abang Posted December 12, 2013 Report Share Posted December 12, 2013 Don't ever call me silly.. I am choosy..FYI, I dont jump into bed with any white man... I prefer white man and that is just my choice and none of your business to comment nor commend.Nope, I aint going to move down under to Australia...I have an aged mother to look after.Thanks, anyway! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FirsTimer Posted December 12, 2013 Report Share Posted December 12, 2013 (edited) Edited December 12, 2013 by FirsTimer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted December 12, 2013 Report Share Posted December 12, 2013 只要不忘本 , 不忘自己的根 , 不会看不起自己同胞 , 喜欢洋人何罪之有 ? 尊重别人的喜好与选择 , 也是一种度量 。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted December 12, 2013 Report Share Posted December 12, 2013 yes. they are definitely attractive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted December 12, 2013 Report Share Posted December 12, 2013 只要不忘本 , 不忘自己的根 ,不会看不起自己同胞 ,喜欢洋人何罪之有 ?尊重别人的喜好与选择 ,也是一种度量 。 Thank you for these encouraging and edifying words.Yes I am more inclined to the gay white man but I still keep my Asian-Chinese beliefs with me....I can communicate in Chinese and if you read my previous posts, I did tried my best to write in Mandarin.. Respect others .. and thus gain respect... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted December 12, 2013 Report Share Posted December 12, 2013 我偏好洋人。。对我而言， 他们比较豁达， 不太斤斤计较。。他们大概从大学开始就必须迅速学会自我独立。。。（环境所需吧）凡事都自己解决。。。很少麻烦别人。。 我所交往过的洋人（以两年以上才算）， 都是文质彬彬型的。。有律师， 会计师， 大学教授。。我从他们身上学习了 处事态度， 对人/对事 的宽容与认真。还有， 他们都要有点厨艺。。。 他们都 （真的）不太好性。。他们求的是知己， 朋友。。。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikepro Posted December 15, 2013 Report Share Posted December 15, 2013 I am usually attracted to Singaporean/Taiwan/HK guys, but I find some US celebs incredibly hot. Just seeing Channing Tatum onscreen or in pictures turns me on, though he doesn't always look good, sometimes he gets fat or is not clean shaven (papparazzi photos). Joseph Gordon-Levitt is another one I've noticed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest #143 Posted December 15, 2013 Report Share Posted December 15, 2013 Abang, what did you find offensive under my first post that ruffled your old, slimy, withery feathers? I was rooting for you, you half wit. So you are all self righteous huh? You are yet another typical asian who slept with no more than two whites in SEA, spoil them rotten, be subservient and then become addicted to them. You are a poseur. You have never lived in white man's land, you know shit about white culture and you know nothing about yourself. Admit it. All you want is a white dick up your arse and thats that. All you aspire, is to be a white man's slut. I retract my invite for you to join us in Australia. We Aussies are nice but you are just plain toxic. Stay away. With that huge chip on your shoulder, just find fulfillment and contentment in pleasuring yourself with your white dildo and accompany your mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted December 16, 2013 Report Share Posted December 16, 2013 借用曹植的《七步诗》： “煮豆持作羹，漉豉以為汁。萁在釜下燃，豆在釜中泣。本自同根生，相煎何太急。” 不管是喜欢谁， 只要以赤子之心好好珍惜眼前人， 那就行了。我们又何必为了他的肤色大作文章呢？心里真得要做到物欲务求 还是 无欲无求。。。。。 tic-toc 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
passinthenight Posted December 16, 2013 Report Share Posted December 16, 2013 (edited) Abang, Don't bother with this obnoxious prick, it's Christmas! He is no Aussie by the way, we only use the word root as in- bonking/rooting/fucking. We don't use 'root' in that term, down here. When he said "we aussies are nice" whilst spilling all that vile & filth, just makes me wonder what type of a nutcase he is?(troll) Yes, we Aussies can be a little full of ourselves at times but what he has written is Un- Australian. Just leave him to rot in this thread, if and whenever the dickhead shows his ugly head again. I wouldn't waste your time. Happy Christmas to you and all Blowingwinders. Edited December 16, 2013 by passinthenight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItchyHand Posted December 16, 2013 Report Share Posted December 16, 2013 Errr... I like guys and as long as we click, regardless race, language or religion, i will like him... erm... which can mess me up plenty since i would have crushes a plenty with plenty of rejections ... hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 16, 2013 Report Share Posted December 16, 2013 Abang, Don't bother with this obnoxious prick, it's Christmas! He is no Aussie by the way, we only use the word root as in- bonking/rooting/fucking. We don't use 'root' in that term, down here. When he said "we aussies are nice" whilst spilling all that vile & filth, just makes me wonder what type of a nutcase he is?