Discussion on Bisexual + Bi share their stories + What Is Straight Acting Bi Curious Exactly? (compiled)

[SeekAguy]

In a nutshell:

 

BULL'S EYE

[greenph76]

Im married. I've let a guy sucked me before.. but I am in no way attracted to him at all, be it sexually, physically or whatever is it..

I just enjoy the pleasure that comes from the blowjob. So what does that make me?

seems you are still considered as having bisexual tendencies

coz why seek guy

and since you enjoy the blowjob from the guy then means you're sexually attracted it'to a certain level, 'sexually' doesnt just mean vaginal/anal penetration

p.s. nice dick btw haha

[SeekAguy]

seems this is a common misconception ive observed from many profiles ive seen in apps and chats with other guys

Yes it is common misconception. There are also bi-bottoms out there.

For me this is an interesting discussion.

When I first intro myself to BW, I wrote the following intro post:

A young man contacted me and then that same night I was off to meet him, so eager I was to actually have my fantasies fulfilled. There we sucked each other, 69'ed, and I wanted him inside me but both of us decided against it for lack of protection.

So up until last night I'm still pretty uncertain whether I'd identify myself as "bi-curious". Then last night I posted this:

Notice here that I identified myself as a potential bottom.

I met up with a gentleman whom I shall not name. Again it was the same as the previous encounter - I was eager to meet up with him soon after that post, so he came over to pick me up, and then we went to his house, where we 69'ed, but again no rear-end action.

Getting to the point of what I wanna say, in both encounters I felt horny but I didn't have the urge to cum. The second guy made this probably correct observation of me, that I'm simply curious, NOT bi-curious.

So here you have this blurfuck noob who doesn't know what he wants, except simply to has his secret desires fulfilled. Not sure if anyone here is like me, just throwing it out there.

Cheers!

Don't worry about it. I've encountered a few married closetted bi like you. It is a sexual fantasy and desire that begs to be fulfilled, but at the same time, there are a lot of reservation and uncertainty. Perhaps the time is not right yet. If it happens, it happens. Just let it cum(pun) naturally. Edited December 6, 2015 by SeekAguy

[Guest Guest]

My ex colleague, a str8 guy who is getting married when I were in the company. When gog out with him him, always see him n his fiancee holding hands, kissing, so loving.

Went out drinking with him on a weekend when his fiancee was away for work trip. We talk abt relationship with girls( he didn't know I m gay). We talk n talk until he told me he actually curious in man to man sex, ask me if I m curious abt tat. So I act act replied him "actually abit". He then say "oei, wan try anot?". I act blur replied "u sure anot, u must be kidding man! U dare I dare!". He replied again saying he dare but is a one time deal, after trying case closed! I told him I don't mind trying but where? He said his hse so he drove me to his place.

In his car he told me he wan to be the one screwing me, so I say OK I don't mind. Upon reaching his studio apt, I went shower first, after done I came out wrapping with towel then he went in to take his. I sit at the sofa waiting for him to finish(feeling excited but also anxious). After he is done he came out totally naked, OMG... I really slowly went hard down below. He ask me if I m ready n so i removed my towel n we proceed to bed. He saw my hard dick n say 'wah..bro u so fast horny ar?" I smile n say let start, I grab his cock stroke it till hard, hug, toss n turn on bed kissing. I can sense tat he feel uneasy at first, but slowly slowly he enjoy the arousal n everything were history. After tat night he acted as nothing happened...very steady.

[Guest Sucker]

Im married. I've let a guy sucked me before.. but I am in no way attracted to him at all, be it sexually, physically or whatever is it..

I just enjoy the pleasure that comes from the blowjob. So what does that make me?

Pleasure Seeker. This type usually just pushed your head away after cumming and never look back.

[lovehandle]

Does a bi / married guy bother to dress up with sexy underwear for his wife(not for his the other "half" or gay buddies or for his extra rendezvous) but for his wife?

are your wife attracted to those sexy  undies?








 

[daniu]

For me this is an interesting discussion.

 

When I first intro myself to BW, I wrote the following intro post:

 

 

 

A young man contacted me and then that same night I was off to meet him, so eager I was to actually have my fantasies fulfilled. There we sucked each other, 69'ed, and I wanted him inside me but both of us decided against it for lack of protection.

 

So up until last night I'm still pretty uncertain whether I'd identify myself as "bi-curious". Then last night I posted this:

 

 

 

Notice here that I identified myself as a potential bottom.

 

I met up with a gentleman whom I shall not name. Again it was the same as the previous encounter - I was eager to meet up with him soon after that post, so he came over to pick me up, and then we went to his house, where we 69'ed, but again no rear-end action.

 

Getting to the point of what I wanna say, in both encounters I felt horny but I didn't have the urge to cum. The second guy made this probably correct observation of me, that I'm simply curious, NOT bi-curious.

 

So here you have this blurfuck noob who doesn't know what he wants, except simply to has his secret desires fulfilled. Not sure if anyone here is like me, just throwing it out there.

 

Cheers!

