Guest Climax Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 Though versatile, I do enjoy anal sex and I love the feel of the cock as well as watching the top as he is approaching climax. On the rare occasion of a 3-somes, I find that I enjoy it best when being topped is to be sucking the other guy. That turns be me on even more, Yes, to 69 with one guy and getting fucked by another is a great feeling, so much to feel all over all at the same time...climax.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btmslut Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 Receiving anal is the most awsome thing ever. Each stroke the top gives feels so intense. Even the in-strokes and the out-strokes feels different on the anal ring. And the rubbing of the prostate. Combined, you can have multiple o's. Jerking off, you cum for 10 seconds tops. Anal orgasms, each cum is at least a minute of body shuddering ecstasy. Just last week, I managed to cum handsfree 3 times in a row riding the top cowgirl style. His chest was covered with my fluids. I wasnt even hard the 2nd time onwards. Emotionally, it feels good that the top is so aroused by your body and actions that he has to fuck you. He wants to go in you. And you submit, and give it up to him. And when he cums, it's because you were a good bottom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 Hmmmm......I still could not get pass having a cock poked into my hole.....it was so painful that I stopped it before it even entered! I guess I will never get to experience multiple orgasm as you described it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 Hmmmm......I still could not get pass having a cock poked into my hole.....it was so painful that I stopped it before it even entered! I guess I will never get to experience multiple orgasm as you described it. You'd probably need to relax! Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 Hmmmm......I still could not get pass having a cock poked into my hole.....it was so painful that I stopped it before it even entered! I guess I will never get to experience multiple orgasm as you described it.perhaps you can try having anal sex with small cock guys first Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 (edited) perhaps you can try having anal sex with small cock guys first To be honest, that's quite funny lol. Edited September 29, 2014 by Blacque weeean and Greenman 2 Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 perhaps you can try having anal sex with small cock guys firstDoes that include you...haha...just couldn't resist lah.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gambit Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 For starter, self-play with toys to get the feeling of being penetrated. Need to be familiar and have fun with your own body, be it dick or anus. Always lube during penetration; the pain threshold varies with individual but the pleasure that comes with it makes up for any pain that comes along. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 For successful anal sex, a big, hard cock, coupled with plentiful foreplay, fondling, licking even talking cock or chit chatting is paramount to relax the entire body's muscles. No point tryibg to relax your anal muscles when your entire body is still tense. A trick is finding a top who is super patient, accomodating and totally the same wavelength and frequency with you is the best. Paradoxically, I find small dicks that go soft faster much more painful than a persistently hard and huge cock attached to an owner who expertly knows how to use it. Slow, steady motion at first, then slowly increast the tempo once it goes in, as opposed to immediately anxious and forceful hard stabs that'll also only immediately tense up the btm's whole body, including his anal muscles. Rules of thumb include the 5 "p"s: Perky penis, Playfulness, Patience, Practise and core muscle Power. 不入虎穴, 焉得虎子。Happy exploring up those deep dark alleys of pleasure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lexluther Posted September 29, 2014 Report Share Posted September 29, 2014 like this... https://vt.tumblr.com/tumblr_nb7rco4lHm1so6yj1.mp4#_=_ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 30, 2014 Report Share Posted September 30, 2014 like this... https://vt.tumblr.com/tumblr_nb7rco4lHm1so6yj1.mp4#_=_So funny...u dressed up the dildo with a condom with scallop ends! What was that dripping out of your arse.....shit or lube?I didn't hear any moaning.....not as nice as the real thing up your arse?Is the dildo the right size cock for first timer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2015 Report Share Posted May 28, 2015 Okay buddy. Anal sex is the passageway to heaven if done right, and I think if you're gay, you should totally try it, with the right guy. Let me share some of my personal experience and my knowledge on anal sex: I am a pure bottom. Have been aware of my sexuality