Guest Major Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Hi all, I'm in a little bit confusion now. I'm 25 and I met a younger guy online. He claimed to be 20 when we chat in an app. After awhile, we get closed to each others and I myself thought I wanted to have r/ship with him. But, very recently he opened up to me and told me he is still 15, going to 16 this year. My conscience told me to get away from this, but my heart could not. What you guys think I should do? I felt some conflict inside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post KENZ Posted July 28, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Please let this one go for now... If anything happens (e.g. If his parents found out), you will be on the losing end. yhtang, bluerunner, honhon and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AaA Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Does he, a 15-going-16, look like 20 to you? You better NOT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CamperBoy Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Still 15. You have been dating. Pretty sure you kissed or had some kind of intimacy with him. Regardless if it's consensual, you have broken the law. Goodbye. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cute Boi Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Not good to break a boi boi heart. Just remain to him as a big bro but keep in my he is underage and don't do anything foolish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Asking Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Question: If the 15yo restraint and then rape TS, will TS be charge for having sex with a minor? Or the 15yo be charge for raping a 25yo TS? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackomaki Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Just now, Guest Asking said: Question: If the 15yo restraint and then rape TS, will TS be charge for having sex with a minor? Or the 15yo be charge for raping a 25yo TS? Maybe still an outrage of modesty somehow? don't know how the law would work in this way. But yeah like what everyone else has shared, it's safer to wait a couple more years before going ahead. stay as friends first bah Cooking is my passion. Music is my life. Reading is my sanity. Bitching about you keeps me happy. "People fear because of a lack of understanding, and a lack of understanding comes from a lack of proper communication on both parties, so to resolve fear we need to first resolve communication" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 18 in 3 years Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 otokonoko, Gregtey and Carpenter 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GachiMuchi Posted July 28, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Let me play the devil's advocate. I am not going to encourage TS with nice words like you guys. Let count the few examples of what happened to men who have sex with minor. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Anything with a minors NEVER ends up good. Lets hope we won't see your pic on the newspaper or evening news anytime soon. Willy, max001, armitage and 3 others 6 http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bored Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 also hor 15 yo boy maybe still unsure or curious, maybe just treat you like a close brother maybe a few years time he might have gf liao! Dommaster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Make sure no sex, whether he consent you or not u also die! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 111 Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Unless you are a woman, stay away from minors! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 i alway say no..... wait for him another 3 year let him concentrate his studying cool down if your is will alway be yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpenter Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Be a good n wiser guy. If u wanted to date him, wait for 3more years. N meanwhile u can be his big bro with no sexual contact. If he decided he cant wait, n date another guy before he is 18, well, just let it go then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grystn Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 He started a relationship with you with a lie. Enough said. Do you expect any form of honesty from here on? mate69 and songiez 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mandala Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Good luck! *snigger Already you know he's 15 and still contemplating!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 25yo Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 3 hours ago, Guest Asking said: Question: If the 15yo restraint and then rape TS, will TS be charge for having sex with a minor? Or the 15yo be charge for raping a 25yo TS? First, there is no such thing as rape between men in the eye of the law. Second, a minor can't be charged in court for committing a criminal offence . Third, 25yo TS will properly be charged for instigating and encouraging a minor to commit an unnatural sex act on him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 25yo Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 2 hours ago, Guest 111 said: Unless you are a woman, stay away from minors! Nowadays, there are many cases of adult women abusing and seducing young boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Seriously getting yourself in BIG trouble. Who are you trying to kid here? There is nothing to think about. Either this is a troll or someone stupid enough to use his brain. Don't use other people's stories as an excuse, use their stories to wake yourself up. bluerunner 1 ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Pls come to your senses TS! Haven't you read enough from Newspapers about the consequences ？ Mod GM has already churned out one whole list for you to wake up before you get into trouble ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Willing to be Unwilling Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 If his parent found out, your big photo will be flashed across all the news in Singapore. Which parents will forgive you for "doing" on their precious child even if that young fresh is willing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hairy springroll Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Just be friend no sex or anything or else kiss your ass bye Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traveler Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 (edited) If you play with puppies, you sure to get bitten. Given the immaturity of young gay guys here you also have to take into account the possibility of him blackmailing or reporting you if you make him upset. Cannot claim in court that you didn't know he was below age and he lied about his age. My advice, like everyone else above: AVOID AVOID AVOID Edited July 28, 2016 by Traveler grammar Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThePineapple Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 (edited) I would wait out for 3 years before officially get him as boyfriend (That is if he didn't have a change of heart in the 3 years) It's a good test of time Edited July 28, 2016 by ThePineapple gayboysgx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gc0805 Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Mate, you must listen to the bwers here, esp GM who has been very kind to take the time to list you a few cases in the past. The law is very very clear on this. It's definite jail time and possible caning if you are caught having sex with a minor. Walk away. Don't let this ruin your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tonykoh Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 At this age hormones raging uncontrollably , if have sex Liao 死了. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atropine Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 12 hours ago, Guest Major said: Hi all, I'm in a little bit confusion now. I'm 25 and I met a younger guy online. He claimed to be 20 when we chat in an app. After awhile, we get closed to each others and I myself thought I wanted to have r/ship with him. But, very recently he opened up to me and told me he is still 15, going to 16 this year. My conscience told me to get away from this, but my heart could not. What you guys think I should do? I felt some conflict inside. check his nric lah dude... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 ROFL, I couldn't stop laughing at some of the dudes here who're telling TS to wait 3 years for the kid; It's like telling him to celibate for 3 years. How many of you guys here can actually pull that off? Joke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 I am also very confused as to why you find it cnfusng. It is a no brainier as what everyone is telling you. Even if you are dating he can also claim you harass him. It is your words vs his. It happened before.2010 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 You will be marked as a sex offender and that record stays with you for the rest of your life. You may be barred from entering some countries because of the record. Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tonykoh Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 41 minutes ago, Glyph said: ROFL, I couldn't stop laughing at some of the dudes here who're telling TS to wait 3 years for the kid; It's like telling him to celibate for 3 years. How many of you guys here can actually pull that off? Joke. ROFL. Who the hell says he need to be celibate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 (edited) Let look at this from another point of view. He like you and you like him. sure it is just the sexual attraction of good friendship growing into some more but if it is LOVE why not wait? Now... if you want to do something now and you don't want to cultivate a good relation to see if it will work out if you are both looking for a relation..then what if something happens? You want out... he does not or have you as his part time sugar daddy? For whatever reason, he does not want to stop...and since you really want to end it for whatever reason.. what's to stop him from threatening you or blackmail you? He could be devious in the way or premeditated or he really likes you a lot and does not want to see you two stop the relationship. Rotan and Jail time is nothing to sneeze about hor. And so it being blackmailed or threaten and you have to live with it just because you thinking with your heart or really you are thinking with your cock? And the attraction of a young sweet looking boy? Edited July 28, 2016 by upshot gc0805 1 ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 2 hours ago, Guest Tonykoh said: ROFL. Who the hell says he need to be celibate. Aiseh, and you expect the kid to be there for you 3 years later. Come, I clap for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest :-( Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 TS there are plenty of gays out there 15yo's hair not even finished growing........ and he must really looked chao lao FluteGuan 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 21 hours ago, CamperBoy said: Still 15. You have been dating. Pretty sure you kissed or had some kind of intimacy with him. Regardless if it's consensual, you have broken the law. Goodbye. I think at least half of those secondary school students should be in jail then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