 

Hi bro, think i'm in the same boat as u r i guess...

thanks for the enlightenment.... 

[lovehandle]

Straight men? how to behave straight when in your "other worlds" (when gays have to act straight in dramas/movies)

 

 

[doncoin]

If a guy is "straight acting..." it would imply that when he is not "acting" and being himself, he really is a limp-wristed, high pitched, campy queen. Not that there is anything wrong with that. He is who he is. Hence for that person, he is acting in a certain manner that conforms to society's expectations and norms of a heterosexual male.

 

Bi-Curious simply is just a way to make it more palatable to himself and others that he is still into girls but he wants to do it with guys. 

 

The confusion comes the fact that he actually enjoyed the blowjob. How can something that feels so good be bad? It probably is due to the lack of self-acceptance. The "straight acting" the "bi-curious" labels... just be gay. 

 

[Guest Theeka]

On 3/26/2019 at 2:02 PM, lovehandle said:

Straight men? how to behave straight when in your "other worlds" (when gays have to act straight in dramas/movies)

 

 

 

I've been in a wheelchair for the past 25 years of my life without any hopes of regaining my walking ability. I saw my friend watching this yesterday and I stood up for the first time to turn it off. Thank you so much you've made my dreams come true

[Guest guest]

A friend intro me to a married couple in their 40s. The husband wanted me to fxxk his wife while his wife is sucking his cock. After I m done with his wife, the wife wanted to watch her husband fxxk me raw. Ok...since we are on prep. Seriously, after her husband ejaculated in me, she wanted to see those cum dripping out from my hole (as evidence). After seeing, she went off to the bathroom to have her shower. The husband was sitting on bed wiping his still hard cock with tissue while i m lying on the bed with my legs spread opened wiping my hole. When I ask the husband can I use the toilet in the kitchen to wash up, he suddenly rolled himself on top of me and started kissing me. We kissed mouth to mouth passionately and soon he penetrated me again. He told me he was still horny because he took viagra earlier. He shot 2nd time into me just before his wife done with her shower.

 

 

 

[Chi-dude]

Any bi ?

[OneTwoFunk]

I'm bi_curious married, have tried 3some with my wife & a ladyboy. We got excited after watching gay performance. Instead of booking a gay, we opt for a ladyboy. My wife doesn't feel comfortable with a guy, as it's our first sexual adventure. Had abt 90mins fun, (foreplay & shower together). Wife cuckolded & I topped him (my 1st experience). Both of us enjoyed it. Plan to have 3some with a gay /guy. 

Then I became a Vers by accident, as I was teasing & trying to coax me to top me during manhood & prostate massages. Voila! Without hesitation, he finger-fuck & top me & the outcome was so pleasurable, that i changed my perception, which I prefers to be more bottom than top.

All these fun were not planned but out of curiosity. 

Still I'm into girls but want to do it with guys (MMF).

[golf]

34 minutes ago, OneTwoFunk said:

I'm bi_curious married, have tried 3some with my wife & a ladyboy. We got excited after watching gay performance. Instead of booking a gay, we opt for a ladyboy. My wife doesn't feel comfortable with a guy, as it's our first sexual adventure. Had abt 90mins fun, (foreplay & shower together). Wife cuckolded & I topped him (my 1st experience). Both of us enjoyed it. Plan to have 3some with a gay /guy. 

Then I became a Vers by accident, as I was teasing & trying to coax me to top me during manhood & prostate massages. Voila! Without hesitation, he finger-fuck & top me & the outcome was so pleasurable, that i changed my perception, which I prefers to be more bottom than top.

All these fun were not planned but out of curiosity. 

Still I'm into girls but want to do it with guys (MMF).

This is one of my ultimate fantasy... 

You are such a lucky guy!!!

[OneTwoFunk]

6 minutes ago, golf said:

This is one of my ultimate fantasy... 

You are such a lucky guy!!!

Need more convincing & understanding. Try something kinky with her first; sexy lingerie & some stunts at (secluded) public places or balcony.  BUT unfortunately she doesn't want to MFF, wont allow me to fk any girls but ok with guys.

[golf]

16 minutes ago, OneTwoFunk said:

Need more convincing & understanding. Try something kinky with her first; sexy lingerie & some stunts at (secluded) public places or balcony.  BUT unfortunately she doesn't want to MFF, wont allow me to fk any girls but ok with guys.

 

Wah... Public place is on my list as well 🤭

 

Actually, I'm not keen on MFF.. Beside the obvious reason, another reason is that no matter how many F, we still have only one shot, after that, it is game over... 😅

[singalion]

22 hours ago, golf said:

 

Wah... Public place is on my list as well 🤭

 

Actually, I'm not keen on MFF.. Beside the obvious reason, another reason is that no matter how many F, we still have only one shot, after that, it is game over... 😅

 

Game over?

 

hm...

 

 

[Cosmo guy]

On 12/11/2015 at 7:57 AM, lovehandle said:

Does a bi / married guy bother to dress up with sexy underwear for his wife(not for his the other "half" or gay buddies or for his extra rendezvous) but for his wife?

are your wife attracted to those sexy  undies?








