Dorkable Posted October 22, 2013 Report Share Posted October 22, 2013 Anal is great and feels intense. But I prefer receiving/giving a handjob and blowjob. It's a little bit more controlled and I just find it hotter ( and cleaner). Different folks, different strokes. I know a few other guys who also feel the same way as you. Even though I much prefer the entire package in bed most of the times, there were certain times I felt more intimacy and less of anal would suffice. Yas1950 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
member_757 Posted November 4, 2013 Report Share Posted November 4, 2013 Bith my bf and I play both the top and bottom role. We just takr turn doing it lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nothandsome Posted November 5, 2013 Report Share Posted November 5, 2013 I am a bottom and I never feel uncomfortable admitting that.... (no bottom, all tops use hands la) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted November 16, 2013 Report Share Posted November 16, 2013 Flex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted November 21, 2013 Report Share Posted November 21, 2013 Flippies always get the best of both world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted December 21, 2013 Report Share Posted December 21, 2013 I heard there are many (pure) bottoms who said they were flex bottoms so as not to 'lose out on the opportunity'. Wonder if that is true? Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted December 21, 2013 Report Share Posted December 21, 2013 Are u flex bottom too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grimreaper Posted December 21, 2013 Report Share Posted December 21, 2013 I always state that I'm a bottom. I do top (seldom) but it really depends on the person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
versatile96 Posted November 21, 2015 Report Share Posted November 21, 2015 i tried to be bottom several times, it didnt hurt but it wasnt as "high" as people said it was i tried top several times, seems to be just fucking air inside.... wasnt extremely nice... maybe cibai better? can someone tell me.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby Face Posted November 21, 2015 Report Share Posted November 21, 2015 i tried to be bottom several times, it didnt hurt but it wasnt as "high" as people said it was i tried top several times, seems to be just fucking air inside.... wasnt extremely nice... maybe cibai better? can someone tell me..Think that you are not enjoying whether btm or top. Do you think fuck pussy would be better? You should know what you really want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traveler3032 Posted November 21, 2015 Report Share Posted November 21, 2015 Think that you are not enjoying whether btm or top. Do you think fuck pussy would be better? You should know what you really want.Well, things are not tat black and white. There are some gay guys who only enjoy oral sex, not anal sex. So the question to the OP: do you enjoy sucking a dick?If you also don't enjoy oral, then you are not gay at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
versatile96 Posted November 21, 2015 Report Share Posted November 21, 2015 i dont enjoy Well, things are not tat black and white. There are some gay guys who only enjoy oral sex, not anal sex. So the question to the OP: do you enjoy sucking a dick?If you also don't enjoy oral, then you are not gay at all. lol i dont like sucking but i liked being sucked. i am definitely gay though... maybe bi.... but leaning gays. i really love muscular guys but.... i really dont get the "high being fucked" or "tightness" when fucking an ass. though people say that a cibai more fuller Think that you are not enjoying whether btm or top. Do you think fuck pussy would be better? You should know what you really want.idk man. i know i love muscles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted November 22, 2015 Report Share Posted November 22, 2015 Looks like majority here are versatile bottoms. There are straight men who love muscles but will never imagine themselves emotionally involved with another man. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDC Posted July 15, 2020 Report Share Posted July 15, 2020 Question for all - How does anyone determine their role in bed ? Does everyone usually try both ways before deciding what they actually prefer OR just settle down with whom they attract (Eg always only attract top because appearance look more fem/soft) ? How does one get to try the other side of life (role) ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilfgene Posted July 15, 2020 Report Share Posted July 15, 2020 Men pay for sex, one way or another. You to determine what with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted July 15, 2020 Report Share Posted July 15, 2020 17 minutes ago, SDC said: Question for all - How does anyone determine their role in bed ? Does everyone usually try both ways before deciding what they actually prefer OR just settle down with whom they attract (Eg always only attract top because appearance look more fem/soft) ? How does one get to try the other side of life (role) ? A Very simple analogy: "TRY-BEFORE-YOU-BUY" is always the best buy. LOL Marslang 1 Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 15, 2020 Report Share Posted July 15, 2020 1 hour ago, SDC said: Question for all - How does anyone determine their role in bed ? Does everyone usually try both ways before deciding what they actually prefer OR just settle down with whom they attract (Eg always only attract top because appearance look more fem/soft) ? How does one get to try the other side of life (role) ? Of course 😊 you go 😋😁😀😉 for some one you prefer 😉 rather than what you attract. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2020 Report Share Posted July 16, 2020 It is true that if a guy when his dick is soft while getting fuck, he is pure btm? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 16, 2020 Report Share Posted July 16, 2020 3 hours ago, Guest guest said: It is true that if a guy when his dick is soft while getting fuck, he is pure btm? They could be straight money boys 😂😉😅 too. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted June 7, 2021 Report Share Posted June 7, 2021 On 8/25/2005 at 1:08 PM, Guest PingPongBall said: Most of the time when ppl said they are flexi, i will automatic relate them as bottom, i dunno why, also... cos i have encountered many btm who is so shy to tell ppl that they are btm, so they just simple use "Flexi" to cover all. And there is some tactic to know whether they are Top btm or flex, when you ask them, they answer in a very sure manner that they are top, it really mean that they are top, if they hesitate, mean that they might be flexi, but if they hesitate and said out the word "Flexi", most of the time is Btm... anyone got such observation? Nowadays on the forum there's so called Flexi who don't have anal sex. Lol.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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