numchucks Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 have u even checked if the 15 yo want to have a relationship with u? the young ones r not as innocent as they paint themselves to be... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdanbeam Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 21 minutes ago, numchucks said: have u even checked if the 15 yo want to have a relationship with u? the young ones r not as innocent as they paint themselves to be... Lol. Once you are milked dry, or of no more value, you're ditched. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 (edited) 爱有如一把火，可以取暖，也可以被烫伤更会自焚，三思。 Edited July 29, 2016 by snowball Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 全部的男人都死光了，只剩这嫩草. 清醒吧! FluteGuan 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 Sex with minors remains a prosecutable offence, if found out, even after they are of legal age. KENZ 1 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caindukkershannery Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 I say stay away from this one. You don't want no trouble. It's not worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FluteGuan Posted July 31, 2016 Report Share Posted July 31, 2016 On Friday, July 29, 2016 at 1:16 PM, fab said: Sex with minors remains a prosecutable offence, if found out, even after they are of legal age. Sex with males too la. Deh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FluteGuan Posted July 31, 2016 Report Share Posted July 31, 2016 On Friday, July 29, 2016 at 11:45 AM, Guest Guest said: 全部的男人都死光了，只剩这嫩草. 清醒吧! 春风吹又生 siol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FluteGuan Posted July 31, 2016 Report Share Posted July 31, 2016 On Friday, July 29, 2016 at 3:07 AM, Guest :-( said: TS there are plenty of gays out there 15yo's hair not even finished growing........ and he must really looked chao lao Nowadays 15 yo hair not fully grown meh? With better nutrition maybe hairy even lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 31, 2016 Report Share Posted July 31, 2016 25 minutes ago, FluteGuan said: Sex with males too la. Deh... But it is not actively prosecuted unless he goes round spreading his stds. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raywongx Posted August 1, 2016 Report Share Posted August 1, 2016 On 28 July 2016 at 1:56 PM, Guest 25yo said: First, there is no such thing as rape between men in the eye of the law. Second, a minor can't be charged in court for committing a criminal offence . Third, 25yo TS will properly be charged for instigating and encouraging a minor to commit an unnatural sex act on him. This is not correct. 1. The Penal Code has been amended. There is, in fact, an offence of 'male rape' now, called 'sexual assault by penetration'. 2. Minors can and have been charged for various Offences, generally in the Juvenile Court. 3. Yes, TS could be charged for abetment if it's the 15 year old who initiates the deed. That being said, I would suggest a platonic relationship with no sexual intimacy. Or just be friends. Then see what happens when he grows up. Sexual encounters with minors is just wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TeWolf Posted August 1, 2016 Report Share Posted August 1, 2016 When I was about 25, I did encounter the same situation. A 16 year old boy likes me very very very much. He knows that he's gay, very clear that he wants man. He's in some sort of student organisation and I was one of those "old boys" helping out and mentoring the group. Being the mentor, I am very clear that at no time I should get involved with anyone in the group. As much as I wanted to avoid, ..... what happen.... you know boys will be boys and all sorts of naughty things happen in those "camp"... Sex is the major discussion topic at night, during sex talk you know lar, some will get hard-on, their cock sticking out of their shorts etc.. on that particular night, my group of boys decided to sleep in my room after chatting, as I have to book-in early so didn't plan to sleep anyway. however, I fall asleep momentarily, then I was awaken by someone hiding under my blanket..... sucking ... holding it tight... licking..... shaking it... Guess who was it ? He told me he wants to be in a relationship with me but I told him its too early for him to decide, he should concentrate on his studies first. He's the only child, I know his parent would want him to get married. His affection for me was kept secret until one day, his mother saw what he wrote in his diary ! guys.. please don't leave traces .. no letters no pictures no video Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abgbotaq Posted August 7, 2016 Report Share Posted August 7, 2016 young grass are too nice to taste...but still under age .just forget it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Legal Age Posted August 8, 2016 Report Share Posted August 8, 2016 Hey, the legal age for sex is 16 or 18 or 21? I thought it was 16 (as long as both party willing and agree, not force involve). But m2m sex is still considered illegal regardless of age. Am I correct? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
30yochinese Posted August 8, 2016 Report Share Posted August 8, 2016 (edited) On 7/28/2016 at 11:54 AM, gstringuy26 said: Make sure no sex, whether he consent you or not u also die! If this were to happen in Malaysia (no offence), there wouldn't be a problem i guess, but since you are holding on to a Singapore citizenship, i'm sad to say..."You gotta play by the rules of this Administration...if not...get ready to be grilled by the Deputy Public Prosecutor. At age 25, imagine if u make this mistake, even before you turn 30yo...you are buying into the imaginary fantasy that it will work out btw you & a teenager, & i am sad to break it to you Bro...it will never work out... R/ship? I doubt any 16 year-old (no offence) understands the full implication of what a gay-partner-lifestyle is required of him to commit, come one, he hasn't even finished his GCE O'Levels, so maybe...take the next best which is to...(1) start a Bromance with him, or (2) Mentor him, but no matter what...once you crossed the line of having sexual relations with him...there's no turning back & the Law will inevitably catch up with you & when that happens...it will get ugly...VERY UGLY. till then, take care & Happy NDP tomorrow =) Edited August 8, 2016 by 30yochinese . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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