since Std 6, when I started hitting puberty. However, I remained a good boy and didn't have any form of sex (due to strict parents & I used to be extremely unattractive) until I hit 20 years old. I woke up on my 20th birthday, feeling the need to start exploring my sexuality physically. I didn't know who to ask, so I went online and somehow managed to get to know a guy. He was a Middle Eastern man working in Malaysia and he was my first. I went to his house to meet him and he led me into his room. We started touching each other and I proceeded to suck him. As inexperience as I was, I was a natural at sucking, and soon he got rock hard and wanted to fuck me. I was scared, and I didn't know what to do. I agreed and got on all four on his bed. He was gentle in person but fucking rough in bed. With just a condom on and a tiny bit of lube, he trusted his cock straight away deep inside me. I was a virgin, and My ass was very very tight. His big penis stretched my muscles to an extent I couldn't even imagine in my dreams. It felt like my ass was ripped and I thought I was injured. The pain was unbearable and I begged him to stop. He told me the pain would go away and asked me to wait. I insisted that I need to go to bathroom. Luckily he got off me and I went into the bathroom. I checked on my hole, there was no blood luckily and the pain was getting more bearable. I got out of the bathroom again and this time I lied on the bed and lifted my legs for him to enter me. My hole got used to his thickness and it soon didn't hurt anymore. It became slight pleasure. I guess it was only slightly pleasurable because I was scared and I was not enjoying it. I lost my virginity to a man that I don't even know his name. That doesn't matter to me. I believe that virginity does not mean a lot to me as a boy. They say you'll only remember your first but that's not true. Until today, I've had plenty of sexual encounter and plenty of anal sex. The ones that i remember is often the ones where the top is passionate, loving, gentle and is a good fucker. First time, second time and last time doesn't matter. it's about the quality of the sex. And it's up to you and your man to make it special. You can be naughty and teasing to increase the excitement. OMG I got sidetracked. Sorry. Now to preparation before anal sex. I think the guys above already gave some pretty useful tips. But I'll write it out again anyway. 1) RELAX. Prepare yourself both mentally and physically. Don't allow your body to be stiff. Just enjoy the moment. When you are horny you shouldn't be thinking about pain. Just indulge yourself in the moment and it'll happen before u realize it. 2) LUBE UP. This is probably the most important step, as lube helps the penetrating process and makes it easier for your man to go inside u. Apply lube on his penis. Make sure his WHOLE penis has it, not just the tip. Also ask him to help you apply lube around your hole and then ask him to insert his finger with lube inside your hole. Then penetration should be no problem. When you become a total slut and get the hang of it. Lots of saliva can act as substitute of lube when lube is not available or due to personal preference of not using lube. 3) STRETCH. I personally find this step not necessary, mainly because the tighter you are, the better you will make your top feel. Second, taking in the cock inch by inch and allowing your hole to stretch on it's own is probably better to prevent cuts and scratches from fingers. Do it the natural way. If you wanna stretch, like a few guys said above, u can ask your partner to inside fingers inside ur ass. Start with one, then two and proceed to 3 fingers and rotate it inside your hole to stretch it. 4) GET IN THE RIGHT POSITION. This is equally important. You wanna make sure you position your ass to the waist level of your partner. You'd think "DUH". But in reality the height of our beds are different and if your partner is by the bed fucking you he might have a hard time to get it in due to the incompatible height. You can place pillow underneath you to elevate yourself and make sure you lift your ass up (doggie position) or legs as high as possible. Let your man point his dick at your opening and allow him to own you. I will continue to elaborate why this is important later. 5) DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT ONCE YOU ARE DOING IT. Just do it! Let your inner slut take over. Explore you and your partner's body as you have sex. This will keep you mind of the pain that might or might not be there and fuck the shit of of your man. Tips/Lifehacks: 1) If you are in a hurry and have not time to slowly open up your hungry hole. Go to the toilet and wash your ass. Better yet, pump water into that hole and push it out. Do this 2-3 times and your hole will be ready to go. 2) If you position yourself correctly, while being fucked, there is a possibility that your top might fuck you good enough, good enough at the right spot for you to experience a prostate orgasm. If you don't know what this is you can ask me later. I'm assuming most of y'all know. This is an orgasm more intense than fucking someone or jerking off. My first prostate orgasm took me by surprise and it felt like I was having a muscle cramp below my balls. It was way more intense and enjoyable. But it it not easy to achieve this. Your man has to fuck you deep enough, on the right spot for the right amount of time. 3) But don't be sad, prostate orgasm can be achieved with another way-- Fingers! You can ask your partner to insert his middle finger into you with his palm facing upwards. He should feel a nut shape hard "thing" inside your ass, and tha's your prostate. Ask him to poke it long enough, and there you go! That's it from me guys. Enjoy yourselves. *These are my own experience, my own opinion and my own methods. They might be wrong or not useful for you. Very well written.Good piece.indeed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 72%dark Posted June 2, 2015 Report Share Posted June 2, 2015 Haha, hornychub's post is good. To add my two cents worth (from my own experiences bottoming):• Don't rely on the top to prepare you. Sorry to say this but most tops I've hooked up with either don't bother at all, or do only a perfunctory job. So if you're the sort who needs more prep to get comfortable taking a cock, do it yourself to ensure it's done properly.• Don't stinge on the lube, apply it to the whole length of the cock and as deep inside your ass as you can reach with your fingers.• When the top is entering you, do not 'squeeze' shut your anal sphincter. To counter the reflex to tighten up, 'tense' your muscles as if you are trying to push something out. (One reason why your bowels should be clear before you engage in anal sex!)• Be aware that you have two sets of sphincter muscles, the outer ring is your anus and the inner ring is a few inches in. The inner ring needs to be relaxed and open too, or you will feel discomfort when the cock tries to push through it. Unlike the anus you have a lesser degree of conscious control over the inner sphincter, so it helps if the initial penetration is slow and allows that sphincter to get used to being stretched open. (If the top's cock is short, or if penetration is not deep, it may not even reach this point.)• If you need or want to take it at your own pace, use the 'Cowgirl' position in the beginning instead of Missionary or Doggy, in other words the bottom straddles the top and controls the speed and depth of penetration. That way you get your ass accustomed before you turn control over to the top.• Don't keep thinking it'll be painful; when done properly there's no pleasure quite like it! The anus is full of nerve endings so there's the pleasure from the sensation of something sliding in and out, there's pleasure from the stimulation of the prostate, there's pleasure from the sensation of being 'filled' with the cock... And that's just the physical part. If you're a submissive bottom you may also derive pleasure from the vulnerability of being penetrated, being dominated, etc.• That said, don't forget the rest of the body. Engaging in anal sex doesn't have to exclude stimulating the other erogenous zones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navyblue Posted June 2, 2015 Report Share Posted June 2, 2015 Hmm... after reading this thread, I realise that the few pure tops I have met are good tops indeed. They are into lots of foreplay for me to relax, and they also entered and topped me gently. hornychub and Yas1950 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted June 2, 2015 Report Share Posted June 2, 2015 a good n caring top will make the experience enjoyable. the initial insertion of the top is painful to the bottom. the top shld be caring n allow the bottom to adjust n get use to his penis in his anus. after that, take it slowly. once the bottom does not feel the pain, the top can start the thrusting n booth will enjoy thenselves and wanting more. Being a bottom, i have also enjoyed good sessions with a top. Btw, sometimes, it may be inevitable that the feaces are seen. the anus is still for passing out waste. sex is secondary. the top shld not blame him, but to just let both wash up n enjoy the session again. Yas1950 and Guests 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted June 3, 2015 Report Share Posted June 3, 2015 As quoted from a friend, jerking off your dick while getting penetrated does reduce some pain, provided you can stay hard. mydontay 1 Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted June 3, 2015 Report Share Posted June 3, 2015 As quoted from a friend, jerking off your dick while getting penetrated does reduce some pain, provided you can stay hard.No wonder u see those btm in porn always jerk off their dick while getting penetrated. Quote 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeoAstro Posted June 3, 2015 Report Share Posted June 3, 2015 (edited) . Edited October 21, 2017 by NeoAstro Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jeff Posted June 3, 2015 Report Share Posted June 3, 2015 No thats a kinky unique experience Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hellogoodbye Posted June 5, 2015 Report Share Posted June 5, 2015 The feeling is like the sudden relieve after having constipation for many days... