Feeling after being fucked for the first time + How Does It Feel To Get Fucked? (compiled)

[Guest jd]

Well, pain is very subjective as everyone has a different pain tolerance level. If you can find a good top, he wouldn't just jam his dick right away. But obviously you're going to feel some pain at first but as you get used to it, the fun begins.

True

[George]

when u r on fire, everything goes smooth. you would even beg for more..

[Guest kentoh22]

Just finger your anus before going to be fucked (maybe not enjoyable for the top).

I inserted middle finger first, slowly push and spread open my hole,

then slide my index finger from the side.

And slowly open up by doing a peace sign with your fingers in anus.

 

But have to get the feeling with your finger at the same adjusting tightness with the muscles around the anus.

 

Then, your anus will be well prepared before being fucked

 

(Hope this helps..)

[Guest kimchi]

do u guys empty your bowel knowing u r going to b fucked?

[Guest Slash]

do u guys empty your bowel knowing u r going to b fucked?

Oh definitely! Try to insert soap water into you anus and expel it out and wash again with water. This is to prevent bad smell coming out when your partner open you up down there

[Guest kimchi]

Oh definitely! Try to insert soap water into you anus and expel it out and wash again with water. This is to prevent bad smell coming out when your partner open you up down there

are u for real?

[Guest Slash]

Of course. At first, i dont know how the hell im going to prepare myself before getting fucked. It was definitely not comfortable getting fucked while you still have 'something' in ur bowel. You cam easily search trough the internet how to prepare yourself and stuff. It definitely help...in mu case of course.

[Guest kimchi]

hmm what if you are in the mood but not prepared?

[Guest Guest]

hmm what if you are in the mood but not prepared?

Then you just have to proceed with caution i guess. If i were you, i would just pour all my horniness in giving the best blowjob that i've ever give in my entire life to and not fucking. Hahaha

[billyb0y]

Well, you just need o find a good TOP who will take care everything like a pro.

 

Fore play is definitely helping as the you will relax your muscle around the anus area and caused lesser pain.

 

Always apply lube on your anal and massage/fingering it first before getting fucked.

i DOES feel pain at the first entry of the dick, but hen your hole is adjusted with the size of that dick, there where the fun and pleasure started XD

 

I have a bad experience though of seeing poop come out half ways coz the bottom doesn't clean it correctly. haha

[mydontay]

love it, enjoyed it, best if the top become sweaty!

[pathseeker]

My first experience was with my then BF... he did penetrate in slowly but as it was the first exp and love was around so any kinda pain was bearable.... my advise is to get someone you really liking (not the dcik size) for first timer...

[hornychub]

I've never been fucked before. So anyone can share how does it feel? I read that it hurts a lot.

 

Okay buddy. Anal sex is the passageway to heaven if done right, and I think if you're gay, you should totally try it, with the right guy.

 

Let me share some of my personal experience and my knowledge on anal sex:

 

I am a pure bottom. Have been aware of my sexuality since Std 6, when I started hitting puberty. However, I remained a good boy and didn't have any form of sex (due to strict parents & I used to be extremely unattractive) until I hit 20 years old.

 

I woke up on my 20th birthday, feeling the need to start exploring my sexuality physically. I didn't know who to ask, so I went online and somehow managed to get to know a guy. He was a Middle Eastern man working in Malaysia and he was my first. I went to his house to meet him and he led me into his room. We started touching each other and I proceeded to suck him. As inexperience as I was, I was a natural at sucking, and soon he got rock hard and wanted to fuck me.

 

I was scared, and I didn't know what to do. I agreed and got on all four on his bed. He was gentle in person but fucking rough in bed. With just a condom on and a tiny bit of lube, he trusted his cock straight away deep inside me. I was a virgin, and My ass was very very tight. His big penis stretched my muscles to an extent I couldn't even imagine in my dreams. It felt like my ass was ripped and I thought I was injured. The pain was unbearable and I begged him to stop. He told me the pain would go away and asked me to wait. I insisted that I need to go to bathroom. Luckily he got off me and I went into the bathroom. I checked on my hole, there was no blood luckily and the pain was getting more bearable. I got out of the bathroom again and this time I lied on the bed and lifted my legs for him to enter me. My hole got used to his thickness and it soon didn't hurt anymore. It became slight pleasure. I guess it was only slightly pleasurable because I was scared and I was not enjoying it.

