Cerveau Posted May 20, 2016 Report Share Posted May 20, 2016 28 minutes ago, Cube3 said: Hmmm, someone should start a dictionary of gay terminology.... Someone really should Cube3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2016 Report Share Posted May 22, 2016 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlIN-U3aPPU A bi dude on youtube. I wish people would stop saying bi guys enjoy being bi because they get to have sex with both sexes. Bi guys choose to be bi as much as gays choose to be gay and straight ppl choose to be straight. we are who we are. EasleyLim and Cerveau 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted May 22, 2016 Report Share Posted May 22, 2016 and what is your point? be it they have to have sex with both sexes is as good as they choose to be a bi that can have sex with both Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Advanced Bitch Posted May 22, 2016 Report Share Posted May 22, 2016 1 hour ago, lovehandle said: and what is your point? be it they have to have sex with both sexes is as good as they choose to be a bi that can have sex with both Benedick Basic Bitch Lim will like to la kopi with you at a sex benedick cafe later.... Be mentally prepared hor! muahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jurongboybi Posted July 2, 2016 Report Share Posted July 2, 2016 When did u realize you were Bi? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pipi Posted July 2, 2016 Report Share Posted July 2, 2016 When i found out that I enjoy watch young boys jerk off. But still won't give up on seeing them fuck their young cute girl friends. I told myself, why can't I have both? BlowingForFun90's 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wastedj2359 Posted July 2, 2016 Report Share Posted July 2, 2016 to be honest i think i am a bisexual. but have heard so many people say that there is no such thing and that bisexuals are just in denial. i dont know man. i loved my ex-girlfriends and dont think i will ever be romantically involved with a guy, just that i like looking at guys and watching gay porn too. i have only had sex with my ex-girlfriends and none with any guys, and in all honesty i really enjoyed sex with the girls. yup i know i sound confused, but i dont deny that. i really love girls and sex with them, but i also love cocks. upshot 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lazy2login Posted July 2, 2016 Report Share Posted July 2, 2016 Both gay and straight people find it hard to relate to bisexuality because that's not part of their experience. One has to be either bi or very empathetic to understand, and most people aren't that at all - even when they are part of a minority, they cannot embrace a minority within a minority which is the Bi community. There's a lot of mistrust on bisexuals , some of stemming from closeted gay guys who use the "bi" term as a halfway measure while in the process of coming out. Unfortunate but it's a fact of life. Anyway, just be yourself. Don't worry about it. So you like both genders, no problem! But if you are going to commit to someone, be faithful. Don't use the bisexuality as an excuse to fool around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted July 2, 2016 Report Share Posted July 2, 2016 Bisexuality IS a thing; there ain't nothing wrong with swinging both ways. Bratwursts are nice, and so are cheese pies. Quote For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dracula Posted July 2, 2016 Report Share Posted July 2, 2016 I suppose bisexual is the ultimate orientation, it has a wider scope to admire and choose. I suppose people are naturally attracted to beauty (as in physique/body or mind), and it can be regardless gender. But then time flies, and they come to the survival tendency to compromise with many things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wastedj2359 Posted July 2, 2016 Report Share Posted July 2, 2016 do you think i should be honest with the girls i date that i am bi? honestly almost all the people i talk about bisexually casually to are not receptive of bisexuality. i have not cheated on my ex-girlfriends before, whether with guys or girls (notwithstanding the potential argument that fantasising about gay sex also constitutes cheating blahblah). i function almost like a perfectly straight guy who loves his girlfriend and enjoys sex with girls, so i dont know if i should let the bisexual thing spoil my chances with girls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meh Posted July 3, 2016 Report Share Posted July 3, 2016 6 hours ago, wastedj2359 said: do you think i should be honest with the girls i date that i am bi? honestly almost all the people i talk about bisexually casually to are not receptive of bisexuality. i have not cheated on my ex-girlfriends before, whether with guys or girls (notwithstanding the potential argument that fantasising about gay sex also constitutes cheating blahblah). i function almost like a perfectly straight guy who loves his girlfriend