When did the gay in you came out? How Did You Turn Gay? (compiled)

[randomperson]

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Edited May 1, 2020 by randomperson

[kimlo777]

I don't think I turned gay.  I believe I was born that way.

[Guest 1st timer]

Went to a indian friend’s house. He came open the door with only a towel wrap around his waist. Invited me in to his sofa. He switch on the tv and bring out a few bottles of beers. We chit chat, drink and watch tv away. Feeling a bit drowsy after a few glasses of beer. My this indian friend stood up and unwrap to reveal his cock right in front of my face. He said: ‘See this! Nice? Big? Come touch it feel it.’ He throw his towel aside and grabbing me left hand to touch his dick. Holding up his dick pointing it towards my mouth and ask me to suck for him. I shook my head and refused. Before I know it my both hands is already touch n stroking his dick. Within moments his thick black dick was fully erect. He persuaded me to suck for him and he won’t tell a soul about it. He ask if I ever suck before and don’t believe I have never. Since I never and it’s my chance to do it and trust him that he won’t tell a soul. I open my mouth and started licking, kissing and sucking his cock. He lift to place a leg on the sofa and spared a part both legs and ask me to go down to his balls.i went down to kiss n lick his bag of balls and follow to licking his asshole. I carry to work back to suck his cock. Praising that I’m a good sucker cos I suck without touching his dick with my teeth and don’t believe I’m suckering for the first time. After having his dick in my mouth for awhile, he told me to bend over the sofa as he wants to fuck me. I remove my pants and get in position with my ass tilting upwards ready to recive his dick. He goes behind me spread apart my legs and spits a few time onto my asshole and start lubricating with his one and than two fingers. He spits a few more time and ask if it’s also my first time getting fuck. I reply yes! He said :” really 1st time? Let me try...’ he went in a bit and started short stroke pushing in n out and going in more n more. I was painful n sensational. He off load his cum onto my face and mouth. It’s was fun!

[Yas1950]

On 1/29/2018 at 3:40 PM, zyjd said:

I remember the first time I had an erection - and turned on by the male form.....

.....
.....Till this day I still remember how that guy looked like. He's probably a potbellied uncle by now but that was the first time I felt sexually attracted to someone.

Ahhhh..... such sweet innocence. 

[Yas1950]

I guess the full details of how I turned gay can be found in my thread:

 

If you have the the patience to go thru the whole thread. However since its been locked, you cannot respond to this thread.
You can PM me directly with your reactions.

[Guest Guest]

How i turned gay? You mean i can choose to turn gay or straight? If possible, i will choose to turn straight. Being gay is really tiring, lonely and sad. 

[Hornyalways]

I turned gay when I saw gay porn hahaha

[doncoin]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

How i turned gay? You mean i can choose to turn gay or straight? If possible, i will choose to turn straight. Being gay is really tiring, lonely and sad. 

 

Being straight can also be really tiring, lonely and sad. Emotions do not discriminate. 

[Backyard]

7 minutes ago, doncoin said:

 

Being straight can also be really tiring, lonely and sad. Emotions do not discriminate. 

Gay or straight is a self choose. Its like you like sweet or not. Depends on how you develope the interest. 

[fab]

The day when i decide not to be a lesbian anymore.

[Guest Guest]

15 minutes ago, doncoin said:

 

Being straight can also be really tiring, lonely and sad. Emotions do not discriminate. 

At least straight easier to get attached. If i am straight, most likely i am already got married. Being gay not easy to get attached, even maintaining friendship in gay community is hard.

[Backyard]

2 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

How i turned gay? You mean i can choose to turn gay or straight? If possible, i will choose to turn straight. Being gay is really tiring, lonely and sad. 

My personal opinion. How when the interest can be built. Means you can like whatever you want and develope from basic with Knowledge, Passion, Curiosity and Practice. So nothing will limit you to turn into whatever you want and be whoever you decide. Live in Liberal and free makes people live and alive with human brain Logic only. And its so limited since we only can see 4 dimentional and hear from 1 frequency.... for typical people like us enjoy and just follow what our heart say. And enjoy and enjoy....

[topUgood]

Me was my cousin open the world of bi in me when i was 15. Now bi

[doncoin]

32 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

At least straight easier to get attached. If i am straight, most likely i am already got married. Being gay not easy to get attached, even maintaining friendship in gay community is hard.

 

The key words being "If" and "most likely." Still not a 100% definitely. 

