Bw S6Xth Anniversary Party 2011

[GachiMuchi]

Black & White or Black or White!

[tokiwado]

i am having a hard time deciding what to wear

short and tight black Ts + low waist berms + white g-string (revealed due to low waist berms)

totally lol'ed

[cvbv1987]

alright leaving.. see you all

[Guest Guest]

Apparently there is a call for Netizens to wear black today in protest of Ms I-don't-know-what-to-say, so may hv more people wearing black out today

[CuriousB]

thank you BW Team and volunteers in coming up a great event.

good job everyone

[gaygaysin]

Congratulations Blowing Wind for 6 consecutive years of service to our LGBT society. :clap: :thumb: See you guys next year at 7th anniversary celebration! Kisss

Edited May 29, 2011 by gaygaysin

[veith]

Thanks moderators to organize such a wonderful event

[oralb]

FINALLY! the party was over, whew... it was not an easy task as all of us have our work and other committement, hence we are very gratefully for the sponsors and the helpers that stepped up when we needed help.

I hope everyone enjoyed the party, it was a different approach from the previous, which we decided to get more personal elements in it. Thank you for Ivan (New Begining) to share his life, I wished more would have a chance to listen to this man speaks, life has not been kind to him and yet he managed to stand up and survive.

Thank you to Brian of Oogachaga for teaching us the "5 Languages of Love" www.oogachaga.com

Thank you for our kind sponsors whom contributed generously

AFA http://www.afa.org.sg/

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Our Member

NUSS94

Tokiwado

Jefri

A big thank you to our helper - Steman, Tokiwado, Sotong, Imchaser for helping in the event.

Last but not least Thanks to all that attended!

[legoboy]

Am glad to see old frenz and meet new ones!

Thanks!

[GachiMuchi]

Thanks everyone who chipped in to either sponsor or helped. Since OB had said all, I think I only need to thanks those who attended.

Sorry to hear that one of our member got into an accident while getting to our event. Luckily he is ok except that his car was not. Still sorry that he has to miss out on the event.

Han, we are indeed honored to have you grace our event to share your life story and sang us a wonderful song and walk away as the winner of our singing competition.

I wonder if you guys know that TheVisitors was among the attendees? Did anyone managed to guess who he is?

I hope you guys enjoy yourself and hope to see you in future events.

[Alan87]

Looking fowrard for next year event (if there is one)... And nice meeting you all...

[made2move]

Looking fowrard for next year event (if there is one)... And nice meeting you all...

Nice meeting u 2

[Guest Guest]

Who won the singing competition? What songs they sang? Who walk away with the big prize?

Who are the eye candies? Who's cute? Who's sexy?

[tokiwado]

Who won the singing competition? What songs they sang? Who walk away with the big prize?

Who are the eye candies? Who's cute? Who's

Attend the next bw anniversary and you will know. Providing there is a next one of course.

[sum1outhere_03]

Sorry to hear that one of our member got into an accident while getting to our event. Luckily he is ok except that his car was not. Still sorry that he has to miss out on the event.

oh dear hope he's not disappointed...

Edited May 30, 2011 by sum1outhere_03

[GachiMuchi]

Haha.. I enjoyed the after party sex.

[briax]

Thank you so much for the organisers to put together the event. It was a great opportunity to meet some of the people I read on BW in person as well as some whom I have not spoken for years.

I enjoyed myself and I hope my short segment n 5 Languages of Love have triggered some interest on the topic. For those who wish to read more about it, you can go to http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

cheers...Bryan

Edited May 30, 2011 by briax

[qedcwc]

Liked the bite-size tuna sandwiches best.

Hoped got salmon sashimi next time.

(man, I'm such a glutton )

[Guest Guest who knows qedcwc]

Liked the bite-size tuna sandwiches best.

Hoped got salmon sashimi next time.

(man, I'm such a glutton )

hey qedcwc, you're so small-sized, you're not a glutton!