and enjoys sex with girls, so i dont know if i should let the bisexual thing spoil my chances with girls. Crudely put; if you're just fucking her for fun - no need to tell. If you're serious about the girl - be honest even if it means losing her. Who knows, maybe she can accept it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ten Posted July 3, 2016 Report Share Posted July 3, 2016 What is bisexual? That you like both guys and gals? That's feeling, doesn't mean gay cannot like female friends or straight cannot have close male friends. Having that doesn't make anyone bisexual. To me bisexual, is you can accept to fuck both male and female, if you can't accept a CB and freak out thinking about it, then you are no bi. Yes, I am a bisexual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted July 3, 2016 Report Share Posted July 3, 2016 16 hours ago, wastedj2359 said: to be honest i think i am a bisexual. but have heard so many people say that there is no such thing and that bisexuals are just in denial. i dont know man. i loved my ex-girlfriends and dont think i will ever be romantically involved with a guy, just that i like looking at guys and watching gay porn too. i have only had sex with my ex-girlfriends and none with any guys, and in all honesty i really enjoyed sex with the girls. yup i know i sound confused, but i dont deny that. i really love girls and sex with them, but i also love cocks. In short, You are NOT WRONG in your belief. heh. the sooner humans can start to figure out there was never such a thing as you are with them or with us mentality you will nevr grow or be fully happy with yourself. I can go on about it but that's the short answer on this and if anyone choose to really google the truth, it is really all out there if you see and analyze it carefully. You don't need a category to pigeon-hole yourself into. Set yourself free. So long you are not doing harm or lying to anyone most of all yourself. Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted December 18, 2016 Report Share Posted December 18, 2016 I was posting on another thread when the thought occurred to me. Since there are many gay men who are closeted for obvious reasons, are bisexuals closeted as well? I am curious since there is a part of you that is socially accepted, and another still somewhat frowned upon in Singapore, do you have to stay closeted as a result? Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
98boi Posted December 18, 2016 Report Share Posted December 18, 2016 It really varies from person to person tbh. Like some bi ppl are relatively more open abt their bisexuality than others, in the same way some gay ppl are relatively more open than others. Like some bisexuals are just like "oh she's hot, oh he's hot too". But it's just that, for the more closeted ones like myself, I tend to show my heterosexual side more than my homosexual side to somewhat "blend in" with the rest, though these days i'm opening up a bit more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted December 18, 2016 Report Share Posted December 18, 2016 Somewhat, I guess? I tend to show whichever side that is more prevalent in the crowd that i'm hanging out with, eg. talk more about hot guys when i'm out with gay friends, hot girls with straight friends. It's not like i'm hiding my bisexuality or what. It just doesn't make sense to talk about hot guys with my straight friends since they can't really appreciate it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
98boi Posted December 18, 2016 Report Share Posted December 18, 2016 Just now, EasleyLim said: Somewhat, I guess? I tend to show whichever side that is more prevalent in the crowd that i'm hanging out with, eg. talk more about hot guys when i'm out with gay friends, hot girls with straight friends. It's not like i'm hiding my bisexuality or what. It just doesn't make sense to talk about hot guys with my straight friends since they can't really appreciate it. ^ Yea preach Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest marriedclosetedxd Posted December 19, 2016 Report Share Posted December 19, 2016 My name says it all....married for 20 yrs but fetish for female lingerie n a closet bi for almost 20 yrs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tom88s Posted December 19, 2016 Report Share Posted December 19, 2016 if u r bi couple. u need to open to other to know. just because u want to hv bi fun. I use to run a bi sexual club in bkk with more than 20 members(all couples) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ten Posted December 19, 2016 Report Share Posted December 19, 2016 I think the reason why people is closet/keep secrets is because they are afraid others cannot accept them for who they are or what they do regardless whether they are bi, gay or straight. It is a secret they will always keep from certain group of people or someone. I am a bi and I'm a closet too because my family and friends will not accept it. Call me a disgrace....let me quote you one