Cheating Boyfriend / Lover + Why Cheat when In a Relationship? (Compiled)

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/28/2014 at 12:19 AM, Guests said:

Wow...now u need not to go out cruise club anymore, your brother in law, could be a a suspected TOP....so happening...

姐妹共侍一夫！

[Guest Guests]

  On 8/28/2014 at 12:19 AM, Guests said:

Wow...now u need not to go out cruise club anymore, your brother in law, could be a a suspected TOP....so happening...

 

 

My brother-in-law is a freelance model, 1.89m/78kg/ chn ,very good physique, married my sister just 3 years ago. Also was a best Soldier in the Air Force. Recently he ORD. Now I do not know what to say, though I have often

ogling him semi naked after showers, when he walks out of the common bathroom, in the towels, at times hard on

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/28/2014 at 7:39 AM, Guests said:

My brother-in-law is a freelance model, 1.89m/78kg/ chn ,very good physique, married my sister just 3 years ago. Also was a best Soldier in the Air Force. Recently he ORD. Now I do not know what to say, though I have often

ogling him semi naked after showers, when he walks out of the common bathroom, in the towels, at times hard on

 

sounds like a real good catch... how he looks like? how old is he?

but i dun think you will have sex with him after all he is your sis's husband..

[Guest GUEST]

  On 8/28/2014 at 12:19 AM, Guests said:

Wow...now u need not to go out cruise club anymore, your brother in law, could be a a suspected TOP....so happening...

 

姐夫， 你寂寞吗？

[Guest CUTEandHUNKY Family Member]

Reading all these posts, I must say, I do have 2 brother-in-laws who are very good looking, welt built and hunky. Apparently they are also very good friends, Both Fits well into Abercombie + Fitch Tees, which are they fave. too.

 

 

My sisters always commended them well, and they are well mannered in the family both have no no anger at all, despite my sisters can be very henpecky on their over little issues.

 

I have always suspected, but dare not let my fantasy runs wild.  End of this year I will move out after I complete my studies, to live  alone.

 

They have offered me to stay with them, what should I do ?

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/28/2014 at 8:05 AM, CUTEandHUNKY Family Member said:

Reading all these posts, I must say, I do have 2 brother-in-laws who are very good looking, welt built and hunky. Apparently they are also very good friends, Both Fits well into Abercombie + Fitch Tees, which are they fave. too.

My sisters always commended them well, and they are well mannered in the family both have no no anger at all, despite my sisters can be very henpecky on their over little issues.

I have always suspected, but dare not let my fantasy runs wild. End of this year I will move out after I complete my studies, to live alone.

They have offered me to stay with them, what should I do ?

You continue to move out to stay alone. Then invite your brother in law individually to your bachelor pad. If everything ok, then come the three-some. Better, invite BW members over to have orgy with your 2 A&F model brother in laws. Sound good to you?

[Guest OMG]

how to know if my brother in laws are gays ?

[ohlala]

  On 8/28/2014 at 8:05 AM, CUTEandHUNKY Family Member said:

Reading all these posts, I must say, I do have 2 brother-in-laws who are very good looking, welt built and hunky. Apparently they are also very good friends, Both Fits well into Abercombie + Fitch Tees, which are they fave. too.

 

 

My sisters always commended them well, and they are well mannered in the family both have no no anger at all, despite my sisters can be very henpecky on their over little issues.

 

I have always suspected, but dare not let my fantasy runs wild.  End of this year I will move out after I complete my studies, to live  alone.

 

They have offered me to stay with them, what should I do ?

 

Stay with them.

[Guest FunnyThread]

Hilarious.....This thread is about BF's TOP found in spa, "tow-chia" becomes brother in laws...etc

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/28/2014 at 8:17 AM, OMG said:

how to know if my brother in laws are gays ?

"Accidentally" leave the laptop on playing a video of Utt mastubating furiously on bed. Oops.

[batamsg]

oops! I did it again

[Guest PUB Partner]

My sister runs a PUB with a male partner, whom is suspiciously vey gay, but straight looking. I have visited his PUB, apparently they are many muscles well built guys gathering for parties till end of the PUB hours.

 

However I am not allowed to be in the PUB not later than 12 midnight as instructed by my sister. Damn...I missed all the fun whenever I had the curflew time flying in.

[edwardccc]

Guys always think based on their lower part of body.Therefore,i cant believe in true love.

[Guest Twins]

  On 8/25/2014 at 6:30 AM, Caught_RED_HANDED said:

He asked me and surfed recently into gay spas websites.

Recently told me , he has lots of overtime.

 

Then a friend told me my bf has been frequently in Cruise Clubs on Saturdays after noon ( 2pm - 5pm ), which he claimed he is at work.

 

I decided to check up last week, and found him there.....so angry when I saw him and tailed him.