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted June 5, 2015 Report Share Posted June 5, 2015 well said jd. if only i can find more of u such a caring top. i agreed with your description. i once met a gentle top n after the initial adjustment n pain, i actually find it painless n wanna him anal me more n more. I am flex.My first time being bottom, well it hurts a bit when the top plugged his dick in. However, it was bearable. He pulled out his dick, then tried again. and things went well with sufficient lubes, and getting better every time. Tops should be considerate of the bottoms' feeling too.Whenever I am the top, I make sure my first time bottoms are well lubes, aroused and ready. Good foreplay is always the best. I love slowly penetrate my dick in while caressing and kissing the bottoms so that their first time goes well. And the rest all superb memories... Lols. When fucking the no-longer-virgin bottoms, I will start slow getting faster and faster and deeper till we both cum. Love hearing them moaning. Hahaha... All new bottoms, dun worry much. You will get a hang of it. Look for good partner for the first time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaze Posted June 5, 2015 Report Share Posted June 5, 2015 true that. first timers really do have to get the right top. first and most impt quality has gotta be the top wont force u to do what u dont like. 2nd, his satisfaction has gotta be derived from your pleasure. 3rd, he must love foreplays (giving). if you 2 are in a room, i strongly suggest you being on top of him. sitting down on his dick gives you the control during initial penetration. once u get the hang of it, u can change position. i'm a top. i tried bottom once. not a good experience cuz the guy just fuck straight away without consideration to how i was feeling. selfish bastard he is. but due to the shitty experience, i know how it feels when the btm meets a bad top. so i thank him that i'm a gentle top. mydontay and Yas1950 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted June 5, 2015 Report Share Posted June 5, 2015 Fucked Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 6, 2015 Report Share Posted June 6, 2015 If u meet a selfish top who just fuck straight and no foreplay, the btm wld be very painful! mydontay 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest -- Posted June 6, 2015 Report Share Posted June 6, 2015 true that. first timers really do have to get the right top.first and most impt quality has gotta be the top wont force u to do what u dont like.2nd, his satisfaction has gotta be derived from your pleasure.3rd, he must love foreplays (giving).if you 2 are in a room, i strongly suggest you being on top of him. sitting down on his dick gives you the control during initial penetration. once u get the hang of it, u can change position.i'm a top. i tried bottom once. not a good experience cuz the guy just fuck straight away without consideration to how i was feeling. selfish bastard he is. but due to the shitty experience, i know how it feels when the btm meets a bad top. so i thank him that i'm a gentle top.Can I try with you? Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ;p Posted June 6, 2015 Report Share Posted June 6, 2015 Been donkey years since i been fcuked.... cant rmb how does it feel liao.... Only rmb that i bleed (slightly) on the first time.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Den Yuan Posted June 6, 2015 Report Share Posted June 6, 2015 GOOD! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest funchub Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 the best method is to prepare ur ass before with a dildo or butt plug. I used to go sauna unprepared and it painful, not really satisfying. many times they could not penetrate and I end up givung them blowjobs. But if you prepare with a dildo or butt plug (just put it in for a few minutes, ur ass will loosen a bit), when the time comes for your ass to be fucked, it will be very enjoyable. Most guys are not very good with foreplay...they just want a blowjob, followed by a hard fuck. My fantasy has always been being 'forced' into hard sex....and this way i can enjoy a good fuck without needing any foreplay like a slut in heat. mydontay 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest A Raped Bottom Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 If you love a man of your dream, that pain is tolerable. If you go suana just to experience being bottom, you