
44
165
60kg
Side
Travelling, cafe hopping, baking, hiking
I'm easy going, independent, with a good sense of humour.
Looking for someone mature in thinking and life, positive and funny

[ContradicCoward]

Hi,

 

I am 35 chn 170 86 curious bottom. Looking for LTR seeking top mature or daddies for more.

 

stay around novena

 

[LookingforLTR]

Hi, I’m a 46 year-old (2026) discreet, local Chinese guy looking for friends/ travel buddies/ long-term relationship /soulmate.

 

About Me:

• Height: 178cm

• Weight: 78kg (working towards 72kg—currently hitting the gym)

• Look younger than my age (according to my friends.😂)

• Professional and independent

• Simple and easy-going personality

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys movies, BLs, and Netflix

• Loves traveling and exploring cafes

• Non-smoker

• Social drinker (occasionally)

 

What I’m Looking For:

• Someone around 30 to 49 years old (+/-)

• Preferably Chinese

• Average, toned, or lean build (and open to hitting the gym together)

• Professional, financially stable, and independent

• Easy-going, fun-loving, and cheerful

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys spending quality time, whether it’s a simple dinner or wandering aimlessly at the mall

• Open to doing silly activities together once in a while 😂

• Loves traveling 

• Non-smoker and occasional/non-drinker

• Most importantly: someone who takes good care of themselves and takes pride in their grooming and appearance

 

If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect! 😊

Edited January 11 by LookingforLTR

[tanwla]

Hello! It’s a new year, thought of trying again…

 

I am:

- 36 years old

- 170cm

- 58kg

- chn

- working

- vers/btm

look for:

- vers/top

- chn

Chat me up on tele @algin2~

[NiceOne]

Seeking for a genuine relationship built to last.

 

Something grounded in understanding and mutual care, where two guys choose each other intentionally, communicate openly and grow together through different stages of life.

 

I’m 45, 170cm, 65kg, B. If you value real chemistry, emotional closeness, consistency and the possibility of building a meaningful partnership with the right person, connect with me.

 

I can host in Punggol, offering a calm and private environment where trust, connection, and intimacy can develop naturally over time.

 

✨ Chinese preferred | 🚫 No chub

📍 Punggol | 💬 Telegram: @Iamnic80 (capital “i”)

Edited January 11 by NiceOne

[Bape40]

Hi guys. Looking for friends or potential partner to live, cherish and do crazy things together. My bf ideally should be younger than me from 18-25 years of age and preferably Chinese twinks. Pm me if you wanna know me better. 

[Leoj]

 

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 46

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 100kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

•  

[Rosh Wang]

5 hours ago, Leoj said:

 

 

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 46

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 100kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

•  

 

It doesn't matter whether you're gay, straight or bisexual. Relationships itself, is a tough journey, be it you're young or in your seniors, is subjected to many unpredictable scenarios and with conditions beyond anyone's understanding. Before one start to search for the "right" one, there should be no expectation, demands or listed conditions.

 

As stated, "compatibility and chemistry" are criterias to be considered. Then again, it is you who assesses but not the other party. What does the other party expect? Needs or wants?

 

Exporation by each other will fulfil any gaps in between. Through interests or activities together, then this "compatibity and chemistry" will be able to work. I stand to be corrected, as far as I know, straight people also have their reserve options in believing in a "loyal, honesty and monogamy" mentality. There will be fetishes, fantasies and/or inner desires to be fulfilled.

 

I'm just giving my two cents worth for discussion. Hope I've not offended you or anyone in BWF by offering these thoughts.

[lookingforreal]

Hello guys,

 

I’m a local Chinese guy who is seeking for a long-term relationship and a lifetime soulmate to walk the journey with me I enjoys the simple things in life like long walks, watching TV and having a good conversations, and genuine connection.

 

I’m looking for someone who is mature in mentality, financially stable, knows what he wants in life and in a relationship, values honesty and understand the meaning of monogamous relationship is and understand that in a relationship is not about business on bed but quality time spend together and lot of communication.

