Age matters

[kidster]

Age does matter even if you look young. The other party might not be able to accept it.

[radiusulnar]

7 hours ago, kidster said:

Age does matter even if you look young. The other party might not be able to accept it.

 

The consolation is that this is better than being young and looking old. The other party might have greater chance of not accepting

[strangeName]

To me what's the purpose. Let's say you're online to find a partner, what's the point of starting out lying to your potential partner ? Just so he will talk to you and give you a chance to meet you ? Eventually you have to tell the truth. If your potential partner isn't able to accept your age then what's the point to not tell the truth to begin with, it won't work out in the end.

[egal]

sometimes they get turned on when they hear ur old age, hence u might not stand a chance though u look younger

[Steve5380]

On 12/30/2024 at 11:49 AM, robin said:

A mature who is well maintained physically (not referring to muscles), financially stable, able to hold a good conversation, that will be a steal! Wouldn’t it be? 
 

For those who are entering or already in mature phase, why don't you work towards or be that one? 

 

Yes, why don't ?? This is a common goal.  Hopefully most of you will be able to attain it if you start early enough.  It requires education to perceive such a goal, possibly learned in a good family.  So many individuals disregard the long-term thinking that they should take advantage of their youth before it goes away!  (and this can be a sad way for it to go away...)

 

 

On 12/30/2024 at 8:12 PM, Sweetie Pie said:

35yo is just about right for many many things.   Make full use of the opportunity before it advanced into the challenging 40s,

 

ANY age is just about right for many things.  Knowing what the "right things" are helps to avoid "challenges" later on.  I personally never noticed any major difference between the 35 and the 40s... and the 50s.   A man who remains attractive in his 40s and 50s notices an increase in the proportion of younger guys he feels attracted to. 

[Why?]

The belief that "youth is an asset" must have had a rationale.  Thus elderly people are becoming grouchy these days.

[Steve5380]

8 hours ago, Why? said:

The belief that "youth is an asset" must have had a rationale.  Thus elderly people are becoming grouchy these days.

 

So you are becoming grouchy these days?   Think again!  If you are aging gracefully, you should have only a small fraction of the problems young people have.  So...  shouldn't THEY be the grouchy?

[EastSgDad]

Age is just a Number!

As long as we are young at heart & age gracefully! Live life to the fullest!

I believe there will be somebody who likes you no matter what age!

Cheers! 

Edited January 29, 2025 by EastSgDad

[Suitformalmaster]

On 12/31/2024 at 1:49 AM, robin said:

A mature who is well maintained physically (not referring to muscles), financially stable, able to hold a good conversation, that will be a steal! Wouldn’t it be? 
 

For those who are entering or already in mature phase, why don’t you work towards or be that one? 

love this - intellect and well educated, with respectful speaking are important.

Edited February 3, 2025 by Suitformalmaster

[Steve5380]

On 1/28/2025 at 8:17 PM, EastSgDad said:

 

Age is just a Number!

As long as we are young at heart & age gracefully! Live life to the fullest!

I believe there will be somebody who likes you no matter what age!

 

 

Age and its number is just a way to measure TIME.  So... the essence of time is the issue. Should we worry about this?

 

I don't think so.  I agree that we should live life to the fullest.  And I am absolutely convinced that there should always be someone who likes us,  even if this somebody is OURSELVES!  

 

If we still worry about the passage of time, and we want to investigate its nature,  here is a video by someone who has the same concern,  but...  this is not necessary!   Instead... have a good time!  😄

 

 

[Sweetie Pie]

On 1/29/2025 at 10:17 AM, EastSgDad said:

Age is just a Number!

 

 

If so,  why BW forum set rules that 18yo and below not allowed?  Why? Why? Why?

 

[Sweetie Pie]

8 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

I agree that we should live life to the fullest.

 

I disagree.  You run out of room to live if you live life to the fullest.  Since you've hit your limit of fullness, you won't be as motivated.   A half-empty life is preferable to one where you still have room to grow and prosper.🙄

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Sweetie Pie said:

I disagree.  You run out of room to live if you live life to the fullest.  Since you've hit your limit of fullness, you won't be as motivated.   A half-empty life is preferable to one where you still have room to grow and prosper.🙄

 

Before you disagree, consider that to say "we should live life to the fullest" implies "to the fullest WE CAN".  There is no data on what the limit of fullness could be, so "fullest" cannot be taken in an absolute sense.

[leckmich]

when it comes to love?"

 

- quote from "age of attraction", netflix.

 

would you date someone without knowing their age?  you can ask them anything but their age.