And I'm very tempted not to quote Vivian Balakrishnan's infamous food court/restaurant quote back at you, lol...

[qedcwc]

hey qedcwc, you're so small-sized, you're not a glutton!

And I'm very tempted not to quote Vivian Balakrishnan's infamous food court/restaurant quote back at you, lol...

Have you forgotten that looks can be deceiving?

Try me at a full course buffet lah.....

Edited May 30, 2011 by qedcwc

[oralb]

Liked the bite-size tuna sandwiches best.

Hoped got salmon sashimi next time.

(man, I'm such a glutton )

sashimi? must increased the price next time or looking for kind sponsors loh

[qedcwc]

sashimi? must increased the price next time or looking for kind sponsors loh

okay, maybe juz sushi can do....

considering there's rice in sushi then dun need to order rice onli to have so much leftovers....

[oralb]

Haha.. I enjoyed the after party sex.

ARGH... I was not invited to this... GISH...

WHY?

WHY?

WHY?

[tokiwado]

ARGH... I was not invited to this... GISH...

WHY?

WHY?

WHY?

The sex party was awesome. Totally lol'ed

[minejastr0]

Yea the food was nice.

[Alan87]

Yea the food was nice.

Haha... U were number 8th right...?

[Guest Guest]

Haha.. I enjoyed the after party sex.

and you were GREAT!!!

[Baloo]

Yes, it was a very nice event...

Looking forward to the next one...

[imchaser]

Ekkius me, was there any after party sex party that i wasnt aware of nor not invited to? Im offended.

Edited May 30, 2011 by imchaser

[qedcwc]

Ekkius me, was there any after party sex party that i wasnt aware of nor not invited to? Im offended.

Beats me. Was there any?

[Guest guest]

Go back and have sex - after sex party

[SportsmenAsia.com]

it was a cosy and enjoyable gathering, much thanks to the friendly organizers, moderators and volunteers. Kudos to BW for this noteworthy milestone, hope there will be many more good years to come

[minejastr0]

Haha... U were number 8th right...?

yup lol. omg. i think i was the youngest guy there haha

[TheVisitors]

Haha.. I enjoyed the after party sex.

..... and the pack of condoms, you gave me...came it very handy for my chalet gathering at Sentosa...sorry, I have to rush off at 9pm sharp for it....its to attend an emergency call.

And Gachi....when you sang...your voice was simply breathtaking...!!! :thumb: :thumb: :thumb:

sorry..can't write much to thank your effort this moment. Still too tired and dazed, from last night.

[Miracle3]

I would like to thank BW for organising such a wonderful party :clap: . I'm the singing contestant number 3 guy.

[qedcwc]

..... and the pack of condoms, you gave me...came it very handy for my chalet gathering at Sentosa...sorry, I have to rush off at 9pm sharp for it....its to attend an emergency call.

And Gachi....when you sang...your voice was simply breathtaking...!!! :thumb: :thumb: :thumb:

sorry..can't write much to thank your effort this moment. Still too tired and dazed, from last night.

that u have now come out to say smth makes me think of smth....

a lot of ppl have been wondering who among the ppl is TheVisitors?

[GachiMuchi]

..... and the pack of condoms, you gave me...came it very handy for my chalet gathering at Sentosa...sorry, I have to rush off at 9pm sharp for it....its to attend an emergency call.

And Gachi....when you sang...your voice was simply breathtaking...!!! :thumb: :thumb: :thumb:

sorry..can't write much to thank your effort this moment. Still too tired and dazed, from last night.

You are most welcum. Never leave home without it! The condom I mean.

[GachiMuchi]

yup lol. omg. i think i was the youngest guy there haha

Nope you were not the youngest. The youngest was 20yo.

[oralb]

Nope you were not the youngest. The youngest was 20yo.

nope the youngest was 19yo, BW chatroom mod somemore

[TheVisitors]

The more interesting event was Han, the massuer who shared his life story, regarding the lost of his life partner, losing a leg in an accident, and dealing with depression.