 

 

I waited outside the room , when he came out...he was shocked....and brushed away saying he came there to rest.

 

Almost had a quarrel, instead I pick up another guy and went into the room with another.

 

 

May that guy u saw in sauna is his twin brother ? Possible, cos I know many twin brothers, one of them is gay the other is straight.

[mate69]

  On 8/28/2014 at 8:47 AM, PUB Partner said:

My sister runs a PUB with a male partner, whom is suspiciously vey gay, but straight looking. I have visited his PUB, apparently they are many muscles well built guys gathering for parties till end of the PUB hours.

 

However I am not allowed to be in the PUB not later than 12 midnight as instructed by my sister. Damn...I missed all the fun whenever I had the curflew time flying in.

 

Can you please let us know which pub is this?

 

Thanks in advance.

[Guest GUEST]

This is a controversial topic, personally I feel there is no (absolute) right or wrong, just different perspectives in terms of values.

I am attached for more than 15 years, stable relationship, emotional loving, but sex is infrequent now and ininteresting even when we do it once in a blue moon. So what do i do??

After a period of self struggle, I couldn't help but seek pleasures at saunas to release my natural urges. Some may say it is not right, others who are in similar situation as me will be able to understand.

I am not sure if one day I would bump into my boyfriend in the same sauna. Putting his reactions aside, I think I will be calm and ask him to go home together and talk things out thereafter. If the same situation happens 10 years ago, we are likely to break off.

[mate69]

  On 8/28/2014 at 9:40 AM, GUEST said:

This is a controversial topic, personally I feel there is no (absolute) right or wrong, just different perspectives in terms of values.

I am attached for more than 15 years, stable relationship, emotional loving, but sex is infrequent now and ininteresting even when we do it once in a blue moon. So what do i do??

After a period of self struggle, I couldn't help but seek pleasures at saunas to release my natural urges. Some may say it is not right, others who are in similar situation as me will be able to understand.

I am not sure if one day I would bump into my boyfriend in the same sauna. Putting his reactions aside, I think I will be calm and ask him to go home together and talk things out thereafter. If the same situation happens 10 years ago, we are likely to break off.

 

well spoken. How old r u?

[Guest GUEST]

Im 40, my thinking has turned mature i guess.., and more realistic

[mate69]

Yes indeed

 

Do not always break off at the first instinct.

[Guest Guest]

My bro in law visits gay bars with his gay friend, but my sis knows about it. He even brought my sis there before. He even know about gay saunas and the raids that happened there. And he knows I am gay. He works in a bank, flies frequently for work, doesn't have a facebook account, looks gay and hit on by guys in gay bar before. I am very suspicious!

[Guest tanFamily]

  On 8/28/2014 at 11:05 AM, Guest said:

My bro in law visits gay bars with his gay friend, but my sis knows about it. He even brought my sis there before. He even know about gay saunas and the raids that happened there. And he knows I am gay. He works in a bank, flies frequently for work, doesn't have a facebook account, looks gay and hit on by guys in gay bar before. I am very suspicious!

 Sounds like you are in my family of 10 ....are u Chxxxxx...Im Tim.....y.....from sembwa...

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/28/2014 at 11:05 AM, Guest said:

My bro in law visits gay bars with his gay friend, but my sis knows about it. He even brought my sis there before. He even know about gay saunas and the raids that happened there. And he knows I am gay. He works in a bank, flies frequently for work, doesn't have a facebook account, looks gay and hit on by guys in gay bar before. I am very suspicious!

  On 8/28/2014 at 11:13 AM, tanFamily said:

Sounds like you are in my family of 10 ....are u Chxxxxx...Im Tim.....y.....from sembwa...

Haha .... Like that also can arh .... Bro and bro-in-law can find each other here. I hope the wife will not come in to post " are you my husband and you my brother, I'm Josxxxxxx"

[Guest GayAtlantisCruise]

My brother in law, recently charged a a credit card online,and was discovered by by sister.

 

http://atlantisevents.com/Singapore-to-Hong-Kong-Cruise/40#overview

 

Then he told my sister, he book it as a reward to give to me completing my A levels this year.

[Guest Need a bro in law]

  On 8/29/2014 at 6:12 AM, GayAtlantisCruise said:

My brother in law, recently charged a a credit card online,and was discovered by by sister.

http://atlantisevents.com/Singapore-to-Hong-Kong-Cruise/40#overview

Then he told my sister, he book it as a reward to give to me completing my A levels this year.

Err ..... And only he and you are going? So sweet !

[robin]

Looks like nowadays, we don't need grinder, sauna or bf. We just need brother-in-laws,, lol

[whitedick]

I was the guilty party.  My first and only gay relationship, aint prepare for monogamous, did ventured into the spice environment.  Well, yup, my bf caught me when he kind of gotten suspicion due to me aint answering my phone call and calling back after a while.  When he called again, I was off the hook again. 