example; I did disclose once to a close female friend that I am a bi and her response "OMG, you like guys and gals...I think it's better you keep away from my children. Are u sick?" and then she disappear away from my life like I'm a disease or pyscho that will harm her children. Sometimes I think we are like either the vampire or werewolf clan in the movie Underworld. Human by day with some secret identify at night...hahaha Mister M 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Neh Neh Posted December 19, 2016 Report Share Posted December 19, 2016 19 minutes ago, ten said: I think the reason why people is closet/keep secrets is because they are afraid others cannot accept them for who they are or what they do regardless whether they are bi, gay or straight. It is a secret they will always keep from certain group of people or someone. I am a bi and I'm a closet too because my family and friends will not accept it. Call me a disgrace....let me quote you one example; I did disclose once to a close female friend that I am a bi and her response "OMG, you like guys and gals...I think it's better you keep away from my children. Are u sick?" and then she disappear away from my life like I'm a disease or pyscho that will harm her children. Sometimes I think we are like either the vampire or werewolf clan in the movie Underworld. Human by day with some secret identify at night...hahaha Werewolf likes to doggy aka TOP. Vampire likes to suck in dark maze. ten 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted December 19, 2016 Report Share Posted December 19, 2016 47 minutes ago, ten said: I think the reason why people is closet/keep secrets is because they are afraid others cannot accept them for who they are or what they do regardless whether they are bi, gay or straight. It is a secret they will always keep from certain group of people or someone. I am a bi and I'm a closet too because my family and friends will not accept it. Call me a disgrace....let me quote you one example; I did disclose once to a close female friend that I am a bi and her response "OMG, you like guys and gals...I think it's better you keep away from my children. Are u sick?" and then she disappear away from my life like I'm a disease or pyscho that will harm her children. Sometimes I think we are like either the vampire or werewolf clan in the movie Underworld. Human by day with some secret identify at night...hahaha That's hilarious. Bis are sexual predators but straights are ok? hahaha. Good riddance to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dicksandballs Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 (edited) H Edited April 17, 2017 by dicksandballs Sedap Pancut 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Engaged Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 Me!!!! Im actually engaged already. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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JLB Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 I'm kinda lost. I think I like this girl, but yet I feel so comfortable with another guy. Its really fucked up I think. I dont know what I want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 Do what makes your heart happy. If u listening to peoples pre-conceived notions of what a "bi" guy is like, it's going to be very very hard. Do what's best for your situation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLB Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 14 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: Do what makes your heart happy. If u listening to peoples pre-conceived notions of what a "bi" guy is like, it's going to be very very hard. Do what's best for your situation Yeaps. What you say is kind of true. Thanks for your reply my friend. hanzs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Office Boi Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 2 hours ago, JLB said: I'm kinda lost. I think I like this girl, but yet I feel so comfortable with another guy. Its really fucked up I think. I dont know what I want. I am the same. I like this girl. But im living with my bf and i do emotionally attach with my bf. My heart is constantly struggling. Im feeling quite tired. I cant bear to leave my bf. I also cant commit wholeheartedly to her. And girl demands all body and time of her bf to her only. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickTockBang Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 4 hours ago, JLB said: I'm kinda lost. I think I like this girl, but yet I feel so comfortable with another guy. Its really fucked up I think. I dont know what I want. I feel u dude. I like this girl for the longest time, since school days. But i never said anything to her. And she'll be getting married end of the year. Feels like crap. Stayed away from any relationship to avoid any disappointments. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 9 minutes ago, TickTockBang said: I feel u dude. I like this girl for the longest time, since school days. But i never said anything to her. And she'll be getting married end of the year. Feels like crap. Stayed away from any relationship to avoid any disappointments. I don't think staying away from relationships is going to avoid disappointments. Dealing and accepting your sexuality and be honest with those you love would probably help in establishing more fulfilling relationships. You never expressed your feelings to the girl, and how on earth will she knows how you feel? Unless she is psychic or clairvoyant. So the crap you are feeling is actually brought upon by yourself. More than anything, let this be a lesson in life you learn not to repeat. The next time you meet someone you like, and if you feel the feeling from the other person is mutual, express it, and see how far you can take and make the relationship meaningful. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tricyclo Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 6 hours ago, dicksandballs said: Hey everyone! Here's a little bit about myself, I'm a bisexual guy who's happily attached to my girlfriend. However I'm also interested in men and from time to time love to read up on gay erotica or wank to gay porn. Also scroll through a cute guy's instagram from time to time as we all do haha. Was wondering if there was anyone similar individuals here who are happily attached but also enjoy the occasional gay porn wanking Hey I'm pretty similar to u in terms of what u do. Just that im not attached hahaha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickTockBang Posted March 14, 2017 Report Share Posted March 14, 2017 5 hours ago, doncoin said: I don't think staying away from relationships is going to avoid disappointments. Dealing and accepting your sexuality and be honest with those you love would probably help in establishing more fulfilling relationships. You never expressed your feelings to the girl, and how on earth will she knows how you feel? Unless she is psychic or clairvoyant. So the crap you are feeling is actually brought upon by yourself. More than anything, let this be a lesson in life you learn not to repeat. The next time you meet someone you like, and if you feel the feeling from the other person is mutual, express it, and see how far you can take and make the relationship meaningful. Yes i know, i agree. Just that i have always had troubles expressing myself to someone. Trying...trying... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BAVAD Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 On 03/07/2016 at 2:31 AM, wastedj2359 said: do you think i should be honest with the girls i date that i am bi? honestly almost all the people i talk about bisexually casually to are not receptive of bisexuality. i have not cheated on my ex-girlfriends before, whether with guys or girls (notwithstanding the potential argument that fantasising about gay sex also constitutes cheating blahblah). i function almost like a perfectly straight guy who loves his girlfriend and enjoys sex with girls, so i dont know if i should let the bisexual thing spoil my chances with girls. Like you guys, I enjoy watching gay porn and reading gay erotica. And I love my gf a lot - making love w her, the usual gf bf sort of stuff. But I'll NEVER tell her this part of me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 4 minutes ago, Guest BAVAD said: Like you guys, I enjoy watching gay porn and reading gay erotica. And I love my gf a lot - making love w her, the usual gf bf sort of stuff. But I'll NEVER tell her this part of me Why never tell her? Maybe she will enjoy you doing another guy while she observe and later slowly join in leh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dicksandballs Posted March 17, 2017 Report Share Posted March 17, 2017 (edited) On 3/15/2017 at 8:39 PM, Kimochi said: yy Edited April 17, 2017 by dicksandballs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 17, 2017 Report Share Posted March 17, 2017 Mmhm. I can't help falling for physical stuff when it comes to guys. I can also like a girl romantically. But if I were to settle with a girl, the reason would be to continue the family line. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Venga Posted March 25, 2017 Report Share Posted March 25, 2017 There is no cure. You are born that way. Embrace it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted March 25, 2017 Report Share Posted March 25, 2017 (edited) There is noting wrong being who you are ... sexually oriented any way.. call it born that way or you just have no issue doing what comes fun and acceptable for you and not hurting anyone in the process. The real problem is how your lover can accept you for who you are or not. What you do behind closed door should not be mixed up with what you are at work or as a person out of bed. We have not even got to the fidelity part yet... heheh which is a whole ball of worms to deal with. Best you get your own orientation right first. Forget the silly Str8 or Gay