Guest Ken Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 I am a white guy and similarly i enjoy asian guys. I agree with you that it is not acceptable to speak badly of people because of their preferences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 14 minutes ago, Guest Ken said: I am a white guy and similarly i enjoy asian guys. I agree with you that it is not acceptable to speak badly of people because of their preferences. Any pleasant encounters so far? Do you think that you are in demand compared to your home country? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Malaysia boy Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 I have a very platonic relationship with a European I met through tinder. It was back in March 2015, we were chatting abit and then he called me out for coffee, we went to orchard road for coffee and which is quite touristy for my taste and we talked about a lot of stuff and I guess we developed quite an interest in each other's life. That night we went to botanic garden to watch the scheduled show. We lied there chatting and we decided to call it a night, stupid me asked him maybe I should go back to his place，he said ：'I really want to but I'm not ready to be with a guy' i replied :" it's alright, I'm sorry. No actually I'm not" he told me I shouldn't be. we kept chatting on sms, a few weeks later he asked me out for a beer. We went to Arab street smoked shisha and drank beer, that night I got really drunk and he called me beautiful. First time ever someone calling me beautiful. He told me I could ask him the question again, I told him no and that i didn't want to ruin what we had. We hung out almost every weekend and in the third week of May, he told me he was leaving Singapore and he was sad to leave but he had quitted his job. I was saddened by that very much. the day he left he called me and told me that he enjoyed my company and wished he had at least kissed me. I said :" c'est la vie" about 3 months later he sent me an email asking how i was doing and showed me pictures of his journey through the Balkan with his pals and he told me I should visit Europe soon. how easy was that, 2 weeks later I was in Some square in a European city, as I watched the water fountain splashing, he tapped me on my shoulder. 'hello there' I said 'this is crazy ya' replied. 'ya abit haha I have missed you' 'me too' ohmydexter, roflparadox and suckmegood 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 Yes i do beleive i am in demand more in asia than in my home country. I am 55 yrs old and in good shape non smoker no drugs etc etc. I have found younger asian guys in their 30's like to get with older white guys and i also enjoy their company. Flattering i guess you could say at my age. Anyway i treat them with respect and we all feel good about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ken Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 Forgot to put my name on previous post. I have had great success using Hornet to find asian guys. At home this works well too. If not i have a selection of asian massage guys who enjoy my company and get paid so we all win. Usually the older guys are more willing to try most things whereas young guys can be a bit reluctant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ken Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 The best asian massage guy is malaysian chinese at home who gives the best blow job ever. He loves cum he says. And now gives a rimming too so we are both happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hairy springroll Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 Its hard they always think they more superior and in demand than Asians Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 27, 2016 Report Share Posted April 27, 2016 Perhaps life acts in a strange way. The more you desire for the type of person, the more you wouldn't get him. Perhaps it's time to let go of white men and look for the most suitable one instead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Power Tongue Posted August 30, 2016 Report Share Posted August 30, 2016 No. there are lots of local that are way better than them with harder dick and nice body. However, I'll give exception to Indonesians which I find very attractive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hot Swimmer Posted August 31, 2016 Report Share Posted August 31, 2016 Yes. Indonesian guy with nice feature and fair skin. Can miao like a slut in bed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomThailand Posted September 20, 2016 Report Share Posted September 20, 2016 I was born Caucasian...I had no say in it. I was not born with a body like a god not endowed like a porn star...I am not rich. I didn't choose anything about how I looked or build...am just am who I am! Some people like me...some love me...and some most likely hate me. Such is life! I like some people and love others....I don't hate people - even when they do me wrong. I don't force my life on other people - but sometimes people try to force their thoughts, likes, hates and loves onto me. That's their way of doing things - I am different - and they are different - and that, really, is quite ok. None of us had a choice as to where to who we were born too. Its just nature and the way it is I am certainly don't think I am any lesser nor greater than anyone else...even of others think that, I don't. I like all persons (well at least until they do me wrong)....but I don't believe some long-ago defined borderline should define us - because in the end we are all peoples of the human race...and some of us are nice and some not so nice...and this has nothing to do with the colour of our skin or where we were born. I am attracted to people who are at least attracted to me...regardless of their race....and if they are not attracted to me, then its all ok Apologies: Sorry I just wanted to speak on behalf of me - as so many replies here seem quite heated about who should like who but in the end, what does it matter who we like? if you like a guy and they like you - then what a nice thing that is....but we should not criticise others for liking something or someone different to what we ourselves like . I hope everyone finds someone that they can become a lifelong friend with G_M 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jason Posted January 31, 2017 Report Share Posted January 31, 2017 Can you just share your opinion/experiences with white people ? Sagui_32 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