 

I lost my virginity to a man that I don't even know his name. That doesn't matter to me. I believe that virginity does not mean a lot to me as a boy. They say you'll only remember your first but that's not true. Until today, I've had plenty of sexual encounter and plenty of anal sex. The ones that i remember is often the ones where the top is passionate, loving, gentle and is a good fucker. First time, second time and last time doesn't matter. it's about the quality of the sex. And it's up to you and your man to make it special. You can be naughty and teasing to increase the excitement.

 

OMG I got sidetracked. Sorry. Now to preparation before anal sex. I think the guys above already gave some pretty useful tips. But I'll write it out again anyway.

 

1) RELAX. Prepare yourself both mentally and physically. Don't allow your body to be stiff. Just enjoy the moment. When you are horny you shouldn't be thinking about pain. Just indulge yourself in the moment and it'll happen before u realize it.

 

2) LUBE UP. This is probably the most important step, as lube helps the penetrating process and makes it easier for your man to go inside u. Apply lube on his penis. Make sure his WHOLE penis has it, not just the tip. Also ask him to help you apply lube around your hole and then ask him to insert his finger with lube inside your hole. Then penetration should be no problem. When you become a total slut and get the hang of it. Lots of saliva can act as substitute of lube when lube is not available or due to personal preference of not using lube.

 

3) STRETCH. I personally find this step not necessary, mainly because the tighter you are, the better you will make your top feel. Second, taking in the cock inch by inch and allowing your hole to stretch on it's own is probably better to prevent cuts and scratches from fingers. Do it the natural way. If you wanna stretch, like a few guys said above, u can ask your partner to inside fingers inside ur ass. Start with one, then two and proceed to 3 fingers and rotate it inside your hole to stretch it.

 

4) GET IN THE RIGHT POSITION. This is equally important. You wanna make sure you position your ass to the waist level of your partner. You'd think "DUH". But in reality the height of our beds are different and if your partner is by the bed fucking you he might have a hard time to get it in due to the incompatible height. You can place pillow underneath you to elevate yourself and make sure you lift your ass up (doggie position) or legs as high as possible. Let your man point his dick at your opening and allow him to own you. I will continue to elaborate why this is important later.

 

5) DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT ONCE YOU ARE DOING IT. Just do it! Let your inner slut take over. Explore you and your partner's body as you have sex. This will keep you mind of the pain that might or might not be there and fuck the shit of of your man.

 

Tips/Lifehacks:

 

1) If you are in a hurry and have not time to slowly open up your hungry hole. Go to the toilet and wash your ass. Better yet, pump water into that hole and push it out. Do this 2-3 times and your hole will be ready to go.

 

2) If you position yourself correctly, while being fucked, there is a possibility that your top might fuck you good enough, good enough at the right spot for you to experience a prostate orgasm. If you don't know what this is you can ask me later. I'm assuming most of y'all know. This is an orgasm more intense than fucking someone or jerking off. My first prostate orgasm took me by surprise and it felt like I was having a muscle cramp below my balls. It was way more intense and enjoyable. But it it not easy to achieve this. Your man has to fuck you deep enough, on the right spot for the right amount of time.

 

3) But don't be sad, prostate orgasm can be achieved with another way-- Fingers! You can ask your partner to insert his middle finger into you with his palm facing upwards. He should feel a nut shape hard "thing" inside your ass, and tha's your prostate. Ask him to poke it long enough, and there you go!

 

That's it from me guys. Enjoy yourselves.

 

 

*These are my own experience, my own opinion and my own methods. They might be wrong or not useful for you.

[Guest jellyfish]

To all the bottoms out there..

i would like to ask, is anal sex really that shiok for men? i mean are men's g spot located near the prostrate which means near the backside? 

How does really good anal sex feels like? is it better than cock sex? 