[LeanMature]

On 1/27/2025 at 12:11 AM, kidster said:

Age does matter even if you look young. The other party might not be able to accept it.

 

Agree.  The common phrase is "around my age and stats".  

[kidster]

51 minutes ago, LeanMature said:

 

Agree.  The common phrase is "around my age and stats".  

And the reason is they will think of the runway. Even if you look young but already in your 40s, they might think you will probably start looking old n haggard in 10 years time compared to someone who is only in 30s. They will feel awkward walking beside you in public. 

[Why?]

Age is important, but it's better to hide it, avoid it, or at the very least, keep it from showing. I've seen people in their 20s and 30s who were hunched over and had thick grey hair.  If you go sauna, you may not be popular as compared to old man who look like 20 or 30s but didn't quite show up on their face yet.  

[Anon_cock]

3 hours ago, Why? said:

Age is important, but it's better to hide it, avoid it, or at the very least, keep it from showing. I've seen people in their 20s and 30s who were hunched over and had thick grey hair.  If you go sauna, you may not be popular as compared to old man who look like 20 or 30s but didn't quite show up on their face yet.  

 

silver daddy are hot! if they are still in shape.

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Yup most says it true

 

Logical sense even u look young some just have other preferences haha so be it.....

[ljh]

If 60yo but at Tan Chuan Do standard, does age still matter? 

[Why?]

8 hours ago, ljh said:

If 60yo but at Tan Chuan Do standard, does age still matter? 

This guy is 57yo

 

This guy is 65 yo

 

Tan Chuan Do, who spend a great fortune on keeping up his looks and shape,  is not without his match. 

Edited March 18 by Why?

[leckmich]

i think the level of maturity matters more

[juicyass]

Not sure what is the big deal when comes to age revealing. 

You can be in your 40s and still look fit and young at face.

With discipline in exercise and eating right, you can even look at least in early 30s when you are in your 40s.

All these 20s kiddo always prefer guys around their age or no men over 30s, but when the guy in his 50s with incredible shape chatting them up, all their principles gone out of the window instantly and get horned up over a muscular daddy. Most gays are superficial creatures. Great body shape > age. I strongly believe that when you are in great shape, you can get any guys you want regardless your age.

 

Age matters ... ... when you are not in shape. 

[Guest 阿伯kakilang]

On 7/20/2026 at 7:17 PM, juicyass said:

instantly and get horned up over a muscular daddy. Most gays are superficial creatures. Great body shape > age. I strongly believe that when you are in great shape, you can get any guys you want regardless your age.

 

Age matters ... ... when you are not in shape. 

Age don't matter if 

u have full head of hair when most ah pek botak or almost

one look is old

 

u moisturize and moisturize

in the steam room or dark room, everybody feel with their hands

They check me from 

top for hair

face for loose wrinkles

body for supple

no tummy but no 6pacs

I got thick smooth thighs

big butts but when they finger slide in easily lol

 

u be surprised very few tops in sg lol most r btms want to play my cock. those rare ones who slide in I let him take me to room.

But seriously, no matter how well maintained, can only reduce looking-age but still obviously old.

 

unfortunately I got younger guys interested in me as daddy top stereotyped. I always tell them I'm btm else later langgar 0 worse.

 

I also have middle aged men calling me daddy lol then later they see me kena fucked. We all adults thinking open unlike younger guys and they understand no need to explain. Sometimes we talk dirty while I let him touch my used and wet CB.

 

Age don't matter sometimes.

[leckmich]

most important thing is to have fun

[loveseeker]

Not sure why i feel horny daddies the best to fxck they are horny than youngster and can be super slutty to moan out loudly 🥰 when pouding hard.

[bluerunner]

43 minutes ago, loveseeker said:

Not sure why i feel horny daddies the best to fxck they are horny than youngster and can be super slutty to moan out loudly 🥰 when pouding hard.

You sound (s)experienced wor. 

[del_ta]

I want to ask, when people say daddy here, means late 30s onwards?

[leckmich]

it depends on your age

 

anyway, compatibility and chemistry matter more

[loveseeker]

6 hours ago, del_ta said:

I want to ask, when people say daddy here, means late 30s onwards?

Ya in my opinion 25-35yo young daddy, 35-45yo hot daddy, above 45yo mature experience daddy 😁

[lean n mean]

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Edited September 23 by lean n mean

[ipohmaliside]

12 minutes ago, lean n mean said:

Age matters. I m hitting 50. If i dont tell my age they hv sex with me. If i tell they wont hv sex with me. They cant pass the age thing. It is wat it is. 

My anal virginity was taken by an older man.. 🤭

[Copper2b]

I am old but I like to submit and surrender my hole for all uses.