Sorry I came late and didt get to hear, but someone filled in the details for me.

I heard you sing.

You must have sung many songs to transpire yourself out of your down moments, but no one, maybe, have ever gave you a song of hope before.

Last night, when I left at 9 for a Sentosa chalet gathering, someone intro me this song, which I wish to give it to you as a gift of hope...."You will never walk away" by Oliver Newton John

Life has many surprises, one event leads to another, which, perhaps, all are meant to happen for a higher purpose.

And yes, I was that guy who held the toilet door for you.

Edited May 30, 2011 by TheVisitors

[Alan87]

nope the youngest was 19yo, BW chatroom mod somemore

And I'm not the youngest... Haha... Gachi guess my age wrongly... I look so young meh?

[Paolung]

Hi all,

Joseph here.

Nice to meet you all and thanks for the organizer who put alot of efforts to make events successful.

I'm very impressed with sharing by Ivan. Such an honor to hear a personal testimony that like never before. I'm kinda new to gay scene. Kinda late bloomer. And it really an eye opener for me to hear his survival.

Somehow I'm wondering myself, if i loose my partner, will I be as strong as him? Especially when i'm not young and strong anymore. Straight people may hav benefit to form a family to support themselves in old days. But if I'm gay, I can only wish SG government in future will allow gay couple to get adoption.

I really proud of Ivan, and he's such an inspiration to me. Love u bro. Jiayo and continue to be positive. I believe the story that you have shareis like a seed and somehow it will build a strong bonding between gay ppl to stand together n help each other.

I also enjoy the sharing from Brian about five love languages. And I believe understanding your partner's love languages will help to make ur relationship last. I heard so many gay couple breakup just because they didnt FEEl the love anymore. Love is a feeling & commitment. But still when it comes to feeling, it will on and off. And it takes commitment to make the feeling sparks again. Thanks for brian for bringing such a brilliant topic.

I just want to give my points clearly for a question during the game. What will i like to hear as a Word of Affirmation from my partner?

- he say that he admire me

- he say that He proud of me as his boyfriend

- he say that I'm the man. A dependable person

- he say that He always be with me

- he say that he love me

But my number one love language is not words of affirmation. Is very simple and easy

Hint: I'm melt if you hug me tightly.

-Joe

[imchaser]

And I'm not the youngest... Haha... Gachi guess my age wrongly... I look so young meh?

Dont think he meant u. The youngest was the contestant who sang JJlin song, Topteenchaser

Edited May 31, 2011 by imchaser

[Alan87]

Dont think he meant u. The youngest was the contestant who sang JJlin song, Vic.

I know... That guy is the youngest... Haha.....

[GachiMuchi]

During the party, there was a few cuties and an extremely shy pinoy guy. Hehe...kissed a cute little cub on the cheek even. Must be the alcohol.

[New beginning]

The more interesting event was Han, the massuer who shared his life story, regarding the lost of his life partner, losing a leg in an accident, and dealing with depression.

Sorry I came late and didt get to hear, but someone filled in the details for me.

I heard you sing.

You must have sung many songs to transpire yourself out of your down moments, but no one, maybe, have ever gave you a song of hope before.

Last night, when I left at 9 for a Sentosa chalet gathering, someone intro me this song, which I wish to give it to you as a gift of hope...."You will never walk away" by Oliver Newton John

Life has many surprises, one event leads to another, which, perhaps, all are meant to happen for a higher purpose.

And yes, I was that guy who held the toilet door for you.

[New beginning]

Thk u The Visitor, Gachi, Oral b n brisnx for the encouragement n really must say there's many 1st for me coming to the event.

Had it not for BW my last 6 yrs would be dead, it is thru posting n reaching out at BW that i met total strangers who cares enough to extend a helping caring hands to allow me to hold n stand up again.