 

 

Don’t ever do anything you gonna regret or simply to spite your loved one.  My ex saw me, he pulled me aside saying he wanna talk.  I sat on the couch and he was sitting on my lap and kissing and touching me all over.  Damn, the sex that followed was simply mind blowing.   

[Guest CaughtBrotherinlaw]

My sister went overseas, I ever caught my brother-in-law, watching gayporns

[Guest Learning]

  On 8/29/2014 at 8:24 AM, CaughtBrotherinlaw said:

My sister went overseas, I ever caught my brother-in-law, watching gayporns

 

 

Maybe hes' experimenting...

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/29/2014 at 7:12 AM, robin said:

Looks like nowadays, we don't need grinder, sauna or bf. We just need brother-in-laws,, lol

May be can create a new thread: Has anyone sex your brother-in-laws? Who initiated it?

Sounds hot.

[Guest CaughtMyCousin]

  On 8/25/2014 at 6:30 AM, Caught_RED_HANDED said:

He asked me and surfed recently into gay spas websites.

Recently told me , he has lots of overtime.

 

Then a friend told me my bf has been frequently in Cruise Clubs on Saturdays after noon ( 2pm - 5pm ), which he claimed he is at work.

 

I decided to check up last week, and found him there.....so angry when I saw him and tailed him.

 

 

I waited outside the room , when he came out...he was shocked....and brushed away saying he came there to rest.

 

Almost had a quarrel, instead I pick up another guy and went into the room with another.

 

 

I have always suspected my cousin to be gay , as he always go to Cailfornia and am still single till now...till last Saturday I thought I saw him , but he quickly disappear into the maze. he probably was shocked too...what should I do ?

 

I want to have a relation with him too, s he is very straight acting and quiet guy

 

 

Any advice from you guys ? can Cousins become lovers ?

[navyblue]

  On 8/27/2014 at 4:33 PM, Guest said:

Right ! And when you get older ,starts to rot

and die alone till you smell like shit when someone discover you ...

What type of logic is this?

Even if you are attached, one of you will leave this world first, and leave the other in similar situation I quoted above.

[navyblue]

  On 8/29/2014 at 11:49 PM, CaughtMyCousin said:

I want to have a relation with him too, s he is very straight acting and quiet guy

Any advice from you guys ? can Cousins become lovers ?

Maternal cousins can.

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/29/2014 at 11:49 PM, CaughtMyCousin said:

I have always suspected my cousin to be gay , as he always go to Cailfornia and am still single till now...till last Saturday I thought I saw him , but he quickly disappear into the maze. he probably was shocked too...what should I do ?

I want to have a relation with him too, s he is very straight acting and quiet guy

Any advice from you guys ? can Cousins become lovers ?

Why not? Unless you're going to bear his kids then that may be a big problem.

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/30/2014 at 12:12 AM, navyblue said:

Maternal cousins can.

I would cringe at the thought of being with any cousin. But if he's a benedict goh look-alike... hmm that might change the game...

[Guest guest]

Caught him red handed , I will cut his Cruise club membership card into 4 pieces and flush into the toliet bowl.Cause cruise club card is make of cheap cardboard paper unlike some other club using plastic credit card cannot be flush into toliet bowl.

[Blacque]

  On 8/30/2014 at 4:26 AM, guest said:

Caught him red handed , I will cut his Cruise club membership card into 4 pieces and flush into the toliet bowl.Cause cruise club card is make of cheap cardboard paper unlike some other club using plastic credit card cannot be flush into toliet bowl.

 

Well, you don't really need their membership card to enter. An identity card will suffice. 

[Guest MySisterCalledCruiseCLUB]

  On 8/28/2014 at 1:46 AM, Guest said:

I can imagine your sister's shock expression when she check out the Cruise club thinking its a Cruise Tour.

 

 

  On 8/28/2014 at 1:47 AM, Guest said:

姐妹共侍一夫！

 

 

  On 8/28/2014 at 7:39 AM, Guests said:

My brother-in-law is a freelance model, 1.89m/78kg/ chn ,very good physique, married my sister just 3 years ago. Also was a best Soldier in the Air Force. Recently he ORD. Now I do not know what to say, though I have often

ogling him semi naked after showers, when he walks out of the common bathroom, in the towels, at times hard on

 

 

  On 8/28/2014 at 7:52 AM, Guest said:

sounds like a real good catch... how he looks like? how old is he?

but i dun think you will have sex with him after all he is your sis's husband..

 

 

  On 8/28/2014 at 7:55 AM, GUEST said:

姐夫， 你寂寞吗？

 

 

Family Tornado now...My sister called Cruise Club and asked "WHAT CRUISES THEY OFFERED ? " but was slammed by Cruise Club staff, asking her to go the their website.

