No End Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 i guess it's really a hit and miss? this is the nature of such applications - they 'close' the communication gap between strangers by giving each other basic information, but also cuz of the superficiality of the information involved, ppl just jump to judgements too quickly and end up leading their conversations to deep and inevitable decline. i actually met my current bf through jackd, by both a strike of luck and chance. the initial objective of these apps ARE for people to meet up and eventually get into a relationship, but they are misused for the wrong purposes and it has degraded into nothing more than a collation of jaded and insecure individualsBut I don't really want to meet up without getting to know first , so I think the apps doesn't suit me haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest handsome man Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Talking about jackd, I've chatted with this hot dude from ntu who just came back from an exchange in New York, going by the name of Ernest Loh. Told me that he is a dean lister on a scholarship, an athlete, cheerleader, student union leader, member of Singapore MENSA and a musician (he sings, play the piano and drums). He apparently lives in some landed property in Eunos and his dad owns an Audi, BMW and Jaguar. And whats more, he has a hot bod which every gay guy would die for. Why is god so unfair? even if its true, i dun think i wanna meet such boastful person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest el Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 even if its true, i dun think i wanna meet such boastful person. you dont jelly lah. pui! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Decides to scout for some handsome looking boys as my display photo for Jackd' now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dakenomial Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 But I don't really want to meet up without getting to know first , so I think the apps doesn't suit me haha so thats why you use those apps to try to know the person better through talking mah... haha it works out sometimes depending on the chemistry between you and the other person. talking online is largely superficial; if no one takes interest in the other, nothing comes out of it either. i personally have very interesting experiences using these apps overseas though. it appears that there is a HUGE proportion of guys in sg who use these apps, but most of them do it for sexual gratifications or for 'chats' (which turns out to be for sex anyway). it stems from the fact that our society is so judgemental that ppl don't dare to approach other guys in clubs, pubs and nightspots. in overseas, guys don't need these apps to find sex since they can do it in person outside... and that's why with all the filtering, in other countries, only the most genuine (or to put it, desperate) ones are on the app; the horny ones are done with their businesses outside and move on with better things. gongtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forte_sg Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Really hate rude people on Grindr / Jack'D ... Despite warning this person to learn be gentlemen, he just prefer to ignore. Shall I teach him a lesson despite explaining to him nicely? samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Really hate rude people on Grindr / Jack'D ... Despite warning this person to learn be gentlemen, he just prefer to ignore. Shall I teach him a lesson despite explaining to him nicely?Just delete the apps from your phone and find other activities to fill up your life. You will be better off for it.Life is not just about sex all the time.Never use sex as an easy substitute to fill voids in life. It make people weak in character and mind like the douchebag you encounter in the post you mention above. samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post merlinkun Posted May 30, 2013 Popular Post Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/the-cats-you-meet-on-grindr derryfawne, Tachyons, Kage and 3 others 6 Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest -guest- Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Wah Blacque so cute! Your bf is a lucky guy. Back to the topic, Sadly, I uninstalled e apps cos they don't seem to be good channels to find a bf. And whenever I was on the apps, i felt like some left over food. About Ernest Loh, he is from a 'troubled' background (wealth does not always come with happiness) but it doesnt give him the right to be so stuck up on bed. Somemore, his look is so so, body is ok but not fantastic, tool is hmmm good quality but too bad he is a btm, he is multi talented but is not particularly good at anything. All in all, he is yet to be on the same league as a few other NTU hot aj dean's listers, unless his attitude changes. Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 HATE CUTE BOYS WHO IGNORES ME. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 HATE IRRITATING PEOPLE WHO IRRITATE CUTE BOYS LIKE ME Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forte_sg Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Just delete the apps from your phone and find other activities to fill up your life. You will be better off for it.Life is not just about sex all the time.Never use sex as an easy substitute to fill voids in life. It make people weak in character and mind like the douchebag you encounter in the post you mention above. Thanks .. seems like every posts in this forum you can advise ya ... not bad. Must be someone doing really well =) Cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 HATE IRRITATING PEOPLE WHO IRRITATE CUTE BOYS LIKE MEHahhaa hate it when you cant like a guest postJackd has found me my best friend, my listener and a bunch ot other good buddies... it is the user themselves to see whether they are able to keep those ppl to them as friends and not just fun.If your intention is just to find a cute guy to talk to of course you will never find friends, cause you just wanted fun and thrill Butterscotch 1 Quote Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Thanks .. seems like every posts in this forum you can advise ya ... not bad. Must be someone doing really well =) CheersCut me some slack lah I'm not here to yaya papaya n disturb people. Just that some of the path I went through before.. You have a good night forte sg. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forte_sg Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Wah lao! Another ... don't know what to say. This guy by nick NTU fit send his pic and then started his own self entertainment. Saying " I know you want to fuck me now right? Many uncle told me this after seeing my pic. Some even offer $1000 to fuck me " ..... then I responded " They must be crazy to pay $1000 to fuck you! " And he replied " Well, not many handsome gays around " FML! He is handsome meh? Even so, where people talk like this? Too big an ego la ... KNS ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 What's the hype about handsome guy or cute boys on Grindr/Jackd'... Non of them are even of Model / Celebrities standards. Prove me wrong if you can even find one that look like a amateur celebrity. NON Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Just delete the apps from your phone and find other activities to fill up your life. You will be better off for it.Life is not just about sex all the time.Never use sex as an easy substitute to fill voids in life. It make people weak in character and mind like the douchebag you encounter in the post you mention above. Child, please shut up with your babbling. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mike Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Well that is my second time having fun with guys, though bi , use grindr cos boredom, met this cascausian guy last night , he is really really friendly, cos I prefer girls than guys . I told him if I can watch some straight porn at your house to get hard , before you can do something . He understands. The session is great , better than woman . Somehow he just pass me 150 dollar to ask me take a cab home . Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Always see forte_sg complaining and criticizing people in this forum. Get a life please! You sound like one of the users in Grindr named Matcha in Sembawang area,always complain throughout the conversation with me and at the end I blocked him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 HATE CUTE BOYS WHO IGNORES ME. Move on please. Just think of them as jerks. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Child, please shut up with your babbling. ThanksI'm not a child I just look young.I can be a father to some of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 I'm not a child I just look young.I can be a father to some of you. Heheh, please be a father to me? I am someone who needs to be taken care of. Rumint 1 Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Heheh, please be a father to me? I am someone who needs to be taken care of. I can't sorry. I can't reach out to your generation sadly. Look within oneself for the strength to live on young man. Eat less meat and read more books,the path will be clearer then.Don't become a bitter old bitch like some unmentionable ones in this forum.Life is a journey,made it a scenic one... samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 I can't sorry. I can't reach out to your generation sadly. Look within oneself for the strength to live on young man. Eat less meat and read more books,the path will be clearer then.Don't become a bitter old bitch like some unmentionable ones in this forum.Life is a journey,made it a scenic one... Haha, I was just kidding. Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Don't become a bitter old bitch like some unmentionable ones in this forum. omg u mean gstc82? btw ur avatar is it kim jong kook? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 (edited) omg u mean gstc82?btw ur avatar is it kim jong kook?My real face. Far from being the perfect man but hope its not too shabby either.No I have nothing against that man. That remark is not craft specifically for him. Please don't read too much into it and set him onto me. Thank you. Edited June 1, 2013 by Raiden Alpha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 I can't sorry. I can't reach out to your generation sadly. Look within oneself for the strength to live on young man. Eat less meat and read more books,the path will be clearer then.Don't become a bitter old bitch like some unmentionable ones in this forum.Life is a journey,made it a scenic one... Eat less meat? Pwoah. Meat is a highly nutritious food source yo! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeff_7 Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 three Worst app user:1) use fake body and face2) block other less than 30sec after reply 3) brain Only Have FUN word samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hast Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 was approached by a random person who is curious if i have long foreskin...ha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest nyp Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 was approached by a random person who is curious if i have long foreskin...haMy experience is the reversed ... people asked if I am cut? cut or uncut taste different? hahaha Daydreamerz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShadowRay Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 HiWhat's up?How r u?Seek?Working studying?What you do?More pics? And the question goes on... Irritated when "chats" are filled with questions being bombarded at me, a non-stop combo. Those who don't bother to read the profile page before sending a text are time wasters. samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShadowRay Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 (edited) I met a guy who used some other hot dude's pic.But then he actually look quite decent himself. Hunky and well-groomed, a little less compared to the fake pic he sent me.I still meet up with him. Although he should not have fake it, he's a really nice guy. Edited June 2, 2013 by ShadowRay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 I'm not a child