meltingsnow Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 Are there tops that doesn't like to cum? Is it normal or weird? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funky beaver Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 The top I encoutered who does not like to cum (yet) is because they want the session to be longer. If the person would not cum in the end is just weird to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrFhill Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 (edited) I've encountered a guy like this before. I only managed to make him cum once with bj and hj. no amount of forced penetration can make him cum. I mean i forced his penis into my asshole. Edited February 11 by DrFhill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meltingsnow Posted February 11 Author Report Share Posted February 11 40 minutes ago, funky beaver said: The top I encoutered who does not like to cum (yet) is because they want the session to be longer. If the person would not cum in the end is just weird to me. My situation is exactly the latter. I usually make sure my top partners cum in the end. nip_fun and mate69 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 1 hour ago, funky beaver said: The top I encoutered who does not like to cum (yet) is because they want the session to be longer. If the person would not cum in the end is just weird to me. I am one of those tops who do not want to cum too early. I prefer the session to last longer, and/or to play with more men. I would cum in the end, and it would be such sweet release. manehiso and anxiousfriedtofu 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 7 minutes ago, yhtang said: I am one of those tops who do not want to cum too early. I prefer the session to last longer, and/or to play with more men. I would cum in the end, and it would be such sweet release. Oh yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 just a preference Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 (edited) 12 hours ago, yhtang said: I am one of those tops who do not want to cum too early. I prefer the session to last longer, and/or to play with more men. I would cum in the end, and it would be such sweet release. What you describe makes sense. It makes much sense if the main pleasure happens to be in the lengthy work of fucking the bottom. This is why I don't care to do anal sex. My main pleasure comes from the orgasm, and if I get it from a bj, this is the biggest pay for the least work, ha ha. . Edited February 12 by Steve5380 yhtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinkienips Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 I think the top does not want to cum yet because he is saving it for other sessions that he had planned? Tampenises 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 52 minutes ago, kinkienips said: I think the top does not want to cum yet because he is saving it for other sessions that he had planned? Sounds logic. Or he has a bf already and the bf checks on him how much cum he has left. Lol Tampenises and manehiso 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 1 hour ago, singalion said: Sounds logic. Or he has a bf already and the bf checks on him how much cum he has left. Lol Urologists can measure how much urine is left in the bladder. Can an ultrasound also check how much cum is left in the balls? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funky beaver Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 2 hours ago, singalion said: Sounds logic. Or he has a bf already and the bf checks on him how much cum he has left. Lol @meltingsnow I think you got your answer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ysoserious1 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 4 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Urologists can measure how much urine is left in the bladder. Can an ultrasound also check how much cum is left in the balls? Better to just cum and cum till you have none left. Then measure whatever was produced. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QinWei Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 So long u considered yourself as a tOp, u love to fuck so likely u will want to! the only 2 reasons: 1) u r saving your bullets , maybe in a sauna, the bottom u just met wasn't ur best , or halfway thru, the chemistry is lost, or there are dirts excreted while pounding too hard into the btm or 2) rare case but there are some rare tops, they not sure why but they really took years to cum!!!!!!!!!!! Not sure is it desensitised or numbed over his brother (or before that he could have done many rounds already) fresh7up and mate69 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 I enjoy long sessions with lots of foreplay and fucking. Like @yhtang and @funky beaver, I like to build up the moment, prolonging the pleasure, before releasing my load. Cumming is the end-goal of the sexual process. For some tops who didn't like to cum, it could be just a way to edge themselves, and they enjoy the edging process. So don't take it too personally if the top did not shoot his load with you. yhtang and funky beaver 1 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 To be honest: For a top there are situations where the momentum is just lost. Either your mind wanders somewhere else, the bottom talks too much, the bottom asks you every 2nd minute : Am I dirty, the bottom asks to change position 50 times, the top tried to control too much, the top loses focus out of any reason, the top out of a sudden smells bad breath, the top's hp rings continously and he knows it's his bf, the bottom had pain and takes a break... Many reasons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hole4use Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 Understood That This Thread Is About Tops Whom Don't Like Or Need To Cum. Just Curious, What About A Btm Whom Dun Hv The Need To Cum ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meltingsnow Posted February 13 Author Report Share Posted February 13 12 hours ago, doncoin said: I enjoy long sessions with lots of foreplay and fucking. Like @yhtang and @funky beaver, I like to build up the moment, prolonging the pleasure, before releasing my load. Cumming is the end-goal of the sexual process. For some tops who didn't like to cum, it could be just a way to edge themselves, and they enjoy the edging process. So don't take it too personally if the top did not shoot his load with you. Thing is, for me, if my top doesn't cum it doesn't feel like satisfying sex even if I did cum. I've also communicated with the top about this, so it's as if he doesn't want to give me that satisfaction? Chukie Guido 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meltingsnow Posted February 13 Author Report Share Posted February 13 3 hours ago, Hole4use said: Understood That This Thread Is About Tops Whom Don't Like Or Need To Cum. Just Curious, What About A Btm Whom Dun Hv The Need To Cum ? I've heard that some bottoms dont have the need to cum because after ejaculation, any penetration after that doesn't feel pleasurable for them. fresh7up 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meltingsnow Posted February 13 Author Report Share Posted February 13 22 hours ago, funky beaver said: @meltingsnow I think you got your answer. Sound theory Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
