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I get this pretty often. I guess I have experiences for about up to 10 people this year alone. Sometimes I am the one that does the dying off procedure, mostly the others. But very much often it is because we do not see each other as potential partners so they do not even try. I am willing to give some a second chance but it is horrible when u are the one having to start the convo each time and you feel that its pointless afterwards. Sigh. Initially I felt quite hurt about it but subsequently it became just a "too bad *shrugs*" kinda response. I am inclined to think that I am a freak that turns people off but i had decent dates in the past so no point going that avenue. Perhaps its just a trend, or the lack of time among people nowadays. Somehow the younger guys are more ok to talk or meet again, while the matured (working) ones just simply ignore or give one word replies.

Not sure if he is trolling but if not i want too!!!

Anyone with place? Looking for musclar/fit. 23 btm chn here

For me it was a caucasian who was sending lots of pictures (including nudes) and even his location. I didnt even send him anything thankfully but he just blocked me suddenly. I feel a little creeped out knowing that he stays quite near to my house. The strange thing is that his account has been there for the longest time so I dont think he is a troll.

Yep I know that but its kinda strange cos we were talking fine and getting excited.

I was chatting happily with a guy nearby on grindr and we were heading towards the fun direction. He then showed me his location and shortly after he disappeared from the inbox and radar. It isnt the first time that this happened. The previous time another guy also asked for fun and then disappeared suddenly. I think it happened more than 3 times from different profiles and locations. Its just perplexing to me.

This is the first time I will be going to pink dot with a friend. Just got dumped a few days ago and thankfully there is pink dot to feel some love once again. Hoping to meet more people but I am not sure is the atmosphere there friendly for meeting people or are we as hostile as like usual times?

is it too little to cum once every 2 days? When do u guys cum? I only do so while watching porn aft my parents are asleep

anyone knows where to get hunk-ch videos? I am a fan but its difficult to find online

The relationship between dasmond koh and zu bin is very fishy... for a guy to not have a gf for such a long period of time it's quite obvious. And the previous relationship with the Chen song ling is so smokescreen lah. Perhaps it's a one sided thing with xubin but anyways it makes a good fantasy haha. Anyway aloysius is so hot! Especially in his trunks

Hi does anyone know if I go to poly clinic to get referral how long would it take? Cos I am gng overseas for a long time a month later. And do ur parents know that u have been circumcised when u behave weirdly at home? I have a habit of wearing shorts without undies at home usually. Is that ok after circumcision?

My market in both the gay scene and the straight scene sucks. I am more approachable to the female gender and thus they view me as a little brother, or maybe little sister. So girls usually think that i am not manly enough to consider me as a potential date. I am ok with that. But I am also not that feminine or out of the closet, so most guys usually think that i am straight. This is like a problem for me in terms of getting a date. Anyone faces the same problem as me? I find this quite a peculiar problem and unable to speak to anyone about it.

22/171/58. specy and thin. I like buffed and manly guys. Pm me!

Coincidentally I've got this link and was about to share it. I swear I am not the threadstarter! My friend was sharing it on facebook. And it is saddening to see him becoming so anti-homosexual, even playing homophobic preaches by some pastor on youtube out loud during classes. I am not sure what is going on among FCBC and some other affiliations.

I have a problem with hiding my Jack'd or Grindr in handphone, especially in iphone. Recently I found out a way to hide the icon, so you have to access it using the search tool. However I am always afraid of people seeing that I have these apps (I am closetted). Especially in iphone where the settings often show the apps. How do u all deal with friends or family who like to play with your handphone? I always panic when they take my phone to play and will always try to take it back asap with excuses.

I emailed u a long time ago but i didn't recevie any reply.

This just happened to me today. I was going into a changing room with shower at a particular institution. I could hear the sounds of someone showering when i entered the changing room. As I walked towards the shower area I saw a guy totally naked showering facing the wall. I was quite surprised as there were 3 cubicles for showering and yet he chose the open shower. At that moment i realised there was no one in the whole toilet except for us. He was busy showering facing the wall and i pretended to be busy changing, taking glances at his fit body, but i was scared that people entering will see me staring. I was struggling between changing quickly and getting out, and staying on to stare at his bubble butt. What a sight. Too bad someone came in and I left.

A beautiful song by Cheer Chen about pushing forward even when we are lost. I especially love the transvestite story. That actor is really handsome! Haha apart from that i hope that the song helps when u are feeling down.

I havent come out to my friends yet, but apps like jackd helped me come out to my gay friends who did not know i was gay. It sort of became a passive come out and i did not have to do anything much. But knowing that this could be a potential news leak to my straight or female friends, i remain putting up my pics there. It is sort of my action to coming out, but not really doing much. I think its good as i have gained some gay friends that i can talk to and who can relate to my situations. I am still very stuck on coming out to people, though i have slowly moved on from being in a state of panic when people suspect that i am gay, to joking about it when people ask. I think desensitizing helps in way as you get older, from the many other problems u and ur friends will bother more about, like financial problems, politics, etc. Being comfortable to being alone sort of helps me. I always think that if the worst come to worst when all my friends reject me when i come out, at least i can survive on my own. I am not so sure about it if this is good psychologically. Anyway, stay strong. JC was a terrible phase for me as almost everyone except me are straight and i cannot clique with them when every minute of theirs is about looking at girls or figuring out how to get a girlfriend. But hold on, because u will have more chance to meet people and get new friends, in army or working or in university. Life is too short to be stuck on a bunch of people that don't get you.

i like to listen to female singers as well. Not necessarily about love but somehow their voice is more pleasant to me than male singers. Thats why I am ashamed to show ppl my ipod cos they always ask why my songs are all by female singers. I try to listen to male singers but only some suit my taste. I guess this is quite an accurate gaydar cos most of my friends that i found out were gay like to listen to female singers more (usually divas). haha.

anyone was at SRC gym today?

The new album is GREAT!!! Everyone should give it a try and listen to it. She's one of the rare Chinese pop composer/singer that has awesome creations and explores new musical directions rather than the normal pop songs.

Yea i enjoyed my BMT mostly because of PTP. Initially i was afraid/ ashamed to be in PTP, and sian cos I have to waste extra 2 months in NS while ppl are enjoying outside, but my section was a lot of fun and we bonded really well. In PTP you have more time than enhanced batch so the commanders are more relaxed and the schedule is quite manageable. I see the enhanced batch people burning their weekends and have to rush here rush there while we took our time and enjoy looking at them being tekaned hahaha. The good thing is also that the people there are less fit so they are not as ambitious as to backstab people to get into OCS. Everyone is more of like a friend there and encourage each other. It didn't make me fit like having a better bod, but it made me run faster and able to do more physical trainings. The gym sessions was just something to do for the sake of doing because of time constraints and it was difficult to go to the gym during free time cos u will be shagged already. The absolute downside would be less hunks to look at. :oops:

Just askin, what do you guys do after school or work at night? Watch tv? Work OT? Hook up? Share what you normally do in the night.