 

 

[max001]

3 hours ago, topUgood said:

Me was my cousin open the world of bi in me when i was 15. Now bi

so what did your cousin did to u? pls share

[Guest Guest]

23 hours ago, doncoin said:

 

The key words being "If" and "most likely." Still not a 100% definitely. 

 

 

Let me reframe the question.

 If it was legally and socially acceptable for two men to get married, would you settle down with someone? 

[doncoin]

3 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Let me reframe the question.

 If it was legally and socially acceptable for two men to get married, would you settle down with someone? 

 

Absolutely yes. Looking at the US. and several other countries where gay marriage is legal and acceptable, it does not just happened. It took decades of standing up and defending for their rights to be who they are, love who they want and live their lives as it is. It's not something that suddenly their governments decided it is ok. It took the effort and dedication of many activists, lawyers, friends and family etc. to make that happen, to what it is today. 

 

Just this weekend, we celebrated gay pride in the US. Today it is a festive event, filled with many corporate sponsors. But the first gay pride was protest against police brutality, and a statement to the world that gays are here. The LGBT community is not going to stay invisible, and hidden in the shadows, but out in public. 

 

Being gay is not a button you can click to switch on or off. Granted there is a wide spectrum on sexuality, however, you know you're gay, and being with another guy is the most natural thing.

[Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, doncoin said:

you know you're gay, and being with another guy is the most natural thing.

So conversely, if you are straight, isn't it true being with a woman is also the most natural thing and you would have got married.

[Shoo]

My cousin saw gay magazines of our gay uncle and did some felatio with me when I was 5 to 8yo. He was only a year older. We do it everytime I stay in their place for summer vacation back home and did it few times before it stopped for some years.. but when I went back to their place when I was 12, we were both circumcised already and did it again. I remember being confused because I have a crush with some girls but sexually attracted to guys. I don't know how you see it, it may be disgusting incest mess, but I'm sharing so that anyone who reads this that has a kid be warned that sexual activity can start very early. and that sexual perpetrators can be our very own relatives. 

[doncoin]

5 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

So conversely, if you are straight, isn't it true being with a woman is also the most natural thing and you would have got married.

 

Of course. But since I am not sexually attracted to women, I know I am gay. I like cock and ass too much. 

[Guest Outcast]

On 6/27/2018 at 5:20 AM, doncoin said:

 

Of course. But since I am not sexually attracted to women, I know I am gay. I like cock and ass too much. 

But being gay always made me feel like an outsider in this world. Though on the surface, I go to work and get along with colleagues, I always dread people ask me why I am not attached. I see straight couples on the street, there is a thought that i will never be able to experience what they have. And this pain of being outcast started way early from childhood. In all my schooling years, I was not athletic enough to be accepted by my male peers and my family upbringing was more of a sheltered and reclusive style. Now at a an age of 38, I still can't really start and keep a conversation going with other men. I am nervous around them. Needless to say, I never had sexual contact before.. I know there are other people worse off, but in your immediate vicinity, u see everyone is better than you. I just wish I was normal like the other people around me. But it is not going to happen in this lifetime.

[qqqueer]

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Edited August 18, 2018 by qqqueer

[Guest Guest]

I have a liking to see topless guys than their dick area. So am i gay?

[Shoo]

6 hours ago, Guest Outcast said:

But being gay always made me feel like an outsider in this world. Though on the surface, I go to work and get along with colleagues, I always dread people ask me why I am not attached. I see straight couples on the street, there is a thought that i will never be able to experience what they have. And this pain of being outcast started way early from childhood. In all my schooling years, I was not athletic enough to be accepted by my male peers and my family upbringing was more of a sheltered and reclusive style. Now at a an age of 38, I still can't really start and keep a conversation going with other men. I am nervous around them. Needless to say, I never had sexual contact before.. I know there are other people worse off, but in your immediate vicinity, u see everyone is better than you. I just wish I was normal like the other people around me. But it is not going to happen in this lifetime.

I hope you find comfort in knowing that not everyone is the same and not everyone is normal. I am with a girl for a long time ang still long to fuck a guy more manlier than me when I can. I believe sexuality can be more fluid and you don't have to be uncomfortable around anyone. Almost everyone is keeping some dark secrets too you know...

[cutejack]

5 hours ago, qqqueer said:

When I was 5, I'd cry and say that I never wanted my dad to leave me. Later that year, I sucked my grandfather's nipples as he carried me. 

