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An 18-year-old prick just blocked me after I sent my pic. Ugh. If you aren't nice THEN DONT PRETEND TO BE NICE JUST TO GET A DICK STUCK UP YOUR TINY LITTLE ASSHOLE. IF YOU ARE SO FUCKING PRETTY THEN SHOW YOUR FACE FIRST LA FUCKTARD.

Any guys need a hungry mouth? I can host.

What a cool weather for cuddle~

Anyone for massage in evening / night. I can host near bedok

What Is Homonormativity? We know what you're thinking: What is homonormativity? To put it in simplest terms, homonormativity is saying you’re not like most gay men. Homonormativity is dismissing black men in the club because, while you respect black people, you’re "just not attracted" to them. Homonormativity is thinking differently about someone you love on Twitter when you see they use a wheelchair IRL. Homonormativity is gay white men dominating queer TV representation and white cis men playing trans women. Homonormativity is the nation organizing for gay marriage, but not for trans lives. Homonormativity is a privileging set of hierarchies, social norms, and expectations that cause the oppressed to oppress one another. Homonormativity is everywhere. It permeates into every fiber of queer life, ruining the community from inside out and top to bottom (no pun intended). In the simplest terms, homonormativity is a set of rules used to decide which people in the queer community are the best. Homonormativity dictates that men should be muscular and masculine, while women should be slender and feminine. It encourages heterosexual mimicking wherein queer people get married, adopt children, attend church every weekend, and live in a suburban neighborhood with a white picket fence (think Modern Family). None of these things are inherently negative, but they can be when these desires of both lifestyle and trait determine who we interact with, who we help, and who we support. Homonormativity made same-sex marriage priority number one, when trans people still can’t use bathrooms safely, can still be fired for being who they are, and can still be viciously abused by the prison system. Homonormativity tries, in essence to control how we feel about ourselves and others and it attempts to morph the queer community into the heterosexual community, having us act and live just like them. Unfortunately, the topic of homonormativity still has yet to be commonly found outside of elite, intellectual texts that take way too long to get through and are often difficult for most people to access or comprehend. This is a big deal! When information like this is inaccessible to the masses, you’re left with generations of queer people who can’t find the words to express the oppression that they’re facing. As a high school student, I didn’t know what I was being given from other people was wrong. I didn’t know people disliking and shaming me for being feminine was wrong. I thought I should hate myself too, and so I did. Luckily, I was blessed with a gay uncle who had spent a great deal of his life exploring cultural academia. He was able to talk me through this trauma and oppression, arming me with words like homonormativity and microaggression, which helped me not only live my reality, but to make it better. What I learned, at the simplest level, was how to advocate for myself. If I hadn’t had the uncle that I do, I may still have been enforcing homonormative values on myself (butching it up) and on others (saying I wouldn’t date feminine gay men). As a community, we have to make knowledge about homonormativity available to everyone, so that people can speak up. The thing about societal trends like homonormativity is that they’re made to be insidious. We accept trends and norms as natural, when they are anything but natural. There is no correct way to be gay, or bi, or trans, or queer. Once you name homonormativity and point it out, it loses power. We need homonormativity to lose power because it wrecks lives, tears communities apart, and even kills. Homonormativity can explain why masculine gay men are often left alone, tolerated at worst and accepted at best, by society, while feminine gay men (particularly POC) are still frequently attacked by aggressive mobs on the daily. Homonormativity is why there is actual legislation against the trans community, based on gross accusations and stereotypes about them, that will force them to use the bathroom of the gender they were assigned at birth (as if this legislation won’t cause unspeakable harm to these individuals). This is not liberal, culture-policing. This is real life. The change needs to start from the bottom up. We need to be conscious about how we talk and how we conduct ourselves in public, both physically and online. We need to listen when people different from us talk, and recognize our own privileges and adjust accordingly (because no one is totally oppressed, we all have privileges somewhere). We need to organize for issues that are not gay marriage and fight for the rights of people who do not share our identities. We need to let queer people be queer people and stop enforcing molds created by a heterosexual world that wants us to be less like us and more like them. Homonormativity is all of us this and more, but what it needs to be is history, not the present and future. Source: http://www.pride.com/firstperson/2016/4/12/what-homonormativity

