keithyeo100 Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 Bullshit! Talk less, but talk in ways which would make the other party want to ask more. Telling everything about yourself in 1 swoop isn't the way to go. Expose yourself, but slowly.Generally, people like to find out. So don't tell/show them everything in 1 shot.In your face, Messy! x) IanTL 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saranghaeyo Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 Finding a boyfriend basically the most important thing is get to know each other more and the attitude toward each other of the character so that you will know which one suit you before you enter into his or your r/s.Don't just judge the person by his look/bods it won't turn out well actually, believe your heart which step to move and which step don't do. yoyQ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acedrill Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 But where to find guys who r gay?? i'm only 18 going on 19. finding one seems so hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saranghaeyo Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 But where to find guys who r gay?? i'm only 18 going on 19. finding one seems so hard. found the one that i really love and can't forget him since last year till now. still finding a new one but need to know well before get into r/s so that won't get hurt.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 (edited) LIDAT I NO NEED GET LIAO HAHAHHAHAHA~=.= CY! You also not looking for one~~ Bullshit! Talk less, but talk in ways which would make the other party want to ask more. Telling everything about yourself in 1 swoop isn't the way to go. Expose yourself, but slowly.Generally, people like to find out. So don't tell/show them everything in 1 shot.In your face, Messy! x)Sorry I wasn't clear.I meant cast more nets.If 1 net don't catch a fish, there're bound to have 9 other that can catch.But where to find guys who r gay?? i'm only 18 going on 19. finding one seems so hard. Join the young boys thread at:http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=25478Welcome to the family! btw Edited January 1, 2012 by XiaoMessy How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
little Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 =.= CY! You also not looking for one~~ how u noe? how u noe? how u noe im not looking for one? mayb i am? ,___,[O.o]/)__)-"--"- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 how u noe? how u noe? how u noe im not looking for one? mayb i am? Maybe you're attached! How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
little Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 Maybe you're attached! i hope i am but im not.. ,___,[O.o]/)__)-"--"- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 i hope i am but im not.. Talk more, go out more. (: How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 Bullshit! Talk less, but talk in ways which would make the other party want to ask more. Telling everything about yourself in 1 swoop isn't the way to go. Expose yourself, but slowly. Generally, people like to find out. So don't tell/show them everything in 1 shot. In your face, Messy! x) just be yourself and dun be pretentious. whether u are the sort who talk more or less, people can see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 Be positive.Generate happiness and laughter.Be sharp-witted without being blunt.Make some effort in personal grooming.Read widely to improve your general knowledge.last but not least, be an active partner in bed and out of bed! derryfawne 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest civilization Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 I think how to expand gay friends circle or activities... if you go more with str8 friends, sure cannot catch it...I also wonder how to expand it.... and the expectation of your bf cannot to high, or else cannot it .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 But where to find guys who r gay?? i'm only 18 going on 19. finding one seems so hard. Various platforms. Social apps on your smartphone (Grindr/Jack'd), other gay portals (Trevvy/Fridae/PlanetRomeo), attend social gatherings at clubs/pubs or best, the BlowingWind 199X group Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 Basically anything that expands your social circle. Increases your probability of getting one. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 hey hey, connect me if u keen hahahahaPlease be warned that Members are not allowed to post Adverts on the Main forum.Please post to the respective folders. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1outhere_03 Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 ...be an active partner in bed and out of bed! out of bed?? Will you be my valentine's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted January 2, 2012 Report Share Posted January 2, 2012 out of bed?? Out of bed means active in sports, jungle walks and plain jalan-jalan in natural reserves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 3, 2012 Report Share Posted January 3, 2012 Out of bed means active in sports, jungle walks and plain jalan-jalan in natural reserves.Poor monkeys in the reserves are going to be made fun of by them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted January 3, 2012 Report Share Posted January 3, 2012 Expand your social circle. Knowing more people will increase your chance of encountering the right one.Chat with people a bit, don't be afraid to throw flirts sometimes. If you want to move from acquaintances to something more, you have to put some effort right?And adjust some expectations. When we're expecting people to love us for who we are, why aren't we ready to love people back, flaws and all, for who they are? “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted January 3, 2012 Report Share Posted January 3, 2012 (edited) My internet option:1) Fine-tune an honest profile. Include in it who you are, what you expect & what you offer. Let it be a fine sieve to filter out the un-matching guys. Revise the profile if the responses are poor.2) Communicate via e-mail, YM, Skype, phone, etc.3) Give the dating phase a good run before any decision. Look out for unmanageable compromises & be firm if you have to say no. Look for financial, social and emotional compatibility. Work out the rules in the relationship. Edited January 3, 2012 by Marad44 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted January 3, 2012 Report Share Posted January 3, 2012 缘份莫强求, 该来的时候挡也挡不住, 不是你的, 也是悲剧收场。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p-2122 Posted January 3, 2012 Report Share Posted January 3, 2012 I want to have a bf that looks after me and maybe younger than me so that I could go all over him wif my tongue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted January 4, 2012 Report Share Posted January 4, 2012 Expand your social circle. Knowing more people will increase your chance of encountering the right one.Chat with people a bit, don't be afraid to throw flirts sometimes. If you want to move from acquaintances to something more, you have to put some effort right?And adjust some expectations. When we're expecting people to love us for who we are, why aren't we ready to love people back, flaws and all, for who they are?Expand social circle and knowing more pple is impt, but must expand gay social circle and knowing more gay pple then helps. If continue to know more str8 pple, dun think will find any bf at all. 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted January 4, 2012 Report Share Posted January 4, 2012 Out of bed means active in sports, jungle walks and plain jalan-jalan in natural reserves.I like guys who active in sports, jungle walks and plain jalan-jalan in natural reserves. 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Desperate Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 As follows especially since I'm turning crazy from waiting for ns Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 Lol... First and foremost.. Don't be desperate to find one... I learnt that the hard way a couple of weeks ago.. Yea you can want a boyfriend.. It's nice to have someone... But you can't force these things... It will come you... Just don't be afraid to talk to people..have confidence in yourself and all that:DAll the best man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Desperate Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 Is it possible to try finding a bf in ns? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 Yeap! I'm in Ns now haha! You should make an account here.. the people here are really nice.. we will always help each other through our issues... Sure we may disagree with each other from time to time... But most of us just let it go because we only want to help each other... Haha... You might find a BF here... I met the man of my dreams here too haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whoiam Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 make yourself a capable person. Then you will attract others. rather than being a hollow shell and chasing after some cute guys.for me, I will chase after cute guys too, but at the same time, groom myself (both looks and capability). Hope one day Cupid will smile at me : ) Emptiness 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youngdoctor Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 Looking too:( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 There's no instruction manual for that i guess LOL It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Desperate Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 What abt finding a bf at my part time job company? (MNC at CBD btw) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stardustsxz Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 sigh. i think everyone feels the same way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Desperate Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 And more ever my gaydar is not so good and i may hit on straight guys by mistake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 Why. So. Desperate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted August 28, 2012 Report Share Posted August 28, 2012 use your heart to see... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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