 

The greatest turn around was a train ride to AMK to see my aunt. I was 6 and there was an NYP student across me in a tank top organising his file. I did not know why, but he looked so beautiful that I just wanted him to hold me. It broke my heart that he alighted at YCK and I had to alight at the next stop. 

 

As I grew up, I felt a pull to many guys - Anderson Cooper, Don Lemon, Ricky Martin, Channing Tatum - but they didn't come out so I kept thinking I'm weird. Eventually as I kneeled between my cousin's legs at 12 and sucked him off, I knew that I'm just a gay boy. Kept it secret all the way till I'm 21 though. Felt like it was wrong and God would punish me, the usual fears I suppose. 

N now u realise that God will bless u for pleasing the tops.

[cutejack]

4 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

I have a liking to see topless guys than their dick area. So am i gay?

U r bi coz u like boobs.man boobs

Edited June 28, 2018 by cutejack

[Guest guest1]

[Guest Ponderous]

While it is probably true that most gays are born this way ... others can also 'turn gay' due to outside influences ... such as being molested and subsequently taking a liking to gay activities that one was previously never interested in. This is a serious scourge in our community, and it needs to be dealt with, not ignored. Just look at all the news articles about older men getting arrested when teenagers report them to the police for inappropriate touching, fondling, molesting, or even oral and anal contact.

 

The youngsters who are brave enough to tell their parents, or another authority figure, and then the police are probably going to end up straight, but they might also be traumatized to some extent, and could wind up having their lives ruined by these unfortunate experiences if the warning signs are not recognized early enough. Now think about how much worse things are for those who are too afraid or confused or ashamed to report what happened. They often struggle mentally for the rest of their lives.

[Fit4Masc]

I was interested in guys as far back as I can remember, maybe around 5 or 6 yo.  I have crushes for different boys right from Kindergarten to  University.  Only did something about it whilst I was in my second year at University.  Have never been interested in girls ever, only attracted to masculinity, the more masculine the better and find femininity a turn off.  Even for inanimate items and objects, I am drawn to straight lines, sharp angles and plain colours,  totally put off by curves, anything with busy and floral kinda design.  Guess that's why I am gay.

Edited August 26, 2018 by Fit4Masc

[fab]

Personally i m skeptical towards the idea of "turned gay". I view it more as "wake up incident".

 

Most straight guys being molested at young age will turn homophobic but not homosexual. Those who so called turned gays r already gays per se b4 they were molested i.e. to say, they will still become gays regardless if they were to be molested. A sister friend of mine shared that his uncle molested him when he was 14. But way before that, he knew he likes guys.

 

Edited August 26, 2018 by fab

[Guest So Gieh Plus So Pasieh]

2 hours ago, fab said:

Personally i m skeptical towards the idea of "turned gay". I view it more as "wake up incident".

 

Most straight guys being molested at young age will turn homophobic but not homosexual. Those who so called turned gays r already gays per se b4 they were molested i.e. to say, they will still become gays regardless if they were to be molested. A sister friend of mine shared that his uncle molested him when he was 14. But way before that, he knew he likes guys.

 

Do not give the molesters any wiggle room or potential excuses. They are evil and need to be stamped out. My "wake up incident" was with my best friend, who attended the same school, and that is the way it should be. Two horny boys exploring their desire and feelings together. Innocent, pure, and sweet. No disgusting, nasty, or selfish adults.

 

Even if the straight boys who got molested grow up to be straight homophobes, that is still bad, and the molesters have hurt the cause of gay rights. Imagine if they had grown up to be straight but also tolerant and understanding of gays. Instead the molesters turned them into complete enemies of gays. That is also a bad consequence of their evil.

[Steve5380]

11 hours ago, Guest So Gieh Plus So Pasieh said:

 

Do not give the molesters any wiggle room or potential excuses. They are evil and need to be stamped out. My "wake up incident" was with my best friend, who attended the same school, and that is the way it should be. Two horny boys exploring their desire and feelings together. Innocent, pure, and sweet. No disgusting, nasty, or selfish adults.

 

 

Fab didn't give the molesters an excuse, he simply questions the idea that we can be "turned gay" by being molested by a man.  I also question that, although we are not sure what is the origin of our sexual orientation. 