(troll) Yes, we Aussies can be a little full of ourselves at times but what he has written is Un- Australian. Just leave him to rot in this thread, if and whenever the dickhead shows his ugly head again. I wouldn't waste your time. Happy Christmas to you and all Blowingwinders. Hmm.. hang on a bit. If you read through what he posted the first time, it was balanced and as he said, he was on Abangs side. I think that Abang has totally misinterpreted what was posted and reacted wrongly. In turn, he is now reacting to what Abang posted. I think Abang should reread what was posted first time around. You should too since it does not look like you have the full picture. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted December 17, 2013 Report Share Posted December 17, 2013 你有你的想法， 我有我的偏好。河水不犯井水。。。 我有忘本吗？ 我还是一个道道地地的华人。 毋庸置疑的说，不是每个人能接受我的选择。再奉劝攻击我的客人， 请不必为我操心。。。感恩。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest proper Posted December 17, 2013 Report Share Posted December 17, 2013 (edited) . . . Edited June 16, 2014 by proper shyboi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nothandsome Posted December 18, 2013 Report Share Posted December 18, 2013 I am ok with them... But I don't like the way they think that Asians have small dicks... I've seen some smaller ones in sauna @@ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrjay Posted December 19, 2013 Report Share Posted December 19, 2013 I am ok with them... But I don't like the way they think that Asians have small dicks... I've seen some smaller ones in sauna @@ I do not know about what "they" think, but if you think the average Asian and the average white dick are much the same size, then you are sadly mistaken. Of course there are going to be exceptions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted December 22, 2013 Report Share Posted December 22, 2013 I am ok with them... But I don't like the way they think that Asians have small dicks... I've seen some smaller ones in sauna @@ For whites who are not bottoms, the size of Asian dicks may not be a big issue affecting attraction to Asians.For Asians who are not bottoms, the size of White's dicks may not be a big issue either. For those who are after big dicks, the Blacks should be their favorites. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leibniz Posted January 14, 2014 Report Share Posted January 14, 2014 Yes, in the same way I'm attracted to other guys regardless of races. I'm gay anyway. Quote “Do the things at which you are great, not what you were never made for.” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hawtstuff Posted January 14, 2014 Report Share Posted January 14, 2014 definitely attracted if they look like this: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stannlsw Posted January 15, 2014 Report Share Posted January 15, 2014 my goal is to have a British Boyfriend. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p-2122 Posted January 15, 2014 Report Share Posted January 15, 2014 I am. Had a aussie bf before. Str8 acting guy that doesn't even looks gay. And romantic. Its true. Tough to find one in sg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 15, 2014 Report Share Posted January 15, 2014 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Temptasian Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 I am a guy and I like guys. My longest relationship was with a white guy (9yrs) and my second-longest was with a Singaporean-Chinese guy (4yrs). It all depends on the individual, right? It's funny the amount of judgement going on in this thread, and a little bit sad. Not all whites think Asians have small dicks (I have experienced big and small!). Not all whites are arrogant, loud, etc. etc. Don't forget that most Ang mohs in Singapore are here for work - either by choice or because their company posted them here. Some people are open to the adventure of living in another culture, some are not. But don't think for a moment that an experience ex-pats in Singapore is typical of a whole race. The fact that a lot of Ang Moh ex-pats are here for only a few years puts pressure on relationships - either don't get too deep coz he's leaving soon or hope that it develops fast enough to make a joint decision to stay or move overseas together. That's a big choice for any couple, gay or not. For myself I was mostly with white guys until my 30s then mostly Chinese/Malay guys... simply because that is what was available where I lived! One thing I want to ask of the guys who prefer white guys - how far did your early sexual encounters/sexual awakening influence your current preferences? Most SGers I have met that like white guys seems to have like them from their early years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p-2122 Posted April 16, 2014 Report Share Posted April 16, 2014 I had the similar experience. Had a white bf when I was studying in Australia. He's very passionate in his character and sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