 

More information about me

• 45/175/88 (Spec Chinese) 
• Working professional 
• Versatile in role
• Simple, straight acting and down to earth person
• Like long walk, slow jog, browsing tiktok etc, heading to JB once a while for the shopping and massage session.
• Non smoker/Drinker

 

Prefer someone who are:

• Strictly between 45 to 52 years old (Not into guys younger than 43
• Non Chub
• Straight act and not feminine
• No dramatic type
• Chinese Single Gay only (Not into bi or married)
• Enjoy spending time together whenever time permit doing anything we like
• Non smoker. Occasional drinking is acceptable.
• Straight acting and discreet but i am ok if he wants to hold hand in movies or buses
• Financially stable 

At my current age, i just want to look for someone simple to spend the life with me, to grow with me and nothing complicated.

If you’re someone who’s ready for something real and lasting, I would like to get to know you and i hope to hear from you to join me to walk the journey together. Hope to get your messages soon. 

[Dollyartasia8800]

Hello I'm a simple person. It's nice meeting new people here.

[JusteMoi]

If you do not have a certain ‘type’, then let’s get connected and see where it leads to …

[Kaki74]

Me:

Working professional into workout (gym and swim). 174/70/51yo Chinese. Discreet and straight acting. 

 

You:

Prefer singles who are easygoing and with humour. Late 30s to early 50s. Into fitness too.

[theblackcat]

Local Chinese age 58 btm looking for partner. Anyone in yishun? 

 

[Kai191314]

.

Edited March 15 by Kai191314

[Donic]

Am at 48 year old flexi top chinese guy seeking friends and more, cuddle, 1.77m 72 kg, loves to stay at home, play tennis and pets, lets connect if you are a lean chinese guy and simple. thanks! Add my telegram @wiltany if you are sincere 

[Levis]

Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.

 

- Between 33 - 51YO

- Has a decent lifestyle

- Has a white collar job / financially independent

- Knows what you want in life

- SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe)

- Side or not Top

- Is working towards an early retirement

- Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home

 

Honestly, we know in reality no one can perfectly tick-check all our defined boxes. So above is more of a guide to me, though I treat the last point most critically.

 

I'm :

- 47YO

- Chinese

- 175cm / 89kg

- In IT line

- Side & Dominant

- INTP

- Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.

 

Happy to discuss over emails / LINE app if you have and take it slow. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding.

[Rocket_]

 Thanks for your ❤️

🏻

Edited March 20 by Rocket_
Updated

[Dionn]

About Me

• 29 | 168cm | 58kg

• Serious about building a real relationship

Looking For

• A genuine, long-term connection

• Someone around my age that’s a bit mature that can counteract my childish personality

• Honest, emotionally available, and communicative

• Top / Side

Hobbies & Interests

• Karaokeing

• Traveling & exploring new places

• Gym

• Absolute foodie: always hunting for good food

Tele @Andrei 

Edited January 18 by Dionn

[EastSgDad]

On 12/26/2025 at 11:16 AM, True079 said:

Hi there. 

 

Wish to settle down for regular companionship. Dm me.

 

I'm local Chinese pure btm 181, 90, age 46.

 

Looking at one who drives and is respectful and discreet. Straight acting guys preferred. 

Hey! I have the same relationship anchor / mindset like you - monogamous. 

Total trust that he will treasure your body just like his, vice versa. 

 

I hope you have found yours.

Edited January 19 by EastSgDad

[Donic]

Hi All, 

 

48 chinese, 177, 72 seeking lean decent chinese guys to know and see how it goes, i love to play tennis, have a pet dog and cat, singing and also a nature lover, for those who message me and ghosted me, i have blocked you permanently  you can add me in telegram @wiltany , only real sincere people need apply, not into fake 

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 58 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[dam81]

 Reposting again 😅

 

1. Name: Damster

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: side 

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), goes to Timezone and Cow Play Cow Moo for destress.

 

7. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

8. I’m looking for someone with similar mindset. Relationship to me begins with Lust, then Love kicks in and finally Kinship. Would be good to find someone to start going hiking or gyms at Fitness first for exercise together.

 

#profile

[zer12237]

Make friend

[ToughGuy]

8 hours ago, zer12237 said:

Make friend

Make friend, then make love😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💦💦💦

[Lucas_Boy]

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Edited April 25 by Lucas_Boy

[zer12237]

1 hour ago, ToughGuy said:

Make friend, then make love😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💦💦💦

U bad bad 🤣🤣

[Ridzan]

Long term relationship gives us comfort and security. Knowing that some is care abt you and you can always rely on♥️