In a commercial for Goals, a new feature in Google Calendar, Google reminds us how love and heartbreak can motivate even the laziest of us. The ad begins with our main character, Brad, receiving a break up text (ouch!) from his boyfriend. To make it even worst, his boyfriend uses the 'It's not you, it's me" line. Going through his own Eat, Pray, Love moment, Brad sets up daily goals to get better at yoga. At the end of the ad, happy and at peace, Brad locks eyes with a smoldering Spanish hunk at the office. And what's Brad's new goal? To learn Spanish, of course. You can watch the smile-inducing ad below: Source: http://www.out.com/popnography/2016/4/13/google-features-gay-men-new-ad

I've searched the forum, saw someone shared this gay drama which is from China, in one of the thread. However, no one seems to response to this drama... I feel kinda sad about this.. I watched this last night, and I can feel tears rolling in my eyes, because I can relate to it so well. When you fell in love with your best friend, who is straight, then you will constantly hurt yourself unconsciously. Even up until you are at the edge of giving up on him, you'll still continue the endless journey in loving him. I would really like to share this awesome drama with all of you! This is actually the second instalment of the 我和X先生 series, I didn't watch the first one FYI, but I heard that it's good as well The theme song sang by one of the main character is really good as well... The lyrics are painful... too painful ... but they are so good ... I think I'm a masochist emotionally hahaha! Hope you guys enjoy my recommendation

Slow sensual suck car fun from chi 40 west .. anyone need a great release ?

any top need to practise? plc in bishan

Put it in a simple way, Mutual respect works in both way, and respect is earned, not by asking. Treat others like how you want them to treat you

Horny but no place....haiz

Constantly hoping to play Nova in hero league but conditions are never right.

Bored..Anyone keen to chit-chat?

19 163 50. I'm pretty much nerd lookin with specs on. Not to mention slim af. Just lookin ard with light simple fun in mind. Stays up north ~~ Similar ppl wld be best?

Need to release, anyone keen to bj mi?

Anyone at Jurong east library ?

just finish baking a chocolate banana cake.

29 Chn. Looking for LTR with people who are interested in more than just sex. Hope to chat more and see how things go. Hobbies include extreme sports (skydiving and scuba diving), travelling (if time and money allows)... PM me. Hope to get to know interested parties.

How about organizing a group jo fun? I wonder how it feels to have a number of married men cumming on my body.

looking for young boys to suck on... below 25 chinese please..

In the mood to suck now.Can host. PM me.

I have been involve in many impromptu orgies which started as two person which suddenly you notice you were being watched. Some come close to watch and jerk themselves so what I do is I would reach out to touch them or their cock if they are near so they know we want them to join after I ask my top if he would not mind. And few time this happen when I had one banging me from the rear in a doggy style and I end up getting the other guys to come near so I can blow him as I get fucked from the back. And there were times I would spot a couple fucking where I would get close to watch and ask or they too would try to touch me. Twice I ended up being a second btm fucked which he took turn to fuck before cumming. But change condom once he is finish with him before letting him inside you as you are taking on his condom-ed cock that came out of another btm's ass hole. Some will stop the moment they spot you, in those cases, please do the right thing and move on as they might only want to do it between themselves or too shy bring watched. You staying about just spoil their mood to carry on. Lucky if you get into a sex scene that start with 2 person and ended up with 6 persons all fucking and sucking at the park shelter with two btms and four tops heheheh. Rare but can happen if you have been going there for almost a decade.

I just got my very first hardon in DSC when checked by the nurse... Hahaha

I got place today!! Anyone?

Horny morning.

Yeshhh last day of school

Now a day people no job blames the gov, no money blame the gov, bad transport blame the gov. Almost everything blames the gov. Just no one blame themselves. Funny Sia... But I think locals all know the current gov is a good gov. Although verbally they like to complain and blaming but their mind know what is true and lie. So this opposition "Guest" I know you from opposition and you have been doing almost full time on stirring up anti gov emotions. But as I said save your breath locals are not blind and stupid. Like the mm Lee always say no point to argue with someone on baseless matters. Everyone knows how to complain but no one give good solution. Gov has repeatedly told us to have more babies and now robots to replace foreign factory workers and at the same time increase productivity and global competivity. We are at a turning point now the gov has told us. It is either we work and progress together or we fall apart. Oppositions just only know to complain. Pls give constructive ideas.

