Public Display Of Affection (Pda) + Intimate Acts In Public With Bf

[loveseeker]

Hi all. Just wonder anyone kisses your bf or hold hands with your bf in public areas?

I always want to hold my bf hands when walking on the street, but worry others in public areas will be upset.

[Guest manholdman]

why u scared they upset? your hands not their hands, want to hold just hold. if they upset is cos they loser, u're the winner cos you got bf to hold hands with. if they're not open and tolerant then it's time they learn. these people ought to know what the real Singapore is.

But you cannot hold hands then act girly, cos they will call u ah kua. must hold like a real man, and walk not sashay. Man love is awesome rocks.

Hi all. Just wonder anyone kisses your bf or hold hands with your bf in public areas?

I always want to hold my bf hands when walking on the street, but worry others in public areas will be upset.

[babyblue]

Hi all. Just wonder anyone kisses your bf or hold hands with your bf in public areas?

I always want to hold my bf hands when walking on the street, but worry others in public areas will be upset.

done it before when my partner and i took turns to hold each other's waists. of course, i was more shy especially when people were watching, but it felt good to be yourself once in a while.

i don't really approve of kissing in public though (even straight couples). i believe that kissing should be done in private. well, you do know that kissing may lead to other things...

[Guest mankissman]

yah kissing abit eeky and off. hold hands and waist is max. really i think its about doing it in nice and subtle way, not loud flashy and ott, which unfortunately most people try very hard to achieve.

but then it'd be better if you and your partner are cute cos nobody want to see fugly couples getting rah rah or kissy, gross lor. who would you prefer to see? daniel wu and daniel hennessy holding hands, or random heartlander kuniang guys touchy feely?

so moral of the story is if you're hot, please feel free to hold hands, kiss, make out, wrestle whatever.

done it before when my partner and i took turns to hold each other's waists. of course, i was more shy especially when people were watching, but it felt good to be yourself once in a while.

i don't really approve of kissing in public though (even straight couples). i believe that kissing should be done in private. well, you do know that kissing may lead to other things...

[Guest daringus]

i think it is really up to the comfort level of your partner and you. of course, you have to consider the eyes of the prying public.

for my boy and myself, holding hands on the bus rides and while watching a movie in the cinema is a must-have! ha.

but we will do it discreetly, as much hidden as possible.

well, even when we are out on the streets, we will walk very closely and at times, try to have a little peck on the lips where we assume no one is looking. ha. but maybe the 'electronic eyes' have captured us, not those of human beings.

and during meals, we will feed each other at least once! if you do it fast or when you are totally in the world which contains only the both of you, nothing really bothers unless you hear a scream from an old hag which goes,'eee... gays!'

be happy to be yourself but it doesnt mean you can have the rights to disturb others or create a commotion!

[charlesdee]

Great points there. I believe the whole point is to be just yourself and not afraid of it. Other people should respect it. Just have to be watchful with those people who easily get offended. We respect them too

[Guest public]

.. but worry others in public areas will be upset.

and when, touch wood la, yr photos get to stomp, dont get yrself upset in return. :twisted:

[snowball]

most gay couples or those still dating like to have some " sweet action " in between in public,

i do agree with public too, you can do whatever you like,

you can ignore others beside or around you,

but remember, if something not pleasant coming after that,

ready to face it.

Edited June 1, 2010 by snowball

[loveedovee]

great topic and reply so far..

for me and my bf, we dun hold hands in public, though I want to at times. But movies is a must for me too.. sometimes my hands go to the groin area too.

but when out, I'll try my best to be as close. we put our hands around each other. and sometimes while going up escalator, i'll purposely turn my body such that my arms will brush against his. and he'll whisper, "just now got someone molest me". never fail to make me smile..

[Guest daringus]

great topic and reply so far..

for me and my bf, we dun hold hands in public, though I want to at times. But movies is a must for me too.. sometimes my hands go to the groin area too.

but when out, I'll try my best to be as close. we put our hands around each other. and sometimes while going up escalator, i'll purposely turn my body such that my arms will brush against his. and he'll whisper, "just now got someone molest me". never fail to make me smile..

ha! i really feel the same sentiments with loveedovee!

similar actions i will do with my partner of 3 years and we really behave like kids when tickling or poking each others while walking and especially on the escalator rides, we will be in front or behind each other... and like good buddies, the arms of the one at the back will be around the one in front.

and when we do stand too closely to each other... the top will meet the bottom... of course with the jeans as the skin lar!