[Guest Guest]

Best anal sex is when you feel like and actually peed and shitted out thereby pushing the cock out!

[mate69]

To all the bottoms out there..

i would like to ask, is anal sex really that shiok for men? i mean are men's g spot located near the prostrate which means near the backside?

How does really good anal sex feels like? is it better than cock sex?

If u have not already tried it, perhaps it's time u did

[alien]

Maybe usually those porn shown tht during anal sex, the btm face expression always looks painful n sounds like they are in pain, thts y u think if anal really tht shiok or not?

[EasleyLim]

I'm more curious about the cock sex that TS mentioned. What is cock sex? You insert a cock into another cock ar?

[navyblue]

I'm more curious about the cock sex that TS mentioned. What is cock sex? You insert a cock into another cock ar?

I think he meant being a top.

Personally i din enjoy those few experiences i tried bottoming, pain was one thing, the feelg that s**t seemed to be coming out was :( even though i had already cleared my bowels. I even bled once.

Dunno how those experienced btms go through this painful initial stage.

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Edited August 31, 2014 by navyblue

[mydontay]

the initial insertion into the anus can be painful. but if the top can make the bottom relax with some foreplay, kissing, etc, after that, the bottom shld feel pleasure. it can be a great time.

[marriedmly]

the initial insertion into the anus can be painful. but if the top can make the bottom relax with some foreplay, kissing, etc, after that, the bottom shld feel pleasure. it can be a great time.

I see

[Guest jellyfish]

I'm more curious about the cock sex that TS mentioned. What is cock sex? You insert a cock into another cock ar?

 

I think he meant being a top.

Personally i din enjoy those few experiences i tried bottoming, pain was one thing, the feelg that s**t seemed to be coming out was :( even though i had already cleared my bowels. I even bled once.

Dunno how those experienced btms go through this painful initial stage.

.

 

oh cock sex means normal guy inserting his cock into a hole of a man/woman... haha

or maybe masturbating could be used i forgot to include masturbating... 

 

[marriedmly]

oh cock sex means normal guy inserting his cock into a hole of a man/woman... haha

or maybe masturbating could be used i forgot to include masturbating... 

 

its okay

 

people do forget sometimes

[Guest Guest]

the initial insertion into the anus can be painful. but if the top can make the bottom relax with some foreplay, kissing, etc, after that, the bottom shld feel pleasure. it can be a great time.

 

can you describe that pleasure of a cock in your ass compared to your cock in another guy's ass?

[joshTWjosh]

Bottom feels shiok from being dominated and loved (and if lucky, top dick manage to hit the prostrate gland), top feels shiok from seeing the bottom so shiok (and the cumming).

Edited August 31, 2014 by joshTWjosh

[Guest Tph]

Bottom feels shiok from being dominated and loved (and if lucky, top dick manage to hit the prostrate gland), top feels shiok from seeing the bottom so shiok (and the cumming).

Talking about your experience being a top or btm?

[Guest Guest]

Bottom feels shiok from being dominated and loved (and if lucky, top dick manage to hit the prostrate gland), top feels shiok from seeing the bottom so shiok (and the cumming).

 

how does it feel when the prostrate glands is being hit on?

[mydontay]

well said joshtwjosh. agreed.

i luv the top to take it slow with all the kissing, licking, sucking, hugging, whispers, then insert slowly into my anus when i am the bottom. after that continue the foreplay. when he see that i am relax, he can still his action. i will feel like heaven when he shows his care when having sex with me till he cum inside me. the pleasure cannot be fully described in words.

Edited August 31, 2014 by mydontay

[hairy springroll]

Hard to find gd top

[friendlychatguy]

hmmm pleasure of anal sex...what's pleasurable is very subjective...around the anal area

 

I don't have much experience as a bottom, this was because the first time I tried I didn't enjoy the pain. Using sex toys later on in my ass further confirmed that I don't like anything that is too big for my ass.

 

However, that's not to say that I don't enjoy anal sex. I enjoyed someone fingering my ass a great deal, like what one member said, maybe my ass prefer a cock that is smaller and long. 