 

Subjective answer, is depends on your wife interest 

[Cosmo guy]

On 4/24/2023 at 1:41 PM, OneTwoFunk said:

Need more convincing & understanding. Try something kinky with her first; sexy lingerie & some stunts at (secluded) public places or balcony.  BUT unfortunately she doesn't want to MFF, wont allow me to fk any girls but ok with guys.

 i guess with guy, she feel more secure and also on her benefit to watch another guy, so may end up she got 2 guys

[OneTwoFunk]

1 hour ago, Cosmo guy said:

 i guess with guy, she feel more secure and also on her benefit to watch another guy, so may end up she got 2 guys

Yes & selfish also. She won't enjoyed much if it's MFF. 

With MMF, she can have her funs with different dicks & excitements. 

[Guest Kian Ann]

At first I thought I am straight and I married my wife and have children but in the past few years I started to develop sexual interests on men and I would like to target some guys in my workplace but I don't know if they are into gay sex.

 

End up I have to resolve my gay sexual urge on those stranger guys cruising in the toilet.

 

I still remembered the 1st time I did gay sex in which I top the toilet cruiser at Funan 1st floor. I would say that it was a fond experience and that guy was quite cute. :-)

[Guest confused]

21 minutes ago, OneTwoFunk said:

Yes & selfish also. She won't enjoyed much if it's MFF. 

With MMF, she can have her funs with different dicks & excitements. 

 

 Your wife doesnt mind you being fucked by a guy? wow..for a woman to see her her husband being fucked and dominated like that can cause some ......

[OneTwoFunk]

4 minutes ago, Guest confused said:

 

 Your wife doesnt mind you being fucked by a guy? wow..for a woman to see her her husband being fucked and dominated like that can cause some ......

I'm Bi_Top at that time. I fucked the guy, not being fucked, and she loved it. But no DP. 

[Guest Daddy1]

Pan, lived most life straight. Have had ladyboys, CDs, guys gals all as partners… I think sex with guys is best. Very intense, fewer hangups, and I find many guys super hot.
 

MMF is a fantasy I cant wait to live out

re sexy underwear with gf/wife, I’ve met women who told me guys in them are gay (ie turnoff) but jocks are a huge fetish for me. Andrew Christian a personal hero haha

[Guest confused]

On 4/24/2023 at 12:53 PM, OneTwoFunk said:

I'm bi_curious married, have tried 3some with my wife & a ladyboy. We got excited after watching gay performance. Instead of booking a gay, we opt for a ladyboy. My wife doesn't feel comfortable with a guy, as it's our first sexual adventure. Had abt 90mins fun, (foreplay & shower together). Wife cuckolded & I topped him (my 1st experience). Both of us enjoyed it. Plan to have 3some with a gay /guy. 

Then I became a Vers by accident, as I was teasing & trying to coax me to top me during manhood & prostate massages. Voila! Without hesitation, he finger-fuck & top me & the outcome was so pleasurable, that i changed my perception, which I prefers to be more bottom than top.

All these fun were not planned but out of curiosity. 

Still I'm into girls but want to do it with guys (MMF).

 but here you said you prefer to be more bottom?..u enjoyed being fucked..u said outcome was so pleasurable...

[singalion]

20 hours ago, Guest Kian Ann said:

At first I thought I am straight and I married my wife and have children but in the past few years I started to develop sexual interests on men and I would like to target some guys in my workplace but I don't know if they are into gay sex.

 

End up I have to resolve my gay sexual urge on those stranger guys cruising in the toilet.

 

I still remembered the 1st time I did gay sex in which I top the toilet cruiser at Funan 1st floor. I would say that it was a fond experience and that guy was quite cute. 🙂

 

But had you been sexually aroused by men before you got married?

 

 

[OneTwoFunk]

1 hour ago, Guest confused said:

 but here you said you prefer to be more bottom?..u enjoyed being fucked..u said outcome was so pleasurable...

It was few year later after that, when I went for manhood & prostate massage alone. Got horny during the session, I teased & coaxed to top me, then became a Vers. Was planning to have MMF again, with me as a btm. But unfortunately, COVID strikes. 

 

[Guest confused]

41 minutes ago, OneTwoFunk said:

It was few year later after that, when I went for manhood & prostate massage alone. Got horny during the session, I teased & coaxed to top me, then became a Vers. Was planning to have MMF again, with me as a btm. But unfortunately, COVID strikes. 

 

ohh i see...thanks for sharing...do let us know how it goes and good luck...

[OneTwoFunk]

8 minutes ago, Guest confused said:

ohh i see...thanks for sharing...do let us know how it goes and good luck...

👌

[bubblebuttstraight]

I'm confused too on what am I.

 

Truthfully I don't find men sexually attractive in any way. I would also prefer not to touch the guys I have fun with.

 

And truthfully I just enjoy a good blow. I don't care if it's a guy or a girl. I just closed my eyes, enjoy and let the volcano erupt.