[mate69]

Best to have a 50 yo sexperienced daddy pound the fuck outta you

[CKBE-Fanz88]

When we were younger, stats and appearance seemed to matter most; over time, connections and the ability to navigate daily life became far more valuable.

[Jo L]

Different strokes for different folks. When I was young at age 18-19, I only see the body appearance of a guy. If the guy's body is decently muscular and fit, I will have sex with him no matter his age, even up to fifties at my then age. As I gets older and experiment with more different body types and age, I still don't mind the age factor so much, now is more of the performance and feel good factor of the sex / fun. Body types still matters to me but now I accept a wider range.

[ynngpnk]

definitely prefer much older guys, at least 30+ if not older, but of course having a nice body helps too

[fetish69]

As for me age is just a number what matter is the guy have to lean tone and able to hold conversation. Secondly, he has to be same wavelength as me be sexually as well fetishes. So, the night well spends and each other feel the fulfillments as well satisfaction.

[fattycatty162]

I prefer older guys so yeah age matters for me

[LeanMature]

On 9/16/2026 at 1:23 PM, ynngpnk said:

definitely prefer much older guys, at least 30+ if not older, but of course having a nice body helps too

 

How about 50+ uncles with 6 packs?

[ynngpnk]

2 minutes ago, LeanMature said:

 

How about 50+ uncles with 6 packs?

 

sounds hot

[LeanMature]

On 9/14/2026 at 11:46 AM, CKBE-Fanz88 said:

When we were younger, stats and appearance seemed to matter most; over time, connections and the ability to navigate daily life became far more valuable.

 

That's for sure.  If you go to FairPrice, those stock near expiry date is like buy two get one free, or with big discount.

[Expired Btm Uncle]

Whether we like it or not age matters in this circle. I am over 50 and will not hesitate to say so.If the other party mind then so be it. Move on. As i age i prefer to have fun with guys who appreaciate what i have offer instead of wasting time.

[CKBE-Fanz88]

Depends on luck and fate I guess, when the right one appears, grab him!

[bluerunner]

On 9/18/2026 at 10:11 PM, Expired Btm Uncle said:

Whether we like it or not age matters in this circle. I am over 50 and will not hesitate to say so.If the other party mind then so be it. Move on. As i age i prefer to have fun with guys who appreaciate what i have offer instead of wasting time.

I second that! 💪🏼

[fetish72]

 Age is just a number I myself in 30s but I like matured guy. Most matter is the chemistry. As long not fat and skinny best muscular

[Balestier]

16 minutes ago, fetish72 said:

 Age is just a number I myself in 30s but I like matured guy. Most matter is the chemistry. As long not fat and skinny best muscular

Disagree. Prefer someone around age as we will LIKELY have similar experience in life, enjoy similar things, school life etc ... i can't say about maturity though 

[Balestier]

On 9/14/2026 at 11:46 AM, CKBE-Fanz88 said:

When we were younger, stats and appearance seemed to matter most; over time, connections and the ability to navigate daily life became far more valuable.

Connections and similar daily life will be easier w someone around similar age, maturity and social life experience

[Ignatius.boi]

The context matters.
 

Usually the other party have a comprehensive, never ending checklist consisting of at least age, height, weight, face pics.

 

And they will still ask even if it’s already listed and won’t fill their up own questionnaire.

[CKBE-Fanz88]

On 10/4/2026 at 9:08 PM, Balestier said:

Connections and similar daily life will be easier w someone around similar age, maturity and social life experience

Totally agree, 开开心心的过日子最要紧。

 

On 10/4/2026 at 9:21 PM, Ignatius.boi said:

The context matters.
 

Usually the other party have a comprehensive, never ending checklist consisting of at least age, height, weight, face pics.

 

And they will still ask even if it’s already listed and won’t fill their up own questionnaire.

When it comes to a "checklist," I think it really depends on what the person is looking for—whether they want to settle down into something long-term and stable, or they're more interested in casual, no-strings-attached fun. Typically, when someone is searching for that special person to build a lasting relationship with, the qualities they prioritize tend to be more realistic and down-to-earth, with a greater emphasis on inner beauty than surface-level traits.

 

As for whether they still ask questions even when the information is already listed, or won't bother filling out their own questionnaire, I guess it really depends on the person. Some are keen to read up before connecting, and the questions they ask reflect a certain "thought process", showing they've already digested the listed details before chatting further. I've come across a few profiles that genuinely needed more clarity to fill in the gaps, which is fair enough. But of course, asking straightforward questions when the answers are already right there is a bit of a turn-off, haha.