 

Some may enjoy a big cock ramming their ass rough(or the pain for that matter), for me I moan in cloud 9 when someone slide their finger in and out slowly. I like the feeling of the muscles around my anus responding to the touch of another guy. Fingering has another great effect is that the finger moves in many more directions than a cock around the anus, hence I do enjoy the expanded stimulation.

[Guest Guest]

Hard to find gd top

 

this phrase has been commonly heard.. i wonder why?

is it because the top cant poke the prostrate glands?

[mate69]

this phrase has been commonly heard.. i wonder why?

is it because the top cant poke the prostrate glands?

 

It is mainly because most of the tops are quite selfish and do not focus on relaxing the bottom, 

thus making the whole intercourse process painful for the bottom and one-sided.

 

A lot of tops also think that topping means just ramming the cock inside, moving in and out and then ejaculation.

There are a lot more skills involved in being a good top, top (pun intended) of which are your foreplay skills to relax the bottom.

[Guest Guest]

To all the bottoms out there..

i would like to ask, is anal sex really that shiok for men? i mean are men's g spot located near the prostrate which means near the backside?

How does really good anal sex feels like? is it better than cock sex?

Some people's cock are sensitive until touch a bit will shoot, some are not.

Similarly, anal sex depends on the amount of nerves in one's anus. Not all are the same. Some have less, some have more.

Unfortunately for me, I have bundles of very sensitive nerves in my anus. Just sliding a cock in and out gives me electrifying pleasures. My anus will contract and I want more and more stimulation.

Likewise some tops are very tikopek and need to bang and bang. When we meet it is like Mars colliding with Earth, we see stars. But not all tops are compatible. However, if meet one that good, I die die also let him bang me until I cry father cry mother.

People who ever watch me before also cannot believe I can be so slut kena hoot until my backside open flowers. But nobody ever complain that the top so tikopek hoot his cock until he want to faint like that.

Don't care whether it is blessing or curse as long as I get my pleasures very worth it.

[Guest Guest]

Bottom feels shiok from being dominated and loved (and if lucky, top dick manage to hit the prostrate gland), top feels shiok from seeing the bottom so shiok (and the cumming).

I think you got it the other way round.

If the top cannot give me pleasure, you think I'll let him dominate me? I'll kick him out of the sauna room first.

Of course I'll pretend to let him dominate me first and start screwing me. 9 out 10, he will perform and when I get the feel then he can get as wild with me as he wanted.

But 1 out 10 when I feel hmmmm no shiok yet then I'll give excuse need go toilet and leave him waiting forever for me to come back. I think most of these types can easily guess after a while I still not in the mood, they failed liao.

[Guest Guest]

It is mainly because most of the tops are quite selfish and do not focus on relaxing the bottom,

thus making the whole intercourse process painful for the bottom and one-sided.

A lot of tops also think that topping means just ramming the cock inside, moving in and out and then ejaculation.

There are a lot more skills involved in being a good top, top (pun intended) of which are your foreplay skills to relax the bottom.

No, no no, wrong. You think there is only one type of bottom ah?

There are so many types. Some are what you say need no be relaxed. Some are like me, I want a top who can bang hard because I am a seasoned bottom. I have sensitive anal nerves and I had tasted very powerful tops who can screw until my backside open flowers and I liked it. Therefore I want to taste that again and again.

Different types of bottom therefore need different types of matching tops. But even telling who is top or bottom already so difficult, then matching top to a bottom is even more difficult. That's why a good top is so hard to find. You meet my kind of top you complain kena raped; I meet your type of top I think he never eat rice.

[Guest guest]

If you see how the dick of this btm goes from soft to rock hard (twice) while riding on another guy, you can appreciate the pleasure of getting penetrated.....

 

 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=2064984785

 

 

[Guest jellyjealous]

Some people's cock are sensitive until touch a bit will shoot, some are not.

Similarly, anal sex depends on the amount of nerves in one's anus. Not all are the same. Some have less, some have more.

Unfortunately for me, I have bundles of very sensitive nerves in my anus. Just sliding a cock in and out gives me electrifying pleasures. My anus will contract and I want more and more stimulation.

