Guest Pink lover Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 It has been many days passed after pinkdot and I thought I could move on emotionally but I can't. One evening while I was walking alone and wearing pink shirt, after pinkdot, towards home, a middle-aged woman shouted "bastard" within a meter away from my ears. I was shocked, turned around and the woman (with her middle-aged husband) walked swiftly away. Her husband didn't say anything toward her rudeness. Anyone encounter such outright disrespect from anti-gay stranger before? Todate, I still don't quite understand why some elderly people people have to resort to such meanness to another harmless stranger. If this woman can't accept gay people and have to yell, how does she live her life with another person? She must have a hard life at home, I pity her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely57 Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 Ignore them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 Ignore is the only thing you can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tell Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 You should have told her to 'go FVCK yourself!' Traveler3032 and MadMan 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CKW Posted July 13, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) 1 hour ago, Guest Tell said: You should have told her to 'go FVCK yourself!' A bit risky cos her ugly husband might whack TS. After all, it's two against one. For me, I can be quite aggressive when I am outside. But if I see that the odds are stacked against me, sometimes, I will let it slide. Although in that situation, I might have called her a "bitch" back (I've done that before, by the way, to women in public who behaved badly). Edited July 13, 2017 by CKW Marineboy, mate69, MadMan and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 "Bitch is calling who?" Tampenises and Leanmeat 2 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 2 hours ago, fab said: "Bitch is calling who?" I simply love this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilson Kim Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 May not be directing at you, bastard dun seem to be a word targeting gays, could be ,she scolding her husband , n. Other Guys wear pink too isn't it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 Don't read too much. She maybe unsound for all we know. Besides. she maybe near to you but that doesn't mean she targeted you. Even if she is been rude to you, you can choose to ignore this "rude gift" from her. She gets to keep the "gift" by herself. And wearing Pink, if you look good in Pink, please continue. Pink doesn't equate to gay color. Hope you are feeling ok now. Tampenises, deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds and AlifBttm 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedict5856 Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 last time while walking at a shopping mall, i almost banged unto an ang moh girl. She passed a remark "fuck u". I replied her back loudly - "when". MadMan, blowmenow and deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilson Kim Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 5 minutes ago, thorzguy said: Don't read too much. She maybe unsound for all we know. Besides. she maybe near to you but that doesn't mean she targeted you. Even if she is been rude to you, you can choose to ignore this "rude gift" from her. She gets to keep the "gift" by herself. And wearing Pink, if you look good in Pink, please continue. Pink doesn't equate to gay color. Hope you are feeling ok now. is the community teaching submissiveness n being timid? I read some posts saying, ignore it but some ppl never learn their lesson that way, they get away thinking it's OK to verbally abuse another human? Think many are conditioned by society to avoid defending oneself, is that healthy? I not telling ppl to create a scene but why ignore? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blowmenow Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Wilson Kim said: is the community teaching submissiveness n being timid? I read some posts saying, ignore it but some ppl never learn their lesson that way, they get away thinking it's OK to verbally abuse another human? Think many are conditioned by society to avoid defending oneself, is that healthy? I not telling ppl to create a scene but why ignore? very reasonable... we should not allow people to abuse use or step over us... there is a thin line between being a coward and wisdom in avoiding confrontation Edited July 13, 2017 by blowmenow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 3 minutes ago, Wilson Kim said: is the community teaching submissiveness n being timid? I read some posts saying, ignore it but some ppl never learn their lesson that way, they get away thinking it's OK to verbally abuse another human? Think many are conditioned by society to avoid defending oneself, is that healthy? I not telling ppl to create a scene but why ignore? Whether the person learn, is not for me to teach/guide. All are grown up. Everyone have different ways of handling situations. Just my point of view. CKW and blowmenow 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 58 minutes ago, benedict5856 