I just look young.I can be a father to some of you.My apologies then, you sound really pressed thoughLemme tell you what you need to do, Get that stick out of yo ass and shut up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 My apologies then, you sound really pressed thoughLemme tell you what you need to do, Get that stick out of yo ass and shut up.Make me. SomeGuyInSg and Blacque 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sky1985 Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 Most common question, Are you chinese? cos you dont look like one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RockyPaul Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 I met a guy who used some other hot dude's pic.But then he actually look quite decent himself. Hunky and well-groomed, a little less compared to the fake pic he sent me.I still meet up with him. Although he should not have fake it, he's a really nice guy. cheater is always a cheater.... just be careful.. samsara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest fish Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 My experience is the reversed ... people asked if I am cut? cut or uncut taste different? hahahaif uncut n the guy dun wash the foreskin properly, will have some fishy smell...so u told him u r cut or uncut? haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 My experience is the reversed ... people asked if I am cut? cut or uncut taste different? hahaha cos some people like to get fucked by cut dicks. last longer and the btm wanna experience shiokness longer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 HiWhat's up?How r u?Seek?Working studying?What you do?More pics? And the question goes on... Irritated when "chats" are filled with questions being bombarded at me, a non-stop combo. Those who don't bother to read the profile page before sending a text are time wasters. I can think of another worse encounter. Some people would start off like this: Day 1:He: Hi.Me: Hi. Day 2:He: Hi.Me: Hi. Yes? Day 3:He: Hi.Me: <blocked his profile> I don't talk to robots, okay!!! Hanabishi 1 Quote 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
firereaver Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 I had one who sent me a pic of himself in only his underwear and asked me on my opinion if he's fat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forte_sg Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 Always see forte_sg complaining and criticizing people in this forum. Get a life please! You sound like one of the users in Grindr named Matcha in Sembawang area,always complain throughout the conversation with me and at the end I blocked him. LOL ! More info of him please ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dancrew Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 still trying my luck on both apps >.< really want LTR bf only.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silveriot Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 really can't stand that shares no pics no stats on the profile yet asks a barrage or questions without the decency to reveal any information regarding the question which you answered him. like i owe him anything like that. "Hi""Fun?""Place?"Top/btm?""Cocksize?""Cut/uncut?" really damn turned off by that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 Saw a guy who looks like Eurasian...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 My BF of many, many years beame a Grindr addit a few years ago. Then could not ontrol himself and became a total slut. Every night run off for 1 - 2 - 3 guys. Now we are no longer together. Thank you Apple and Grindr for ruining my relationshipthere was never a strong relationship in the first place lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lightonthepath Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 I have met all those seemingly ridiculous people above mentioned, but you know what? You don't know their motives and why they act this way. We are in a world with diverse personalities; there is bound to be friction even though neither party is more right than the other. Yes, some are obnoxious and others simply immature, but although some unpleasant encounters can't be helped, many can be avoided with a little civility. For such things to happen to us we have a part to play as well; it is in our own inadequacy that we cannot avoid these encounters even though we're not to be blamed. Also, just a gentle reminder: how good do you look when you rant without anything constructive? How does that reflect on you? glowingember 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnybegood Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 guys...i heave a sigh of relief when i see that so many do agree with me on the use of these apps. Sometimes theres so much nastiness that you really wonder if the general aj circle is like that. Let us have some faith please? My future bf is in this group. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcintosh Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 "hi""ur location?""ur alone?""top/btm?""can unlock?""r u chinese?" and if u mention to them you'r not looking for fun, they'll stop msg already. lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Joseph Posted June 5, 2013 Report Share Posted June 5, 2013 I'm of the 94' batch and i'm proud to say that my batch is filled with a fair share of hot and kind guys, it's just whether u'll find them or not. I admit i started this app looking for sex and sex alone, i did. Met 3 guys and had sex for 3 consecutive weeks. And then i just, felt enough. Like i needed something more. So i did, i met this guy who's HIV+ and yeah we like each other. But we are controlling ourselves from sex DON'T LOSE HOPE. YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE AS NICE AS YOU ARE halfboyfriend 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zephz Posted June 5, 2013 Report Share Posted June 5, 2013 http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/the-cats-you-meet-on-grindrHaha! schmuckisms 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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