planetblue Posted May 24, 2014 Report Share Posted May 24, 2014 any stocky/bulky white guys? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myfyp2 Posted May 24, 2014 Report Share Posted May 24, 2014 I am attracted to Caucasians, but I am not attracted by them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted June 8, 2014 Report Share Posted June 8, 2014 I am a guy and I like guys. My longest relationship was with a white guy (9yrs) and my second-longest was with a Singaporean-Chinese guy (4yrs). It all depends on the individual, right? It's funny the amount of judgement going on in this thread, and a little bit sad. Not all whites think Asians have small dicks (I have experienced big and small!). Not all whites are arrogant, loud, etc. etc. Don't forget that most Ang mohs in Singapore are here for work - either by choice or because their company posted them here. Some people are open to the adventure of living in another culture, some are not. But don't think for a moment that an experience ex-pats in Singapore is typical of a whole race. The fact that a lot of Ang Moh ex-pats are here for only a few years puts pressure on relationships - either don't get too deep coz he's leaving soon or hope that it develops fast enough to make a joint decision to stay or move overseas together. That's a big choice for any couple, gay or not. For myself I was mostly with white guys until my 30s then mostly Chinese/Malay guys... simply because that is what was available where I lived! One thing I want to ask of the guys who prefer white guys - how far did your early sexual encounters/sexual awakening influence your current preferences? Most SGers I have met that like white guys seems to have like them from their early years. Before I came into the circle, I was looking completely at white porn, specifically American ones.I have no idea how guys could get access to Japanese porn.When I first saw Japanese porn, it was pixellated which added to my continued interest in white porn. And also maybe because many white guys do look good. With their strong facial features and broad shoulders. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only4Chubz Posted June 8, 2014 Report Share Posted June 8, 2014 Always attracted to them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest HomingBlue Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 What do you local guys think when it comes to dating or starting relationship with foreigner? Pinoy? PRC? Malaysian? India indian or other nationalities?Can accept? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 Sure, but i will draw a line, how much would i give, i won't let myself hurt when he leave, some may say this is not love, but who say love must hurt break cry when no more, i more treasure the moment when we together, 或许我是理性多过感性的人吧， 来时尽情享受，去时潇洒挥别。 billyb0y 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 Long time ago whenever I met a foreigner and when he fell for me, I always asked the question ''How long is your contract here?'' Not everyone is lucky enough to be ''exported'' with the foreigner when he leaves the country. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 Yes , if he is rich and spend on me ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mamee Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 Whether local or foreigner, it will take years to develop a trusting relationship. I don't see why it should be impossible to "marry" to other foreigner. However, I am more concern whether I blend into their different lifestyle and culture rather than whether there is a bondage of love between us. People always think that love should be like an instant noodle, no effort but quick serve. I want my love to be a meticulous, time-consuming, and properly cook meal with style, color and taste. Having said that, I believe many gay relationship start off as instant noodle - a 2 minute meal. straight8ing 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 Having said that, I believe many gay relationship start off as instant noodle - a 2 minute meal. I second that ohlala 1 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 I don't think too much and too far. As long as we click, I don't care if he is chinese, Ang moh, Indian, Pinot or Malay......I will stay together with him until we both feel we have had enough of each other then we part way. I have done that successfully over the last 20 yrs with about 10 guys.....only one I would categorise as sour or difficult where I basically moved to another country to avoid that insane guy who became far too sticky for my liking! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotphoenix Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 (edited) ... Edited January 4, 2015 by hotphoenix ohlala 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nai Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 I have no qualms dating foreigners at all. I like learning about other cultures and being close to them makes it even more intimate. In fact, it makes foreigners even more interesting to me.But one cold fact: they will go home. My Thai ex went back to bkk and we didn't last even though he was here for 3 years. So dating is one thing, relationship is another Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 No.Singapore does not accept gay unions and society is conservative so it is no point even if he stay behind for my sake.And most likely after FTs grown sick of working in foreign lands they will one day go back to their birth country.So why set oneself up for disappointment? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted September 23, 2014 Report Share Posted September 23, 2014 I did bring a Pinoy bf back to have dinner with my family back in the past.We went through a lot of discussion and talks of either of us relocate for each other sake but in the end I know this loving feeling is just a rush in the head and other more serious life priority will take over our life so I send him to the airport.But don't let my story influence you all,I'm mostly a pansexual being and I am not homophobic.I can fall in love with anything and person in life when it come. ohlala 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted September 24, 2014 Report Share Posted September 24, 2014 Oops, if I get a penny for every foreigner I've met/dated in the past, I will probably be the Temasek Holdings of this board.Yes I've started my gay dating way back in the 70s - ok, I've started young. All through the years, I've seen so many different nationalities - the Americans, the Germans, the Australians, the Britions, the Dutch and mamma mia, the Italians. It was the era when Angmo-Asian boyfriends were still in the infancy stage. Perhaps at that time, I was NOT seeing someone much, much older. I was in my 20s to 30s and my men then were either 30s to early 40s. I've yet to meet/date some one twenty years older than me (up to today)! I have no qualms to say that dating Angmo do comes with perks - they are less judgemental. They don't ask how much you earn and too many personal questions. They enjoyed the time, the company more. And yes, a plate of carrot cake with black sauce sufficed. Don't think too much of what's next... even if it is a rice-rice, satay-satay relationship, no one knows the future. riverrobles 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bored Posted September 24, 2014 Report Share Posted September 24, 2014 Oops, if I get a penny for every foreigner I've met/dated in the past, I will probably be the Temasek Holdings of this board.Yes I've started my gay dating way back in the 70s - ok, I've started young. All through the years, I've seen so many different nationalities - the Americans, the Germans, the Australians, the Britions, the Dutch and mamma mia, the Italians. It was the era when Angmo-Asian boyfriends were still in the infancy stage. Perhaps at that time, I was NOT seeing someone much, much older. I was in my 20s to 30s and my men then were either 30s to early 40s. I've yet to meet/date some one twenty years older than me (up to today)! I have no qualms to say that dating Angmo do comes with perks - they are less judgemental. They don't ask how much you earn and too many personal questions. They enjoyed the time, the company more. And yes, a plate of carrot cake with black sauce sufficed. Don't think too much of what's next... even if it is a rice-rice, satay-satay relationship, no one knows the future. I am no "potato queen" but rather a open minded person, dating guys on a "type" rather than race. Most important is he must click with me in terms of being stable in mind (that means can stay at home cook and eat a simple meal), being kinky at times (to have some fun) and can talk intellectually (about some world affairs, our lives, career, etc). Unfortunately I found it was really tough when I returned overseas to Singapore. Most of the locals are either boring (cannot communicate, only thing they can imagine for a date is go watch movie), or just looking for a sex partner (their version of relationship is more like no need to talk, get together and dark) or looking for 5Cs (ask your job, income, etc). In addition to those factors, Singapore locals aren't well known for their good facial features (which is something I am attracted to). As for the foreigners here, unfortunately they maybe fall in several categories (meaning undateable or i do not see future with them): 1. Angmo expat - here for fun and practically