[ExoticTop]

I used to be completely straight till the age of 35 when I decided to finally act upon my curiosity for man to man contact and touching another man’s cock. Despite having many gay friends before that, I never felt either emotionally or physically attracted to them (just like my women friends who are just friends I Guess...). But I did watch gay and bi porn occasionally and sported the hardest erections then (perhaps the feeling of doing something forbidden helped with that Lol).

So anyways, at 35 I decided to answer a craigslist ad from a 50 year old who wanted to give “just massage” to straight guys. He did mention being especially interested in middle eastern guys which seemed perfect fit haha.

So I got to his condo with my heart beating sooo fast. He was a suave educated Briton who was separated from his Wife and lived alone. He immediately put myself at ease and told me to get on the bed and relax. “Should I take off my clothes?” I asked. “Up to you” he said. “If you want oil massage... you will be more comfortable partially naked” he said. “This is not about sex” he said.

Slutty me got totally naked and put the towel he provided on my butt (I had visited straight massage parlours before). I lied on his bed, face down. He was fully dressed and started the massage.

His hands were applying the perfect pressure on my back and he was using good aroma oil. It didn’t take long till he moved to my butt and I heard him start breathing more heavily. I have a nice bubble butt (perhaps the best part of my body haha), and he insisted on the lower back, buttcheecks, and pretty soon butt crack.

By then I was hard as a rock LOL

He mentioned it: “Mate you are so hard... beautiful sight!” (He was clearly good at making me feel confident).

That’s when it happened. I could feel something warm and already not so soft on my left leg. He had pulled down his pants and was teasing my ball and anus now. I was so excited but couldn’t dare flipping over to face him.. 

I raised my butt and he started licking my balls then my shaft. Kissing my ass and thighs.

Finally he told me to flip over and face him. We smiled at each other and I admired his beautiful 8in uncut cock almost fully erect!

”May I touch it?” I asked

”Sure, be my guest!” He said

It was so warm and the skin was so soft! But then I was too shy to kiss it, let alone blow it.. so he went down on me and gave me the best BJ of my life (till then LOL). We kissed and fondled and he pressed our two cocks against each other until I couldn’t hold and came on his pubis and later in his mouth. “You are so big!” I said. “You are just as big as me” he said pressing our cocks against each other again (it wasn’t true.. I was maybe as thick but a good inch shorter, but as I said he was good at making me feel confident). We cuddled a bit and talked about how we started to build an attraction for the same sex ( he was still bisexual and had kids).

”You haven’t cummed.” I said.

”That’s Ok, no worries!” He said

Then we parted way. Everything was pretty relaxed the whole time. “We can meet again if you want” he said. I went back home with mixed feelings. I clearly had a great time and was even started to feel emotionally attracted to Steve. But then I was feeling bad because a) what would my parents think if they knew what I did? (I may always have been gay-friendly but not everyone is..) and b) I was feeling bad for Steve who had been so kind to me but I didn’t make him cum.

 

We met again a few weeks later in a luxury hotel room he took. We had a great time again at first and did 69 this time. He poked my ass with his fingers but then I pushed him away. I wasn’t ready (he had condoms ready so this was not the issue). Again I was the only one who came (maybe because he was 50 he couldn’t come so often?). This was the last time we met. I had to go to an appointment (which I had said clearly from the start) and I think he had more friends lined up to visit him that night (maybe that’s why he wouldn’t waste a shot on me LOL). Anyways it probably couldn’t work... we were both tops (I did bottom a few times but I am a lousy bottom).

After that, I went on on my journey of discovery (on CL, Grindr and later on saunas) but still miss to this day the excitement of this first gay experience and my good Daddy Steve.

 

Cheers guys! Take it easy!

 

[abgsam001]

2 hours ago, ExoticTop said:

I used to be completely straight till the age of 35 when I decided to finally act upon my curiosity for man to man contact and touching another man’s cock. Despite having many gay friends before that, I never felt either emotionally or physically attracted to them (just like my women friends who are just friends I Guess...). But I did watch gay and bi porn occasionally and sported the hardest erections then (perhaps the feeling of doing something forbidden helped with that Lol).

So anyways, at 35 I decided to answer a craigslist ad from a 50 year old who wanted to give “just massage” to straight guys. He did mention being especially interested in middle eastern guys which seemed perfect fit haha.

So I got to his condo with my heart beating sooo fast. He was a suave educated Briton who was separated from his Wife and lived alone. He immediately put myself at ease and told me to get on the bed and relax. “Should I take off my clothes?” I asked. “Up to you” he said. “If you want oil massage... you will be more comfortable partially naked” he said. “This is not about sex” he said.