 

She went, and flared into fury, crying all night over the website which is not a Cruise Tour company. Shocked, she asked me to accompany her to Cruise Club w/o my brother-in-law,'s knowledge.

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/31/2014 at 5:43 AM, MySisterCalledCruiseCLUB said:

Family Tornado now...My sister called Cruise Club and asked "WHAT CRUISES THEY OFFERED ? " but was slammed by Cruise Club staff, asking her to go the their website.

She went, and flared into fury, crying all night over the website which is not a Cruise Tour company. Shocked, she asked me to accompany her to Cruise Club w/o my brother-in-law,'s knowledge.

Keep us updated on what happens next. Can become a crisis case study for all married bis and sauna operators.

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/31/2014 at 5:43 AM, MySisterCalledCruiseCLUB said:

Family Tornado now...My sister called Cruise Club and asked "WHAT CRUISES THEY OFFERED ? " but was slammed by Cruise Club staff, asking her to go the their website.

 

She went, and flared into fury, crying all night over the website which is not a Cruise Tour company. Shocked, she asked me to accompany her to Cruise Club w/o my brother-in-law,'s knowledge.

 

Is this a real story or made up???

[Guest 加婆嫂]

  On 8/31/2014 at 5:43 AM, MySisterCalledCruiseCLUB said:

Family Tornado now...My sister called Cruise Club and asked "WHAT CRUISES THEY OFFERED ? " but was slammed by Cruise Club staff, asking her to go the their website.

She went, and flared into fury, crying all night over the website which is not a Cruise Tour company. Shocked, she asked me to accompany her to Cruise Club w/o my brother-in-law,'s knowledge.

Let us know if you and your sister need morale support. Our group of BW supporters will go to cruise club with you and your sister to confront your brother-in-law, but you both have to pay for our entry fees. Let us know the date and time. Thanks.

[onlylonely]

Sounds like channel 8 drama leh

[batamsg]

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:20 AM, onlylonely said:

Sounds like channel 8 drama leh

yes.

so ch8

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:19 AM, 加婆嫂 said:

Let us know if you and your sister need morale support. Our group of BW supporters will go to cruise club with you and your sister to confront your brother-in-law, but you both have to pay for our entry fees. Let us know the date and time. Thanks.

 

how are you going to support him and his sister in cruise club? How will you confront the brother in law?

[Guest 加婆嫂]

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:29 AM, Guest said:

how are you going to support him and his sister in cruise club? How will you confront the brother in law?

Oh we have been rehearsing,

see video clip of our practice session

http://youtu.be/mJczmVgBXjE

[Guest 3somefun]

  On 8/25/2014 at 7:50 AM, AdviseMe said:

Can anyone advise me?

 

I have always been a btm for my BF.

 

Recently I heard my BF have always been a btms to my close friend.

3some?

[Guest Sales]

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:38 AM, 3somefun said:

3some?

No, more likely he needs this

http://www.shopinprivate.com/stpeex.html

[Guest Guest]

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:36 AM, 加婆嫂 said:

Oh we have been rehearsing,

see video clip of our practice session

http://youtu.be/mJczmVgBXjE

 

i can imagine amidst all the fucking and actions inside all will go silent when this is being done...

cruise club will call the mata(hopefully gay) 

i think the sis will be crying even more...

[Guest 加婆嫂]

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:42 AM, Guest said:

i can imagine amidst all the fucking and actions inside all will go silent when this is being done...

cruise club will call the mata(hopefully gay)

i think the sis will be crying even more...

好心没好报，那就算了呗

[Guest Funny]

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:29 AM, Guest said:

how are you going to support him and his sister in cruise club? How will you confront the brother in law?

 

 

  On 8/31/2014 at 7:36 AM, 加婆嫂 said:

Oh we have been rehearsing,

see video clip of our practice session

http://youtu.be/mJczmVgBXjE

 So funny...but seriously, how to resolve such problems ?

[Guest sriracha]

  On 8/27/2014 at 7:07 PM, robin said:

A relationship is like a journey & it is similar to like you & your partner decides to drive from Jurong to Tampines. Along the way, headlight may spoil, run out of petrol, no money to buy a drink, journey became boring etc.

Headlight can be = argument, petrol = passion, no money to buy drink = financial independence, monogamous = route which you want to reach the destination. The list goes on.

When the headlight spoil, do you want to repair it or abandon the trip? When one or both of you have no money to buy a drink, are you guys going to treat one another? When the journey became boring, are you going to make it interesting together? When the car engine broke down, are both of you going to repair the engine & stick to the same route, change route or abandon the trip? If you change the route, does it still make any sense to reach the destination together? But the most fundamental question is, prior to anything happening, are you enjoying the journey with this person & is he enjoying the journey with you?

What a beautiful metaphor.. 9 yrs w my partner and makes great sense