nonsense. This is 2017. The spectrum is a lot more wider then you think black or white Edited March 25, 2017 by upshot Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sprintkayak Posted April 3, 2017 Report Share Posted April 3, 2017 Are there any guys, who are still in a relationship with a girl, or are happily married, AFTER coming out to the woman in your life about your bisexuality? I am seriously keen to listen to your story Chubby_1986 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lifestyle guru Posted April 3, 2017 Report Share Posted April 3, 2017 Where is GreasyLim the bisexualism advocate and poster goy/birl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tricyclo Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 On 3/17/2017 at 4:27 PM, dicksandballs said: Anyone here also identifies with falling for guys physically but not romantically, but for girls its both physical and romantic? Basically me in a nutshell tbh lel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted May 25, 2017 Report Share Posted May 25, 2017 that is almost inhuman.i man both.yucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted May 25, 2017 Report Share Posted May 25, 2017 it is almost inhuman.i mean both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolfdude Posted May 31, 2017 Report Share Posted May 31, 2017 (edited) woah i didn't know there's quite a number of bi dudes around i know only of 1 other bi dude, and he's happy attached to his gf. other than that, i've never had anyone to talk to about being bi. Edited May 31, 2017 by wolfdude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transmissionsm Posted May 31, 2017 Report Share Posted May 31, 2017 Married bi. Love my wife emotionally and physically if that's what you call it here. I'll do anything for her. I do feel bad about coming here but i'm no hypocrite so I will continue to come here but may no longer find casual sex. Unless with people I know IRL. Like guys physically, no I don't care for a good bod or big dick or age. I just like dicks. My fantasy are also mainly "gayish". I mean aside from wanting to see my wife in fbt and knee socks (yes I do mentioned to her i'd like her to wear those when we are having fun) I yearn to be forcefully choke by a dick till I pass out after watching some of those performed on girls, I want to be placed in a helpless situation (SM) and tickled tortured etc. I want to be in control when having sex with my wife, but if i'm with a guy, I want to be submissive. In fact I'm the "soft" type of guy in real life. Not girly but just... soft-spoken. xiandidi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 If you can accept a woman's pussy, her body, her boobs & enjoy screwing her pussy till the cum juice flow out then you are consider a Bi. If you freak out after seeing woman's pussy or even feel disgusting seeing it then please dun consider yourself a Bi, you are gay! If an attached or married man enjoy sex with man, love his physical & enjoy playing his dick, he is a Bi. If a man feel disgusting about 2 men having sex together then he is definitely str8. I m attached to a married man that have 2 kids. Our relationship start from colleagues to love. Honestly he love his wife and kids very much & I knew he have sex with other women outside before we started our relationship, I won't be surprise if he still do that even though I m attached to him now. He did tell me due to discreet, the only time he had sex with man was when he visited Bangkok years back. Let me share my bf sex story, I dunno if all Bi men here are the same. He told me he love seeing his wife crying to stop whenever he is screwing her & he love the way his wife submit to him during sex. I dunno if str8 husbands do lick their wife's pussy during sex but my bf really do enjoy licking his wife & her cum juices. With me, I felt that he always have a satisfaction after conquering me on bed. He did told me he felt great especially a man been conquered by him. He likes feeling every part of my body during sex & love seeing my cock flipping up & down when he is screwing me. He felt like a master when he cum in my mouth .He too love the different between screwing a woman's, pussy & a man's ass hole. To him women's body & men's body both have their different beauty, he can't commit to me which one he love most but did tell me he wanted both. Well....human actually all living behind a mask. You see everything of him, his character, his personality when you sleep with him... interesting! Chnchubby6 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xal Posted June 1, 2017 Report Share Posted June 1, 2017 On 3/15/2017 at 8:33 PM, Guest BAVAD said: Like you guys, I enjoy watching gay porn and reading gay erotica. And I love my gf a lot - making love w her, the usual gf bf sort of stuff. But I'll NEVER tell her this part of me hmm same situation, but no more gf so yea =x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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