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Went to Batu Kawan to meet married guy, he checked in a local hotel waiting for me, but I was stucked at heavy traffic, seem like I couldn't make it on time. Thanks to his patient and I lated 40 minutes reaching the hotel . Once I entered his room, he was ready in undie, without wasting time I hugged him and funned in my office wear. That I planned officer wear fun. Thanks to good looking married guy.

Any staircases that is safe to be nude at yew tee now??

Anybody around wangsa maju / setiawangsa? Mly dude 25 173 65 with a place here.

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Released from a stuck elevator after 46 mins... Lucky for the rest of the passengers, I would have resorted to cannibalism if it was any longer.

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http://time.com/5026092/mostly-straight-sexual-identity-bisexual-gay/ Why ‘Mostly Straight’ Men Are a Distinct Sexual Identity Daniel Grizelj—Getty Images By Ritch C. Savin-Williams November 16, 2017 IDEAS Savin-Williams is a professor emeritus of development psychology at Cornell University and the author most recently of Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity Among Men. We hear a lot about the Big Three Sexualities — straight, bisexual and gay. Most of us assume that these three orientations encompass the universe of sexual identities. But there is a new kid on the block: The mostly straight male. To the uninitiated, mostly straight may seem paradoxical. How can a man be mostlyheterosexual? If you’re a young man, you might assume that either you’re straight or you’re not, meaning you’re likely gay and maybe bisexual. Yet the evidence suggests that more young men identify or describe themselves as mostly straight than identify as either bisexual or gay combined. A 2011–2013 U.S. government poll found that among 18- to 24-year-old men, 6% marked their sexual attractions as “mostly opposite sex.” That’s nearly 1 million young men. Yet when these men were forced to choose between straight, bisexual or gay, about three-quarters marked straight because for them bisexual, even if it is understood as “bisexual-leaning straight,” is too gay to accurately describe their identity. Given such constraints, these young men were left with no place to truthfully register their sexuality, thus forcing them to be less than honest. For my book, I spoke with 40 mostly straight young men, some over the course of several years. They were a very diverse group. In high school, they were hipsters, jocks, nerds, druggies, skaters, class clowns, burnouts and straight-laced achievers. Long hair, short hair, clean-shaven, bearded, tattooed, pierced, muscular, lanky, hyper and pudgy. They wanted to change the world, fit in, drop out, go into medicine, advocate marketing strategies, fight for social justice, write novels or be unemployed, and many have no clue what they’ll do. Talking to them, I found that in the most general sense, a mostly straight young man is sexually and/or romantically distinctive; we might say that he’s fluid or flexible,supposedly uncharacteristic of male sexuality. Traditionally, our understanding has been that if you’re male and have even a slight attraction to the same sex, then you must be gay. Even if this isn’t immediately apparent, we tell men, it will become so once you come to terms with your true self and exit your “phase” of bicuriosity or questioning. Women, by contrast, we give more space to be sexually fluid, as the sizeable literature on the subject attests. The mostly straight man belongs to a growing trend of young men who are secure in their heterosexuality yet remain aware of their potential to experience far more. Perhaps he’s felt attracted to or fantasized about another guy to a slight degree or intermittently. He might or might not be comfortable with this seeming contradiction, a hetero guy who, despite his lust for women, rejects a straight label, a sexual category and a sexual description that feels foreign. He’d rather find another place on the sexual/romantic continuum, some location that fits him more comfortably. He knows he’s not gay, but straight with a dash of gayness. But how much gayness? Not much — a relatively small percentage, say around 5% to 10%, of his sexual and romantic feelings. Strict rules don’t apply. These attractions are sexual, romantic or both and can be expressed in various ways, from erotic fantasies to actual behavior. Perhaps he’s made out or he wants to make out with a guy friend. He’s participated in all-male group masturbation or is willing to receive oral sex from an attractive guy he’s just met. But it’s unlikely that he has had penetrative sex with a guy, though he might be willing to if the right guy or circumstance appeared. He might have had an intense guy crush. But to fall passionately in love with a guy is too much, though he might have quite strong feelings and cuddle with a best friend. He feels his same-sex sexuality internally more than he lives it externally. Perhaps if his culture were not so stigmatizing of same-sex sexuality he might be more inclined to express himself through tangible expressions of sex or romance — not frequently but occasionally. Harvard University Press He’s not transitioning toward identifying as bisexual or gay. He’s not a closeted gay man who fears being gay yet wants to keep a slight, perhaps secretive, gay side by dangling his potential for guy sex. He’s not saying, “I’m available for guys who want to have sex with a straight guy” while enjoying the privileges afforded to heterosexual men in our society. He’s not an equal opportunity bisexual in disguise trying to hold out hope for straightness, nor is he afraid to identify as bisexual because of societal stigma and prejudice. He is not a disgruntled straight man tired of sex with women, nor is he necessarily unhappy or frustrated with the availability of heterosexual sex. He may retreat from a full identification with heterosexuality, but rarely does he gravitate toward bisexuality, and almost never does he move toward homosexuality of any sort. Thus, he is a closer cousin to straight guys than to traditional bisexual guys. “Mostly straight” is a category that was not readily available to previous generations of men. A 2015 survey revealed striking contrasts across age groups. One question asked, “Thinking about sexuality, which of the following comes closer to your view?” “There is no middle ground—you are either heterosexual or you are not.” “Sexuality is a scale—it is possible to be somewhere near the middle.” A majority of millennials endorsed the second option, which means they believe in a spectrum of sexuality. Adults from other generations preferred the first, which signifies a two-category approach — straight, not straight — to sexuality. Millennials were also less likely than other groups to label themselves as “completely heterosexual.” And even among those who identified as straight, they were more likely than their parents’ generation to respond to the following three questions with “Very unlikely, but not impossible” or “Maybe, if I really liked them.” The lead-in was, “If the right person came along at the right time…” “Do you think it is conceivable that you could be attracted to a person of the same sex?” “Do you think it is conceivable that you could have a sexual experience with a person of the same sex?” “Do you think it is conceivable that you could have a relationship with a person of the same sex?” To each of these questions, their parents’ generation overwhelmingly responded with “Absolutely not.” Identifying as mostly straight is now largely possible because the millennial generation is adding new complexity to sexual and romantic relationships. The New York Timesbranded the cohort as “Generation Nice.” What does nice mean? Contrasted with previous generations, young people today are more confident, connected, introspective, and open to change. They’re skeptical of traditional institutions and ways of viewing the world, and they are willing to improvise solutions that are both creative and good for the environment and future generations. As adolescents and young adults, they are happier and more satisfied with their lives than previous generations. They express liberal, progressive attitudes toward religion and race relations, social policies and sexuality. How do these values and practices play out in the future? Well, if we are prepared to accept mostly straight as a fourth sexual identity, we gain an increasingly nuanced understanding of sexual orientation — and its close cousin, romantic orientation. We won’t stop at four; no doubt we will soon recognize additional sexual identities — which might be yours.