Slutty me got totally naked and put the towel he provided on my butt (I had visited straight massage parlours before). I lied on his bed, face down. He was fully dressed and started the massage.

His hands were applying the perfect pressure on my back and he was using good aroma oil. It didn’t take long till he moved to my butt and I heard him start breathing more heavily. I have a nice bubble butt (perhaps the best part of my body haha), and he insisted on the lower back, buttcheecks, and pretty soon butt crack.

By then I was hard as a rock LOL

He mentioned it: “Mate you are so hard... beautiful sight!” (He was clearly good at making me feel confident).

That’s when it happened. I could feel something warm and already not so soft on my left leg. He had pulled down his pants and was teasing my ball and anus now. I was so excited but couldn’t dare flipping over to face him.. 

I raised my butt and he started licking my balls then my shaft. Kissing my ass and thighs.

Finally he told me to flip over and face him. We smiled at each other and I admired his beautiful 8in uncut cock almost fully erect!

”May I touch it?” I asked

”Sure, be my guest!” He said

It was so warm and the skin was so soft! But then I was too shy to kiss it, let alone blow it.. so he went down on me and gave me the best BJ of my life (till then LOL). We kissed and fondled and he pressed our two cocks against each other until I couldn’t hold and came on his pubis and later in his mouth. “You are so big!” I said. “You are just as big as me” he said pressing our cocks against each other again (it wasn’t true.. I was maybe as thick but a good inch shorter, but as I said he was good at making me feel confident). We cuddled a bit and talked about how we started to build an attraction for the same sex ( he was still bisexual and had kids).

”You haven’t cummed.” I said.

”That’s Ok, no worries!” He said

Then we parted way. Everything was pretty relaxed the whole time. “We can meet again if you want” he said. I went back home with mixed feelings. I clearly had a great time and was even started to feel emotionally attracted to Steve. But then I was feeling bad because a) what would my parents think if they knew what I did? (I may always have been gay-friendly but not everyone is..) and b) I was feeling bad for Steve who had been so kind to me but I didn’t make him cum.

 

We met again a few weeks later in a luxury hotel room he took. We had a great time again at first and did 69 this time. He poked my ass with his fingers but then I pushed him away. I wasn’t ready (he had condoms ready so this was not the issue). Again I was the only one who came (maybe because he was 50 he couldn’t come so often?). This was the last time we met. I had to go to an appointment (which I had said clearly from the start) and I think he had more friends lined up to visit him that night (maybe that’s why he wouldn’t waste a shot on me LOL). Anyways it probably couldn’t work... we were both tops (I did bottom a few times but I am a lousy bottom).

After that, I went on on my journey of discovery (on CL, Grindr and later on saunas) but still miss to this day the excitement of this first gay experience and my good Daddy Steve.

 

Cheers guys! Take it easy!

 

Nice

[Yas1950]

On 8/29/2018 at 4:47 AM, ExoticTop said:

I used to be completely straight till the age of 35 when I decided to finally act upon my curiosity for man to man contact and touching another man’s cock. Despite having many gay friends before that, I never felt either emotionally or physically attracted to them (just like my women friends who are just friends I Guess...). But I did watch gay and bi porn occasionally and sported the hardest erections then (perhaps the feeling of doing something forbidden helped with that Lol).

...............................................

After that, I went on on my journey of discovery (on CL, Grindr and later on saunas) but still miss to this day the excitement of this first gay experience and my good Daddy Steve.

 

Cheers guys! Take it easy!

 

Excellent start for you. You're a real lucky gentleman; very adventurous.

[Fit4Masc]

On 8/29/2018 at 4:47 AM, ExoticTop said:

Quote "I used to be completely straight till the age of 35 when I decided to finally act upon my curiosity for man to man contact and touching another man’s cock. Despite having many gay friends before that, I never felt either emotionally or physically attracted to them (just like my women friends who are just friends I Guess...). But I did watch gay and bi porn occasionally and sported the hardest erections then (perhaps the feeling of doing something forbidden helped with that Lol)."