Bw where else

Anyone for a jo? Boyish looking.

love this show as well! got me crying..so sad =(

The song is really sentimental. Towards the end, when the male protagonist sang the song, I dropped a tear or two as well

Anyone near bedok or tanah merah. I have place to host.

I always thought butt hair is to allow some poo to cling to your butt .

Hi to the fair, muscular and handsome btm at keybox today from 530 to 7pm. You said you were confused. Pls stay confused. Ha ha... but seriously...Thanks for enjoyable time today... the three... You are such a gentleman - considerate, honoring your words and so sporting. We connected twice in the steam room. You hesitated sharing your contact. It's ok. Just want to thank you for making my day.

every. damn. time.

I'll refer you? Hahaha

Tongue should be used for food, sex and constructive chat. Not gossip.

Neither virgin active nor virgin passive is good. But the sincerity of trying is endearing.

Referring to your question: Is Virgin Active good? Answer: Wherher a person is Virgin or No Longer Virgin, he or she should keep Active !!!!

I don't see any problem in your post. Cheers!

That's good to know:)

Just giving this a shot. Was going down the stairs at Kembangan MRT earlier, and you just came down from the escalator. Didn't realise you were looking at me until you kept looking back even when we were exiting the gantry at different sides. You went to the bus stop, and I went the opposite way, but we both snuck a look at each other before making our own ways. I was in Brown t-shirt, and you were in black. If you're here, drop me a message?

always A like B but B no feelings towards A. B like C but C no feelings towards B. I'm always the B... SIAN

Hi Returned back to SG after learning few new massage techniques from abroad in: 1. sensual exotic massages 2. nuru massage 3. ancient message ways And many more activities.... Available to try it. I can travel and can also host. Only seriours and interested candidates pls Contact me immediately.

hey, i'm a crazy fan of calisthenics. Depends how serious you wanna be. I didn't even use YouTube. Just start with pull up bars, then I do leg ups (pretending to climb stairs as you pull your body up), leg tucks (pulling your legs in while slowly pulling your body up). Stuff like that. My body is purely from calisthenics. I don't use the gym, so yeah, its a good method.

i have a place in Katong to invite a young chn boy over. Japanese 38 161 55. i will gently molest you and passinately satisfy you.

i guess it's time i got a fridge in hall and cook my own meals X|

I don't know why the big deal about seeing your dad naked. I have seen him naked for as long as I can remember..... He used to bath me until I was about 10 and he used to wash my cock with soap and my ass crack with his finger. I Guess at times it felt good and my cock responded to his touch and became hard. He would explain to me that it was normal and nothing unusual. So I wasn't at all surprised when I washed for him and felt his cock grew too. It was just natural that his was bigger than mine since u was younger. He never made it a big deal that his cock became hard. At times, it became really hard and throbbing and red... And I recall trying to make mine as hard and throbbing and red too when he washed for me. I started bathing in my own from about 11 and we only bath together whenever we went Swimming and that's why I would share the cubicle with Him again. He would do his own thing and I wasted my own cock. Thinking back, pretty often both of us had hard on at the same time and by the time I was about 12, he thought me how to jerk off. I remember the first time was in the shower at home when we decided to shower together. He asked me out of the blue if I jerk off and I said what was that. He said when your cock was hard how did you feel. I said just nice lah. That's when he said it can feel nicer if you continue to stroke it. And he went on to strike mine cock which was for some reason already hard at that time. I remember he squeezed it in between strokes and I somehow also just held his hard throbbing cock and just followed what he did. It didn't take too Long before I had this sensation built up from underneath my groin and I had my first orgasm and shot a huge load onto his chest. I was so high I squeezed His cock so tightly he led out a small cry and his whole body shook violently and Guess what, he shot his huge load of cum into my face which accidentally got into my mouth! That day, I had my first orgasm, tasted my first cum, and saw another man shoot his load! It was an unforgettable exoeri nice until today. Well, he cleaned up for me and said now you know what jerk off is. Don't overdo it, but it is normal if you feel like doing it. He was the best dad anyone can ask for.

I will be there (Turi Beach) on 14Dec. Any Good recommendation? LINE: justinlkt

22 163 55 chn btm