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Most of the mb are straight guys or bi, hence the prevalent top preference. There are some twinkish ones but most of them are in the center instead of freelancing, simply because i believe they feel safer there, being smallish and twinkish, they fear if the customer might overpower them if its in hotel. Just me rambling my thoughts lol

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I am in for the movie. Comes with free pokemon code as well. Saturday or Sunday evening, anyone?

Been to Bkk so many times and never encountered any. This morning decided to try. Just usual shoppers, but someone caught my attention, and followed him to toilet. And there hidden from sight at row of urinal he showed his hard cock! I was not comfortable cos in foreign land, and so he signalled me to follow him. Went out from the back of building and pass some old buildings and there was a large public toilet hidden! Hardly anyone there and rest was history. After lunch, went back just to verify if it is cruisy. Not many pple using the toilet, but one guy was standing was a semi hard on. Was not in the mood so didn’t respond to him and left. He went out and smoke at the carpark area, which can see who goes into toilet. overall, exciting to cruise with normal Thai guys for a chance of scene. Save money from bath houses and massages, and can do more shopping!

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Beware: the security outpost for the whole building is beside the toilet in a nondescript door. Be alert.

Dylan D’Bodywork 28th Experience Dylan’s place is not exactly at Katong Katong. Hmm if you drive will be easier but bus does takes you to the place straight. It’s a old neighbourhood. communication was easy. Upon arrival, was usher in. Minimal and zen feel. I was offered warm water. Then changed and showered. The room was at the Corrindor but I didn’t hear much noises maybe I was tired too. He cleaned the sole of my feet and started with stretching which was good as I was quite stiff. the essential oil or lotion he uses smells Super good. The massage strength was just nice. He kept his hands on me all the time even when moving unless he needs more oil. It feels like everytime he massage a different part. He would clean his hand and then re-apply. i almost fell asleep through the massage. He will also constantly ask about the strength. The music playing was good also. after 60mins, I felt relaxed but refreshed. No hanky panky. Overall, I felt good and will definitely return. Haha I was thinking if I should shared cause I realised after I shared, I gets more difficult to book as I’m a last min booker. Haha Experience: 8.5/10 Ambience: 8/10 (Dialect music was playing) Technique: 8/10 Cleanliness: 8.5/10