will hate the painful experience. My 2cts bottom experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaze Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 Can I try with you? Lol lol.. if click, why not? But i guess this conv is best done in private. u know.. haha Yas1950 and mydontay 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaze Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 (edited) btw, since the topic branch off into first timers. apart from the earlier post on finding a gentle top. you prolly shld ask the top to do loads of foreplays..1) Give you foreplays on your whole body to make your body sensitive. it helps in the relaxing and loosening of your hole later.2) Anal foreplay 1 - use his both hands to grab your butt cheeks. stretch them apart to reveal the hole and then continue to play with your butt cheek in circular motion. slowly increasing how much the butt cheeks are stretched. this can help relax your hole for the coming loosening.3) Anal foreplay 2 - licking of anal hole. This will put some sensation onto the hole and make it more sensitive. Also, its a pleasure to btms too, haha. After which, proceeds to give a rim job.4) Anal foreplay 3 - Apply lube on hole and slowly rub it.. up and down the hole, around the hole etc. by now, the hole should have the "expand and contract" motion. apply lube on whole finger and place the finger on the hole. gently press down when the hole expands and stop when the hole contracts. continue doing this till the finger is in. Once its fully in, stop and hold it there for awhile. After the hole is accustomed to the finger, twist and turn the finger in the hole. wriggle your finger a bit.5) Anal foreplay 4 - Repeat the above again. This time round, use 2 fingers instead of 1. The only difference will be once your fingers is in, wait longer. When you twist and turn, do it slowly till the hole can accomodate to your turning at normal pace.6) Anal foreplay 5 - If the top's dick is large, 3 fingers might be necessary. So repeat the above step again but ignore the turning part.7) Anal foreplay 6 - Its time for penetration. guess this doesnt need any explanation. but do rmb to go extremely slow. same thing, when the hole is contracting, dont inch in. only inch in when hole is relax. The above, from start till end, usually take abt 30mins till the actual fucking can take place. but well, the efforts are worth it if the btm enjoys. Also, first timer btms please take note. you have to do your part in cleaning your hole too. Cleaning doesnt simply means outside. the insides are important too. google douching to know more. Edited June 7, 2015 by kaze hornbird, Yas1950 and armitage 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest --- Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 lol.. if click, why not? But i guess this conv is best done in private. u know.. hahaOkay will pm u ^^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 (edited) kaze, i fully agreed with what u said. the steps really make both enjoy the sex, maybe longer duration. so far i only met one such top. if only i had done w u. u must the the gentle n caring top that is highly demand.so if anyone wants a great session shld follow all or at least most of it. Edited June 7, 2015 by mydontay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 btw, since the topic branch off into first timers. apart from the earlier post on finding a gentle top. you prolly shld ask the top to do loads of foreplays..1) Give you foreplays on your whole body to make your body sensitive. it helps in the relaxing and loosening of your hole later.2) Anal foreplay 1 - use his both hands to grab your butt cheeks. stretch them apart to reveal the hole and then continue to play with your butt cheek in circular motion. slowly increasing how much the butt cheeks are stretched. this can help relax your hole for the coming loosening.3) Anal foreplay 2 - licking of anal hole. This will put some sensation onto the hole and make it more sensitive. Also, its a pleasure to btms too, haha. After which, proceeds to give a rim job.4) Anal foreplay 3 - Apply lube on hole and slowly rub it.. up and down the hole, around the hole etc. by now, the hole should have the "expand and contract" motion. apply lube on whole finger and place the finger on the hole. gently press down when the hole expands and stop when the hole contracts. continue doing this till the finger is in. Once its fully in, stop and hold it there for awhile. After the hole is accustomed to the finger, twist and turn the finger in the hole. wriggle your finger a bit.5) Anal foreplay 4 - Repeat the above again. This time round, use 2 fingers instead of 1. The only difference will be once your fingers is in, wait longer. When you twist and turn, do it slowly till the hole can accomodate to your turning at normal pace.6) Anal foreplay 5 - If the top's dick is large, 3 fingers might be necessary. So repeat