 

You said you were completely Straight, but just curious about other men?   But that is such an irony, because a completely Straight man would be totally fixated on Pussies and Boobies,  other men's cock or parts would not even crossed his mind and he would find it repulsive even just at the sight of it.   I would say you are Bi-sexual, but the gay part of you was latent but not invoked, until you were in your 30s.  Which is not surprising at all.  Some studies claim that human sexuality is not either Black or White like the Bible claim, It's more of a spectrum, like a bell or SD curve, with gays and heterosexuals on both extreme and the majority in between the two.. Society's and social pressure forces most to repress their gay part and only to focus on the heterosexual part.  It takes a lot of soul searching and self realization/acceptance to be able to accept the gay part, hence alot of Bi-sexuals, hack even some gays, find it difficult to "Come Out", some only out partly living a double life and some never managed to come out at all, but instead turning into an extreme homophobe.

Edited August 31, 2018 by Fit4Masc

[doghot]

On 6/23/2018 at 8:23 PM, Guest 1st timer said:

Went to a indian friend’s house. He came open the door with only a towel wrap around his waist. Invited me in to his sofa. He switch on the tv and bring out a few bottles of beers. We chit chat, drink and watch tv away. Feeling a bit drowsy after a few glasses of beer. My this indian friend stood up and unwrap to reveal his cock right in front of my face. He said: ‘See this! Nice? Big? Come touch it feel it.’ He throw his towel aside and grabbing me left hand to touch his dick. Holding up his dick pointing it towards my mouth and ask me to suck for him. I shook my head and refused. Before I know it my both hands is already touch n stroking his dick. Within moments his thick black dick was fully erect. He persuaded me to suck for him and he won’t tell a soul about it. He ask if I ever suck before and don’t believe I have never. Since I never and it’s my chance to do it and trust him that he won’t tell a soul. I open my mouth and started licking, kissing and sucking his cock. He lift to place a leg on the sofa and spared a part both legs and ask me to go down to his balls.i went down to kiss n lick his bag of balls and follow to licking his asshole. I carry to work back to suck his cock. Praising that I’m a good sucker cos I suck without touching his dick with my teeth and don’t believe I’m suckering for the first time. After having his dick in my mouth for awhile, he told me to bend over the sofa as he wants to fuck me. I remove my pants and get in position with my ass tilting upwards ready to recive his dick. He goes behind me spread apart my legs and spits a few time onto my asshole and start lubricating with his one and than two fingers. He spits a few more time and ask if it’s also my first time getting fuck. I reply yes! He said :” really 1st time? Let me try...’ he went in a bit and started short stroke pushing in n out and going in more n more. I was painful n sensational. He off load his cum onto my face and mouth. It’s was fun!

sexy experience!

[doncoin]

I didn't bother to scroll back to read all previous response, but let's get this clear. There is no button that turns one gay or straight or bi. By stating that you "turned" gay suggests an external influence that can transform your sexual orientation. Not sexual preference. If you can state that you "turn" gay that will also suggest that you can turn yourself from being Asian to becoming black, caucasian, or some other ethnicity, by the push of a button. 

 

Being gay is like being born in the skin you are in. Embrace your uniqueness, and stop believing that you can turn your sexual orientation with a push of the button. 

[ExoticTop]

13 hours ago, doncoin said:

I didn't bother to scroll back to read all previous response, but let's get this clear. There is no button that turns one gay or straight or bi. By stating that you "turned" gay suggests an external influence that can transform your sexual orientation. Not sexual preference. If you can state that you "turn" gay that will also suggest that you can turn yourself from being Asian to becoming black, caucasian, or some other ethnicity, by the push of a button. 

 

Being gay is like being born in the skin you are in. Embrace your uniqueness, and stop believing that you can turn your sexual orientation with a push of the button. 

 

You can’t turn it with the push of a button, but it may change over time.

 

When older we may not be attracted sexually to anything anymore for example.

 

I know in my case I was really not attracted to cocks. It happened gradually. Of course your experience may differ LOL

 

cheers 

[Fit4Masc]

2 hours ago, ExoticTop said:

 

You can’t turn it with the push of a button, but it may change over time.

 

When older we may not be attracted sexually to anything anymore for example.

 

I know in my case I was really not attracted to cocks. It happened gradually. Of course your experience may differ LOL

 

cheers 

I don't think being gay means just attracted to another man's cock.  Just like being Straight does not mean just attracted to a pussy either.  Its could be different things for different people, some hetero men are attracted to the boobs or long shapely legs or big butts for instant.... Likewise gay men can be attracted to different parts of another man.  Me for instant, its the broad furry chest and muscular chisel looks, not just the cock or the butt.