Likewise some tops are very tikopek and need to bang and bang. When we meet it is like Mars colliding with Earth, we see stars. But not all tops are compatible. However, if meet one that good, I die die also let him bang me until I cry father cry mother.

People who ever watch me before also cannot believe I can be so slut kena hoot until my backside open flowers. But nobody ever complain that the top so tikopek hoot his cock until he want to faint like that.

Don't care whether it is blessing or curse as long as I get my pleasures very worth it.

 

wahhh... so power ar?

when you shit do you find it pleasurable since you say sliding a cock in and out so shiok.... 

how slut are you when kena banged this way? i mean how you moan, your body language and reaction?  wahhh your tikopek top hoot until want to faint...

can i know how old are you, your body type? the tikopek top's age and body type.. Most important tikopek's bird size

wahhhh...  this really one serious man to man fight... 

[Guest Guest]

I'm more curious about the cock sex that TS mentioned. What is cock sex? You insert a cock into another cock ar?

Actually, you're not too far off. 

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=docking

 

This is a rare form of sex. One partner needs to have really...long foreskin.

[Guest dfsdf]

For me anal sex is more of the intimacy.... having him in you... that intimacy and closeness, connection. 

When I was a virgin I always imagined anal sex this way. It's still the same, actually. I'm still with my first (and hopefully the only!) partner.

[mydontay]

i consider myself lucky in the sense that i only encountered 1 so-call selfish top. for others, they were kind to me, making the sessions least painful. after i gotten used to their tool in mine, we had enjoyable. it can be short or long, once the initial insertion pain is over, i usually let the top decide how n how long they want. most of the time, the sessions were shiok.

[Guest guest]

Caring tops would do it slow instead of like an immediate entrance, ouch!

[bpfunbtm]

As long as the top allows me to get used to his size when he pushes into my ass, the sex will be pleasurable... The last guy to fuck me really knew how to hit my prostate, he had me lying face down pounding my ass from behind till I felt my cock shooting out a liquid like I was peeing!

[mydontay]

yes. a kind top makes his bottom happy. with that he will give his all to the kind top

[Guest mrbotanyboey]

I think I know a top is doing a good job when ever thrust he gives send a shivering mixture of pleasure & the feeling of it being unbearable. I would break into cold sweat if he goes for quite a while. The position that I feel most comfortable would be when I'm lying stomach down and he's just pounding away from the top with his weight on me (not entirely 100% on me). 

[btmslut]

mentally, its the thrill of being taken and made into a submissive girl, wrapping your legs on a manly top, being taken for his pleasure. 

 

physically, the feeling of fullness with a hard cock inside you, and the feeling of emptiness when it pulls out that drives me crazy. also, when the prostrate is being massaged (not poked directly!) you can feel the orgasm come in waves and waves, the feeling can last for a full minute and can happen multiple times a session. 

[mydontay]

somewhat agreed. i also find this position great.

if the top is caring, his thrusting continuously for as long as he can would definitely make me feel great

I think I know a top is doing a good job when ever thrust he gives send a shivering mixture of pleasure & the feeling of it being unbearable. I would break into cold sweat if he goes for quite a while. The position that I feel most comfortable would be when I'm lying stomach down and he's just pounding away from the top with his weight on me (not entirely 100% on me).

[allyremen]

Though versatile, I do enjoy anal sex and I love the feel of the cock as well as watching the top as he is approaching climax. On the rare occasion of a 3-somes, I find that I enjoy it best when being topped is to be sucking the other guy. That turns be me on even more,

[fab]

Hard to find gd top

Gd to find hard top.

[Guest lexluther]

i recount my few experiences...as a btm.. doggy style.. and recently riding on them. its actually nice for me feeling their cock inside me pushing.. at home i usually use a dildo like this one

https://vt.tumblr.com/tumblr_nb7rco4lHm1so6yj1.mp4 

[tyan]

I am mostly top but seriously I don't know how top can go for hours.

When i pump hard on that hot ass, I will cum.

Thus I can imagine my btm did not enjoy the max.

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