the above step again but ignore the turning part.7) Anal foreplay 6 - Its time for penetration. guess this doesnt need any explanation. but do rmb to go extremely slow. same thing, when the hole is contracting, dont inch in. only inch in when hole is relax. The above, from start till end, usually take abt 30mins till the actual fucking can take place. but well, the efforts are worth it if the btm enjoys. Also, first timer btms please take note. you have to do your part in cleaning your hole too. Cleaning doesnt simply means outside. the insides are important too. google douching to know more. Reading the above alone will make any btm hard and horny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaze Posted June 7, 2015 Report Share Posted June 7, 2015 Reading the above alone will make any btm hard and horny. Guess thats a compliment. Thank you. My intention is for the first timer to receive a proper first time. it takes a selfish top to selfishly drill a first timer, scare him into tinking thats the norm. mydontay and Yas1950 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lad2 Posted June 9, 2015 Report Share Posted June 9, 2015 (edited) lol Edited June 9, 2015 by Lad2 ltw 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btmslut Posted June 11, 2015 Report Share Posted June 11, 2015 With an inexperienced top or an uncaring top, it can be pure agony, when they shove it in with little or no warm up. But when you get a good top, one that makes you relaxed, makes you feel aroused, begging for him to put it in, it is the most amazing feeling in the world. When the heat slowly pops in, the fullness of his shaft filling your hole. Then comes the slow pumps, rubbing, caressing your insides. Each movement in or out, just gives you little sensations. If he is good, his cock will keep gently rubbing your prostate, giving you a need to pee sensation, and just go with it. It will eventually turn to the most earth shattering, long, full body orgasm. The best part about being fucked, to me, is after a long session when my hole is loose, look in a mirror relaxed and it still has a little gap. For about an hour after, all i have to do is squeeze it shut for a few seconds and you can feel a "mini cum". Sit down, and you can feel a little buzz. Heavenly... Yas1950 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cutejack Posted June 11, 2015 Report Share Posted June 11, 2015 Wow like a lady gave birth to her lovely hubby sia the way u wrote.tat shiok meh?shall i bcome a btm?lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 72%dark Posted June 14, 2015 Report Share Posted June 14, 2015 The first time I met up with someone just for fun (i.e not in the context of a relationship) wasn't my first experience of sex and it was long after I started dating, so I honestly can't say any particular feelings were involved. I did expect and continue to expect mutual respect, but in my experience some guys can be very abrupt. Some people, about 2 seconds after they come, they start frantically cleaning up and are practically pushing you out the door with your pants still around your ankles. Especially those who use their own homes to host. They behave like they don't want you to see their homes (I guess as it represents their private life) so they do things that would otherwise be strange to normal a guest, like not turning on the lights at night so the whole house is dark, or having sex in the utility closet instead of an actual room in the house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted June 14, 2015 Report Share Posted June 14, 2015 well, i could enter his bedroom n we have sex in the room with no rush of time. i can also use toilet on the kitchen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted June 14, 2015 Report Share Posted June 14, 2015 Whoa, some really bad experiences here. I got lucky with my first meet up, in a sense. It was with a bi-married dude, in his master bedroom, albeit on the bed he shares with his wife. Heck, there's even his wedding photo hanged on the wall (do married couples still do that?! I remember my parent's having that hanged in their room too). Thankfully, he'd let me use the washroom, I think I bled on the first try. I don't exactly remember how I felt then. I was too young anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