potato Posted February 1, 2017 Report Share Posted February 1, 2017 I generally find some of them are okay and I do have some genuine white friends myself. Nothing sexual but just friendship. As they're spoiled with choices, some are terrible white trash. Long story short, just be careful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allegro Posted February 1, 2017 Report Share Posted February 1, 2017 My preferences changed as I get older. It used to be caucasians and indians (influenced by porn perhaps) as they seemed hairy and more "manly". But now I'm purely attracted to only Chinese men, being chinese myself I guess it makes sense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doddysapta Posted February 2, 2017 Report Share Posted February 2, 2017 My preference is east-asian men, so when I moved in to Japan, I was like a kid in a candy/toy store. But recently I have a crush on my caucasian colleague. Because of him, I started to be able to see the attractiveness of caucasian men. My preference is still Japanese men though, so he is the only exception Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted February 2, 2017 Report Share Posted February 2, 2017 (edited) Do what she does My bf is caucasian. Race really hasn't been much of an issue though some cultural things do sometimes cause problems and I have to explain to him and vice versa. Edited February 2, 2017 by doncoin Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armitage Posted February 3, 2017 Report Share Posted February 3, 2017 mainly chinese but i guess if a caucasian guy or for any other race is attractive enough or your 'type' i don't think it will affect your choice much lol anyway this poll choices too extreme Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 This Asian man says he only dates white guys because they are ‘the gold standard of desirability’ By Graham Gremore “I really feel the white race is the superior one today,” Alexander Montgomery says. “I only date white men.” The 42-year-old is originally from Singapore but now lives in Melbourne. He is the author of the book True Confessions of a Potato Queen, which he says is the “the definitive textbook for any aspiring potato queen,” and recently appeared on the Australian reality show Date My Race where he discussed his zero tolerance policy for any race other than Caucasian. Montgomery says he’s dated other races in the past, but a nearly 20 year relationship with a white guy has led him to believe that “once you go white, nothing else seems right.” “To me white people are the epitome of class and the gold standard of desirability,” he says, adding that he knows “a lot of Asian guys who are like me.” Related: Bottom Shame With A Side Of “No Asian”: A Message For All You Racist Grindr Users Out There “How often do you see Asian guys and white guys together in public?” he says. “They’re everywhere. … Everyone goes, ‘nah, I’m open to date all races,’ but that’s a lie, you know, it’s not true.” Montgomery understands that some people may consider his views racist, self-hating even, but he doesn’t care. “Yes, my view is controversial however this is my standard and I stand behind my opinions,” he insists. He continues: “The definition of racism is someone who believes their race is superior. I don’t think other races are inferior to me–only that the white race is superior to me. Besides it’s not racism, it’s a preference, I am attracted to white guys. Do you call someone who doesn’t date tall people heightist?” Montgomery also believes that white privilege is a myth and says that Asian men who feel discriminated against where they live should move somewhere else. “You don’t like it here,” he says, “then leave.” As for finding true love, Montgomery says he’s still searching for his soulmate, saying the his only criteria are that the guy is easy-going, confident in himself, and, of course, white. Related: If your dating profile says “No Asians” then you’re a “trash gay,” Korean comedian says Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pinkerton exposer Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 that potato queen should take a good look at himself , and see the true self of why he is a worshiper of white males, and why as an Asian man himself , he should be placed below a white man, he should really ask himself if he places other asian men as below white man, he himself is below a white man and then ask himself is he comfortable to be placed in that position. I myself do not want to place a white man above me and neither do I want to place myself below a white man. I am Chinese and I understand how a Chinese view the world , what is our place in the universe, and it is not necessarily below anyone, This Pinkerton Asian is ashamed of his own roots and he cannot connect with his own asian identity and he wants to be a second class or third class citizen in Australia. This person can only act strong only when he is tagged along with a giant ang moh tiger, so without the ang moh tiger he is nothing , right. I can bet you that this guy , looking the way he is , will end up with an old, pot bellied, bald ugly, hairy guy. But of course , he is not telling the whole truth, he has a small tiny asian cock and his onl criteria is the ang moh must have a big 7to 10 inches cock fwb2015 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pinkerton Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 = ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pinkerton Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 A big FAT Potato Queen, if you ask me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pinkerton Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 this is being positive about liking someone, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Sometimes our choice of words and the tone we say those words makes us sound like a racist when we are not.... Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 I cannot write my standard rant against racism here, because I am a white male, and nothing would make me happier than being the gold standard of desirability for all Asians Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atlas Star Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 I don't know about the queen part but he does look like a potato. tinkero 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyo74 Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Asian who think white guys is gold standard is getting lesser nowadays actually. In colony days where white were the master and other races were the slaves where the other races were often taught they were inferior so that other races will remain obedient as slave to them. Nowadays media like movies and tv shows most of the time always show white as the main hero and they get the fittest and most handsome to do the show making other races looks very inferior. Media always have a big effect on people so there will always be a potato queen. There are also cartoons like the angels in white colour while the devil in black colour also affecting people minds since kids time. In Singapore is not the case as can see many would prefer chinese. I believe this is due to chinese majority race in singapore as most people would prefer their own race due to language constraint and culture. Singapore is also a multi racial culture so i believe singaporeans are more accepting of other races than countries that dont have much of other races. Those who like whites most probably have already migrated to white majority countries if they have the financial means. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyo74 Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 From the first picture being posted we can clearly see the person is effeminate and does not look fit versus in tv shows where whites were the 6 packs lean fit super heroes. We can clearly see which is the gold standard most people have in mind. Most of the clear headed people definately not going to compare him as other races against the 6 packs lean fit white super heroes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hulijing Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 真的是 狐 假 虎 威。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 No matter how potato queen, still a banana. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hulijing Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 真的是 狐狸精 转世 再投胎。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest haw haw Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 39 minutes ago, Steve5380 said: I cannot write my standard rant against racism here, because I am a white male, and nothing would make me happier than being the gold standard of desirability for all Asians reverse racism, LOL. You seemed to be stuck in your own trap of reverse racism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mansoar Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Though I do not agree with his views, but there will always be people with different views and preferences. His choice, his life. And actually, it's just not potato queens who are like this. There are parents who are so proud of their daughters dating Caucasians, and must parade them in front of everyone else during CNY and other occasions. Or even try to organise gatherings just to "introduce" the white guy. Isn't this white supremacism too? With the Kpop phenomenon, I won't be surprised that there are Korean supremacism too... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 There was one holiday where I was in Australia, and my taxi driver, who's originally from Africa, was telling me how a lot of girls from his home country would only date Arab or white men because they see such men as superior to the local African men. He then said that very often, after these Sarong Party African girls have left Africa to follow their white/Arab male lover, they come back to Africa with their hearts broken and scarred. And then, that's when they finally start to date the local African men. "To them," he say, "I give them this." And he proceeded to show his middle finger. Anyway, my point is that white surpriority is a myth. As someone wisely and rightly pointed out above, the idea that whites are superior is an outdated idea among Asians. We Asians who are educated and well-travelled will know that whatever social problems that plague the non-white races are also found among whites. If some Asian guy or girl thinks that dating and marrying a white man will give them a fairytale life, they need to be a little bit more mature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camus Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 i would only date within my own race and i'm asian. i don't like white guys at all. Samezuka and mate69 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Calm down Queens Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Don't get mad. It's just his opinion. we all have one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Very Angry Queen speak out Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 I can't believe it. I thought he looks good, for daring to say what he just said. Really, which white man prefer this piece of shit, is beyond my imagination to think about. I guessed that he is an outcast from Asian circle, which I believed partly because Asian has higher taste than this piece of drag shit. Anyway, I hope he get what he wanted - a thick long white dick up his ass and that will be good. Hemnes and Samezuka 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Maybe his standard of white men is not high ..because he does not look good at all too not fit not hunky just plain Asian ordinary looking .. So he will just settle for any White men with big banana regardless of look or body . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingbitch Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 3 hours ago, yoyo74 said: Asian who think white guys is gold standard is getting lesser nowadays actually. In colony days where white were the master and other races were the slaves where the other races were often taught they were inferior so that other races will remain obedient as slave to them. Nowadays media like movies and tv shows most of the time always show white as the main hero and they get the fittest and most handsome to do the show making other races looks very inferior. Media always have a big effect on people so there will always be a potato queen. There are also cartoons like the angels in white colour while the devil in black colour also affecting people minds since kids time. In Singapore is not the case as can see many would prefer chinese. I believe this is due to chinese majority race in singapore as most people would prefer their own race due to language constraint and culture. Singapore is also a multi racial culture so i believe singaporeans are more accepting of other races than countries that dont have much of other races. Those who like whites most probably have already migrated to white majority countries if they have the financial means. These days, it's very rare for people around me to particularly admire the Caucasian race. As a matter of fact there is a greater tendency to admire the Koreans and the Japanese. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Asian Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Because these asian thrash look at the whites through rose tinted glasses. Wait till their white thrash bf bring them home to their white ghetto then they see the harsh reality that few whites are rich. Then they meet those filthy white thrash of the neighborhood, then they want to cry. That's why now the west are so anti-internationalism because there are too many white thrash so angry that Asians are taking away their jobs. They still think it's their white privilege to have high pay and good life. But reality is that their honeymoon days are already over and now to compete against the Asians on level ground. Their potato queens are just as stuck in the past as these white thrash are. The rest of us Asians just roll up our sleeves and work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Asians Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 4 hours ago, CKW said: There was one holiday where I was in Australia, and my taxi driver, who's originally from Africa, was telling me how a lot of girls from his home country would only date Arab or white men because they see such men as superior to the local African men. He then said that very often, after these Sarong Party African girls have left Africa to follow their white/Arab male lover, they come back to Africa with their hearts broken and scarred. And then, that's when they finally start to date the local African men. "To them," he say, "I give them this." And he proceeded to show his middle finger. Anyway, my point is that white surpriority is a myth. As someone wisely and rightly pointed out above, the idea that whites are superior is an outdated idea among Asians. We Asians who are educated and well-travelled will know that whatever social problems that plague the non-white races are also found among whites. If some Asian guy or girl thinks that dating and marrying a white man will give them a fairytale life, they need to be a little bit more mature. Well said!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgmaven Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Look at the guy! He does not even want to carry his own father's surname, choosing an English surname Montgomery! That show the amount of Asian pride he has. Quote Слава Україні! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snapplejacked2 Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Well... what's his definition of desirability? Genetics? Culture? Wealth? Does the white man appeal to his senses of financial security? Or maybe he finds the white man superior in appearance? Maybe the white man's culture has made him a much more attentive partner? Even I were to disagree, if he could just mention why he feels the he feels, you can still sort of go "Ok yeah I get it... but he's still an ass" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 On my first date with this guy, he was gracious enough to buy me a drink. Only then i realised he was actually unemployed (found a job later). I was very touched by his generosity - and he's an Asian. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 As 'alternative fact'..Most asians have better standards and rejected the reject. I understand some of us are sexually attracted to a race.thats fine. But this reject does think Whites are better as a human kind than asians..now that crosses the line. But whatever...wish him well and hope he finds happiness with the type of white men who lust/love him. I wonder is his partner the Hemsworth brothers type of Piers Morgan type. Your guess is as good as mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 8 hours ago, Steve5380 said: I cannot write my standard rant against racism here, because I am a white male, and nothing would make me happier than being the gold standard of desirability for all Asians Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 Here we go again. Let's talk about race..... again. First, this guy doesn't even deserve an article. Everybody is different. It's not about what it is nowadays and if asians now prefer asians vs before. It's just that some people click differently with some than others. No one should be offended, no one should care. No one is superior or below. I have seen great asian and white guys, I have seen true a***holes everywhere as well. So stop caring some much about race Singapore and open your mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 do we really need to care what he likes and what he thinks? just wish him good luck for his searching and we have our life, we live, and are moved, and are... iamziz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limpeh Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 10 hours ago, Steve5380 said: I cannot write my standard rant against racism here, because I am a white male, and nothing would make me happier than being the gold standard of desirability for all Asians I'm sure you'd know by now from social media discourse that it isn't socially desirable to affirm your own #whiteprivilege. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted March 2, 2017 Report Share Posted March 2, 2017 7 hours ago, limpeh said: I'm sure you'd know by now from social media discourse that it isn't socially desirable to affirm your own #whiteprivilege. WHAT white privilege? I am no superior to anyone, and for me whites are no different from any other race. The superiority of whites in power and wealth is circumstantial. The superiority in education is vanishing fast, if it has not vanished already. But, if being white brings some advantage among cute Singaporean gays, I AM ALL FOR IT NOTE: It's not ME who feels so about the "white", I may be just a beneficiary Will you call me "racist" because my love goes mostly to Asians and I don't care much for white boys? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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