[Guest alien]

why u scared they upset? your hands not their hands, want to hold just hold. if they upset is cos they loser, u're the winner cos you got bf to hold hands with. if they're not open and tolerant then it's time they learn. these people ought to know what the real Singapore is.

But you cannot hold hands then act girly, cos they will call u ah kua. must hold like a real man, and walk not sashay. Man love is awesome rocks.

Totally agreed. I think if u really want to hold your bf hands in public, hold like a real man and not act girly!

Actually i have seen before gay couple who place their hands ard his partner waist or holding hands. I find this is quite acceptable in public lor.

[castaway]

A friend of mine, not only touch or hold hands sometimes BUT he even put his fingers under my armpits, even my ass while walking behind ... then smell it . Is it considered kinky to you guys ???

[Guest jericho]

i met a japanese guy while on holiday in tokyo abt 5 yrs ago and we hit it off so well dat we decided to try a long distance relationship. some months after i returned home, he came to singapore for the first time in his life to visit. one day while walking down orchard, he happened to mention that he had thot that singapore was a police state and that we will get fined or arrested by police if 2 guys walked down the street holding hands...i laughed so loud and i took his hand in mine and we walked together down orchard road....

[charlesdee]

A friend of mine, not only touch or hold hands sometimes BUT he even put his fingers under my armpits, even my ass while walking behind ... then smell it . Is it considered kinky to you guys ???

LOL. I would never do this.

[Guest guest]

Always a great sight to see handsome macho guys holding hands on the streets. BTW, I'm straight female.

[Guest yourmother]

Always a great sight to see handsome macho guys holding hands on the streets. BTW, I'm straight female.

yah! right!! and i am mother teresa!!!

[Guest voxierock]

Intimate acts?

The farthest me and mine go is sticking very close to each other, no other forms of body contact.

[Guest lex19]

actually i wanted to hold his hands but I did not dare to do that as there were lots of prople around

and i think he could sense it and he actually slowly held my hand and the feeling was really really niceee,i never want to let go of his hand after that

at that point of time, there were lots of people but in my eyes, there is only him

so i guess the intimate acts should happen at the right time and at the right place. ^^

[loveseeker]

Think many are still quite conservative No kissing, hugging in public, even holding hands are not easy.

Will try to hold my bf hand when walking on the street, and see any aunties or ah peh screaming at us or not

[koolkai]

I dont think I have ever seen two guys holding hands or being intimate with each other in the public but I do see gals holding hands and even kissing. I think the public seems to condone lesbians but not gays....it is really strange?

[charlesdee]

I dont think I have ever seen two guys holding hands or being intimate with each other in the public but I do see gals holding hands and even kissing. I think the public seems to condone lesbians but not gays....it is really strange?

I think that must have really been the case.

[cw30]

I dont think I have ever seen two guys holding hands or being intimate with each other in the public but I do see gals holding hands and even kissing. I think the public seems to condone lesbians but not gays....it is really strange?

many guys holding hand at little india

Edited June 6, 2010 by cw30

[babyblue]

many guys holding hand at little india

For many people from India and Bangladesh, it is part of their culture to hold hands. Nothing special...

[Guest guest]

You can try placing your arms around his shoulder. No one will pass comments. bUt not holding hands. Sometimes it is is ok to place palm around the back while walking and talking. Saw some doing it, it is OK too.

[castaway]

I have some straight married colleagues & friends put their arms around my shoulders in office and public ... is it considered "Intimate" ???

[koolkai]

I have some straight married colleagues & friends put their arms around my shoulders in office and public ... is it considered "Intimate" ???

It is definitely not considered as intimate but rather a friendly gesture

Edited June 6, 2010 by koolkai

[Guest alien]

I dont think I have ever seen two guys holding hands or being intimate with each other in the public but I do see gals holding hands and even kissing. I think the public seems to condone lesbians but not gays....it is really strange?

It is really not easy to spot two guys holding hands or behave intimate with each other in public. I think so far i have only saw twice in my life 2 guys doing this, and it was like striking TOTO!

[Guest broiwansexu]

in case you don't know, straight guys call each other 'bro', 'brudder'. arms around shoulders is norm wat, don't think too much

I have some straight married colleagues & friends put their arms around my shoulders in office and public ... is it considered "Intimate" ???

[sfguy123]

it's all up to your comfort level, my bf and i hold hands and he puts his arm around my shoulder all the time.. but i guess in Sf it's normal here, but we don't kiss in public as much anymore...