Ming’s Deep Tissue Massage 27th Experience managed to book with Ming. A stocky guy but very friendly. Have good command of language. The He place was abit hard to find. I got abit lost but managed to find it. The home was abit messy or it can be organised mess. Was usher to shower and afterwhich the message was kind of done in the living room cum game room and message room. Message is done at a proper massage bed. His skill is really not bad. Strong but not Super hard. I felt really relaxed. He is quite funny. We had a few laugh and he was abit cheeky. Overall experience was good. Not much of an ambience but skill & technique is there. Experience: 7.5/10 Ambience: 3.5/10 Technique: 8/10 Cleanliness: 6.5/10

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Welcome back!

when I was small as a kid I think I peed at their plants so I m the first to apply that midnite concept !!!

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I can assure you that not all white men prefer Asians—in exactly the same way not all Asians prefer white men. The wonderful thing about life is that there really is someone for everybody, somewhere. You just have to have the patience to wait for the right person, whatever their ethnicity may be. Of course (because otherwise I would not be on this forum) I love Asians—even if I can't really explain why. But generalisations are almost invariably wrong and misleading so even when I say that it doesn't mean that I love ALL Asians. :-) I think we should be happy with the wonderful mix of race, likes and dislikes that the world offers and just make the most of it. Stephen

Hi Members.. Finally i will be in Singapore again this 27th November until 7th December. Looking forward to give massage in Singapore. Don't hesitate to dm or straight whtsapp me for appointment or if u wanna ask something. See you soon Call, sms or whatsapp : +6586270695 Arie Line id : beartherapist

I take it as an art form so I definitely find inked guys interesting. So to me not only is this interesting, it is also not a lot. This is only half done. I do admire the skills and patience both the tattoo artists and inked person to endure the long not to mention painful process. Today it is treated as an art form and trend statement, whereas in the past it's more associated with gangs. So if I do come across a more senior person with fading or smudgy tattoos, I tend to wonder what his life is like during his younger days. It is after all less acceptable during those times.

@blowmenow, I can see the conditions of leaves, but why no flowers/petal in the pic at all?? but it is really pitiful, i m sorry to see that the leaves turned such colour and one is even bent/curled? and w black dots?(your case is like Heidi's , do follow her heard secret formula!! it works! http://heidiinthegarden.blogspot.sg/2016/07/convincing-orchid-to-rebloom.html which is why i said must listen to those tai tais and aunties like them, but it took 3 yrs har) how do u even know it is a hybrid dendro? wow!!! goat manure don't smell, i provided a link right? Pha/Phalaenopsis (aka MOTH)-also my fav (also fav activities with kids/nephews) is the most ez esp i m not sure do u have green fingers? fertilised once a week (after u water it 1 day later) : this video is by an expert in the only rainforest in America black pot for pha cos it needs more moisture as u know some supermarket and wet markets do sell cut orchids or potted (non charcoal) orchid too, but I usu pref soil-based on my table top if not freshly cut , can have a variety mah #1: Place them in a cool environment. #2: Spray water mist on the leaves and a little on the potting media when the potting media feels dry to the touch. Avoid drenching the potting media with water. they said don't pour water from top, don't spray on the flowers woh only when u need it to bloom then need direct sunlight(few hours only), if not a cool env is preferred & orchids are AIR plant Enjoy! and sometimes the farm will go to hortpark to sell or display, no need to travel all the way up pls http://www.tohgarden.com/others/gardens-day-nov-2017/ U do know that during festive seasons like CNY, the farms will go to areas like orchards or the malls to sell (of course they sell other festive plants and not just orchard) doesn't come cheap but save u the 5hrs travelling to and fro!!!