wants to fark everyone ass in the market.2. Malaysians - a lot come here for gold digging (can't blame them as they left their own country to come Singapore to "make it").3. Other 3rd-world country nationals (Pinoys, Indons, PRCs) - also looking for free housing (can stay in your flat to save rental after dating), everything is just temporary arrangement (just like those Vietnam or China wives who will say bye once they get PR status or catch other bigger fish). A lot of gold diggers too. 4. Others (can be any nationalities, normally white collar job in Singapore and can talk intellectually) who get bored of Singapore after a few years and move back to their own country (again no future with them unless u also go there). This is especially true for PRC nationals (the good ones who are not gold digging) who will go back to China as the career opportunities there are much more for them. Of course so far I think the most successful foreigner coupling is with Malaysians (given similar culture and the country is not that far away). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted September 24, 2014 Report Share Posted September 24, 2014 Why not,why limit yourself to just the locals? But is the relationship,should it develop,stay sustainable over a long time? I've met many Japanese whom I developed chemistry with but couldn't stay due to work back home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted September 24, 2014 Report Share Posted September 24, 2014 Not that I won't, but I can't. I'm xenophobic. I can't take anything but a local tongue. No pun intended. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 24, 2014 Report Share Posted September 24, 2014 so you are not the typical disgusting and irritating Singaporean,Malaysian,Hong Kongers,Taiwanese,,Indonesian,Indians,Chinese,etc , you are the rare ones .....How could I leave out pinoys as well .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G_M Posted September 24, 2014 Report Share Posted September 24, 2014 Please stick to the topic title "Would you date a foreigner" The topic about Singpaorean not good BF material have been moved http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=55426 Out of topic post will be removed. Quote http://www.facebook.com/gachimuchi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted September 25, 2014 Report Share Posted September 25, 2014 Some people may think this is stupid, but I'm more of the person who is willing to relocate away from home as the 'foreign bride'.I once dated an Indonesian and really considered the possibility of moving to Java if we got into a serious long term relationship. Reality does hurt when I read about Singaporean women who moved away from home, only to miss home so much that they choose to divorce and move back. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Brendan Posted October 12, 2014 Report Share Posted October 12, 2014 In addition to GM's explaination, some times the Malays called the Caucasians also 'Mat Salleh', I am not sure the reason but one said that in early days most of the seamen arrived in the port, once they stepped off the ships, they went alcohol drinking till drunk and since their behaviour changed and became 'Mad Sailor' and ended up being called "Mat Salleh' In old time Malay people also call Angmoh as Bangali Putih, ( Putih mean white), remember my Indian historic teacher told us this, she said the local people at that time have seen Bangalis but never seen Angmoh before so when they arrived in Malacca, the local just called them Bangali Putih, because Bangali also have Caucasian look but their skin more darken so they are the white version of Bangalis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marriedmly Posted October 21, 2014 Report Share Posted October 21, 2014 a 2-minute meal LOL cute Quote Tall & Mature. Bisexual & Married.Versatile & Hung. Experienced Malay.LINE ID - marriedmly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a_3 Posted October 22, 2014 Report Share Posted October 22, 2014 Anyone here with a thing for Caucasian guys?I'm Asian and I like Caucasians. This is probably due to the fact that I spent a great deal of time in the UK and I still look back fondly on my sexual exploits with the local men.Over here, the bulk of my sex life is with other Asians but that's more due to the paucity of Caucasian gays than anything else.<< Self promoting ad removed by Mod>> malayguy1986 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted October 22, 2014 Report Share Posted October 22, 2014 I have a thing for Caucasians.But most of the time, we don't click for some unknown reason.At gay establishments, I'm always passed over for sticky rice. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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