[loveseeker]

Last night went dating with my bf. Had a very lovely night. I made the first move to grab his hand . We held each other hands in the club while so many people around us. I couldn't care much other poeple, though I think some people occasionally stare at us. The sweetness and lovey dovey feeling got so strong. We even kissed in public several times in the club. Luckily no uncles or aunties screamed at us "eee... gay"

Think we singaporeans are quite open :clap:

[Guest alien]

I guess nowadays as s'poreans open up to more info on gay, which is why they dun react so strongly when they see two guys holding hands.

[babyblue]

Last night went dating with my bf. Had a very lovely night. I made the first move to grab his hand . We held each other hands in the club while so many people around us. I couldn't care much other poeple, though I think some people occasionally stare at us. The sweetness and lovey dovey feeling got so strong. We even kissed in public several times in the club. Luckily no uncles or aunties screamed at us "eee... gay"

Think we singaporeans are quite open :clap:

Awww... so sweet!

[Guest clubbinggay]

what club is this? why got aunties and uncles?

Last night went dating with my bf. Had a very lovely night. I made the first move to grab his hand . We held each other hands in the club while so many people around us. I couldn't care much other poeple, though I think some people occasionally stare at us. The sweetness and lovey dovey feeling got so strong. We even kissed in public several times in the club. Luckily no uncles or aunties screamed at us "eee... gay"

Think we singaporeans are quite open :clap:

[Guest Guest]

asking.

e.g. orchard road.

[Retadin]

yup. More accurately, the busstop outside heeren. And i assure u that it wasnt deserted

[willo]

lesbian kiss in public saw a couple of them :-) not gay guys

[XiaoMessy]

If even straight couple hugging goes up STOMP, where do you think your face will be going if you kissed a guy in public?

[sum1outhere_03]

If even straight couple hugging goes up STOMP, where do you think your face will be going if you kissed a guy in public?

if they're suay enuff hahahaha

[GachiMuchi]

Yes. All the time recently when I was in Taiwan with the cute young guy I fancied. In the cinema, on the MRT, while we were walking, on the bus, etc. but not long lingering kisses, just peck on the lips when the moment arises. Other incidents were with my exes in various parts of Sg.

Nothing to wow about, just showing affection. It's not a crime.

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[Retadin]

If even straight couple hugging goes up STOMP, where do you think your face will be going if you kissed a guy in public?

There's nothing wrong with displaying your affections for the person that you fancy. If people wanna stomp then let them stomp. Why do u have to make it sound as though kissing someone is something shameful? It's liberating to be able to show your affections for the person that you like and not having to worry about hiding under the veil of discretion.

[lonely57]

well a quick peck wont get u on stomp

[XiaoMessy]

There's nothing wrong with displaying your affections for the person that you fancy. If people wanna stomp then let them stomp. Why do u have to make it sound as though kissing someone is something shameful? It's liberating to be able to show your affections for the person that you like and not having to worry about hiding under the veil of discretion.

I didn't say it's shameful, just saying be careful.

You know how over-reactive Singaporeans can be.

Edited December 5, 2011 by XiaoMessy

[Retadin]

Lol i dont think that asking people to bow down to social norms is right. What are they gonna do? Jail u for kissing? There isnt a law against it. So if people wanna react, let them react. Or even better FORCE a reaction out of them.

[naughtymonkey]

Jurong East MRT Station. Kiss ard 2mins with my ex. Very enjoy!

[XiaoMessy]

Lol i dont think that asking people to bow down to social norms is right. What are they gonna do? Jail u for kissing? There isnt a law against it. So if people wanna react, let them react. Or even better FORCE a reaction out of them.

Nope, they won't.

They'll just give you the glance that says, "It's that guy who appeared on STOMP".

[Mercutio]

Yes.

Can't remember all the places.

But the point of the topic is....?

[SomeGuyInSg]

Yes. Can't remember all the places. But the point of the topic is....?

So that he may justify by saying "I asked on the forum and many answered they did!" to his date that it's alright to kiss in public in the future?

Awwwwww aint that sweet.

[PaterTenebrarum]

What kind of kiss and with whom? Yes, I have kissed several people in public.

[Guest Ikissaguy]

I French kissed a guy at Bras Basah and Bugis Junction, near the fast food restaurant, in Oct this year. It was about 10 + in the evening. Was never caught on local media though. Lol.

[fizzy]

it all depends on luck - time, place and moment.

if suay then you can see yourself in stomp by paparazzi-wannabes. if not, try again and again.