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I was in KL for two nights last week, and managed to squeeze in a few activities based on PM recommendations from BW members. Arrived on a Wed afternoon, and while I was keen to head to a sauna to meet some locals, I was told that they don't open till past 5pm, and likely to be empty till much later. So what to do? I called Fresh M2M, and requested their most skilled Bottom. Of the guys that were available, I eventually chose AIA. He turned out to be a Vietnamese boy with little spoken English. Not as good as his pic body-wise, but his face was ok lah. Kena charged a steep price of RM$380, compared to inhouse service, but maybe because of my hotel, which was the Shangri-la. AIA's massage was so-so, and he was done in less than 20 mins. On to the fun part. He had rather decent BJ skills, and definitely willing to try many different positions. Since I had a large mirror in the living room, I carried him over to the dining table and fucked him hard and deep in front of our reflections. It was kinda hot to see myself in action, while enjoying the expression on his face at the same time. Washed up, had a light dinner, and decided to head to MM Sauna. It was 6.45pm when I was ready to go. Since I didn't know KL well, I decided to call Uber. Quite reasonable. It was about S$7 for a 30 minute journey to MM. However, it took the driver a long time to arrive because of the rush hour jam. First driver took 25 minutes, then cancelled after 15 mins while still on the way. Second driver same! In the end, I paid about S$10 for Uber Black, which arrived in 5 mins! So much more worth it. All the reviews said that MM is very hard to find with no signboard. I guess that this is true, but Uber drops you right at the door step. You just push the solid wooden doors open and you will find yourself in a stylish concrete lobby cum reception area manned by a trans/cross dresser. She's quite nice and polite, but rather strict on the totally naked policy once you enter Level 69 somewhere inside. She hands me a towel and 2 locker keys. MM uses a unique dual lock system for the added security of your personal belongings. Since it's already well past 8pm by this time, I ditch my clothes and rush up the stairs. The 2nd floor has a steam room and some open windows where quite a lot of people were openly smoking. I had a quick look inside the steam room, but it was really dark and misty, so I couldn't see much after a turn or two. I'm not sure if it's a maze, but I didn't go much further in, although I was very tempted by the sounds of loud sexy groaning coming from deeper inside. The showers were also located on the 2nd floor, and as a courtesy, I decided to rinse off a little. I was quickly joined in the same cubicle by another guy. Pretty cute in his mid-20s and he helped soap me up, paying alot of attention to my nipples and balls. After rinsing me clean, he proceeded to blow me in the shower area. I let him have his fun for a little while, but as I was curious to see the rest of the place before it closed in the next 2 hours, I stopped him gently after about 10 minutes. He looked a bit disappointed, but was nice about it. Up another floor to level 3, and it's a cafe with indoor and outdoor seating. On the same level, there's a gym, with a better range of equipment than you find in most hotels. A leam and defined older guy in his late 30s is working out in just a thong. I watch him for a while, enjoying the play of shadows rippling over his fine form, but he is intent on his sets and plainly ignores me. Getting bored, I'm like wtf? Where is everybody? No one else around except for a serving staff. The bartender notices me looking around like a lost puppy and asks me if it's my first time to MM? I nod my head and he shows me how to get down to another level 2 through a separate staircase. Duh!!! I've been wasting precious minutes for nothing. Ahhh... this is Level 69 where the real action is. It's towels off tonight and quite alot of guys are all standing around nude here. The crowd in the lit area is mixed. Predominantly Chinese with the ocassional Malay, Eurasian/Indian, and Caucasian chaps lounging around the walls, talking to each other, or just walking in and out. The ones who are there alone seem a little bit shy. Not even willing to make eye contact. Just staring blankly into space. I can smell a trace of smoke, but it's just normal ciggies. Nothing that'd get you stoned. So I choose to turn right, and it's a dimly lit passage that leads into a large dark room, not really a maze. More like a hall, divided by grills. Suddenly, in the darkness, everyone becomes brave and I feel hands running across my chest and abs, and people groping and feeling my cock which starts to respond. A couple of bigger muscle guys start roughly probing my ass with their fingers, but I firmly push their hands away. They are persistent, but I don't want to get into a fight in a foreign country so I simply grip hard and apply a very slight wrist lock on one of them. Not enough to hurt, but hard enough to assert authority. They back off peacefully after that with no incident. A number of smaller and slimmer guys approach tentatively, and I walk into the slight light so that they can see my features, but I still can't see them. I'm sniffed, licked and sucked all over by dunno how many different guys. I use my hands to feel for the smallest one who is shaved smooth all over. I grab him and lead him away from the rest, keeping my fingers intertwined with his. He takes me to a private section, which has rooms with doors. Using his lighter as a souce of light (does everyone in Msia smoke?) he finds the cleanest room possible. There's a switch that turns on a red bulb, and he is beautiful in an "ah beng" kind of way. Nice clear skin, big eyes, stylish dyed hair - but a big ass tattoo covering half his body. He's enthusiastic as hell, dropping to his knees and slurping away. Why do I like petite, fun sized guys? Haha, maybe it's the feeling of domination over them and their vulnerability as I pin them down. But one thing is for sure. The lighter they are, the more positions I can try, including carrying them while fucking. The ONLY drawback for me is that small guys do have smaller mouths, and his teeth were scraping the heck out of my mushroom head. As forewarned by many members here, MM provides no condoms or lube, so please bring your own. Anyway, this guy takes me all in like a champ, and he's urging me to go deeper and pump harder and go faster. When I take my time, he resorts to taunting me, but I see that he's fully erect and I grip his dick and jack him off while I'm analing him at the same time. He tries brushing my hands away from his dick, but I'm gleefully masturbating him mercilessly. In less than 5 minutes, he erupts all over and what a load. He must have been saving that all week! He's groaning out in pleasure and frustration, cursing me and my mother. But it's okay, I wanted to try a buffet and he was the appetiser. So that was the modus operendi for the rest of the night. Go into the dark area, fish a guy out, if he appeals to you take him to a room and fuck his brains out. Some of the guys were quite vocal during sex, and when we opened the cubicle we noticed a few guys crouched at the entrance listening in at the door. They quickly scattered back into the darkness and it was kinda weird. After a few rounds of this, I eventually chose to shoot my load with the guy I first met in the showers when I first came in. Then I exhaustedly made my way out to the 1st floor once again. There were another set of communal showers there, but it was deserted and I cleaned up good with some Dettol antibacterial soap that I brought with me. I couldn't get any data signal to order an Uber back home, but one of the nicer guys I met saw my difficulty and offered me a lift back to my hotel. I didn't want to impose, but I had not brought much cash with me, because I didn't want to get robbed and was in a predicament. He offered to take me out for local supper, I was starving but I was too embarrassed because I didn't even have enough cash to buy my own supper. I hope he didn't take my refusal as rejection of any kind, because I really liked his company. Anyway, I just want to say that Malaysian guys are awesome! Handsome, hunky and hospitable!