earth_tone Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 Some Top could also be extremely selective Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Looking to rent Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 fucking and cumming are 2 different thing altogether, i fuck babe 1 but may not be enticed to dump my babies and then i fuck babe 2 and 3 back to back and both times i exploded in them so it is not a maths equation but rather whether the man is turned on enough to fire away yhtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinkienips Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 4 hours ago, meltingsnow said: I've heard that some bottoms dont have the need to cum because after ejaculation, any penetration after that doesn't feel pleasurable for them. On 2/12/2024 at 11:22 AM, singalion said: Sounds logic. Or he has a bf already and the bf checks on him how much cum he has left. Lol Actually I tried both top and bottom. I think for me not necessarily need to cum. I meant if it’s not pleasurable, I rather don’t cum. Because I don’t really like to get forcibly jerked off which is kinda painful and I don’t cum easily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted February 13 Report Share Posted February 13 Don't get us the top or master dom dont cum wrongly...there is reason for it...it can both good n bad. Some of us just need anal to be satisfied or roleplay or more physical touch to make us more horny....so if u r btm or slaves or subs...play around your top or master dom physique it can be anything or u seem to know the sensitive part....n my tip for u...eye contact lick slow up down deepthroat...n lick the head n suck it deep again while touching his hard nipples...touch kiss lick hehe So it is not weird. Just that the top or master Dom need more engaging touch or skills etc ... To all the btms subs or slaves don't fret okay? U r doing a awesome job but do find ways to entice etc ..it can be anything. For the top/master dom u also don't expect u also need to be engaging too...if both engaging it make sense it will be hot wild passionate sex right? meltingsnow and M3LiCioUs 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BSwim Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 Well....if it's a "long session".... typically nobody will cum... whether u r top or Btm....*wink-wink*😜 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Clubfootball Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 11 minutes ago, BSwim said: Well....if it's a "long session".... typically nobody will cum... whether u r top or Btm....*wink-wink*😜 And yet those who do it call it the best sex they can have.....some can't even maintain an erection during a "long session"... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 1 hour ago, Guest Clubfootball said: And yet those who do it call it the best sex they can have.....some can't even maintain an erection during a "long session"... Nvr mind la. Not hard but still can kiss kiss hug hug, cuddle cuddle. Not machine to stay hard for too long ley. Haha BSwim 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Peterpan Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 Hmm....the tops I met all cum within 5 mins of fking my ass. I asked them why so fast ? They said my ass too tight they cant tahan LOL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Der79 Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 There are few types of tops that don’t cum during session. One is no matter how you jerk him or how hard you rub or how we play, he can say he no feel anything….and in the end left me cumming myself and left unsatisfied. Another type is after fking a while, he pull out and when you try to jerk him they push your hands away and move away to prevent you from touching him but if I don’t let go and continue to play him,he will cum alot. But he is happy and satisfied and maybe a little angry. maybe he just trying to be difficult hahahaha….. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest trustissues Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 There are some traditional thinking that your cum is the source of your vital energy, qi, or some such equivalent. So some advocate saving their seed for when they want to perform athletically, etc. I suspect some also have a belief that cumming or orgasm is a giving up of one's autonomy and control. Indeed in those 5 to 10 secs of insane pleasure we are usually not in control and are vulnerable. (that scene from 'Gone Girl' really reinforced this idea for me!). So could some tops have this thinking thats why dont like to cum? Not me personally, I'd LOVE to be able to cum on command so that I wont leave the sauna or the hook up feeling like I wasted my time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Clubfootball Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 On 2/14/2024 at 10:22 AM, cutejack said: Nvr mind la. Not hard but still can kiss kiss hug hug, cuddle cuddle. Not machine to stay hard for too long ley. Haha For 'long sessions' the idea is one can fuck for hours like rabbits...but often the thing required for 'long sessions' interfere with getting hard..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QinWei Posted February 18 Report Share Posted February 18 On 2/16/2024 at 6:04 PM, Guest Peterpan said: all cum within 5 mins of fking my ass. I asked them why so fast ? They said my ass too tight they cant tahan LOL. good excuse for all of them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chukie Guido Posted March 29 Report Share Posted March 29 On 2/17/2024 at 11:38 PM, QinWei said: good excuse for all of them Exactly...!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 On 2/16/2024 at 6:04 PM, Guest Peterpan said: Hmm....the tops I met all cum within 5 mins of fking my ass. I asked them why so fast ? They said my ass too tight they cant tahan LOL. Tight ass sounds so hot. How often you can still find tight ass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 On 2/12/2024 at 3:23 AM, Ysoserious1 said: Better to just cum and cum till you have none left. Then measure whatever was produced. You seriously have a good answer. By cumming over and over till none is left, you can measure the normal capacity of the balls. Then, to know how much is left, one just substracts from this capacity the amount that was ejected. And hopefully what is left satisfies the bf. horhorfun 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horhorfun Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 On 2/11/2024 at 10:37 PM, meltingsnow said: Are there tops that doesn't like to cum? Is it normal or weird? Maybe the top doesnt want to cum cos probably want to keep for his special btm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank_space118 Posted March 30 Report Share Posted March 30 I love long hours bj and love any guy let me workship and doesn't cum at all if possible... However, most guy wanted to cum whether early or later stage... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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