said: last time while walking at a shopping mall, i almost banged unto an ang moh girl. She passed a remark "fuck u". I replied her back loudly - "when". Ang moh girls are the worst - come to Singapore and behave like everyone owes them a living. Spoilt bitches. No wonder all the ang moh men are either turning gay or going for Asian girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marineboy Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 1 hour ago, benedict5856 said: last time while walking at a shopping mall, i almost banged unto an ang moh girl. She passed a remark "fuck u". I replied her back loudly - "when". That reminds me of another solid reply..say a guy or fren happen to scold you or jokingly say fuck you...you can reply PROMISE? that can freak them out Phil 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 Just now, Marineboy said: That reminds me of another solid reply..say a guy or fren happen to scold you or jokingly say fuck you...you can reply PROMISE? that can freak them out Oh my aj fren usually say that. I will turn back n show my ass to him.hahaha Btw he is a btm. Marineboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 TS prob look a lot nicer in pink shirt than the woman or husband can ever hope to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deceptiveeyes.deceivingminds Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 2 hours ago, thorzguy said: Don't read too much. She maybe unsound for all we know. Besides. she maybe near to you but that doesn't mean she targeted you. Even if she is been rude to you, you can choose to ignore this "rude gift" from her. She gets to keep the "gift" by herself. And wearing Pink, if you look good in Pink, please continue. Pink doesn't equate to gay color. Hope you are feeling ok now. I agree ignoring it is best because unless she looked at you or pointed at you while shouting out the word bastard. Then you could confront the person with all might. Otherwise don't take anything you hear or see personally especially on the streets. Very likely, in most cases it's sheer coincidence. Even if not, we still have the right to choose not to receive or accept such rudeness. Let them as thorzguy said get back their own gift. Be better than them. Hugs. Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rayner Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 She too long never 通 la that's why Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 少爷(or少奶奶)息怒。好汉不吃眼前亏。你是瓷器,她是瓦。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 I am trying my best not to be condescending.. *** Perhaps she is suffering from post-menopausal syndrome. She is likely to be easily irritated. like the way Lao Uncle go through andropause in the late 40s/early 50s. 更年期到了会发生荷尔蒙失调, 而引发各类的情绪病。。。 看什么都不顺眼。。每样事与物都有意见。。 请多多原谅/包涵吧! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Backhand Posted July 14, 2017 Report Share Posted July 14, 2017 21 hours ago, Leanmeat said: I simply love this Slap the bitches face... what right is there to judge? #redcheek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperSentai Posted July 15, 2017 Report Share Posted July 15, 2017 (edited) I experienced the opposite. Wore pink tank top to Pinkdot, then went for Play Pinkball clubbing to Suntec. Took cab home after that, and when I was paying the driver (an Indian man) before I got off, he turned on the lights in the cab, saw my pink tank top, and said (along the lines of),"Oh Pinkdot! I support it! My whole family do! Keep it up!". Haha a very heart-warming end to a long day. Edited July 15, 2017 by SuperSentai ZealousZeno, Mroneonline and Notti 3 皆々様には、御機嫌麗しゅう、恐悦至極に存じ奉ります。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pow Posted July 15, 2017 Report Share Posted July 15, 2017 On 13/07/2017 at 6:13 PM, Leanmeat said: I simply love this Slap the bitches face... what right is there to judge? #redcheek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tampenises Posted July 15, 2017 Report Share Posted July 15, 2017 On 07/13/2017 at 4:54 PM, benedict5856 said: last time while walking at a shopping mall, i almost banged unto an ang moh girl. She passed a remark "fuck u". I replied her back loudly - "when". I tried this and it kinda work... female: fuck you me: i only go those who are below 50yo... sorry and better luck next time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Easy to deal with Posted July 15, 2017 Report Share Posted July 15, 2017 Quite easy to deal with.... I would go to her Husband and kiss him passionately. I bet the Husband won't immediately push you away because he has NT been kissed like that for a looong time! Then turn to her and say... he doesn't mind and walk away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pink lover Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 10 hours ago, Guest Easy to deal with said: Quite easy to deal with.... I would go to her Husband and kiss him passionately. I bet the Husband won't immediately push you away because he has NT been kissed like that for a looong time! Then turn to her and say... he doesn't mind and walk away. Her husband is an ugly old man. I don't think I will ever do that. I find both of them a perfect match, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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