[Fit4Masc]

On 11/27/2016 at 12:32 AM, AP1987 said:

I have no intention  in offending anybody. just a discussion. and I have also nv mention sexuality is like a light switch. if you don't like my topic just turn away. 

I think you should have rephrased the title of this thread to... When did you realised you have gay inclination and acted on it.  (that will cover both Gays and Bi-sexuals)

Edited August 31, 2018 by Fit4Masc

[snapplejacked2]

I was going to comment on the topic title suggesting that one can turn gay at a flip of a coin but the others have covered it nicely enough. 

 

I was "straight" up until my early teens I suppose with lots of fucked up kinks. But I found myself imagining me as the lady getting reamed as opposed to the one doing the reaming more and more and then... well you just learn to accept that you like manjunk just as much as ladybits.

 

Sexual freedom is loving it both ways. Not sure if that's a good thing or not to be so open to everything on the menu.

[Guest Dylan]

As far as I can remember, I was 5 years old when I started to have interest on playing the dolls of my sisters.

[Lemonjuice]

The construction workers who bathed in a make-shift cubicle in front of my house “turned” me gay with their glistening-sculpted dark-naked bodies every day.

[Guest Nick79]

I was in a departmental store one lazy afternoon and decided to try on a pair of jeans. I made my way to the fitting room and had the sight of my lifetime. A veteran bodybuilder was apparently changing out of his tousers with the door half closed. Call me cheap, but i could not help but STARE with the precision of a stargazer. His arms was so huge, you would think it had swallowed a chicken. His thighs were ballooned out like they contained grapefruits at the joints. Slight paunch, but totally forgivable considering his other body parts still bore semblance of the modern day Hercules, despite his age (at least 50)

 

As he skinned himself off from the trousers revealing a pair of pristine white briefs clinging on loosely to his body. I could see his movement in his loins as he wriggled out the pants, his pair of 'wedding bells' colliding in his briefs.

I must have salivate a reservoir by the time he changed into his own pants. By then, i was still hynotized in situ, unable to move an inch. Uncle hercules then open the door to make his way out and was kind of surprised to see me star-struck and helplessly charmed

 

He gave me smile that could power up the whole of Bintan and the Riau Islands, leaving me in a lurch of how jerk myself out of my wet dreams, no pun intended.

:-)

[Steve5380]

I didn't have any sexual awakening until I started junior high school and one of my peers was a skinny boy that caught my attention, and I started to feel attraction towards him.  I never made any advances towards him during the many years of high school and we graduated together.   Recently in a reunion with my high school classmates more than 50 years later I heard from them that this boy had come out as gay, joined the gay scene and was killed by one of his lovers.  This broke my heart, thinking that in a different society I would have approached him, maybe became partners, spouses and lived our life happily together... 

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Edited October 10, 2019 by Steve5380

[Guest Guest]

I see most women nowadays are manipulative and they are not worth the troubles they create. The only "advantage" a woman has is her child bearing ability,  and even to this single purpose, women can still sell their body and skin to the highest "bidder" to dig for gold, and when the child is born, to dig for even more gold. The relationship between a heterosexual couple has become one which is transactional in nature, instead of an relational one nowadays. There are even people who got married for the purpose of getting HDB flats, and there are even PRCs who'd pay to marry Singaporeans just to get PR status.

 

If companionship is the reason why two people gets together, then having a gay companion is as good as having a heterosexual one. That was how I turned gay after realizing this fact of life.      

[Guest Oh my]

5 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

I see most women nowadays are manipulative and they are not worth the troubles they create. The only "advantage" a woman has is her child bearing ability,  and even to this single purpose, women can still sell their body and skin to the highest "bidder" to dig for gold, and when the child is born, to dig for even more gold. The relationship between a heterosexual couple has beOcome one which is transactional in nature, instead of an relational one nowadays. There are even people who got married for the purpose of getting HDB flats, and there are even PRCs who'd pay to marry Singaporeans just to get PR status.

 

If companionship is the reason why two people gets together, then having a gay companion is as good as having a heterosexual one. That was how I turned gay after realizing this fact of life.      

A gay aunty is just as vicious as a real woman, worse because they can't give you children. Must look for the strong silent type. 

[tic-toc]

I "turned" gay because I was lucky.

[Rumint]

turned gay because my fairy godmother sang Bibbidi-bobbidi-boo.