osmiob Posted June 14, 2015 Report Share Posted June 14, 2015 i'm afraid of that guilty feeling too. thats why ive nvr taken that first stepToday I met up with a guy around 30+ for the first time, we met through jack'd, I was super,super nervous, luckily all we did were some kissing, cuddling and sucking,but somehow after doing it,I feel strange like I did something wrong:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hape Posted June 14, 2015 Report Share Posted June 14, 2015 Ackward for every 1st time with new person, I'm quiet introvert and passive, so usually I'm not good handling someone new for me, But the 2nd times are usually better and so on... And I have not meeting up guys for fun for almost half year since my b day. LoL, so maybe the ackward feeling will be greater Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bigotted Posted June 14, 2015 Report Share Posted June 14, 2015 Im a late bloomer. Only had my first experience in 2013 with a $ boy since i got to see his face and services offered from Craiglist. More or less i can know what to expect. But yet i dun know whether im top or bottom So ended up getting a so-so massage and bj from him. He tried to jerk me off to end the session but my 'kuku' is not used to another person's hand & got sore. I turn soft and cant come. He is cute though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 Actually mine was quite vanilla.I was a little afraid and I said I rather chit-chat.But he pushed me on the bed and tongue kiseed me and grab my hand to feel his freeballing cock and balls.I got a little confused from the hardness.He whispered in my ear that he was fucking horny and couldn't wait to blast on my face.Quite a dirty talker.The rest was history. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 Can u tell us the history?;-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helpmemedic Posted June 15, 2015 Report Share Posted June 15, 2015 My first time was with someone most of you guys here will know but i will obviously keep my mouth shut about his identity. He was young, i was 1-2 years older, he wanted to stay at my place and leave in the morning because it was getting late, i said yes, yadayada, he ended up in my room. When he first entered, he was quite playful, looking at my underwear, throwing it at me, i didnt get the hint, i think he was quite seasoned at these "fun" games so i didnt get the hint and thought it was very shameful for him to see my underwear. I tsk'ed him and he stopped, we ended up chatting for the next half an hour, he went to shower and after that i did. Nothing fun so far. He fell asleep first, then me after, he even had me play some very soft music on my first imac. Sometime around 3-4am (i still remember because i saw the clock and wondered what the fuck was he doing at this hour) He started to rub my crotch, i wasn't hard because i was half asleep and woken by the motion, then he started french kissing me, it was messy and wet, and i remember he had the softest tongue ever, ok wait, he's my first so i wouldnt know, but my impression of his tongue was that it was super soft and smooth like jelly. Then he flipped me around to go on top of him, i was dead fish, literally dead fish, i cannot emphasize how dead i was, i was so dead on top of him i put king tut to shame because he's not really that dead. Then i think he was uncomfortable with a corpse on top of him, he switched position, i am now a dead fish on the bed instead of on him, i didn't know what to do so i just kissed him. He started to sit on my crotch (we were still clothed) and he started to lick my nipples, i think it was a 10 seconds lick (he was equally nub at this) and he started to undress me, pants first, more kissing, now under wear is off. He said "wah, da4 ge4" (as in wow, big one) and started playing with it. He tried to suck my cock but i think he didn't know what to do so he only sucked my dick head for like 5 seconds. Then i started wanking us both with my hands, both cock in one hand. He was moaning, i remember he has a mushroom head, the legit mushroom kind of cock. Then cannot remember what happens, cannot remmeber cannot remember,.... yada yada, He came on me by wanking ontop of me, then came on my stomach, then i panicked, didnt know when was a good time, i quickly wanked myself and came on me silently in the midst of our touchy touchy session. He said it was my turn and i said i already did. He got a shock and said "it was weird". Cheebeh so rude, then i gave him cab money the next morning and he left. p.s - i am no longer a dead fish now don't judge ok? shyboi, youngpunk and jamestan90 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest RawSlut Posted June 17, 2015 Report Share Posted June 17, 2015 best feeling ever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 17, 2015 Report Share Posted June 17, 2015 Beware of trolls from we are against pinkdot lurking here, pretending to be one of us. 'Btmforyou' seems like one. Trying to lure one if us and repost your massages in their site to demonize us! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Callmejaysg Posted June 17, 2015 Report Share Posted June 17, 2015 It feels sorta uncomfortable if your partner is uncomfortable. I was lucky when the first time I got fucked the guy knew what he was doing, so he knew how to ease and play with my ass and then pounded away. I still remember it and jackoff sometimes. Yas1950 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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