Let me tell u what the i told impossible but amazing things that has happen when i seek help n assistance during when i became disable n wants to start anew. When i post for someone to help me repair damaged flush n water heater in my toilet a total guest email me call me up n visit me. he saw the problem n next day he came n change a new flush, 2 new water heater(master n kitchen toilet),re position my living rm sockets/plugs etc n the unimaginable he installed for me 6pcs of hand bars so i cab grip to balance myself.

when i ask him for the bills n ask can pay by installment?, he hug n tell me just give him a small token of any amount i can afford n when i put $200 in a red packet he took out the money n say he will accept $2 instead. i hugged him n had a gd cry n he pats me n say promised him to live well. we are such gd friends now n even when he came for massage he insist to pay n i also tell me i will accept $2 frm him. we both very happy with each other. 6 mths ago his bf of 35yrs died of cancer n he was so down but every time he see me n say think of me he felt there's no reason why he cant live better than me when he is still a able person. Alan i salute u.

yes be positive n always tell yrself irregardless how bad out situation maybe it will definitely ends soonest if we make it end. There is definitely a light at the end of the tunnel. it may be a small tiny light but as u put in effort n push n insist u will reach the light it becomes bigger n brighter when u inch closer.

I was very suicidal, who would not if u are near death 4 times in my 54yrs n every time b4 i go into operation rm docs make me sign a letter saying that i know i would not come out alive n should blame nobody. On the 4th time i resigned to the fact that last 3 times they say only 25% survivor but yet i came out alive i tell myself what the heck but this last time out i definitely want to change my whole life thru.

And miracles do happen. 1st i loose 13kg ,put back little but its muscle mass 2nd my looks, i cant believe all my 54yrs old friends thinks that something either gone wrong or someone do something to my looks. i look so much younger than my age n for the 1st time many n i am not boasting, they say wow u look..hm hm. well ok i like myself too and being smaller size than b4 i can wear many clothes i didnt even dare to wear. that nite i wear all white n 1st time i feel whats happening ?i am the only 1 all white. oh my gosh that's a feat to me. i dare to be different. lastly my voices also change n i cant believe i like my own singing n that nite i didn't feel as if its a competition, more like a chance to allow me to showcase what other passion i have n sing out my inner feeling for a lost ones n that's my language of love.

Brainx forget to add singing as 1 language of expression of ones love as well....sori for writing such long post. thks for reading n many many happy days ahead for all u out there. lastly, to the moderators i wish to rewrite post my life story frm when i was 13 when i 1st saw my cousin's didi and into my army days when i met my bf then into my 20, 30, 40s n now 50.

400 words too short for me to cramp in 54yrs of gay life story. can help me extend the 400 words allow?

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Hann, I've edited your post a little so that it is readable. Remember what I told you in your earlier post? Yes, paragraph it.

You can always post in a few post.

Stay positive.

Gachi

[qedcwc]

Thk u The Visitor, Gachi, Oral b n brinx for the encoragement n really must say theres many 1st for me coming to the event.......400 words too short for me to cramp in 54yrs of gay life story .can help me extend the 400 words allow?

Seriously, I feel like crying upon reading this....

Anyway, I must take my hat off you.

Edited May 31, 2011 by qedcwc

[Guest Hats Off]

Thk u The Visitor, Gachi, Oral b n brinx for the encoragement n really must say theres many 1st for me coming to the event.Had it not for BW my last 6 yrs would be dead,it is thru posting n reaching out at BW that i met total strangers who cares enough to extend a helping caring hands to allow me to hold n stand up agin.

I think that is what makes Blowing Wind Forum so different. Beneath all the sex and kinky post, lurks many good and caring anonymous man that cares for each other as humans. :thumb: :clap: :clap:

[Guest Curious Kitten]

Any field report? the programmes and what transpired. How many attended and what you guys eat and stay until what time? Any photos to substantiate.