32mly chi mix 168 55 cut flex btm here. Anyone in tampines or near?

Ver top here , but less experience for being top. Anyone btm or v willing to let me try to be my 1st time btm ? 26 , chi , 174 , 64 No place , but can travel around selangor area ... pm me

Madness..oops Sorry this is in Mandarin but quite well said..

It started with the popular apps. We know each other via grindrl. It was my fault as I don't cum for two weeks. My blood was boiling after lunch time. Keep having erotic topics with him in the chat room. Finally, he said he want to see my hot dick. I met him at his office building toilet. I stood at the urinal and slapped my hard dick again my hands. Swinging my long dick left and right. He stood behind me and blow my hear gently and another hands play with my nipples. Slowly down to my dick. I just close my eyes and enjoy. After awhile, we are quite worry if they have other people may come in. So, i unzipped my pants and plan to leave. After washed my hands, I became more horny. I used my hard dick rubbed against his back side (both r with pants). He also became more horny when he fell the hot rock on his butt. He supported his body against the full height mirror wall. I pulled his tie and kissed him while I was rubbing my dick with his butt. Like to see his horny lips and face impression via the mirror. Thereafter, we went back to work without cum. We can't focus on work thereafter as I had lot of pre-cum. He invited me to go to his office after 6pm that day. He said he like to show me how he served other people dick. I was so scared and yet want to try something adventurous. I agreed at last. I went to his office as instructed. I entered his office conference room. The big conference table became my "bed" thereafter. he instructed me to lay on the table. As usual, he kissed my nipples against my white formal clothes. My clothes was wet now. I need to control my horny sound. He is damn good in fore play. Like it so much. Thereafter, he tied me up with his tie and i had few round of edging. He like to see my dick and tight balls out from the unzipped black formal pants and topless. We rubbed our body on the table. We were enjoying in stroking our dick together with formal clothes. Damn ! I felt quite suffer as I need to control my 2 weeks cum. Thereafter, he called me to serve him like what he did to me. At last, we cum on the conference room table. The 2 weeks volume thick base cum was shot with high speed as I had 1 hour of foreplay and edging. Thanks God ! -The End-

Any in late 30s or 40s lean chn keen to make friend, 50s meaty daddy here

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Who wanna meet there for quick fun? 9pm tonight 172/68/28 Chn

Hi there, 28 172 58 lean fit Chinese. Looking for a bj by an older dude. Preferably older then 45 Please include your full intro in 1st msg Cheers!

Managed to met up with someone here, at the beginning things seem so nice and sweet from fun buddy we became close friend within a few week. And all of sudden, things changed from close to far and from far to distance, and eventually it die naturally without knowing reason. Cause me heart broken and deep pain.